Introduction to the Devout Life

Author(s):

Francis of Sales, St. (1567-1622)

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Grand Rapids, MI: Christian Classics Ethereal Library

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Do I need to go into full-time ministry to live a truly Christian

life? Am I really a Christian if I'm not out preaching the gospel

in dangerous places where people have never heard of

Christ? Can secular work benefit the kingdom of God? All

Christians struggle to discern God's call on their life, but God

does call all to live a Christ-centered life. Introduction to the

Devout Life by St. Francis of Sales attempts to help Christians

discern what it means to be a child of God in a secular world.

We can glorify God in a secular world, and be a testimony

to the world of God's abounding grace and love.

Andrew Hanson

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Subjects:

Christian Denominations

Roman Catholic Church

Meditations. Devotional readings. Spiritual exercises, etc.

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Contents

Title Page

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Preface by the Author

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CONTENTS.

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PART I. COUNSELS AND PRACTICES SUITABLE FOR THE SOUL'S GUIDANCE

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FROM THE FIRST ASPIRATION AFTER A DEVOUT LIFE TO THE POINT

WHEN IT ATTAINS A CONFIRMED RESOLUTION TO FOLLOW THE SAME.

CHAPTER I. What true Devotion is.

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CHAPTER II. The Nature and Excellence of Devotion.

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CHAPTER III. Devotion is suitable to every Vocation and Profession.

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CHAPTER IV. The Need of a Guide for those who would enter upon and advance

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in the Devout Life.

CHAPTER V. The First Step must be Purifying the Soul.

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CHAPTER VI. The First Purification, namely, from Mortal Sin.

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CHAPTER VII. The Second Purification, from all Sinful Affections.

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CHAPTER VIII. How to effect this Second Purification.

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CHAPTER IX. FIRST MEDITATION.

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CHAPTER X. SECOND MEDITATION

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CHAPTER XI. THIRD MEDITATION.

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CHAPTER XII. FOURTH MEDITATION.

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CHAPTER XIII. FIFTH MEDITATION.

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CHAPTER XIV. SIXTH MEDITATION.

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CHAPTER XV. SEVENTH MEDITATION.

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CHAPTER XVI. EIGHTH MEDITATION.

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CHAPTER XVII. NINTH MEDITATION.

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CHAPTER XVIII. TENTH MEDITATION.

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CHAPTER XIX. How to make a General Confession.

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CHAPTER XX. A hearty Protest made with the object of confirming the Soul's

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resolution to serve God, as a conclusion to its acts of Penitence.

CHAPTER XXI. Conclusion of this First Purification.

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CHAPTER XXII. The Necessity of Purging away all tendency to Venial Sins.

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CHAPTER XXIII. It is needful to put away all Inclination for Useless and

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Dangerous Things.

CHAPTER XXIV. All Evil Inclinations must be purged away.

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PART II. CONTAINING SUNDRY COUNSELS AS TO UPLIFTING THE SOUL

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TO GOD IN PRAYER AND THE USE OF THE SACRAMENTS.

CHAPTER I. The Necessity of Prayer.

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CHAPTER II. A short Method of Meditation. And first, the Presence of God, the

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First Point of Preparation.

CHAPTER III. Invocation, the Second Point of Preparation.

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CHAPTER IV. The Third Point of Preparation, representing the Mystery to be

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meditated to Your Imagination.

CHAPTER V. Considerations, the Second Part of Meditation.

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CHAPTER VI. The Third Part of Meditation, Affections and Resolutions.

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CHAPTER VII. The Conclusion and Spiritual Bouquet.

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CHAPTER VIII. Some Useful Hints as to Meditation.

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CHAPTER IX. Concerning Dryness in Meditation.

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CHAPTER X. Morning Prayer.

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CHAPTER XI. Evening Prayer and Examination of Conscience.

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CHAPTER XII. On Spiritual Retirement.

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CHAPTER XIII. Aspirations, Ejaculatory Prayer and Holy Thoughts.

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CHAPTER XIV. Of Holy Communion, and how to join in it.

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CHAPTER XV. Of the other Public Offices of the Church.

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CHAPTER XVI. How the Saints are united to us.

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CHAPTER XVII. How to Hear and Read God's Word.

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CHAPTER XVIII. How to receive Inspirations.

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CHAPTER XIX. On Confession.

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CHAPTER XX. Of Frequent Communion.

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CHAPTER XXI. How to Communicate.

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PART III. CONTAINING COUNSELS CONCERNING THE PRACTICE OF

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VIRTUE.

CHAPTER I. How to select that which we should chiefly Practise.

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CHAPTER II. The same Subject continued.

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CHAPTER III. On Patience.

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CHAPTER IV. On Greater Humility.

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CHAPTER V. On Interior Humility.

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CHAPTER VI. Humility makes us rejoice in our own Abjection.

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CHAPTER VII. How to combine due care for a Good Reputation with Humility.

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CHAPTER VIII. Gentleness towards others and Remedies against Anger.

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CHAPTER IX. On Gentleness towards Ourselves.

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CHAPTER X. We must attend to the Business of Life carefully, but without

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Eagerness or Over-anxiety.

CHAPTER XI. On Obedience.

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CHAPTER XII. On Purity.

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CHAPTER XIII. How to maintain Purity.

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CHAPTER XIV. On Poverty of Spirit amid Riches.

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CHAPTER XV. How to exercise real Poverty, although actually Rich.

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CHAPTER XVI. How to possess a rich Spirit amid real Poverty.

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CHAPTER XVII. On Friendship: Evil and Frivolous Friendship.

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CHAPTER XVIII. On Frivolous Attachments.

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CHAPTER XIX. Of Real Friendship.

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CHAPTER XX. Of the Difference between True and False Friendship.

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CHAPTER XXI. Remedies against Evil Friendships.

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CHAPTER XXII. Further Advice concerning Intimacies.

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CHAPTER XXIII. On The Practice of Bodily Mortification.

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CHAPTER XXIV. Of Society and Solitude.

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CHAPTER XXV. On Modesty in Dress.

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CHAPTER XXVI. Of Conversation; and, first, how to Speak of God.

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CHAPTER XXVII. Of Unseemly Words, and the Respect due to Others.

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CHAPTER XXVIII. Of Hasty Judgments.

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CHAPTER XXIX. On Slander.

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CHAPTER XXX. Further Counsels as to Conversation.

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CHAPTER XXXI. Of Amusements and Recreations: what are allowable.

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CHAPTER XXXII. Of Forbidden Amusements.

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CHAPTER XXXIII. Of Balls, and other Lawful but Dangerous Amusements.

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CHAPTER XXXIV. When to use such Amusements rightly.

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CHAPTER XXXV. We must be Faithful in Things Great and Small.

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CHAPTER XXXVI. Of a Well-Balanced, Reasonable Mind.

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CHAPTER XXXVII. Of Wishes.

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CHAPTER XXXVIII. Counsels to Married People.

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CHAPTER XXXIX. The Sanctity of the Marriage Bed.

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CHAPTER XL. Counsels to Widows.

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CHAPTER XLI. One Word to Maidens.

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PART IV. CONTAINING NEEDFUL COUNSELS CONCERNING SOME

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ORDINARY TEMPTATIONS.

CHAPTER I. We must not trifle with the Words of Worldly Wisdom.

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CHAPTER II. The need of a Good Courage.

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CHAPTER III. Of Temptations, and the difference between experiencing them

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and consenting to them.

CHAPTER IV. Two striking Illustrations of the same.

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CHAPTER V. Encouragement for the Tempted Soul.

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CHAPTER VI. When Temptation and Delectation are Sin.

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CHAPTER VII. Remedies for Great Occasions.

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CHAPTER VIII. How to resist Minor Temptations.

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CHAPTER IX. How remedy Minor Temptations.

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CHAPTER X. How to strengthen the Heart against Temptation.

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CHAPTER XI. Anxiety of Mind.

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CHAPTER XII. Of Sadness and Sorrow.

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CHAPTER XIII. Of Spiritual and Sensible Consolations, and how to receive them.

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CHAPTER XIV. Of Dryness and Spiritual Barrenness.

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CHAPTER XV. An Illustration.

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PART V. CONTAINING COUNSELS AND PRACTICES FOR RENEWING AND

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CONFIRMING THE SOUL IN DEVOTION.

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CHAPTER I. It is well yearly to renew Good Resolutions by means of the following

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Exercises.

CHAPTER II. Meditation on the Benefit conferred on us by God in calling us to

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His Service.

CHAPTER III. Examination of the Soul as to its Progress in the Devout Life.

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CHAPTER IV. Examination of the Soul's Condition as regards God.

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CHAPTER V. Examination of your Condition as regards yourself.

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CHAPTER VI. Examination of the Soul's Condition as regards our Neighbour.

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CHAPTER VII. Examination as to the Affectations of the Soul.

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CHAPTER VIII. The Affections to be excited after such Examination.

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CHAPTER IX. Reflections suitable to the renewal of Good Resolutions.

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CHAPTER X. First Consideration--of the Worth of Souls.

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CHAPTER XI. Second Consideration--on the Excellence of Virtue.

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CHAPTER XII. The Example of the Saints.

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CHAPTER XIII. The Love which Jesus Christ bears to us.

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CHAPTER XIV. The Eternal Love of God for us.

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CHAPTER XV. General Affections which should result from these Considerations,

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and Conclusion of the Exercise.

CHAPTER XVI. The Impressions which should remain after this Exercise.

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CHAPTER XVII. An Answer to Two Objections which may be made to this Book.

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CHAPTER XVIII. Three Important and Final Counsels.

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INDEX.

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Indexes

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Index of Scripture References

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Index of Pages of the Print Edition

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Title Page

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Library of Spiritual Works for English Catholics

Introduction to the

Devout Life

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Preface by the Author

Preface by the Author

Preface by the Author

DEAR reader, I request you to read this Preface for your own satisfaction as well as

mine.

The flower-girl Glycera was so skilled in varying the arrangement and combination of

her flowers, that out of the same kinds she produced a great variety of bouquets; so that the

painter Pausias, 1 who sought to rival the diversity of her art, was brought to a standstill,

for he could not vary his painting so endlessly as Glycera varied her bouquets. Even so the

Holy Spirit of God disposes and arranges the devout teaching which He imparts through

the lips and pen of His servants with such endless variety, that, although the doctrine is ever

one and the same, their treatment of it is different, according to the varying minds whence

that treatment flows. Assuredly I neither desire, nor ought to write in this book anything

but what has been already said by others before me. I offer you the same flowers, dear

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reader, but the bouquet will be somewhat different from theirs, because it is differently made

up.

Almost all those who have written concerning the devout life have had chiefly in view

persons who have altogether quitted the world; or at any rate they have taught a manner of

devotion which would lead to such total retirement. But my object is to teach those who are

living in towns, at court, in their own households, and whose calling obliges them to a social

life, so far as externals are concerned. Such persons are apt to reject all attempt to lead a

devout life under the plea of impossibility; imagining that like as no animal presumes to eat

of the plant commonly called Palma Christi, so no one who is immersed in the tide of tem-

poral affairs ought to presume to seek the palm of Christian piety.

And so I have shown them that, like as the mother-of-pearl lives in the sea without ever

absorbing one drop of salt water; and as near the Chelidonian Isles springs of sweet water

start forth in the midst of the ocean; 2 and as the firemoth 3 hovers in the flames without

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burning her wings; even so a true stedfast soul may live in the world untainted by worldly

breath, finding a well-spring of holy piety amid the bitter waves of society, and hovering

amid the flames of earthly lusts without singeing the wings of its devout life. Of a truth this

is not easy, and for that very reason I would have Christians bestow more care and energy

than heretofore on the attempt, and thus it is that, while conscious of my own weakness, I

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1 Pausias of Sicyon (B.C. 368); see Plin. Hist. Nat. xxxv. 11-40. A portrait of Glycera, the young flower-girl

whom he loved, with a garland of flowers, was one of his masterpieces. It was called the Stephane-plocos [

Στεφανὴ - πλόκος ], or garland wreather, and was purchased by L. Lucullus at Athens for two talents, or about

430 pounds.

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; These islands are in the Mediterranean Sea, in the Gulf of Lycia.

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Πυραύστης

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endeavour by this book to afford some help to those who are undertaking this noble work

with a generous heart.

It is not, however, my own choice or wish which brings this Introduction before the

public. A certain soul, abounding in uprightness and virtue, some time since conceived a

great desire, through God’s Grace, to aspire more earnestly after a devout life, and craved

my private help with this view. I was bound to her by various ties, and had long observed

her remarkable capacity for this attainment, so I took great pains to teach her, and having

led her through the various exercises suitable to her circumstances and her aim, I let her

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keep written records thereof, to which she might have recourse when necessary. These she

communicated to a learned and devout Religious, who, believing that they might be profitable

to others, urged me to publish them, in which he succeeded the more readily that his

friendship exercised great influence upon my will, and his judgment great authority over

my judgment.

So, in order to make the work more useful and acceptable, I have reviewed the papers

and put them together, adding several matters carrying out my intentions; but all this has

been done with scarce a moment’s leisure. Consequently you will find very little precision

in the work, but rather a collection of well-intentioned instructions, explained in clear intel-

ligible words, at least that is what I have sought to give. But as to a polished style, I have not

given that a thought, having so much else to do.

I have addressed my instructions to Philothea, 4 as adapting what was originally written

for an individual to the common good of souls. I have made use of a name suitable to all

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who seek after the devout life, Philothea meaning one who loves God. Setting then before

me a soul, who through the devout life seeks after the love of God, I have arranged this In-

troduction in five parts, in the first of which I seek by suggestions and exercises to turn

Philothea’s mere desire into a hearty resolution; which she makes after her general confession,

by a deliberate protest, followed by Holy Communion, in which, giving herself to her Saviour

and receiving Him, she is happily received into His Holy Love. After this, I lead her on by

showing her two great means of closer union with His Divine Majesty; the Sacraments, by

which that Gracious Lord comes to us, and mental prayer, by which He draws us to Him.

This is the Second Part.

In the Third Part I set forth how she should practise certain virtues most suitable to her

advancement, only dwelling on such special points as she might not find elsewhere, or be

able to make out for herself. In the Fourth Part I bring to light the snares of some of her

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enemies, and show her how to pass through them safely and come forth unhurt. And finally,

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The address to Philothea by name has been omitted, as being somewhat stiff and stilted, and the term child

or daughter used instead, but the omission in no way alters the sense or application of any sentence.

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in the Fifth Part, I lead her apart to refresh herself and take breath, and renew her strength,

so that she may go on more bravely afterwards, and make good progress in the devout life.

This is a cavilling age, and I foresee that many will say that only Religious and persons

living apart are fit to undertake the guidance of souls in such special devout ways; that it

requires more time than a Bishop of so important a diocese as mine can spare, and that it

must take too much thought from the important duties with which I am charged.

But, dear reader, I reply with S. Denis that the task of leading souls towards perfection

appertains above all others to Bishops, and that because their Order is supreme among men,

as the Seraphim among Angels, and therefore their leisure cannot be better spent. The ancient

Bishops and Fathers of the Primitive Church were, to say the least, as devoted to their duties

as we are, yet they did not refuse to undertake the individual guidance of souls which sought

their help, as we see by their epistles; thereby imitating the Apostles, who, while reaping the

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universal world-harvest, yet found time to gather up certain individual sheaves with special

and personal affection. Who can fail to remember that Timothy, Titus, Philemon, Onesimus,

Thekla, Appia, were the beloved spiritual children of S. Paul, as S. Mark and S. Petronilla

were of S. Peter (for Baronius and Galonius have given learned and absolute proof that S.

Petronilla was not his carnal but spiritual daughter). And is not one of S. John’s Canonical

Epistles addressed to the “elect lady” whom he loved in the faith?

I grant that the guidance of individual souls is a labour, but it is a labour full of consol-

ation, even as that of harvesters and grape-gatherers, who are never so well pleased as when

most heavily laden. It is a labour which refreshes and invigorates the heart by the comfort

which it brings to those who bear it; as is said to be the case with those who carry bundles

of cinnamon in Arabia Felix. It is said that when the tigress finds one of her young left behind

by the hunter in order to delay her while he carries off the rest of her cubs, she takes it up,

however big, without seeming over-weighted, and speeds only the more swiftly to her lair,

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maternal love lightening the load. How much more readily will the heart of a spiritual

father bear the burden of a soul he finds craving after perfection-- carrying it in his bosom

as a mother her babe, without feeling weary of the precious burden?

But unquestionably it must be a really paternal heart that can do this, and therefore it

is that the Apostles and their apostolic followers are wont to call their disciples not merely

their children, but, even more tenderly still, their “little children.”

One thing more, dear reader. It is too true that I who write about the devout life am not

myself devout, but most certainly I am not without the wish to become so, and it is this wish

which encourages me to teach you. A notable literary man has said that a good way to learn

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is to study, a better to listen, and the best to teach. And S. Augustine, writing to the devout

Flora, 5 says, that giving is a claim to receive, and teaching a way to learn.

Alexander caused the lovely Campaspe, 6 who was so dear to him, to be painted by the

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great Apelles, who, by dint of contemplating her as he drew, so graved her features in his

heart and conceived so great a passion for her, that Alexander discovered it, and, pitying

the artist, gave him her to wife, depriving himself for love of Apelles of the dearest thing he

had in the world, in which, says Pliny, he displayed the greatness of his soul as much as in

the mightiest victory. And so, friendly reader, it seems to me that as a Bishop, God wills me

to frame in the hearts of His children not merely ordinary goodness, but yet more His own

most precious devotion; and on my part I undertake willingly to do so, as much out of

obedience to the call of duty as in the hope that, while fixing the image in others’ hearts, my

own may haply conceive a holy love; and that if His Divine Majesty sees me deeply in love,

He may give her to me in an eternal marriage. The beautiful and chaste Rebecca, as she

watered Isaac’s camels, was destined to be his bride, and received his golden earrings and

bracelets, and so I rely on the boundless Goodness of my God, that while I lead His beloved

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lambs to the wholesome fountain of devotion, He will take my soul to be His bride, giving

me earrings of the golden words of love, and strengthening my arms to carry out its works,

wherein lies the essence of all true devotion, the which I pray His Heavenly Majesty to grant

to me and to all the children of His Church -- that Church to which I would ever submit all

my writings, actions, words, will and thoughts.

ANNECY, S. Magdalene’s Day, 1608.

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This is probably the person mentioned as “our most religious daughter Flora” in S. Augustine’s Treatise

“On care to be had for the Dead”, addressed to his fellow Bishop Paulinus. See Library of the Fathers, S. Augustine’s Short Treatises, p. 517.

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Plin. Hist. Nat. l. xxv. c. 10.

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CONTENTS.

CONTENTS.

CONTENTS.

Preface by the Author . . . v

PART I.

COUNSELS AND PRACTICES SUITABLE FOR THE SOUL’S GUIDANCE FROM

THE FIRST ASPIRATION AFTER A DEVOUT LIFE TO THE POINT WHEN IT ATTAINS

A CONFIRMED RESOLUTION TO FOLLOW THE SAME.

I. What True Devotion is . . . 1 II. The Nature and Excellence of Devotion . . . 5 III. De-

votion is suitable to every Vocation and Profession . . . 8 IV. The Need of a Guide for those

Who Would enter upon and advance in the Devout Life . . . 11 V. The First Step must be

Purifying the Soul . . . 15 VI. The First Purification, namely, from Mortal Sin . . . 18 VII. The

Second Purification, from all Sinful Affections . . . 20 VIII. How to effect this Second Puri-

fication . . . 22 IX. First Meditation—Of Creation . . . 24 X. Second Meditation—Of the End

for which we were Created . . . 27 XI. Third Meditation—Of the Gifts of God . . . 30 XII.

Fourth Meditation—On Sin . . . 32 XIII. Fifth Meditation—On Death . . . 35 XIV. Sixth

Meditation—On Judgment . . . 38 XV. Seventh Meditation—Of Hell . . . 41 XVI. Eighth

Meditation—On Paradise . . . 43 XVII. Ninth Meditation On the Choice open to you between

Heaven and Hell . . . 45 XVIII. Tenth Meditation—How the Soul chooses the Devout Life .

. . 48 XIX. How to make a General Confession . . . 51 XX. A hearty Protest made with the

object of confirming the Soul’s resolution to serve God, as a conclusion to its Acts of Penit-

ence . . . 53 XXI. Conclusion of this First Purification . . . 56 XXII. The Necessity of Purging

away all tendency to Venial Sins . . . 57 XXIII. It is needful to put away all Inclination for

Useless and Dangerous Things . . . 60 XXIV. All Evil Inclinations must be purged away . . .

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PART II.

CONTAINING SUNDRY COUNSELS AS TO UPLIFTING THE SOUL TO GOD IN

PRAYER AND THE USE OF THE SACRAMENTS.

I. The Necessity of Prayer . . . 64 II. A short Method of Meditation. And first, the Presence

of God, the First Point of Preparation . . . 68 III. Invocation, the Second Point of Preparation

. . . 72 IV. The Third Point of Preparation, representing the Mystery to be meditated to your

Imagination . . . 73 V. Considerations, the Second Part of Meditation . . . 74 VI. The Third

Part of Meditation, Affections and Resolutions . . . 75 VII. The Conclusion and Spiritual

Bouquet . . . 77 VIII. Some Useful Hints as to Meditation . . . 78 IX. Concerning Dryness in

Meditation . . . 81 X. Morning Prayer . . . 83 XI. Evening Prayer and Examination of Con-

science . . . 85 XII. On Spiritual Retirement . . . 87 XIII. Aspirations, Ejaculatory Prayer and

Holy Thoughts . . . 90 XIV. Of Holy Communion, and how to join in it . . . 98 XV. Of the

other Public Offices of the Church . . . 101 XVI. How the Saints are united to us . . . 103

XVII. How to Hear and Read God’s Word . . . 105 XVIII. How to receive Inspirations . . .

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107 XIX. On Confession . . . 111 XX. Of Frequent Communion . . . 116 XXI. How to Com-

municate . . . 120

PART III.

CONTAINING COUNSELS CONCERNING THE PRACTICE OF VIRTUE.

I. How to select that which we should chiefly Practise . . . 124 II. The same Subject

continued . . . 131 III. On Patience . . . 136 IV. On Exterior Humility . . . 142 V. On Interior

Humility . . . 147 VI. Humility makes us rejoice in our own Abjection . . . 153 VII. How to

combine due care for a Good Reputation with Humility . . . 158 VIII. Gentleness towards

others and Remedies against Anger . . . 163 IX. On Gentleness towards Ourselves . . . 169

X. We must attend to the Business of Life carefully, but without Eagerness or Over-anxiety

. . . 173 XI. On Obedience . . . 176 XII. On Purity . . . 180 XIII. How to maintain Purity . . .

182 XIV. On Poverty of Spirit amid Riches . . . 185 XV. How to exercise real Poverty, although

actually Rich . . . 188 XVI. How to possess a rich Spirit amid real Poverty . . . 193 XVII. On

Friendship: Evil and Frivolous Friendship . . . 196 XVIII. On Frivolous Attachments . . . 198

XIX. Of Real Friendship . . . 201 XX. Of the Difference between True and False Friendship

. . . 205 XXI. Remedies against Evil Friendships . . . 208 XXII. Further Advice concerning

Intimacies . . . 212 XXIII. On the Practice of Bodily Mortification . . . 215 XXIV. Of Society

and Solitude . . . 223 XXV. On Modesty in Dress . . . 227 XXVI. Of Conversation; and, first,

how to Speak of God . . . 229 XXVII. Of Unseemly Words, and the Respect due to Others .

. . 231 XXVIII. Of Hasty Judgments . . . 234 XXIX. On Slander . . . 241 XXX. Further

Counsels as to Conversation . . . 249 XXXI. Of Amusements and Recreations: what are al-

lowable . . . 252 XXXII. Of Forbidden Amusements . . . 254 XXXIII. Of Balls, and other

Lawful but Dangerous Amusements . . . 255 XXXIV. When to use such Amusements rightly

. . . 259 XXXV. We must be Faithful in Things Great and Small . . . 260 XXXVI. Of a Well-

balanced, Reasonable Mind . . . 264 XXXVII. Of Wishes . . . 267 XXXVIII. Counsels to

Married People . . . 270 XXXIX. The Sanctity of the Marriage Bed . . . 280 XL. Counsels to

Widows . . . 281 XLI. One Word to Maidens . . . 289

PART IV.

CONTAINING NEEDFUL COUNSELS CONCERNING SOME ORDINARY

TEMPTATIONS.

I. We must not trifle with the Words of worldly Wisdom . . . 290 II. The need of a Good

Courage . . . 294 III. Of Temptations, and the difference between experiencing them and

consenting to them . . . 296 IV. Two striking illustrations of the same . . . 300 V. Encourage-

ment for the Tempted Soul . . . 302 VI. When Temptation and Delectation are Sin . . . 304

VII. Remedies for Great Occasions . . . 307 VIII. How to resist Minor Temptations . . . 310

IX. How to remedy Minor Temptations . . . 311 X. How to strengthen the Heart against

Temptation . . . 313 XI. Anxiety of Mind . . . 315 XII. Of Sadness and Sorrow . . . 319 XIII.

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Of Spiritual and Sensible Consolations, and how to receive them . . . 323 XIV. Of Dryness

and Spiritual Barrenness . . . 333 XV. In Illustration . . . 340

PART V.

CONTAINING COUNSELS AND PRACTICES FOR RENEWING AND CONFIRMING

THE SOUL IN DEVOTION.

I. It is well yearly to renew Good Resolutions by means of the following Exercises . . .

346 II. Meditation on the Benefit conferred on us by God in calling us to His Service . . . 348

III. Examination of the Soul as to its Progress in the Devout Life . . . 351 IV. Examination

of the Soul’s Condition as regards God . . . 354 V. Examination of your Condition as regards

yourself . . . 357 VI. Examination of the Soul’s Condition as regards our Neighbour . . . 358

VII. Examination as to the Affections of the Soul . . . 359 VIII. The Affections to be excited

after such Examination . . . 361 IX. Reflections suitable to the renewal of Good Resolutions

. . . 362 X. First Consideration—Of the Worth of Souls . . . 363 XI. Second Consideration—On

the Excellence of Virtue . . . 364 XII. The Example of the Saints . . . 366 XIII. The Love which

Jesus Christ bears to us . . . 367 XIV. The Eternal Love of God for us . . . 369 XV. General

Affections which should result from these Considerations, and Conclusion of the Exercise

. . . 370 XVI. The Impressions which should remain after this Exercise . . . 372 XVII. An

Answer to Two Objections which may be made to this Book . . . 373 XVIII. Three Important

and Final Counsels . . . 375

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PART I. COUNSELS AND PRACTICES SUITABLE FOR THE SOUL'S GUIDANCE FROM

THE…

PART I. COUNSELS AND PRACTICES SUITABLE FOR THE SOUL'S GUIDANCE FROM THE FIRST ASPIRATION AFTER A DEVOUT LIFE TO THE POINT WHEN IT ATTAINS A CONFIRMED RESOLUTION TO FOLLOW THE SAME.

PART I. COUNSELS AND PRACTICES SUITABLE FOR

THE SOUL’S GUIDANCE FROM THE FIRST

ASPIRATION AFTER A DEVOUT LIFE TO THE POINT

WHEN IT ATTAINS A CONFIRMED RESOLUTION

TO FOLLOW THE SAME.

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CHAPTER I. What true Devotion is.

CHAPTER I. What true Devotion is.

CHAPTER I. What true Devotion is.

YOU aim at a devout life, dear child, because as a Christian you know that such devotion

is most acceptable to God’s Divine Majesty. But seeing that the small errors people are wont

to commit in the beginning of any under taking are apt to wax greater as they advance, and

to become irreparable at last, it is most important that you should thoroughly understand

wherein lies the grace of true devotion;—and that because while there undoubtedly is such

a true devotion, there are also many spurious and idle semblances thereof; and unless you

know which is real, you may mistake, and waste your energy in pursuing an empty, profitless

shadow. Arelius was wont to paint all his pictures with the features and expression of the

women he loved, and even so we all colour devotion according to our own likings and dis-

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positions. One man sets great value on fasting, and believes himself to be leading a very de-

vout life, so long as he fasts rigorously, although the while his heart is full of bitterness;—and

while he will not moisten his lips with wine, perhaps not even with water, in his great abstin-

ence, he does not scruple to steep them in his neighbour’s blood, through slander and de-

traction. Another man reckons himself as devout because he repeats many prayers daily,

although at the same time he does not refrain from all manner of angry, irritating, conceited

or insulting speeches among his family and neighbours. This man freely opens his purse in

almsgiving, but closes his heart to all gentle and forgiving feelings towards those who are

opposed to him; while that one is ready enough to forgive his enemies, but will never pay

his rightful debts save under pressure. Meanwhile all these people are conventionally called

religious, but nevertheless they are in no true sense really devout. When Saul’s servants

sought to take David, Michal induced them to suppose that the lifeless figure lying in his

bed, and covered with his garments, was the man they sought; and in like manner many

people dress up an exterior with the visible acts expressive of earnest devotion, and the world

supposes them to be really devout and spiritual-minded, while all the time they are mere

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lay figures, mere phantasms of devotion.

But, in fact, all true and living devotion presupposes the love of God;—and indeed it is

neither more nor less than a very real love of God, though not always of the same kind; for

that Love one while shining on the soul we call grace, which makes us acceptable to His

Divine Majesty;—when it strengthens us to do well, it is called Charity;—but when it attains

its fullest perfection, in which it not only leads us to do well, but to act carefully, diligently,

and promptly, then it is called Devotion. The ostrich never flies,—the hen rises with difficulty,

and achieves but a brief and rare flight, but the eagle, the dove, and the swallow, are continu-

ally on the wing, and soar high;—even so sinners do not rise towards God, for all their

movements are earthly and earthbound. Well-meaning people, who have not as yet attained

a true devotion, attempt a manner of flight by means of their good actions, but rarely, slowly

and heavily; while really devout men rise up to God frequently, and with a swift and soaring

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wing. In short, devotion is simply a spiritual activity and liveliness by means of which Divine

Love works in us, and causes us to work briskly and lovingly; and just as charity leads us to

a general practice of all God’s Commandments, so devotion leads us to practise them readily

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and diligently. And therefore we cannot call him who neglects to observe all God’s Com-

mandments either good or devout, because in order to be good, a man must be filled with

love, and to be devout, he must further be very ready and apt to perform the deeds of love.

And forasmuch as devotion consists in a high degree of real love, it not only makes us ready,

active, and diligent in following all God’s Commands, but it also excites us to be ready and

loving in performing as many good works as possible, even such as are not enjoined upon

us, but are only matters of counsel or inspiration. Even as a man just recovering from illness,

walks only so far as he is obliged to go, with a slow and weary step, so the converted sinner

journeys along as far as God commands him but slowly and wearily, until he attains a true

spirit of devotion, and then, like a sound man, he not only gets along, but he runs and leaps

in the way of God’s Commands, and hastens gladly along the paths of heavenly counsels

and inspirations. The difference between love and devotion is just that which exists between

fire and flame;—love being a spiritual fire which becomes devotion when it is fanned into

a flame;—and what devotion adds to the fire of love is that flame which makes it eager, en-

ergetic and diligent, not merely in obeying God’s Commandments, but in fulfilling His Divine

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Counsels and inspirations.

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CHAPTER II. The Nature and Excellence of Devotion.

CHAPTER II. The Nature and Excellence of Devotion.

CHAPTER II. The Nature and Excellence of Devotion.

THOSE who sought to discourage the Israelites from going up to the Promised Land,

told them that it was “a land which eateth up the inhabitants thereof;” 1 that is, that the cli-

mate was so unhealthy that the inhabitants could not live long, and that the people thereof

were “men of a great stature,” who looked upon the new-comers as mere locusts to be de-

voured. It is just so, my daughter, that the world runs down true devotion, painting devout

people with gloomy, melancholy aspect, and affirming that religion makes them dismal and

unpleasant. But even as Joshua and Caleb protested that not only was the Promised Land a

fair and pleasant country, but that the Israelites would take an easy and peaceful possession

thereof, so the Holy Spirit tells us through His Saints, and our Lord has told us with His

Own Lips, that a devout life is very sweet, very happy and very loveable.

The world, looking on, sees that devout persons fast, watch and pray, endure injury

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patiently, minister to the sick and poor, restrain their temper, check and subdue their pas-

sions, deny themselves in all sensual indulgence, and do many other things which in them-

selves are hard and difficult. But the world sees nothing of that inward, heartfelt devotion

which makes all these actions pleasant and easy. Watch a bee hovering over the mountain

thyme;—the juices it gathers are bitter, but the bee turns them all to honey,—and so tells

the worldling, that though the devout soul finds bitter herbs along its path of devotion, they

are all turned to sweetness and pleasantness as it treads;—and the martyrs have counted

fire, sword, and rack but as perfumed flowers by reason of their devotion. And if devotion

can sweeten such cruel torments, and even death itself, how much more will it give a charm

to ordinary good deeds? We sweeten unripe fruit with sugar, and it is useful in correcting

the crudity even of that which is good. So devotion is the real spiritual sweetness which takes

away all bitterness from mortifications; and prevents consolations from disagreeing with

the soul: it cures the poor of sadness, and the rich of presumption; it keeps the oppressed

from feeling desolate, and the prosperous from insolence; it averts sadness from the lonely,

and dissipation from social life; it is as warmth in winter and refreshing dew in summer; it

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knows how to abound and how to suffer want; how to profit alike by honour and contempt;

it accepts gladness and sadness with an even mind, and fills men’s hearts with a wondrous

sweetness.

Ponder Jacob’s ladder:—it is a true picture of the devout life; the two poles which support

the steps are types of prayer which seeks the love of God, and the Sacraments which confer

that love; while the steps themselves are simply the degrees of love by which we go on from

virtue to virtue, either descending by good deeds on behalf of our neighbour or ascending

by contemplation to a loving union with God. Consider, too, who they are who trod this

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Numb. xiii. 32.

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ladder; men with angels’ hearts, or angels with human forms. They are not youthful, but

they seem to be so by reason of their vigour and spiritual activity. They have wings wherewith

to fly, and attain to God in holy prayer, but they have likewise feet wherewith to tread in

human paths by a holy gracious intercourse with men; their faces are bright and beautiful,

inasmuch as they accept all things gently and sweetly; their heads and limbs are uncovered,

because their thoughts, affections and actions have no motive or object save that of pleasing

God; the rest of their bodies is covered with a light shining garment, because while they use

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the world and the things of this life, they use all such purely and honestly, and no further

than is needful for their condition—such are the truly devout. Believe me, dear child, devotion

is the sweetest of sweets, the queen of virtues, the perfection of love. If love is the milk of

life, devotion is the cream thereof; if it is a fruitful plant, devotion is the blossom; if it is a

precious stone, devotion is its brightness; if it is a precious balm, devotion is its perfume,

even that sweet odour which delights men and causes the angels to rejoice.

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CHAPTER III. Devotion is suitable to every Vocation and Profession.

CHAPTER III. Devotion is suitable to every Vocation and Profession.

CHAPTER III. Devotion is suitable to every Vocation and Profession.

WHEN God created the world He commanded each tree to bear fruit after its kind; 2

and even so He bids Christians,—the living trees of His Church,—to bring forth fruits of

devotion, each one according to his kind and vocation. A different exercise of devotion is

required of each—the noble, the artisan, the servant, the prince, the maiden and the wife;

and furthermore such practice must be modified according to the strength, the calling, and

the duties of each individual. I ask you, my child, would it be fitting that a Bishop should

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seek to lead the solitary life of a Carthusian? And if the father of a family were as regardless

in making provision for the future as a Capucin, if the artisan spent the day in church like

a Religious, if the Religious involved himself in all manner of business on his neighbour’s

behalf as a Bishop is called upon to do, would not such a devotion be ridiculous, ill-regulated,

and intolerable? Nevertheless such a mistake is often made, and the world, which cannot

or will not discriminate between real devotion and the indiscretion of those who fancy

themselves devout, grumbles and finds fault with devotion, which is really nowise concerned

in these errors. No indeed, my child, the devotion which is true hinders nothing, but on the

contrary it perfects everything; and that which runs counter to the rightful vocation of any

one is, you may be sure, a spurious devotion. Aristotle says that the bee sucks honey from

flowers without damaging them, leaving them as whole and fresh as it found them;—but

true devotion does better still, for it not only hinders no manner of vocation or duty, but,

contrariwise, it adorns and beautifies all. Throw precious stones into honey, and each will

grow more brilliant according to its several colour:—and in like manner everybody fulfils

his special calling better when subject to the influence of devotion:—family duties are

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lighter, married love truer, service to our King more faithful, every kind of occupation more

acceptable and better performed where that is the guide.

It is an error, nay more, a very heresy, to seek to banish the devout life from the soldier’s

guardroom, the mechanic’s workshop, the prince’s court, or the domestic hearth. Of course

a purely contemplative devotion, such as is specially proper to the religious and monastic

life, cannot be practised in these outer vocations, but there are various other kinds of devotion

well-suited to lead those whose calling is secular, along the paths of perfection. The Old

Testament furnishes us examples in Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, David, Job, Tobias, Sarah,

Rebecca and Judith; and in the New Testament we read of St. Joseph, Lydia and Crispus,

who led a perfectly devout life in their trades:—we have S. Anne, Martha, S. Monica, Aquila

and Priscilla, as examples of household devotion, Cornelius, S. Sebastian, and S. Maurice

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Gen. i. 12.

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among soldiers;—Constantine, S. Helena, S. Louis, the Blessed Amadaeus, 3 and S. Edward

on the throne. And we even find instances of some who fell away in solitude,—usually so

helpful to perfection,—some who had led a higher life in the world, which seems so antag-

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onistic to it. S. Gregory dwells on how Lot, who had kept himself pure in the city, fell in his

mountain solitude. Be sure that wheresoever our lot is cast we may and must aim at the

perfect life.

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It is probable that S. Francis here means to indicate Amadeo IX., Duke of Savoy, who died 1472.

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CHAPTER IV. The Need of a Guide for those who would enter upon and advance…

CHAPTER IV. The Need of a Guide for those who would enter upon and advance in the Devout Life.

CHAPTER IV. The Need of a Guide for those who would enter upon

and advance in the Devout Life.

WHEN Tobias was bidden to go to Rages, he was willing to obey his father, but he ob-

jected that he knew not the way;—to which Tobit answered, “Seek thee a man which may

go with thee:” 4 and even so, daughter, I say to you, If you would really tread the paths of

the devout life, seek some holy man to guide and conduct you. This is the precept of precepts,

says the devout Avila,—seek as you will you can never so surely discover God’s Will as

through the channel of humble obedience so universally taught and practised by all the

Saints of olden time. When the blessed Teresa read of the great penances performed by

Catherine of Cordova, she desired exceedingly to imitate them, contrary to the mind of her

Confessor, who forbade her to do the like, and she was tempted to disobey him therein.

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Then God spoke to Teresa, saying, “My child, thou art on a good and safe road:—true, thou

seest all this penance, but verily I esteem thy obedience as a yet greater virtue:”—and

thenceforth S. Teresa so greatly loved the virtue of obedience, that in addition to that due

to her superiors, she took a vow of special obedience to a pious ecclesiastic, pledging herself

to follow his direction and guidance, which proved an inexpressible help to her. And even

so before and after her many pious souls have subjected their will to God’s ministers in order

the better to submit themselves to Him, a practice much commended by S. Catherine of

Sienna in her Dialogues. The devout Princess S. Elisabeth gave an unlimited obedience to

the venerable Conrad; and one of the parting counsels given by S. Louis to his son ere he

died was, “Confess thyself often,—choose a single-minded, worthy confessor, who is able

wisely to teach thee how to do that which is needful for thee.” 5 “A faithful friend,” we are

told in Holy Scripture, “is a strong defence, and he that hath found such an one hath found

a treasure;” 6 and again: “A faithful friend is the medicine of life; and they that fear the Lord

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shall find him.” 7 These sacred words have chiefly reference, as you see, to the immortal life,

with a view to which we specially need a faithful friend, who will guide us by his counsel

and advice, thereby guarding us against the deceits and snares of the Evil One:—he will be

as a storehouse of wisdom to us in our sorrows, trials and falls; he will be as a healing balm

to stay and soothe our heart in the time of spiritual sickness,—he will shield us from evil,

and confirm that which is good in us, and when we fall through infirmity, he will avert the

deadly nature of the evil, and raise us up again.

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Tob. v. 3.

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“Confesse-toi souvent, eslis un confesseur idoine, qui soit prudhomme, et qui te puisse seurement enseigner

a faire les choses qui te seront necessaires.”

6

Ecclus. vi. 14.

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Ecclus. v. 16.

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But who can find such a friend? The Wise Man answers:—“He that feareth the Lord:”

8 that is to say, the truly humble soul which earnestly desires to advance in the spiritual life.

So, daughter, inasmuch as it concerns you so closely to set forth on this devout journey

under good guidance, do you pray most earnestly to God to supply you with a guide after

His Own Heart, and never doubt but that He will grant you one who is wise and faithful,

even should He send you an angel from Heaven, as He sent to Tobias.

In truth, your spiritual guide should always be as a heaven-sent angel to you;—by which

I mean that when you have found him, you are not to look upon him, or trust in him or his

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wisdom as an ordinary man; but you must look to God, Who will help you and speak to

you through this man, putting into his heart and mouth that which is needful to you; so

that you ought to hearken as though he were an angel come down from Heaven to lead you

thither. Deal with him in all sincerity and faithfulness, and with open heart; manifesting

alike your good and your evil, without pretence or dissimulation. Thus your good will be

examined and confirmed, and your evil corrected and remedied;—you will be soothed and

strengthened in trouble, moderated and regulated in prosperity. Give your guide a hearty

confidence mingled with sacred reverence, so that reverence in no way shall hinder your

confidence, and confidence nowise lessen your reverence: trust him with the respect of a

daughter for her father; respect him with the confidence of a son in his mother. In a word,

such a friendship should be strong and sweet; altogether holy, sacred, divine and spiritual.

And with such an aim, choose one among a thousand, Avila says;—and I say among ten

thousand, for there are fewer than one would think capable of this office. He must needs be

full of love, of wisdom and of discretion; for if either of these three be wanting there is

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danger. But once more I say, ask such help of God, and when you have found it, bless His

Holy Name; be stedfast, seek no more, but go on simply, humbly and trustfully, for you are

safe to make a prosperous journey.

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Ecclus. vi. 17.

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CHAPTER V. The First Step must be Purifying the Soul.

CHAPTER V. The First Step must be Purifying the Soul.

CHAPTER V. The First Step must be Purifying the Soul.

“THE flowers appear on the earth,” 9 says the Heavenly Bridegroom, and the time for

pruning and cutting is come. And what, my child, are our hearts’ flowers save our good

desires? Now, so soon as these begin to appear, we need the pruning-hook to cut off all dead

and superfluous works from our conscience. When the daughter of a strange land was about

to espouse an Israelite, the law commanded her to put off the garment of her captivity, to

pare her nails, and to shave her head; 10 even so the soul which aims at the dignity of becom-

ing the spouse of Christ, must put off the old man, and put on the new man, forsaking sin:

moreover, it must pare and shave away every impediment which can hinder the Love of

God. The very first step towards spiritual health is to be purged from our sinful humours.

S. Paul received perfect purification instantaneously, and the like grace was conferred on S.

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Magdalene, S. Catherine of Genoa, S. Pelagia, and some others, but this kind of purgation

is as miraculous and extraordinary in grace as the resurrection of the dead in nature, nor

dare we venture to aspire to it. The ordinary purification, whether of body or soul, is only

accomplished by slow degrees, step by step, gradually and painfully.

The angels on Jacob’s ladder had wings, yet nevertheless they did not fly, but went in

due order up and down the steps of the ladder. The soul which rises from out of sin to a

devout life has been compared to the dawn, which does not banish darkness suddenly, but

by degrees. That cure which is gradually effected is always the surest; and spiritual maladies,

like those of the body, are wont to come on horseback and express, while they depart slowly

and on foot. So that we must needs be brave and patient, my daughter, in this undertaking.

It is a woeful thing to see souls beginning to chafe and grow disheartened because they find

themselves still subject to imperfection after having made some attempt at leading a devout

life, and well-nigh yielding to the temptation to give up in despair and fall back; but, on the

other hand, there is an extreme danger surrounding those souls who, through the opposite

temptation, are disposed to imagine themselves purified from all imperfection at the very

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outset of their purgation; who count themselves as full-grown almost before they are born,

and seek to fly before they have wings. Be sure, daughter, that these are in great danger of

a relapse through having left their physician too soon. “It is but lost labour to rise up early

and late take rest,” unless the Lord prosper all we do.

The work of the soul’s purification neither may nor can end save with life itself;—do

not then let us be disheartened by our imperfections,—our very perfection lies in diligently

contending against them, and it is impossible so to contend without seeing them, or to

overcome without meeting them face to face. Our victory does not consist in being insensible

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Cant. ii. 12.

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Deut. xxi. 12.

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to them, but in not consenting to them. Now to be afflicted by our imperfections is certainly

not to consent thereto, and for the furtherance of humility it is needful that we sometimes

find ourselves worsted in this spiritual battle, wherein, however, we shall never be conquered

until we lose either life or courage. Moreover, imperfections and venial sins cannot destroy

our spiritual life, which is only to be lost through mortal sin; consequently we have only

need to watch well that they do not imperil our courage. David continually asks the Lord

to strengthen his heart against cowardice and discouragement; and it is our privilege in this

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war that we are certain to vanquish so long as we are willing to fight.

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CHAPTER VI. The First Purification, namely, from Mortal Sin.

CHAPTER VI. The First Purification, namely, from Mortal Sin.

CHAPTER VI. The First Purification, namely, from Mortal Sin.

THE first purification to be made is from sin;—the means whereby to make it, the sac-

rament of penance. Seek the best confessor within your reach, use one of the many little

books written in order to help the examination of conscience. 11 Read some such book

carefully, examining point by point wherein you have sinned, from the first use of your

reason to the present time. And if you mistrust your memory, write down the result of your

examination. Having thus sought out the evil spots in your conscience, strive to detest them,

and to reject them with the greatest abhorrence and contrition of which your heart is cap-

able;—bearing in mind these four things:—that by sin you have lost God’s Grace, rejected

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your share in Paradise, accepted the pains of Hell, and renounced God’s Eternal Love. You

see, my child, that I am now speaking of a general confession of your whole life, which,

while I grant it is not always necessary, I yet believe will be found most helpful in the begin-

ning of your pursuit after holiness, and therefore I earnestly advise you to make it. Not un-

frequently the ordinary confessions of persons leading an everyday life are full of great faults,

and that because they make little or no preparation, and have not the needful contrition.

Owing to this deficiency such people go to confession with a tacit intention of returning to

their old sins, inasmuch as they will not avoid the occasions of sin, or take the necessary

measures for amendment of life, and in all such cases a general confession is required to

steady and fix the soul. But, furthermore, a general confession forces us to a clearer selfknow-

ledge, kindles a wholesome shame for our past life, and rouses gratitude for God’s Mercy,

Which has so long waited patiently for us;—it comforts the heart, refreshes the spirit, excites

good resolutions, affords opportunity to our spiritual Father for giving the most suitable

advice, and opens our hearts so as to make future confessions more effectual. Therefore I

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cannot enter into the subject of a general change of life and entire turning to God, by means

of a devout life, without urging upon you to begin with a general confession.

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S. Francis suggests Grenada, Bruno, Arias, Augez, authors little known now, though we have the substance

of their teaching in numerous valuable helps for those who are preparing for confession: such as “Pardon through

the Precious Blood,” “Helps for Confirmation and First Communion” (Masters), “Manual for Confession,”

“Repentance,” (Rev. T. T. Carter), “Hints to Penitents” (Palmer), Brett’s “Guide to Faith and Piety,” Crake’s

“Bread of Life” (Mowbray), “Paradise of the Christian Soul,” etc.

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CHAPTER VII. The Second Purification, from all Sinful Affections.

CHAPTER VII. The Second Purification, from all Sinful Affections.

CHAPTER VII. The Second Purification, from all Sinful Affections.

ALL the children of Israel went forth from the land of Egypt, but not all went forth

heartily, and so, when wandering in the desert, some of them sighed after the leeks and

onions,—the fleshpots of Egypt. Even so there are penitents who forsake sin, yet without

forsaking their sinful affections; that is to say, they intend to sin no more, but it goes sorely

against them to abstain from the pleasures of sin;—they formally renounce and forsake

sinful acts, but they turn back many a fond lingering look to what they have left, like Lot’s

wife as she fled from Sodom. They are like a sick man who abstains from eating melon when

the doctor says it would kill him, but who all the while longs for it, talks about it, bargains

when he may have it, would at least like just to sniff the perfume, and thinks those who are

free to eat of it very fortunate. And so these weak cowardly penitents abstain awhile from

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sin, but reluctantly;—they would fain be able to sin without incurring damnation;—they

talk with a lingering taste of their sinful deeds, and envy those who are yet indulging in the

like. Thus a man who has meditated some revenge gives it up in confession, but soon after

he is to be found talking about the quarrel, averring that but for the fear of God he would

do this or that; complaining that it is hard to keep the Divine rule of forgiveness; would to

God it were lawful to avenge one’s self! Who can fail to see that even if this poor man is not

actually committing sin, he is altogether bound with the affections thereof, and although

he may have come out of Egypt, he yet hungers after it, and longs for the leeks and onions

he was wont to feed upon there! It is the same with the woman who, though she has given

up her life of sin, yet takes delight in being sought after and admired. Alas! of a truth, all

such are in great peril.

Be sure, my daughter, that if you seek to lead a devout life, you must not merely forsake

sin; but you must further cleanse your heart from all affections pertaining to sin; for, to say

nothing of the danger of a relapse, these wretched affections will perpetually enfeeble your

mind, and clog it, so that you will be unable to be diligent, ready and frequent in good works,

wherein nevertheless lies the very essence of all true devotion. Souls which, in spite of having

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forsaken sin, yet retain such likings and longings, remind us of those persons who, without

being actually ill, are pale and sickly, languid in all they do, eating without appetite, sleeping

without refreshment, laughing without mirth, dragging themselves about rather than

walking briskly. Such souls as I have described lose all the grace of their good deeds, which

are probably few and feeble, through their spiritual languor.

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CHAPTER VIII. How to effect this Second Purification.

CHAPTER VIII. How to effect this Second Purification.

CHAPTER VIII. How to effect this Second Purification.

THE first inducement to attain this second purification is a keen and lively apprehension

of the great evils resulting from sin, by means of which we acquire a deep, hearty contrition.

For just as contrition, (so far as it is real,) however slight, when joined to the virtue of the

Sacraments, purges away sin; so, when it becomes strong and urgent, it purges away all the

affections which cling around habits of sin. A moderate, slight hatred makes men dislike its

object and avoid his society; but when a violent, mortal hatred exists, they not only abhor

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and shun the person who excites it, but they loathe him, they cannot endure the approach

of his relations or connexions, nor even his likeness or anything that concerns him. Just so

when a penitent only hates sin through a weakly although real contrition, he will resolve to

avoid overt acts of sin; but when his contrition is strong and hearty, he will not merely abhor

sin, but every affection, every link and tendency to sin. Therefore, my daughter, it behoves

us to kindle our contrition and repentance as much as we possibly can, so that it may reach

even to the very smallest appearance of sin. Thus it was that the Magdalen, when converted,

so entirely lost all taste for her past sin and its pleasures, that she never again cast back one

thought upon them; and David declared that he hated not only sin itself, but every path and

way which led thereto. This it is which is that “renewing of the soul” which the same

Prophet compares to the eagle’s strength. 12

Now, in order to attain this fear and this contrition, you must use the following medit-

ations carefully; for if you practise them stedfastly, they (by God’s Grace) will root out both

sin and its affections from your heart. It is to that end that I have prepared them: do you

use them one after another, in the order in which they come, only taking one each day, and

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using that as early as possible, for the morning is the best time for all spiritual exercises;—and

then you will ponder and ruminate it through the day. If you have not as yet been taught

how to meditate, you will find instructions to that purpose in the Second Part.

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Ps. ciii. 5, Bible version.

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CHAPTER IX. FIRST MEDITATION.

CHAPTER IX. FIRST MEDITATION.

CHAPTER IX. FIRST MEDITATION.

Of Creation.

Preparation.

1. PLACE yourself in the Presence of God. 2. Ask Him to inspire your heart.

Considerations.

1. Consider that but a few years since you were not born into the world, and your soul

was as yet non-existent. Where wert thou then, O my soul? the world was already old, and

yet of thee there was no sign.

2. God brought you out of this nothingness, in order to make you what you are, not

because He had any need of you, but solely out of His Goodness.

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3. Consider the being which God has given you; for it is the foremost being of this visible

world, adapted to live eternally, and to be perfectly united to God’s Divine Majesty.

Affections and Resolutions.

1. Humble yourself utterly before God, saying with the Psalmist, O Lord, I am nothing

in respect of Thee—what am I, that Thou shouldst remember me? O my soul, thou wert yet

lost in that abyss of nothingness, if God had not called thee forth, and what of thee in such

a case?

2. Give God thanks. O Great and Good Creator, what do I not owe Thee, Who didst

take me from out that nothingness, by Thy Mercy to make me what I am? How can I ever

do enough worthily to praise Thy Holy Name, and render due thanks to Thy Goodness?

3. Confess your own shame. But alas, O my Creator, so far from uniting myself to Thee

by a loving service, I have rebelled against Thee through my unruly affections, departing

from Thee, and giving myself up to sin, and ignoring Thy Goodness, as though Thou hadst

not created me.

4. Prostrate thyself before God. O my soul, know that the Lord He is thy God, it is He

that hath made thee, and not thou thyself. O God, I am the work of Thy Hands; henceforth

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I will not seek to rest in myself, who am nought. Wherein hast thou to glory, who art but

dust and ashes? how canst thou, a very nothing, exalt thyself? In order to my own humiliation,

I will do such and such a thing,—I will endure such contempt:—I will alter my ways and

henceforth follow my Creator, and realise that I am honoured by His calling me to the being

He has given; I will employ it solely to obey His Will, by means of the teaching He has given

me, of which I will inquire more through my spiritual Father.

Conclusion.

1. Thank God. Bless the Lord, O my soul, and praise His Holy Name with all thy being,

because His Goodness called me forth from nothingness, and His Mercy created me.

2. Offer. O my God, I offer Thee with all my heart the being Thou hast given me, I

dedicate and consecrate it to Thee.

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3. Pray. O God, strengthen me in these affections and resolutions. Dear Lord, I commend

me, and all those I love, to Thy neverfailing Mercy. OUR FATHER, etc.

At the end of your meditation linger a while, and gather, so to say, a little spiritual

bouquet from the thoughts you have dwelt upon, the sweet perfume whereof may refresh

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you through the day.

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CHAPTER X. SECOND MEDITATION

CHAPTER X. SECOND MEDITATION

Of the End for which we were Created.

Preparation.

1. PLACE yourself before God. 2. Ask Him to inspire your heart.

Considerations.

1. God did not bring you into the world because He had any need of you, useless as you

are; but solely that He might show forth His Goodness in you, giving you His Grace and

Glory. And to this end He gave you understanding that you might know Him, memory that

you might think of Him, a will that you might love Him, imagination that you might realise

His mercies, sight that you might behold the marvels of His works, speech that you might

praise Him, and so on with all your other faculties.

2. Being created and placed in the world for this intent, all contrary actions should be

shunned and rejected, as also you should avoid as idle and superfluous whatever does not

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promote it.

2. Consider how unhappy they are who do not think of all this,—who live as though

they were created only to build and plant, to heap up riches and amuse themselves with

trifles.

Affections and Resolutions.

1. Humble yourself in that hitherto you have so little thought upon all this. Alas, my

God, of what was I thinking when I did not think of Thee? what did I remember when I

forgot Thee? what did I love when I loved Thee not? Alas, when I ought to have been feeding

on the truth, I was but filling myself with vanity, and serving the world, which was made to

serve me.

2. Abhor your past life. I renounce ye, O vain thoughts and useless cogitations, frivolous

and hateful memories: I renounce all worthless friendships, all unprofitable efforts, and

miserably ungrateful self-indulgence, all pitiful compliances.

3. Turn to God. Thou, my God and Saviour shalt henceforth be the sole object of my

thoughts; no more will I give my mind to ideas which are displeasing to Thee. All the days

of my life I will dwell upon the greatness of Thy Goodness, so lovingly poured out upon

me. Thou shalt be henceforth the delight of my heart, the resting-place of all my affections.

From this time forth I will forsake and abhor the vain pleasures and amusements, the empty

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pursuits which have absorbed my time;—the unprofitable ties which have bound my heart

I will loosen henceforth, and to that end I will use such and such remedies.

Conclusion.

1. Thank God, Who has made you for so gracious an end. Thou hast made me, O Lord,

for Thyself, that I may eternally enjoy the immensity of Thy Glory; when shall I be worthy

thereof, when shall I know how to bless Thee as I ought?

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2. Offer. O Dearest Lord, I offer Thee all my affections and resolutions, with my whole

heart and soul.

3. Pray. I entreat Thee, O God, that Thou wouldest accept my desires and longings, and

give Thy Blessing to my soul, to enable me to fulfil them, through the Merits of Thy Dear

Son’s Precious Blood shed upon the Cross for me. OUR FATHER, etc. Gather your little

spiritual bouquet.

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CHAPTER XI. THIRD MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XI. THIRD MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XI. THIRD MEDITATION.

Of the Gifts of God.

Preparation.

1. PLACE yourself in the Presence of God. 2. Ask Him to inspire your heart.

Considerations.

1. Consider the material gifts God has given you—your body, and the means for its

preservation; your health, and all that maintains it; your friends and many helps. Consider

too how many persons more deserving than you are without these gifts; some suffering in

health or limb, others exposed to injury, contempt and trouble, or sunk in poverty, while

God has willed you to be better off.

2. Consider the mental gifts He has given you. Why are you not stupid, idiotic, insane

like many you wot of? Again, God has favoured you with a decent and suitable education,

while many have grown up in utter ignorance.

3. Further, consider His spiritual gifts. You are a child of His Church, God has taught

you to know Himself from your youth. How often has He given you His Sacraments? what

inspirations and interior light, what reproofs, He has given to lead you aright; how often

He has forgiven you, how often delivered you from occasions of falling; what opportunities

He has granted for your soul’s progress! Dwell somewhat on the detail, see how Loving and

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Gracious God has been to you.

Affections and Resolutions.

1. Marvel at God’s Goodness. How good He has been to me, how abundant in mercy

and plenteous in loving-kindness! O my soul, be thou ever telling of the great things the

Lord has done for thee!

2. Marvel at your own ingratitude. What am I, Lord, that Thou rememberest me? How

unworthy am I! I have trodden Thy Mercies under foot, I have abused Thy Grace, turning

it against Thy very Self; I have set the depth of my ingratitude against the deep of Thy Grace

and Favour.

3. Kindle your gratitude. O my soul, be no more so faithless and disloyal to thy mighty

Benefactor! How should not my whole soul serve the Lord, Who has done such great things

in me and for me?

4. Go on, my daughter, to refrain from this or that material indulgence; let your body

be wholly the servant of God, Who has done so much for it: set your soul to seek Him by

this or that devout practice suitable thereto. Make diligent use of the means provided by

the Church to help you to love God and save your soul. Resolve to be constant in prayer

and seeking the Sacraments, in hearing God’s Word, and in obeying His inspirations and

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counsels.

Conclusion.

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1. Thank God for the clearer knowledge He has given you of His benefits and your own

duty.

2. Offer your heart and all its resolutions to Him.

3. Ask Him to strengthen you to fulfil them faithfully by the Merits of the Death of His

Son. OUR FATHER, etc. Gather the little spiritual bouquet.

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CHAPTER XII. FOURTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XII. FOURTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XII. FOURTH MEDITATION.

On Sin.

Preparation.

1. PLACE yourself in the Presence of God. 2. Ask Him to inspire your heart.

Considerations.

1. Consider how long it is since you first began to commit sin, and how since that first

beginning sin has multiplied in your heart; how every day has added to the number of your

sins against God, against yourself and against your neighbour, by deed, word, thought and

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desire.

2. Consider your evil tendencies, and how far you have followed them. These two points

will show you that your sins are more in number than the hairs of your head, or the sand

on the seashore.

3. Apart from sin, consider your ingratitude towards God, which is in itself a sin enfolding

all the others, and adding to their enormity: consider the gifts which God has given you,

and which you have turned against the Giver; especially the inspirations you have neglected,

and the promptings to good which you have frustrated. Review the many Sacraments you

have received, and see where are their fruits. Where are the precious jewels wherewith your

Heavenly Bridegroom decked you? with what preparation have you received them? Reflect

upon the ingratitude with which, while God sought to save you, you have fled from Him

and rushed upon destruction.

Affections and Resolutions.

1. Humble yourself in your wretchedness. O my God, how dare I come before Thine

Eyes? I am but a corrupt being, a very sink of ingratitude and wickedness. Can it be that I

have been so disloyal, that not one sense, not one faculty but has been sullied and

stained;—not one day has passed but I have sinned before Thee? Was this a fitting return

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for all my Creator’s gifts, for my Redeemer’s Blood?

2. Ask pardon;—throw yourself at the Lord’s Feet as the prodigal son, as the Magdalene,

as the woman convicted of adultery. Have mercy, Lord, on me a sinner! O Living Fountain

of Mercy, have pity on me, unworthy as I am.

3. Resolve to do better. Lord, with the help of Thy Grace I will never again give myself

up to sin. I have loved it too well;—henceforth I would abhor it and cleave to Thee. Father

of Mercy, I would live and die to Thee.

4. In order to put away past sin, accuse yourself bravely of it, let there not be one sinful

act which you do not bring to light.

5. Resolve to make every effort to tear up the roots of sin from your heart, especially

this and that individual sin which troubles you most.

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6. In order to do this, resolve stedfastly to follow the advice given you, and never think

that you have done enough to atone for your past sin.

Conclusion.

1. Thank God for having waited till now for you, and for rousing these good intentions

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in your heart. 2. Offer Him all your heart to carry them to good effect. 3. Pray that He would

strengthen you.

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CHAPTER XIII. FIFTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XIII. FIFTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XIII. FIFTH MEDITATION.

Of Death.

Preparation.

1. PLACE yourself in the Presence of God. 2. Ask His Grace. 3. Suppose yourself to be

on your deathbed, in the last extremity, without the smallest hope of recovery.

Considerations.

1. Consider the uncertainty as to the day of your death. One day your soul will quit this

body—will it be in summer or winter? in town or country? by day or by night? will it be

suddenly or with warning? will it be owing to sickness or an accident? will you have time

to make your last confession or not? will your confessor or spiritual father be at hand or

will he not? Alas, of all these things we know absolutely nothing: all that we do know is that

die we shall, and for the most part sooner than we expect.

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2. Consider that then the world is at end as far as you are concerned, there will be no

more of it for you, it will be altogether overthrown for you, since all pleasures, vanities,

worldly joys, empty delights will be as a mere fantastic vision to you. Woe is me, for what

mere trifles and unrealities I have ventured to offend my God? Then you will see that what

we preferred to Him was nought. But, on the other hand, all devotion and good works will

then seem so precious and so sweet:—Why did I not tread that pleasant path? Then what

you thought to be little sins will look like huge mountains, and your devotion will seem but

a very little thing.

3. Consider the universal farewell which your soul will take of this world. It will say

farewell to riches, pleasures, and idle companions; to amusements and pastimes, to friends

and neighbours, to husband, wife and child, in short to all creation. And lastly it will say

farewell to its own body, which it will leave pale and cold, to become repulsive in decay.

4. Consider how the survivors will hasten to put that body away, and hide it beneath

the earth—and then the world will scarce give you another thought, or remember you, any

more than you have done to those already gone. “God rest his soul!” men will say, and that

is all. O death, how pitiless, how hard thou art!

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5. Consider that when it quits the body the soul must go at once to the right hand or

the left. To which will your soul go? what side will it take? none other, be sure, than that to

which it had voluntarily drawn while yet in this world.

Affections and Resolutions.

1. Pray to God, and throw yourself into His Arms. O Lord, be Thou my stay in that day

of anguish! May that hour be blessed and favourable to me, if all the rest of my life be full

of sadness and trial.

2. Despise the world. Forasmuch as I know not the hour in which I must quit the world,

I will not grow fond of it. O dear friends, beloved ones of my heart, be content that I cleave

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to you only with a holy friendship which may last for ever; why should I cling to you with

a tie which must needs be broken?

I will prepare for the hour of death and take every precaution for its peaceful arrival; I

will thoroughly examine into the state of my conscience, and put in order whatever is

wanting.

Conclusion.

Thank God for inspiring you with these resolutions: offer them to His Majesty: intreat

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Him anew to grant you a happy death by the Merits of His Dear Son’s Death. Ask the

prayers of the Blessed Virgin and the Saints. OUR FATHER, etc.

Gather a bouquet of myrrh.

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CHAPTER XIV. SIXTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XIV. SIXTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XIV. SIXTH MEDITATION.

On Judgment.

Preparation.

1. PLACE yourself in the Presence of God. 2. Intreat Him to inspire you.

Considerations.

1. When the time comes which God has appointed for the end of this world, and after

many terrible signs and warnings, which will overwhelm men with fear,—the whole earth

will be destroyed, and nothing then left.

2. Afterwards, all men, save those already risen, shall rise from the dead, and at the voice

of the Archangel appear in the valley of Jehoshaphat. But alas, with what divers aspects! for

some will be glorious and shining, others horrible and ghastly.

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3. Consider the majesty with which the Sovereign Judge will appear surrounded by all

His Saints and Angels; His Cross, the Sign of Grace to the good and of terror to the evil,

shining brighter than the sun.

4. This Sovereign Judge will with His awful word, instantly fulfilled, separate the evil

and the good, setting the one on His Right Hand, the other on His Left—an eternal separation,

for they will never meet again.

5. This separation made, the books of conscience will be opened, and all men will behold

the malice of the wicked, and how they have contemned God; as also the penitence of the

good, and the results of the grace they received. Nothing will be hid. O my God, what con-

fusion to the one, what rejoicing to the other! Consider the final sentence of the wicked.

“Depart from Me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels.”

Dwell upon these awful words. “Go,” He says—for ever discarding these wretched sinners,

banishing them for ever from His Presence. He calls them “cursed:” O my soul, what a curse:

a curse involving all other maledictions, all possible evil, an irrevocable curse, including all

time and eternity; condemning them to everlasting fire. Think what that eternity of suffering

implies.

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6. Then consider the sentence of the good. “Come,” the Judge says—O blessed loving

word with which God draws us to Himself and receives us in His Bosom. “Blessed of My

Father”—O blessing above all blessings! “inherit the Kingdom prepared for you from the

beginning of the world.” O my God, and that Kingdom will know no end!

Affections and Resolutions.

1. Tremble, my soul, at the thought. O God, who will be my stay in that hour when the

pillars of the earth are shaken?

2. Abhor your sins, which alone can cause you to be lost when that fearful day comes.

Surely I will judge myself now, that I be not judged;—I will examine my conscience, accuse,

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condemn, punish myself, that the Judge may not condemn me then. I will confess my faults,

and follow the counsels given me.

Conclusion.

Thank God for having given you means of safety in that terrible Day, and time for re-

pentance. Offer Him your heart, and ask for grace to use it well. OUR FATHER, etc.

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CHAPTER XV. SEVENTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XV. SEVENTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XV. SEVENTH MEDITATION.

Of Hell.

Preparation.

1. PLACE yourself in God’s Presence.2. Humble yourself, and ask His Aid.3. Picture to

yourself a dark city, reeking with the flames of sulphur and brimstone, inhabited by citizens

who cannot get forth.

Considerations.

1. Even so the lost are plunged in their infernal abyss;—suffering indescribable torture

in every sense and every member; and that because having used their members and senses

for sin, it is just that through them they should suffer now. Those eyes which delighted in

impure vicious sights, now behold devils; the ears which took pleasure in unholy words,

now are deafened with yells of despair;—and so on with the other senses. 2. Beyond all these

sufferings, there is one greater still, the privation and pain of loss of God’s Glory, which is

for ever denied to their vision. If Absalom cared not to be released from exile, if he might

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not see his father’s face, 13 how much sorer will it be to be deprived for ever of the blessed

vision of God?

3. Consider how insupportable the pains of Hell will be by reason of their eternal dura-

tion. If the irritating bite of an insect, or the restlessness of fever, makes an ordinary night

seem so long and tedious, how terrible will the endless night of eternity be, where nought

will be found save despair, blasphemy and fury!

Affections and Resolutions.

1. Read the Prophet’s descriptions of the terrors of the Lord, 14 and ask your soul

whether it can face them—whether you can bear to lose your God for ever?

2. Confess that you have repeatedly deserved to do so. Resolve henceforth to act differ-

ently, and to rescue yourself from this abyss. Resolve on distinct definite acts by which you

may avoid sin, and thereby eternal death.

Give thanks, offer yourself, pray.

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2 Sam. xiv. 32.

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CHAPTER XVI. EIGHTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XVI. EIGHTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XVI. EIGHTH MEDITATION.

On Paradise.

Preparation.

1. PLACE yourself in the Presence of God.2. Invoke His Aid.

Considerations.

1. Represent to yourself a lovely calm night, when the heavens are bright with innumer-

able stars: add to the beauty of such a night the utmost beauty of a glorious summer’s

day,—the sun’s brightness not hindering the clear shining of moon or stars, and then be

sure that it all falls immeasurably short of the glory of Paradise. O bright and blessed country,

O sweet and precious place!

2. Consider the beauty and perfection of the countless inhabitants of that blessed

country;—the millions and millions of angels, Cherubim and Seraphim; the glorious company

of Apostles, martyrs, confessors, virgins, and saints. O blessed company, any one single

member of which surpasses all the glory of this world, what will it be to behold them all, to

sing with them the sweet Song of the Lamb? They rejoice with a perpetual joy, they share

a bliss unspeakable, and unchangeable delights.

3. Consider how they enjoy the Presence of God, Who fills them with the richness of

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His Vision, which is a perfect ocean of delight; the joy of being for ever united to their Head.

They are like happy birds, hovering and singing for ever within the atmosphere of divinity,

which fills them with inconceivable pleasures. There each one vies without jealousy in singing

the praises of the Creator. “Blessed art Thou for ever, O Dear and Precious Lord and Re-

deemer, Who dost so freely give us of Thine Own Glory,” they cry; and He in His turn pours

out His ceaseless Blessing on His Saints. “Blessed are ye,—Mine own for ever, who have

served Me faithfully, and with a good courage.”

Affections and Resolutions.

1. Admire and rejoice in the Heavenly Country; the glorious and blessed New Jerusalem.

2. Reprove the coldness of your own heart for having hitherto so little sought after that

glorious abode. Why have I so long lingered indifferent to the eternal happiness set before

me? Woe is me that, for the sake of poor savourless earthly things, I have so often forgotten

those heavenly delights. How could I neglect such real treasures for mere vain and contempt-

ible earthly matters?

3. Aspire earnestly after that blessed abode. Forasmuch, O Dear Lord, as Thou hast been

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pleased to turn my feet into Thy ways, never will I again look back. Go forth, my soul, towards

thy promised rest, journey unweariedly to that hoped-for land; wherefore shouldest thou

tarry in Egypt?

4. Resolve to give up such and such things, which hinder you on the way, and to do such

others as will help you thitherwards.

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Give thanks, offer, pray.

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CHAPTER XVII. NINTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XVII. NINTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XVII. NINTH MEDITATION.

On the Choice upon to you between Heaven and Hell.

Preparation.

1. PLACE yourself in the Presence of God.2. Humble yourself before Him, and ask His

inspiration.

Considerations.

1. Imagine yourself alone with your good angel in an open plain, as was Tobit on his

way to Rages. Suppose the Angel to set before you Paradise, full of delights and joys; and

on the other hand Hell, with all its torments. Contemplate both, kneeling in imagination

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before your guardian Angel. Consider that you are most truly standing between Hell and

Paradise, and that both the one and the other are open to receive you, according to your

own choice.

2. Consider that the choice you make in this life will last for ever in the next.

3. Consider too, that while both are open to receive you according to your choice, yet

God, Who is prepared to give the one by reason of His Justice, the other by reason of His

Mercy, all the while desires unspeakably that you should select Paradise; and your good

Angel is urging you with all his might to do so, offering you countless graces on God’s part,

countless helps to attain to it.

4. Consider that Jesus Christ, enthroned in Heaven, looks down upon you in loving in-

vitation: “O beloved one, come unto Me, and joy for ever in the eternal blessedness of My

Love!” Behold His mother yearning over you with maternal tenderness—” Courage, my

child, do not despise the Goodness of my Son, or my earnest prayers for thy salvation.” Behold

the Saints, who have left you their example, the millions of holy souls who long after you,

desiring earnestly that you may one day be for ever joined to them in their song of praise,

urging upon you that the road to Heaven is not so hard to find as the world would have you

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think. “Press on boldly, dear friend,”—they cry. “Whoso will ponder well the path by which

we came hither, will discover that we attained to these present delights by sweeter joys than

any this world can give.”

The Choice.

1. O Hell, I abhor thee now and for ever; I abhor thy griefs and torments, thine endless

misery, the unceasing blasphemies and maledictions which thou pourest out upon my

God;—and turning to thee, O blessed Paradise, eternal glory, unfading happiness, I choose

thee for ever as my abode, thy glorious mansions, thy precious and abiding tabernacles. O

my God, I bless Thy Mercy which gives me the power to choose—O Jesus, Saviour, I accept

Thine Eternal Love, and praise Thee for the promise Thou hast given me of a place prepared

for me in that blessed New Jerusalem, where I shall love and bless Thee for ever.

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2. Dwell lovingly upon the example set before you by the Blessed Virgin and the Saints,

and strive to follow where they point you. Give yourself up to your guardian Angel, that

he may be your guide, and gird up your courage anew to make this choice.

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CHAPTER XVIII. TENTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XVIII. TENTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XVIII. TENTH MEDITATION.

How the Soul chooses the Devout Life.

Preparation.

1. PLACE yourself in the Presence of God.2. Humble yourself before Him, and ask His

Aid.

Considerations.

1. Once more imagine yourself in an open plain, alone with your guardian Angel, and

represent to yourself on the left hand the Devil sitting on a high and mighty throne, surroun-

ded by a vast troop of worldly men, who bow bareheaded before him, doing homage to him

by the various sins they commit. Study the countenances of the miserable courtiers of that

most abominable king:—some raging with fury, envy and passion, some murderous in their

hatred;—others pale and haggard in their craving after wealth, or madly pursuing every

vain and profitless pleasure;—others sunk and lost in vile, impure affections. See how all

alike are hateful, restless, wild: see how they despise one another, and only pretend to an

unreal self-seeking love. Such is the miserable reign of the abhorred Tyrant.

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2. On the other hand, behold Jesus Christ Crucified, calling these unhappy wretches to

come to Him, and interceding for them with all the Love of His Precious Heart. Behold the

company of devout souls and their guardian Angels, contemplate the beauty of this religious

Kingdom. What lovelier than the troop of virgin souls, men and women, pure as

lilies:—widows in their holy desolation and humility; husbands and wives living in all tender

love and mutual cherishing. See how such pious souls know how to combine their exterior

and interior duties;—to love the earthly spouse without diminishing their devotion to the

Heavenly Bridegroom. Look around—one and all you will see them with loving, holy, gentle

countenances listening to the Voice of their Lord, all seeking to enthrone Him more and

more within their hearts.

They rejoice, but it is with a peaceful, loving, sober joy; they love, but their love is alto-

gether holy and pure. Such among these devout ones as have sorrows to bear, are not dis-

heartened thereby, and do not grieve overmuch, for their Saviour’s Eye is upon them to

comfort them, and they all seek Him only.

3. Surely you have altogether renounced Satan with his weary miserable troop, by the

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good resolutions you have made;—but nevertheless you have not yet wholly attained to the

King Jesus, or altogether joined His blessed company of devout ones:—you have hovered

betwixt the two.

4. The Blessed Virgin, S. Joseph, S. Louis, S. Monica, and hundreds of thousands more

who were once like you, living in the world, call upon you and encourage you.

5. The Crucified King Himself calls you by your own name: “Come, O my beloved,

come, and let Me crown thee!”

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The Choice.

1. O world, O vile company, never will I enlist beneath thy banner; for ever I have for-

saken thy flatteries and deceptions. O proud king, monarch of evil, infernal spirit, I renounce

thee and all thy hollow pomp, I detest thee and all thy works.

2. And turning to Thee, O Sweet Jesus, King of blessedness and of eternal glory, I cleave

to Thee with all the powers of my soul, I adore Thee with all my heart, I choose Thee now

and ever for my King, and with inviolable fidelity I would offer my irrevocable service, and

submit myself to Thy holy laws and ordinances.

3. O Blessed Virgin Mother of God, you shall be my example, I will follow you with all

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reverence and respect.

O my good Angel, bring me to this heavenly company, leave me not until I have reached

them, with whom I will sing for ever, in testimony of my choice, “Glory be to Jesus, my

Lord!”

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CHAPTER XIX. How to make a General Confession.

CHAPTER XIX. How to make a General Confession.

CHAPTER XIX. How to make a General Confession.

SUCH meditations as these, my daughter, will help you, and having made them, go on

bravely in the spirit of humility to make your general confession;—but I entreat you, be not

troubled by any sort of fearfulness. The scorpion who stings us is venomous, but when his

oil has been distilled, it is the best remedy for his bite;—even so sin is shameful when we

commit it, but when reduced to repentance and confession, it becomes salutary and honour-

able. Contrition and confession are in themselves so lovely and sweet-savoured, that they

efface the ugliness and disperse the ill savour of sin. Simon the leper called Magdalene a

sinner, 15 but our Lord turned the discourse to the perfume of her ointment and the greatness

of her love. If we are really humble, my daughter, our sins will be infinitely displeasing to

us, because they offend God;—but it will be welcome and sweet to accuse ourselves thereof

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because in so doing we honour God; and there is always somewhat soothing in fully telling

the physician all details of our pain.

When you come to your spiritual father, imagine yourself to be on Mount Calvary, at

the Feet of the Crucified Saviour, Whose Precious Blood is dropping freely to cleanse you

from all your sin. Though it is not his actual Blood, yet it is the merit of that outpoured

Blood which is sprinkled over His penitents as they kneel in Confession. Be sure then that

you open your heart fully, and put away your sins by confessing them, for in proportion as

they are put out, so will the Precious Merits of the Passion of Christ come in and fill you

with blessings.

Tell everything simply and with straightforwardness, and thoroughly satisfy your con-

science in doing so. Then listen to the admonitions and counsels of God’s Minister, saying

in your heart, “Speak, Lord, for Thy servant heareth.” It is truly God to Whom you hearken,

forasmuch as He has said to His representatives, “Whoso heareth you, heareth Me.” 16 Then

take the following protest, as a summary of your contrition, having carefully studied and

meditated upon it beforehand: read it through with as earnest an intention as you can make.

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15

S. Mark xiv. and S. Luke vii. 39.

16

S. Luke x. 16.

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CHAPTER XX. A hearty Protest made with the object of confirming the Soul's resolution to serve God, as a conclusion to its acts of Penitence.

CHAPTER XX. A hearty Protest made with the object of confirming

the Soul’s resolution to serve God, as a conclusion to its acts of

Penitence.

I, THE undersigned,—in the Presence of God and of all the company of Heaven, having

considered the Infinite Mercy of His Heavenly Goodness towards me, a most miserable,

unworthy creature, whom He has created, preserved, sustained, delivered from so many

dangers, and filled with so many blessings: having above all considered the incomprehensible

mercy and loving-kindness with which this most Good God has borne with me in my sin-

fulness, leading me so tenderly to repentance, and waiting so patiently for me till

this—(present) year of my life, notwithstanding all my ingratitude, disloyalty and faithless-

ness, by which I have delayed turning to Him, and despising His Grace, have offended Him

anew: and further, remembering that in my Baptism I was solemnly and happily dedicated

to God as His child, and that in defiance of the profession then made in my name, I have

so often miserably profaned my gifts, turning them against God’s Divine Majesty:—I, now

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coming to myself prostrate in heart and soul before the Throne of His Justice, acknowledge

and confess that I am duly accused and convicted of treason against His Majesty, and guilty

of the Death and Passion of Jesus Christ, by reason of the sins I have committed, for which

He died, bearing the reproach of the Cross; so that I deserve nothing else save eternal dam-

nation.

But turning to the Throne of Infinite Mercy of this Eternal God, detesting the sins of

my past life with all my heart and all my strength, I humbly desire and ask grace, pardon,

and mercy, with entire absolution from my sin, in virtue of the Death and Passion of that

same Lord and Redeemer, on Whom I lean as the only ground of my hope. I renew the

sacred promise of faithfulness to God made in my name at my Baptism; renouncing the

devil, the world, and the flesh, abhorring their accursed suggestions, vanities and lusts, now

and for all eternity. And turning to a Loving and Pitiful God, I desire, intend, and deliberately

resolve to serve and love Him now and eternally, devoting my mind and all its faculties,

my soul and all its powers, my heart and all its affections, my body and all its senses, to His

Will. I resolve never to misuse any part of my being by opposing His Divine Will and Sov-

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ereign Majesty, to which I wholly immolate myself in intention, vowing ever to be His loyal,

obedient and faithful servant without any change or recall. But if unhappily, through the

promptings of the enemy, or human infirmity, I should in anywise fail in this my resolution

and dedication, I do most earnestly resolve by the grace of the Holy Spirit to rise up again

so soon as I shall perceive my fall, and turn anew, without any delay, to seek His Divine

Mercy. This is my firm will and intention,—my inviolable, irrevocable resolution, which I

make and confirm without any reserve, in the Holy Presence of God, in the sight of the

Church triumphant, and before the Church militant, which is my mother, who accepts this

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my declaration, in the person of him who, as her representative, hears me make it. Be pleased,

O Eternal, All-Powerful, and All-Loving God,—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, to confirm me

in this my resolution, and accept my hearty and willing offering. And inasmuch as Thou

hast been pleased to inspire me with the will to make it, give me also the needful strength

and grace to keep it. O God, Thou art my God, the God of my heart, my soul, and spirit,

and as such I acknowledge and adore Thee, now and for all eternity. Glory be to Jesus. Amen.

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CHAPTER XXI. Conclusion of this First Purification.

CHAPTER XXI. Conclusion of this First Purification.

CHAPTER XXI. Conclusion of this First Purification.

HAVING made this resolution, wait attentively, and open the ears of your heart, that

you may in spirit hear the absolution which the Lord of your soul, sitting on the throne of

His Mercy, will speak in Heaven before the Saints and Angels when His Priest absolves you

here below in His Name. Be sure that all that company of blessed ones rejoice in your joy,

and sing a song of untold gladness, embracing you and accepting you as cleansed and

sanctified. Of a truth, my daughter, this is a marvellous deed, and a most blessed bargain

for you, inasmuch as giving yourself to His Divine Majesty, you gain Him, and save yourself

for eternal life. No more remains to do, save to take the pen and heartily sign your protest,

and then hasten to the Altar, where God on His side will sign and seal your absolution, and

His promise of Paradise, giving Himself to you in His Sacrament, as a sacred seal placed

upon your renewed heart. And thus, dear child, your soul will be cleansed from sin, and

from all its affections. But forasmuch as these affections are easily rekindled, thanks to our

infirmity and concupiscence (which maybe mortified, but which can never be altogether

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extinguished while we live), I will give you certain counsels by the practice of which you

may henceforth avoid mortal sin, and the affections pertaining thereto. And as these counsels

will also help you to attain a yet more perfect purification, before giving them, I would say

somewhat concerning that absolute perfection to which I seek to lead you.

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CHAPTER XXII. The Necessity of Purging away all tendency to Venial Sins.…

CHAPTER XXII. The Necessity of Purging away all tendency to Venial Sins.

CHAPTER XXII. The Necessity of Purging away all tendency to

Venial Sins.

AS daylight waxes, we, gazing into a mirror, see more plainly the soils and stains upon

our face; and even so as the interior light of the Holy Spirit enlightens our conscience, we

see more distinctly the sins, inclinations and imperfections which hinder our progress towards

real devotion. And the selfsame light which shows us these blots and stains, kindles in us

the desire to be cleansed and purged therefrom. You will find then, my child, that besides

the mortal sins and their affections from which your soul has already been purged, you are

beset by sundry inclinations and tendencies to venial sin; mind, I do not say you will find

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venial sins, but the inclination and tendency to them. Now, one is quite different from the

other. We can never be altogether free from venial sin,—at least not until after a very long

persistence in this purity; but we can be without any affection for venial sin. It is altogether

one thing to have said something unimportant not strictly true, out of carelessness or liveli-

ness, and quite a different matter to take pleasure in lying, and in the habitual practice

thereof. But I tell you that you must purify your soul from all inclination to venial sin;—that

is to say, you must not voluntarily retain any deliberate intention of permitting yourself to

commit any venial sin whatever. It would be most unworthy consciously to admit anything

so displeasing to God, as the will to offend Him in anywise. Venial sin, however small, is

displeasing to God, although it be not so displeasing as the greater sins which involve

eternal condemnation; and if venial sin is displeasing to Him, any clinging which we tolerate

to mortal sin is nothing less than a resolution to offend His Divine Majesty. Is it really possible

that a rightly disposed soul can not only offend God, but take pleasure therein?

These inclinations, my daughter, are in direct opposition to devotion, as inclinations

to mortal sin are to love:—they weaken the mental power, hinder Divine consolations, and

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open the door to temptations;—and although they may not destroy the soul, at least they

bring on very serious disease. “Dead flies cause the ointment to send forth a stinking savour,”

says the Wise Man. 17 He means that the flies which settle upon and taste of the ointment

only damage it temporarily, leaving the mass intact, but if they fall into it, and die there,

they spoil and corrupt it. Even so venial sins which pass over a devout soul without being

harboured, do not permanently injure it, but if such sins are fostered and cherished, they

destroy the sweet savour of that soul—that is to say, its devotion. The spider cannot kill

bees, but it can spoil their honey, and so encumber their combs with its webs in course of

time, as to hinder the bees materially. Just so, though venial sins may not lose the soul, they

will spoil its devotion, and so cumber its faculties with bad habits and evil inclinations, as

to deprive it of all that cheerful readiness which is the very essence of true devotion; that is

17

Eccles. x. 1.

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to say, if they are harboured in the conscience by delight taken therein. A trifling inaccuracy,

a little hastiness in word or action, some small excess in mirth, in dress, in gaiety, may not

be very important, if these are forthwith heeded and swept out as spiritual cobwebs;—but

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if they are permitted to linger in the heart, or, worse still, if we take pleasure in them and

indulge them, our honey will soon be spoilt, and the hive of our conscience will be cumbered

and damaged. But I ask again, how can a generous heart take delight in anything it knows

to be displeasing to its God, or wish to do what offends Him?

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CHAPTER XXIII. It is needful to put away all Inclination for Useless and…

CHAPTER XXIII. It is needful to put away all Inclination for Useless and Dangerous Things.

CHAPTER XXIII. It is needful to put away all Inclination for Useless

and Dangerous Things.

SPORTS, balls, plays, festivities, pomps, are not in themselves evil, but rather indifferent

matters, capable of being used for good or ill; but nevertheless they are dangerous, and it is

still more dangerous to take great delight in them. Therefore, my daughter, I say that although

it is lawful to amuse yourself, to dance, dress, feast, and see seemly plays,—at the same time,

if you are much addicted to these things, they will hinder your devotion, and become ex-

tremely hurtful and dangerous to you. The harm lies, not in doing them, but in the degree

to which you care for them. It is a pity to sow the seed of vain and foolish tastes in the soil

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of your heart, taking up the place of better things, and hindering the soul from cultivating

good dispositions. It was thus that the Nazarites of old abstained not merely from all intox-

icating liquors, but from grapes fresh or dried, and from vinegar, not because these were

intoxicating, but because they might excite the desire for fermented liquors. Just so, while

I do not forbid the use of these dangerous pleasures, I say that you cannot take an excessive

delight in them without their telling upon your devotion. When the stag has waxed fat he

hides himself amid the thicket, conscious that his fleetness is impaired should he be in need

to fly: and so the human heart which is cumbered with useless, superfluous, dangerous

clingings becomes incapacitated for that earnest following after God which is the true life

of devotion. No one blames children for running after butterflies, because they are children,

but is it not ridiculous and pitiful to see full-grown men eager about such worthless trifles

as the worldly amusements before named, which are likely to throw them off their balance

and disturb their spiritual life? Therefore, dear child, I would have you cleanse your heart

from all such tastes, remembering that while the acts themselves are not necessarily incom-

patible with a devout life, all delight in them must be harmful.

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CHAPTER XXIV. All Evil Inclinations must be purged away.

CHAPTER XXIV. All Evil Inclinations must be purged away.

CHAPTER XXIV. All Evil Inclinations must be purged away.

FURTHERMORE, my daughter, we have certain natural inclinations, which are not

strictly speaking either mortal or venial sins, but rather imperfections; and the acts in which

they take shape, failings and deficiencies. Thus S. Jerome says that S. Paula had so strong a

tendency to excessive sorrow, that when she lost her husband and children she nearly died

of grief: that was not a sin, but an imperfection, since it did not depend upon her wish and

will. Some people are naturally easy, some oppositions; some are indisposed to accept other

men’s opinions, some naturally disposed to be cross, some to be affectionate—in short, there

is hardly any one in whom some such imperfections do not exist. Now, although they be

natural and instinctive in each person, they may be remedied and corrected, or even eradic-

ated, by cultivating the reverse disposition. And this, my child, must be done. Gardeners

have found how to make the bitter almond tree bear sweet fruit, by grafting the juice of the

latter upon it, why should we not purge out our perverse dispositions and infuse such as

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are good? There is no disposition so good but it may be made bad by dint of vicious habits,

and neither is there any natural disposition so perverse but that it may be conquered and

overcome by God’s Grace primarily, and then by our earnest diligent endeavour. I shall

therefore now proceed to give you counsels and suggest practices by which you may purify

your soul from all dangerous affections and imperfections, and from all tendencies to venial

sin, thereby strengthening yourself more and more against mortal sin. May God give you

grace to use them.

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PART II. CONTAINING SUNDRY COUNSELS AS TO UPLIFTING THE SOUL TO GOD

IN PRAYER…

PART II. CONTAINING SUNDRY COUNSELS AS TO UPLIFTING THE SOUL TO GOD IN PRAYER AND THE USE OF THE SACRAMENTS.

PART II. CONTAINING SUNDRY COUNSELS AS TO

UPLIFTING THE SOUL TO GOD IN PRAYER AND

THE USE OF THE SACRAMENTS.

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CHAPTER I. The Necessity of Prayer.

CHAPTER I. The Necessity of Prayer.

CHAPTER I. The Necessity of Prayer.

1. PRAYER opens the understanding to the brightness of Divine Light, and the will to

the warmth of Heavenly Love—nothing can so effectually purify the mind from its many

ignorances, or the will from its perverse affections. It is as a healing water which causes the

roots of our good desires to send forth fresh shoots, which washes away the soul’s imperfec-

tions, and allays the thirst of passion.

2. But especially I commend earnest mental prayer to you, more particularly such as

bears upon the Life and Passion of our Lord. If you contemplate Him frequently in medita-

tion, your whole soul will be filled with Him, you will grow in His Likeness, and your actions

will be moulded on His. He is the Light of the world; therefore in Him, by Him, and for

Him we shall be enlightened and illuminated; He is the Tree of Life, beneath the shadow of

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which we must find rest;—He is the Living Fountain of Jacob’s well, wherein we may wash

away every stain. Children learn to speak by hearing their mother talk, and stammering

forth their childish sounds in imitation; and so if we cleave to the Savior in meditation,

listening to His words, watching His actions and intentions, we shall learn in time, through

His Grace, to speak, act and will like Himself. Believe me, my daughter, there is no way to

God save through this door. Just as the glass of a mirror would give no reflection save for

the metal behind it, so neither could we here below contemplate the Godhead, were it not

united to the Sacred Humanity of our Saviour, Whose Life and Death are the best, sweetest

and most profitable subjects that we can possibly select for meditation. It is not without

meaning that the Saviour calls Himself the Bread come down from Heaven;—just as we eat

bread with all manner of other food, so we need to meditate and feed upon our Dear Lord

in every prayer and action. His Life has been meditated and written about by various authors.

I should specially commend to you the writings of S. Bonaventura, Bellintani, Bruno, Capilla,

Grenada and Da Ponte. 1

3. Give an hour every day to meditation before dinner;—if you can, let it be early in the

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morning, when your mind will be less cumbered, and fresh after the night’s rest. Do not

spend more than an hour thus, unless specially advised to do so by your spiritual father.

4. If you can make your meditation quietly in church, it will be well, and no one, father

or mother, husband or wife, can object to an hour spent there, and very probably you could

not secure a time so free from interruption at home.

5. Begin all prayer, whether mental or vocal, by an act of the Presence of God. If you

observe this rule strictly, you will soon see how useful it is.

1

S. Bonaventura, Louis of Grenada, and Da Ponte’s works are still available and are admirable helps to

meditation. Among more modern works might be suggested Isaac Williams on the Passion, Avrillon’s Lent

Guide, &c. &c.

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6. It may help you to say the Creed, Lord’s Prayer, etc., in Latin, but you should also

study them diligently in your own language, so as thoroughly to gather up the meaning of

these holy words, which must be used fixing your thoughts steadily on their purport, not

striving to say many words so much as seeking to say a few with your whole heart. One Our

Father said devoutly is worth more than many prayers hurried over.

7. The Rosary is a useful devotion when rightly used, and there are various little books

to teach this. It is well, too, to say pious Litanies, and the other vocal prayers appointed for

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the Hours and found in Manuals of devotion,—but if you have a gift for mental prayer, let

that always take the chief place, so that if, having made that, you are hindered by business

or any other cause from saying your wonted vocal prayers, do not be disturbed, but rest

satisfied with saying the Lord’s Prayer, the Angelic Salutation, and the Creed after your

meditation.

8. If, while saying vocal prayers, your heart feels drawn to mental prayer, do not resist

it, but calmly let your mind fall into that channel, without troubling because you have not

finished your appointed vocal prayers. The mental prayer you have substituted for them is

more acceptable to God, and more profitable to your soul. I should make an exception of

the Church’s Offices, if you are bound to say those by your vocation—in such a case these

are your duty.

9. If it should happen that your morning goes by without the usual meditation, either

owing to a pressure of business, or from any other cause, (which interruptions you should

try to prevent as far as possible,) try to repair the loss in the afternoon, but not immediately

after a meal, or you will perhaps be drowsy, which is bad both for your meditation and your

health. But if you are unable all day to make up for the omission, you must remedy it as far

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as may be by ejaculatory prayer, and by reading some spiritual book, together with an act

of penitence for the neglect, together with a stedfast resolution to do better the next day.

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CHAPTER II. A short Method of Meditation. And first, the Presence of God,…

CHAPTER II. A short Method of Meditation. And first, the Presence of God, the First Point of Preparation.

CHAPTER II. A short Method of Meditation. And first, the Presence

of God, the First Point of Preparation.

IT may be, my daughter, that you do not know how to practise mental prayer, for un-

fortunately it is a thing much neglected now-adays. I will therefore give you a short and easy

method for using it, until such time as you may read sundry books written on the subject,

and above all till practice teaches you how to use it more perfectly. And first of all, the Pre-

paration, which consists of two points: first, placing yourself in the Presence of God; and

second, asking His Aid. And in order to place your self in the Presence of God, I will suggest

four chief considerations which you can use at first.

First, a lively earnest realisation that His Presence is universal; that is to say, that He is

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everywhere, and in all, and that there is no place, nothing in the world, devoid of His Most

Holy Presence, so that, even as birds on the wing meet the air continually, we, let us go

where we will, meet with that Presence always and everywhere. It is a truth which all are

ready to grant, but all are not equally alive to its importance. A blind man when in the

presence of his prince will preserve a reverential demeanour if told that the king is there,

although unable to see him; but practically, what men do not see they easily forget, and so

readily lapse into carelessness and irreverence. Just so, my child, we do not see our God,

and although faith warns us that He is present, not beholding Him with our mortal eyes,

we are too apt to forget Him, and act as though He were afar: for, while knowing perfectly

that He is everywhere, if we do not think about it, it is much as though we knew it not. And

therefore, before beginning to pray, it is needful always to rouse the soul to a stedfast remem-

brance and thought of the Presence of God. This is what David meant when he exclaimed,

“If I climb up to Heaven, Thou art there, and if I go down to hell, Thou art there also!” 2

And in like manner Jacob, who, beholding the ladder which went up to Heaven, cried out,

“Surely the Lord is in this place and I knew it not” 3 meaning thereby that he had not thought

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of it; for assuredly he could not fail to know that God was everywhere and in all things.

Therefore, when you make ready to pray, you must say with your whole heart, “God is indeed

here.”

The second way of placing yourself in this Sacred Presence is to call to mind that God

is not only present in the place where you are, but that He is very specially present in your

heart and mind, which He kindles and inspires with His Holy Presence, abiding there as

Heart of your heart, Spirit of your spirit. Just as the soul animates the whole body, and every

member thereof, but abides especially in the heart, so God, while present everywhere, yet

makes His special abode with our spirit. Therefore David calls Him “the Strength of my

2

Ps. cxxxix. 7.

3

Gen. xxviii. 16.

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heart;” 4 and S. Paul said that in Him “we live and move and have our being.” 5 Dwell upon

this thought until you have kindled a great reverence within your heart for God Who is so

closely present to you.

The third way is to dwell upon the thought of our Lord, Who in His Ascended Humanity

looks down upon all men, but most particularly on all Christians, because they are His

children; above all, on those who pray, over whose doings He keeps watch. Nor is this any

mere imagination, it is very truth, and although we see Him not, He is looking down upon

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us. It was given to S. Stephen in the hour of martyrdom thus to behold Him, and we may

well say with the Bride of the Canticles, “He looketh forth at the windows, shewing Himself

through the lattice.” 6

The fourth way is simply to exercise your ordinary imagination, picturing the Saviour

to yourself in His Sacred Humanity as if He were beside you just as we are wont to think of

our friends, and fancy that we see or hear them at our side. But when the Blessed Sacrament

of the Altar is there, then this Presence is no longer imaginary, but most real; and the sacred

species are but as a veil from behind which the Present Saviour beholds and considers us,

although we cannot see Him as He is.

Make use of one or other of these methods for placing yourself in the Presence of God

before you begin to pray;—do not try to use them all at once, but take one at a time, and

that briefly and simply.

4

Ps. lxxiii. 26.

5

Acts xvii. 28.

6

Cant. ii. 9.

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CHAPTER III. Invocation, the Second Point of Preparation.

CHAPTER III. Invocation, the Second Point of Preparation.

CHAPTER III. Invocation, the Second Point of Preparation.

INVOCATION is made as follows: your soul, having realised God’s Presence, will

prostrate itself with the utmost reverence, acknowledging its unworthiness to abide before

His Sovereign Majesty; and yet knowing that He of His Goodness would have you come to

Him, you must ask of Him grace to serve and worship Him in this your meditation. You

may use some such brief and earnest words as those of David: “Cast me not away from Thy

Presence, and take not Thy Holy Spirit from me.” 7 “Shew me Thy Ways, O Lord, and teach

me Thy paths.” 8 “Give me understanding, and I shall keep Thy Law: yea, I shall keep it with

my whole heart.” 9 “I am Thy servant, O grant me understanding.” 10 Dwell too upon the

thought of your guardian Angel, and of the Saints connected with the special mystery you

are considering, as the Blessed Virgin, S. John, the Magdalene, the good thief, etc., if you

are meditating in the Passion, so that you may share in their devout feelings and inten-

tion,—and in the same way with other subjects.

7

Ps. li. 11.

8

Ps. xxv. 4.

9

Ps. cxix. 34.

10

Ps. cxix. 125.

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CHAPTER IV. The Third Point of Preparation, representing the Mystery to…

CHAPTER IV. The Third Point of Preparation, representing the Mystery to be meditated to Your Imagination.

CHAPTER IV. The Third Point of Preparation, representing the

Mystery to be meditated to Your Imagination.

FOLLOWING upon these two ordinary points, there ere is a third, which is not necessary

to all meditation, called by some the local representation, and by others the interior picture.

It is simply kindling a vivid picture of the mystery to be meditated within your imagination,

even as though you were actually beholding it. For instance, if you wish to meditate upon

our Lord on His Cross, you will place yourself in imagination on Mount Calvary, as though

you saw and heard all that occurred there during the Passion; or you can imagine to yourself

all that the Evangelists describe as taking place where you are. In the same way, when you

meditate upon death, bring the circumstances that will attend your own vividly to mind,

and so of hell, or any subjects which involve visible, tangible circumstances. When it is a

question of such mysteries as God’s Greatness, His Attributes, the end of our creation, or

other invisible things, you cannot make this use of your imagination. At most you may

employ certain comparisons and similitudes, but these are not always opportune, and I

would have you follow a very simple method, and not weary your mind with striving after

new inventions. Still, often this use of the imagination tends to concentrate the mind on the

mystery we wish to meditate, and to prevent our thoughts from wandering hither and

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thither, just as when you shut a bird within a cage, or fasten a hawk by its lures. Some people

will tell you that it is better to confine yourself to mere abstract thought, and a simple

mental and spiritual consideration of these mysteries, but this is too difficult for beginners;

and until God calls you up higher, I would advise you, my daughter, to abide contentedly

in the lowly valley I have pointed out.

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CHAPTER V. Considerations, the Second Part of Meditation.

CHAPTER V. Considerations, the Second Part of Meditation.

CHAPTER V. Considerations, the Second Part of Meditation.

AFTER this exercise of the imagination, we come to that of the understanding: for

meditations, properly so called, are certain considerations by which we raise the affections

to God and heavenly things. Now meditation differs therein from study and ordinary

methods of thought which have not the Love of God or growth in holiness for their object,

but some other end, such as the acquisition of learning or power of argument. So, when

you have, as I said, limited the efforts of your mind within due bounds,—whether by the

imagination, if the subject be material, or by propositions, if it be a spiritual subject,—you

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will begin to form reflections or considerations after the pattern of the meditations I have

already sketched for you. And if your mind finds sufficient matter, light and fruit wherein

to rest in any one consideration, dwell upon it, even as the bee, which hovers over one flower

so long as it affords honey. But if you do not find wherewith to feed your mind, after a certain

reasonable effort, then go on to another consideration,—only be quiet and simple, and do

not be eager or hurried.

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CHAPTER VI. The Third Part of Meditation, Affections and Resolutions.

CHAPTER VI. The Third Part of Meditation, Affections and Resolutions.

CHAPTER VI. The Third Part of Meditation, Affections and

Resolutions.

MEDITATION excites good desires in the will, or sensitive part of the soul,—such as

love of God and of our neighbour, a craving for the glory of Paradise, zeal for the salvation

of others, imitation of our Lord’s Example, compassion, thanksgiving, fear of God’s wrath

and of judgment, hatred of sin, trust in God’s Goodness and Mercy, shame for our past life;

and in all such affections you should pour out your soul as much as possible. If you want

help in this, turn to some simple book of devotions, the Imitation of Christ, the Spiritual

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Combat, or whatever you find most helpful to your individual wants.

But, my daughter, you must not stop short in general affections, without turning them

into special resolutions for your own correction and amendment. For instance, meditating

on Our Dear Lord’s First Word from the Cross, you will no doubt be roused to the desire

of imitating Him in forgiving and loving your enemies. But that is not enough, unless you

bring it to some practical resolution, such as, “I will not be angered any more by the annoying

things said of me by such or such a neighbour, nor by the slights offered me by such an one;

but rather I will do such and such things in order to soften and conciliate them.” In this

way, my daughter, you will soon correct your faults, whereas mere general resolutions would

take but a slow and uncertain effect.

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CHAPTER VII. The Conclusion and Spiritual Bouquet.

CHAPTER VII. The Conclusion and Spiritual Bouquet.

CHAPTER VII. The Conclusion and Spiritual Bouquet.

THE meditation should be concluded by three acts, made with the utmost humility.

First, an act of thanksgiving;—thanking God for the affections and resolutions with which

He has inspired you, and for the Mercy and Goodness He has made known to you in the

mystery you have been meditating. Secondly, an act of oblation, by which you offer your

affections and resolutions to God, in union with His Own Goodness and Mercy, and the

Death and Merits of His Son. The third act is one of petition, in which you ask God to give

you a share in the Merits of His Dear Son, and a blessing on your affections and resolutions,

to the end that you may be able to put them in practice. You will further pray for the Church,

and all her Ministers, your relations, friends, and all others, using the Our Father as the

most comprehensive and necessary of prayers.

Besides all this, I bade you gather a little bouquet of devotion, and what I mean is this.

When walking in a beautiful garden most people are wont to gather a few flowers as they

go, which they keep, and enjoy their scent during the day. So, when the mind explores some

mystery in meditation, it is well to pick out one or more points that have specially arrested

the attention, and are most likely to be helpful to you through the day, and this should be

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done at once before quitting the subject of your meditation.

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CHAPTER VIII. Some Useful Hints as to Meditation.

CHAPTER VIII. Some Useful Hints as to Meditation.

CHAPTER VIII. Some Useful Hints as to Meditation.

ABOVE all things, my daughter, strive when your meditation is ended to retain the

thoughts and resolutions you have made as your earnest practice throughout the day. This

is the real fruit of meditation, without which it is apt to be unprofitable, if not actually

harmful—inasmuch as to dwell upon virtues without practising them lends to puff us up

with unrealities, until we begin to fancy ourselves all that we have meditated upon and re-

solved to be; which is all very well if our resolutions are earnest and substantial, but on the

contrary hollow and dangerous if they are not put in practice. You must then diligently en-

deavour to carry out your resolutions, and seek for all opportunities, great or small. For in-

stance, if your resolution was to win over those who oppose you by gentleness, seek through

the day any occasion of meeting such persons kindly, and if none offers, strive to speak well

of them, and pray for them.

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When you leave off this interior prayer, you must be careful to keep your heart in an

even balance, lest the balm it has received in meditation be scattered. I mean, try to maintain

silence for some brief space, and let your thoughts be transferred gradually from devotion

to business, keeping alive the feelings and affections aroused in meditation as long as possible.

Supposing some one to have received a precious porcelain vessel, filled with a most costly

liquid, which he is going to carry home; how carefully he would go, not looking about, but

watching stedfastly lest he trip or stumble, or lest he spill any of the contents of his vessel.

Just so, after meditation, do not allow yourself forthwith to be distracted, but look straight

before you. Of course, if you meet any one to whom you are bound to attend, you must act

according to the circumstances in which you find yourself, but even thus give heed to your

heart, so as to lose as little as possible of the precious fruits of your meditation. You should

strive, too, to accustom yourself to go easily from prayer to all such occupations as your

calling or position lawfully require of you, even although such occupations may seem un-

congenial to the affections and thoughts just before forming part of your prayer. Thus the

lawyer should be able to go from meditation to his pleading, the tradesman to his business,

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the mistress of a family to the cares of her household and her wifely duties, so calmly and

gently as not to be in any way disturbed by so doing. In both you are fulfilling God’s Will,

and you should be able to turn from one to the other in a devout and humble spirit.

It may be that sometimes, immediately after your preparation, your affections will be

wholly drawn to God, and then, my child, you must let go the reins, and not attempt to

follow any given method; since, although as a general rule your considerations should precede

your affections and resolutions, when the Holy Spirit gives you those affections at once, it

is unnecessary to use the machinery which was intended to bring about the same result. In

short, whenever such affections are kindled in your heart, accept them, and give them place

in preference to all other considerations. The only object in placing the affections after the

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points of consideration in meditation, is to make the different parts of meditation clearer,

for it is a general rule that when affections arise they are never to be checked, but always

encouraged to flow freely. And this applies also to the acts of thanksgiving, of oblation and

petition, which must not be restrained either, although it is well to repeat or renew them at

the close of your meditation. But your resolutions must be made after the affections, and

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quite at the end of your meditation, and that all the more because in these you must enter

upon ordinary familiar subjects and things which would be liable to cause distractions if

they were intruded among your spiritual affections.

Amid your affections and resolutions it is well occasionally to make use of colloquies,

and to speak sometimes to your Lord, sometimes to your guardian Angel, or to those persons

who are concerned in the mystery you are meditating, to the Saints, to yourself, your own

heart, to sinners, and even to the inanimate creation around, as David so often does in the

Psalms, as well as other Saints in their meditations and prayers.

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CHAPTER IX. Concerning Dryness in Meditation.

CHAPTER IX. Concerning Dryness in Meditation.

CHAPTER IX. Concerning Dryness in Meditation.

SHOULD it happen sometimes, my daughter, that you have no taste for or consolation

in your meditation, I entreat you not to be troubled, but seek relief in vocal prayer, bemoan

yourself to our Lord, confess your unworthiness, implore His Aid, kiss His Image, if it be

beside you, and say in the words of Jacob, “I will not let Thee go, except Thou bless me;” or

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with the Canaanitish woman, “Yes, Lord, I am as a dog before Thee, but the dogs eat of the

crumbs which fall from their master’s table.”

Or you can take a book, and read attentively till such time as your mind is calmed and

quickened; or sometimes you may find help from external actions, such as prostrating

yourself folding your hands upon your breast, kissing your Crucifix,—that is, supposing

you are alone. But if, after all this, you are still unrelieved, do not be disturbed at your dryness,

however great it be, but continue striving after a devout attitude in God’s Sight. What

numbers of courtiers appear a hundred times at court without any hope of a word from

their king, but merely to pay their homage and be seen of him. Just so, my daughter, we

ought to enter upon mental prayer purely to fulfil our duty and testify our loyalty. If it pleases

God’s Divine Majesty to speak to us, and discourse in our hearts by His Holy Inspirations

and inward consolations, it is doubtless a great honour, and very sweet to our soul; but if

He does not vouchsafe such favours, but makes as though He saw us not,—as though we

were not in His Presence,—nevertheless we must not quit it, but on the contrary we must

remain calmly and devoutly before Him, and He is certain to accept our patient waiting,

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and give heed to our assiduity and perseverance; so that another time He will impart to us

His consolations, and let us taste all the sweetness of holy meditation. But even were it not

so, let us, my child, be satisfied with the privilege of being in His Presence and seen of Him.

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CHAPTER X. Morning Prayer.

CHAPTER X. Morning Prayer.

CHAPTER X. Morning Prayer.

BESIDES your systematic meditation and your other vocal prayers, there are five

shorter kinds of prayer, which are as aids and assistants to the great devotion, and foremost

among these is your morning prayer, as a general preparation for all the day’s work. It should

be made in this wise.

1. Thank God, and adore Him for His Grace which has kept you safely through the

night, and if in anything you have offended against Him, ask forgiveness.

2. Call to mind that the day now beginning is given you in order that you may work

for Eternity, and make a stedfast resolution to use this day for that end.

3. Consider beforehand what occupations, duties and occasions are likely this day to

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enable you to serve God; what temptations to offend Him, either by vanity, anger, etc., may

arise; and make a fervent resolution to use all means of serving Him and confirming your

own piety; as also to avoid and resist whatever might hinder your salvation and God’s Glory.

Nor is it enough to make such a resolution,—you must also prepare to carry it into effect.

Thus, if you foresee having to meet some one who is hottempered and irritable, you must

not merely resolve to guard your own temper, but you must consider by what gentle words

to conciliate him. If you know you will see some sick person, consider how best to minister

comfort to him, and so on.

4. Next, humble yourself before God, confessing that of yourself you could carry out

nothing that you have planned, either in avoiding evil or seeking good. Then, so to say, take

your heart in your hands, and offer it and all your good intentions to God’s Gracious Majesty,

entreating Him to accept them, and strengthen you in His Service, which you may do in

some such words as these: “Lord, I lay before Thee my weak heart, which Thou dost fill

with good desires. Thou knowest that I am unable to bring the same to good effect, unless

Thou dost bless and prosper them, and therefore, O Loving Father, I entreat of Thee to help

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me by the Merits and Passion of Thy Dear Son, to Whose Honour I would devote this day

and my whole life.”

All these acts should be made briefly and heartily, before you leave your room if possible,

so that all the coming work of the day may be prospered with God’s blessing; but anyhow,

my daughter, I entreat you never to omit them.

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CHAPTER XI. Evening Prayer and Examination of Conscience.

CHAPTER XI. Evening Prayer and Examination of Conscience.

CHAPTER XI. Evening Prayer and Examination of Conscience.

AS I have counselled you before your material dinner to make a spiritual repast in

meditation, so before your evening meal you should make at least a devout spiritual collation.

Make sure of some brief leisure before suppertime, and then prostrating yourself before

God, and recollecting yourself in the Presence of Christ Crucified, setting Him before your

mind with a stedfast inward glance, renew the warmth of your morning’s meditation by

some hearty aspirations and humble upliftings of your soul to your Blessed Saviour, either

repeating those points of your meditation which helped you most, or kindling your heart

with anything else you will.

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As to the examination of conscience, which we all should make before going to bed,

you know the rules:

1. Thank God for having preserved you through the day past.

2. Examine how you have conducted yourself through the day, in order to which recall

where and with whom you have been, and what you have done.

3. If you have done anything good, offer thanks to God; if you have done amiss in

thought, word, or deed, ask forgiveness of His Divine Majesty, resolving to confess the fault

when opportunity offers, and to be diligent in doing better.

4. Then commend your body and soul, the Church, your relations and friends, to God.

Ask that the Saints and Angels may keep watch over you, and with God’s Blessing go to the

rest He has appointed for you. Neither this practice nor that of the morning should ever be

omitted; by your morning prayer you open your soul’s windows to the sunshine of Right-

eousness, and by your evening devotions you close them against the shades of hell.

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CHAPTER XII. On Spiritual Retirement.

CHAPTER XII. On Spiritual Retirement.

CHAPTER XII. On Spiritual Retirement.

THIS is a matter, dear daughter, to which I am very anxious to win your attention, for

in it lies one of the surest means of spiritual progress. Strive as often as possible through the

day to place yourself in God’s Presence by some one of the methods already suggested.

Consider what God does, and what you are doing;—you will see His Eyes ever fixed upon

you in Love incomparable. “O my God,” you will cry out, “why cannot I always be looking

upon Thee, even as Thou lookest on me? why do I think so little about Thee? O my soul,

thy only resting-place is God, and yet how often dost thou wander?” The birds have nests

in lofty trees, and the stag his refuge in the thick coverts, where he can shelter from the sun’s

burning heat; and just so, my daughter, our hearts ought daily to choose some resting-place,

either Mount Calvary, or the Sacred Wounds, or some other spot close to Christ, where

they can retire at will to seek rest and refreshment amid toil, and to be as in a fortress, pro-

tected from temptation. Blessed indeed is the soul which can truly say, “Thou, Lord, art my

Refuge, my Castle, my Stay, my Shelter in the storm and in the heat of the day.”

Be sure then, my child, that while externally occupied with business and social duties,

you frequently retire within the solitude of your own heart. That solitude need not be in

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any way hindered by the crowds which surround you—they surround your body, not your

soul, and your heart remains alone in the Sole Presence of God. This is what David sought

after amid his manifold labours;—the Psalms are full of such expressions as “Lord, I am

ever with Thee. The Lord is always at my right hand. I lift up mine eyes to Thee, O Thou

Who dwellest in the heavens. Mine eyes look unto God.”

There are few social duties of sufficient importance to prevent an occasional retirement

of the heart into this sacred solitude. When S. Catherine of Sienna was deprived by her

parents of any place or time for prayer and meditation, Our Lord inspired her with the

thought of making a little interior oratory in her mind, into which she could retire in heart,

and so enjoy a holy solitude amid her outward duties. And henceforward, when the world

assaulted her, she was able to be indifferent, because, so she said, she could retire within her

secret oratory, and find comfort with her Heavenly Bridegroom. So she counselled her

spiritual daughters to make a retirement within their heart, in which to dwell. Do you in

like manner let your heart withdraw to such an inward retirement, where, apart from all

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men, you can lay it bare, and treat face to face with God, even as David says that he watched

like a “pelican in the wilderness, or an owl in the desert, or a sparrow sitting alone upon the

housetop.” 11 These words have a sense beyond their literal meaning, or King David’s habit

of retirement for contemplation;—and we may find in them three excellent kinds of retreats

in which to seek solitude after the Saviour’s Example, Who is symbolised as He hung upon

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Ps. cii. 6, 7.

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Mount Calvary by the pelican of the wilderness, feeding her young ones with her blood. 12

So again His Nativity in a lonely stable might find a foreshadowing in the owl of the desert,

bemoaning and lamenting: and in His Ascension He was like the sparrow rising high above

the dwellings of men. Thus in each of these ways we can make a retreat amid the daily cares

of life and its business.

When the blessed Elzear, Count of Arian-enProvence, had been long separated from

his pious and beloved wife Delphine, she sent a messenger to inquire after him, and he re-

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turned answer, “I am well, dear wife, and if you would see me, seek me in the Wounded

Side of our Dear Lord Jesus; that is my sure dwelling-place, and elsewhere you will seek me

in vain.” Surely he was a true Christian knight who spoke thus.

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The Egyptians used the pelican as a symbol of parental devotion; and among the early Christians, as may

be seen in the Catacombs, it was employed to shadow forth the deep mysteries of Christ’s love. On many a mo-

numental brass, church window, or chalice of old time, occurs this device, with the motto, “Sic Christus dilexit

nos.” “Thus hath Christ loved us.” And so Saint Thomas in his Eucharistic Hymn “Adoro Te devote,”—“Pie

Pelicane, Jesu Domine, Me immundum munda, Tuo sausguine!”

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CHAPTER XIII. Aspirations, Ejaculatory Prayer and Holy Thoughts.

CHAPTER XIII. Aspirations, Ejaculatory Prayer and Holy Thoughts.

CHAPTER XIII. Aspirations, Ejaculatory Prayer and Holy Thoughts.

WE retire with God, because we aspire to Him, and we aspire in order to retire with

Him; so that aspiration after God and spiritual retreat excite one another, while both spring

from the one Source of all holy thoughts. Do you then, my daughter, aspire continually to

God, by brief, ardent upliftings of heart; praise His Excellence, invoke His Aid, cast yourself

in spirit at the Foot of His Cross, adore His Goodness, offer your whole soul a thousand

times a day to Him, fix your inward gaze upon Him, stretch out your hands to be led by

Him, as a little child to its father, clasp Him to your breast as a fragrant nosegay, upraise

Him in your soul as a standard. In short, kindle by every possible act your love for God,

your tender, passionate desire for the Heavenly Bridegroom of souls. Such is ejaculatory

prayer, as it was so earnestly inculcated by S. Augustine upon the devout Proba; and be sure,

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my daughter, that if you seek such nearness and intimacy with God your whole soul will

imbibe the perfume of His Perfections. Neither is this a difficult practice,—it may be inter-

woven with all our duties and occupations, without hindering any; for neither the spiritual

retreat of which I have spoken, nor these inward upliftings of the heart, cause more than a

very brief distraction, which, so far from being any hindrance, will rather promote whatever

you have in hand. When a pilgrim pauses an instant to take a draught of wine, which refreshes

his lips and revives his heart, his onward journey is nowise hindered by the brief delay, but

rather it is shortened and lightened, and he brings it all the sooner to a happy end, pausing

but to advance the better.

Sundry collections of ejaculatory prayer have been put forth, which are doubtless very

useful, but I should advise you not to tie yourself to any formal words, but rather to speak

with heart or mouth whatever springs forth from the love within you, which is sure to supply

you with all abundance. There are certain utterances which have special force, such as the

ejaculatory prayers of which the Psalms are so full, and the numerous loving invocations of

Jesus which we find in the Song of Songs. Many hymns too may be used with the like inten-

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tion, provided they are sung attentively. In short, just as those who are full of some earthly,

natural love are ever turning in thought to the beloved one, their hearts overflowing with

tenderness, and their lips ever ready to praise that beloved object; comforting themselves

in absence by letters, carving the treasured name on every tree;—so those who love God

cannot cease thinking of Him, living for Him, longing after Him, speaking of Him, and fain

would they grave the Holy Name of Jesus in the hearts of every living creature they behold.

And to such an outpour of love all creation bids us—nothing that He has made but is filled

with the praise of God, and, as says S. Augustine, everything in the world speaks silently but

clearly to the lovers of God of their love, exciting them to holy desires, whence gush forth

aspirations and loving cries to God. St. Gregory Nazianzen tells his flock, how, walking

along the seashore, he watched the waves as they washed up shells and sea weeds, and all

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manner of small substances, which seemed, as it were, rejected by the sea, until a return

wave would often wash part thereof back again; while the rocks remained firm and immove-

able, let the waves beat against them never so fiercely. And then the Saint went on to reflect

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that feeble hearts let themselves be carried hither and thither by the varying waves of sorrow

or consolation, as the case might be, like the shells upon the seashore, while those of a nobler

mould abide firm and immoveable amid every storm;—whence he breaks out into David’s

cry, “Lord, save me, for the waters are gone over my soul; deliver me from the great deep,

all Thy waves and storms are gone over me;” for he was himself then in trouble by reason

of the ungodly usurpation of his See by Maximus.

When S. Fulgentius, Bishop of Ruspe, heard Theodoric, King of the Goths, harangue a

general assembly of Roman nobles, and beheld their splendour, he exclaimed, “O God, how

glorious must Thy Heavenly Jerusalem be, if even earthly Rome be thus!” 13 And if this

world can afford so much gratification to mere earthly lovers of vanity, what must there be

in store hereafter for those who love the truth?

“If thus Thy lower works are fair,—If thus Thy glories gild the spanOf ruined earth and

guilty man,—How glorious must the mansions beWhere Thy redeemed dwell with Thee!”

We are told that S. Anselm of Canterbury, (our mountains may glory in being his

birthplace 14 ) was much given to such thoughts. On one occasion a hunted hare took refuge

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from imminent death beneath the Bishop’s horse, the hounds clamouring round, but not

daring to drag it from its asylum, whereat his attendants began to laugh; but the great Anselm

wept, saying, “You may laugh forsooth, but to the poor hunted beast it is no laughing matter;

even so the soul which has been led astray in all manner of sin finds a host of enemies

waiting at its last hour to devour it, and terrified, knows not where to seek a refuge, and if

it can find none, its enemies laugh and rejoice.” And so he went on his way, sighing.

Constantine the Great wrote with great respect to S. Anthony, at which his religious

expressed their surprise. “Do you marvel,” he said, “that a king should write to an ordinary

man? Marvel rather that God should have written His Law for men, and yet more that He

should have spoken with them Face to face through His Son.” When S. Francis saw a solitary

sheep amid a flock of goats; “See,” said he to his companion, “how gentle the poor sheep is

among the goats, even as was Our Lord among the Pharisees;” and seeing a boar devour a

little lamb, “Poor little one,” he exclaimed, weeping, “how vividly is my Saviour’s Death set

forth in thee!”

A great man of our own day, Francis Borgia, then Duke of Candia, was wont to indulge

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in many devout imaginations as he was hunting. “I used to ponder,” he said, “how the falcon

returns to one’s wrist, and lets one hood its eyes or chain it to the perch, and yet men are

13

Was it in imitation of this that the hymn was written?

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S. Anselm was born at Aosta in Piedmont, A.D. 1033.

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so perverse in refusing to turn at God’s call.” St. Basil the Great says that the rose amid its

thorns preaches a lesson to men. “All that is pleasant in this life” (so it tells us mortals) “is

mingled with sadness—no joy is altogether pure—all enjoyment is liable to be marred by

regrets, marriage is saddened by widowhood, children bring anxiety, glory often turns to

shame, neglect follows upon honour, weariness on pleasure, sickness on health. Truly the

rose is a lovely flower,” the Saint goes on to say, “but it moves me to sadness, reminding me

as it does that for my sin the earth was condemned to bring forth thorns.”

Another devout soul, gazing upon a brook wherein the starlit sky of a calm summer’s

night was reflected, exclaims, “O my God, when Thou callest me to dwell in Thy heavenly

tabernacles, these stars will be beneath my feet; and even as those stars are now reflected

here below, so are we Thy creatures reflected above in the living waters of Thy Divine Love.”

So another cried out, beholding a rapid river as it flowed, “Even thus my soul will know no

rest until it plunge into that Divine Sea whence it came forth!” S. Frances, as she knelt to

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pray beside the banks of a pleasant streamlet, cried out in ecstasy, “The Grace of my Dear

Lord flows softly and sweetly even as these refreshing waters” And another saintly soul,

looking upon the blooming orchards, cried out, “Why am I alone barren in the Church’s

garden!” So S. Francis of Assisi, beholding a hen gathering her chickens beneath her wings,

exclaimed, “Keep me, O Lord, under the shadow of Thy Wings” And looking upon the

sunflower, he ejaculated, “When, O Lord, will my soul follow the attractions of Thy Love?”

15 And gathering pansies in a garden which are fair to see, but scentless, 16 “Ah,” he cried

out, “even so are the thoughts of my heart, fair to behold, but without savour or fruit!”

Thus it is, my daughter, that good thoughts and holy aspirations may be drawn from

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all that surrounds us in our ordinary life. Woe to them that turn aside the creature from the

Creator, and thrice blessed are they who turn all creation to their Creator’s Glory, and make

human vanities subservient to the truth. “Verily,” says Saint Gregory Nazianzen, “I am wont

to turn all things to my spiritual profit.”

Read the pious epitaph written for S. Paula by S. Jerome; it is marvellous therein to see

how she conceived spiritual thoughts and aspirations at every turn.

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Moore has preserved the graceful imagery of the sunflower, anciently called “tourne-soleil” (as by S.

Francis here). “Oh the heart that once truly loved, never forgets, But as truly loves on to the close, As the sunflower

turns to her God when he sets The same look which she turned when he rose.”

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“Pensees.” This play on words is common—as Ophelia says in Hamlet, Act iv. sc. 5: “There is pansies—that’s for thoughts.” But the name of this pretty viola is really derived from panacea, signifying all-heal, just as Tansy is derived from Athanasia, i.e. immortelle or everlasting. Its other name of heart’s-ease also refers to the potent

virtues ascribed to it of old. Cawdray, in his Treasurie of Similies, London, 1609, says: “As the herb Panax or Panace hath in it a remedy against all diseases, so is the Death of Christ against all sin sufficient and effectual.”

In the preface to our English Bible of 1611, the translators speak of “Panaces, the herb that is good for all diseases.”

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Now, in the practice of this spiritual retreat and of these ejaculatory prayers the great

work of devotion lies: it can supply all other deficiencies, but there is hardly any means of

making up where this is lacking. Without it no one can lead a true contemplative life, and

the active life will be but imperfect where it is omitted: without it rest is but indolence, labour

but weariness,—therefore I beseech you to adopt it heartily, and never let it go.

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CHAPTER XIV. Of Holy Communion, and how to join in it.

CHAPTER XIV. Of Holy Communion, and how to join in it.

CHAPTER XIV. Of Holy Communion, and how to join in it.

1. SO far I have said nothing concerning the Sun of all spiritual exercises, even the most

holy, sacred and Sovereign Sacrifice and Sacrament of the Eucharist,—the very centre point

of our Christian religion, the heart of all devotion, the soul of piety;—that Ineffable Mystery

which embraces the whole depth of Divine Love, by which God, giving Himself really to us,

conveys all His Graces and favours to men with royal magnificence.

2. Prayer made in union with this Divine Sacrifice has untold power; through which,

indeed, the soul overflows with heavenly grace, and leaning on her Beloved, becomes so

filled with spiritual sweetness and perfume, that we may ask in the words of the Canticles:

“Who is this that cometh out of the wilderness like pillars of smoke, perfumed with myrrh

and frankincense, with all powders of the merchant? ” 17

3. Strive then to your utmost to be present every day at this holy Celebration, in order

that with the priest you may offer the Sacrifice of your Redeemer on behalf of yourself and

the whole Church to God the Father. Saint Chrysostom says that the Angels crowd around

it in adoration, and if we are found together with them, united in one intention, we cannot

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but be most favourably influenced by such society. Moreover, all the heavenly choirs of the

Church triumphant, as well as those of the Church militant, are joined to our Dear Lord in

this divine act, so that with Him, in Him, and by Him, they may win the favour of God the

Father, and obtain His Mercy for us. How great the blessing to my soul to contribute its

share towards the attainment of so gracious a gift!

4. If any imperative hindrance prevents your presence at this sovereign sacrifice of

Christ’s most true Presence, at least be sure to take part in it spiritually. If you cannot go to

Church, choose some morning hour in which to unite your intention to that of the whole

Christian world, and make the same interior acts of devotion wherever you are that you

would make if you were really present at the Celebration of the Holy Eucharist in Church.

5. In order to join in this rightly, whether actually or mentally, you must give heed to

several things: (1) In the beginning, and before the priest goes up to the Altar, make your

preparation with his—placing yourself in God’s Presence, confessing your unworthiness,

and asking forgiveness. (2) Until the Gospel, dwell simply and generally upon the Coming

and the Life of our Lord in this world. (3) From the Gospel to the end of the Creed, dwell

upon our Dear Lord’s teaching, and renew your resolution to live and die in the faith of the

Holy Catholic Church. (4) From thence, fix your heart on the mysteries of the Word, and

unite yourself to the Death and Passion of our Redeemer, now actually and essentially set

forth in this holy Sacrifice, which, together with the priest and all the congregation, you offer

to God the Father, to His Glory and your own salvation. (5) Up to the moment of commu-

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Cant. iii. 6.

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nicating, offer all the longings and desires of your heart, above all desiring most earnestly

to be united for ever to our Saviour by His Eternal Love. (6) From the time of Communion

to the end, thank His Gracious Majesty for His Incarnation, His Life, Death, Passion, and

the Love which He sets forth in this holy Sacrifice, intreating through it His favour for

yourself, your relations and friends, and the whole Church; and humbling yourself sincerely,

devoutly receive the blessing which our Dear Lord gives you through the channel of His

minister. If, however, you wish to follow your daily course of meditation on special mysteries

during the Sacrifice, it is not necessary that you should interrupt yourself by making these

several acts but it will suffice that at the beginning you dispose your intention to worship

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and to offer the holy Sacrifice in your meditation and prayer; since every meditation includes

all the abovenamed acts either explicitly or implicitly.

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CHAPTER XV. Of the other Public Offices of the Church.

CHAPTER XV. Of the other Public Offices of the Church.

CHAPTER XV. Of the other Public Offices of the Church.

FURTHERMORE, my daughter, you should endeavour to assist at the Offices, Hours,

Vespers, etc., as far as you are able, especially on Sundays and Festivals, days which are

dedicated to God, wherein we ought to strive to do more for His Honour and Glory than

on others. You will greatly increase the fervour of your devotion by so doing, even as did S.

Augustine, who tells us in his Confessions, that in the early days of his conversion he was

touched to the quick, and his heart overflowed in happy tears, when he took part in the

Offices of the Church. 18 Moreover (let me say it here once for all), there is always more

profit and more consolation in the public Offices of the Church than in private acts of devo-

tion, God having willed to give the preference to communion in prayer over all individual

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action. Be ready to take part in any confraternities and associations you may find in the

place where you are called to dwell, especially such as are most fruitful and edifying. This

will be pleasing to God; for although confraternities are not ordained, they are recommended

by the Church, which grants various privileges to those who are united thereby. And it is

always a work of love to join with others and take part in their good works. And although

it may be possible that you can use equally profitable devotions by yourself as in common

with others,—perhaps even you may like doing so best,—nevertheless God is more glorified

when we unite with our brethren and neighbours and join our offerings to theirs.

I say the same concerning all public services and prayers, in which, as far as possible,

each one of us is bound to contribute the best example we can for our neighbour’s edification,

and our hearty desire for God’s Glory and the general good of all men.

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“Nor was I sated in those days with the wondrous sweetness of considering the depth of Thy counsels

concerning the salvation of mankind. How did I weep, in Thy hymns and canticles, touched to the quick by the

voices of Thy sweet-attuned church The voices flowed into mine ears, and the truth distilled into my heart,

whence the affections of my devotion overflowed, and tears ran down, and happy was I therein.”—conf. bk. ix.

14.

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CHAPTER XVI. How the Saints are united to us.

CHAPTER XVI. How the Saints are united to us.

CHAPTER XVI. How the Saints are united to us.

INASMUCH as God continually sends us inspirations by means of His Angels, we may

fitly send back our aspirations through the same channel. The souls of the holy dead, resting

in Paradise, who are, as our Lord Himself has told us, “as the Angels in Heaven,” 19 are also

united to us in their prayers. My child, let us gladly join our hearts with these heavenly

blessed ones; for even as the newly-fledged nightingale learns to sing from the elder birds,

so by our sacred communing with the Saints we shall learn better to pray and sing the praises

of the Lord. David is continually uniting his prayers with those of all the Saints and Angels.

Honour, revere and respect the Blessed Virgin Mary with a very special love; she is the

Mother of our Sovereign Lord, and so we are her children. Let us think of her with all the

love and confidence of affectionate children; let us desire her love, and strive with true filial

hearts to imitate her graces.

Seek to be familiar with the Angels; learn to realise that they are continually present,

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although invisible. Specially love and revere the Guardian Angel of the Diocese in which

you live, those of the friends who surround you, and your own. Commune with them fre-

quently, join in their songs of praise, and seek their protection and help in all you do, spir-

itual or temporal.

That pious man Peter Faber, the first companion of Saint Ignatius, and the first priest,

first preacher and first theological teacher of the Company of the Jesuits, who was a native

of our Diocese, 20 once passing through this country on his way from Germany, (where he

had been labouring for God’s Glory,) told how great comfort he had found as he went among

places infested with heresy in communing with the guardian Angels thereof, whose help

had often preserved him from danger, and softened hearts to receive the faith. He spoke

with such earnestness, that a lady who, when quite young, heard him, was so impressed,

that she repeated his words to me only four years ago, sixty years after their utterance, with

the utmost feeling. I had the happiness only last year of consecrating an altar in the place

where it pleased God to give that blessed man birth, the little village of Villaret, amid the

wildest of our mountains.

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You will do well to choose out for yourself some individual Saint, whose life specially

to study and imitate, and whose prayers may be more particularly offered on your behalf.

The Saint bearing your own baptismal name would seem to be naturally assigned to you.

19

S. Mark xii. 25.

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Faber was a Savoyard.

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CHAPTER XVII. How to Hear and Read God's Word.

CHAPTER XVII. How to Hear and Read God's Word.

CHAPTER XVII. How to Hear and Read God’s Word.

CULTIVATE a special devotion to God’s Word, whether studied privately or in public;

always listen to it with attention and reverence, strive to profit by it, and do not let it fall to

the ground, but receive it within your heart as a precious balm, thereby imitating the Blessed

Virgin, who “kept all these sayings in her heart.” 21 Remember that our Lord receives our

words of prayer according to the way in which we receive His words in teaching.

You should always have some good devout book at hand, such as the writings of S.

Bonaventura, Gerson, Denis the Carthusian, Blosius, Grenada, Stella, Arias, Pinella, Da

Ponte, Avila, the Spiritual Combat, the Confessions of S. Augustine, S. Jerome’s Epistles, or

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the like; and daily read some small portion attentively, as though you were reading letters

sent by the Saints from Paradise to teach you the way thither, and encourage you to follow

them. Read the Lives of the Saints too, which are as a mirror to you of Christian life, and

try to imitate their actions according to your circumstances; for although many things which

the Saints did may not be practicable for those who live in the world, they may be followed

more or less. Thus, in our spiritual retreats we imitate the solitude of the first hermit, S.

Paul; in the practice of poverty we imitate S. Francis, and so on. Of course some Lives throw

much more light upon our daily course than others, such as the Life of Saint Theresa, which

is most admirable, the first Jesuits, Saint Charles Borromeo, Archbishop of Milan, S. Louis,

S. Bernard, S. Francis, and such like. Others are more the subjects of our admiring wonder

than of imitation, such as S. Mary of Egypt, S. Simeon Stylites, S. Catherine of Genoa, and

S. Catherine of Sienna, S. Angela, etc., although these should tend to kindle a great love of

God in our hearts.

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S. Luke ii. 51.

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CHAPTER XVIII. How to receive Inspirations.

CHAPTER XVIII. How to receive Inspirations.

CHAPTER XVIII. How to receive Inspirations.

BY inspirations I mean all drawings, feelings, interior reproaches, lights and intuitions,

with which God moves us, preventing our hearts by His Fatherly love and care, and

awakening, exciting, urging, and attracting them to goodness, to Heavenly love, to good

resolutions, in short, to whatever tends to our eternal welfare. This it is of which we read in

the Canticles, when the Bridegroom knocks at the door, awakens His beloved, calls upon

her, seeks her, bids her eat of His honey, gather the fruit and flowers of His garden, and let

Him hear her voice, which is sweet to Him. 22

Let me make use of an illustration of my meaning. In contracting a marriage, the bride

must be a party to three separate acts: first, the bridegroom is proposed to her; secondly,

she entertains the proposal; and thirdly, she gives her consent. Just so when God intends to

perform some act of love in us, by us, and with us; He first suggests it by His inspiration;

secondly, we receive that inspiration; and thirdly, we consent to it: for, like as we fall into

sin by three steps, temptation, delectation, and consent, so there are three steps whereby

we ascend to virtue; inspiration, as opposed to temptation; delectation in God’s inspiration,

as opposed to that of temptation; and consent to the one instead of to the other. Were God’s

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inspirations to last all our lives, we should be nowise more acceptable to Him, unless we

took pleasure therein; on the contrary, we should rather offend Him as did the Israelites, of

whom He says that they “grieved Him for forty years long, refusing to hear His pleadings,

so that at last” I “sware in My wrath that they should not enter into My rest.” 23 And (to

recur to my first illustration) one who has long been devoted to his lady-love, would feel

greatly injured if, after all, she would not consent to the alliance he seeks.

The delight we take in God’s inspirations is an important step gained towards His Glory,

and we begin at once to please Him thereby; for although such delectation is not the same

thing as a full consent, it shows a strong tendency thereto; and if it is a good and profitable

sign when we take pleasure in hearing God’s Word, which is, so to say, an external inspiration,

still more is it good and acceptable in His Sight when we take delight in His interior inspir-

ations. Such is the delight of which the Bride says, “My soul melted within me when my

Beloved spake.” 24 And so, too, the earthly lover is well satisfied when he sees that his lady-

love finds pleasure in his attentions.

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But, after all, consent only perfects the good action; for if we are inspired of God, and

take pleasure in that inspiration, and yet, nevertheless, refuse our consent to His inspiration,

22

Cant. v. vii. ii.

23

Ps. xcv. 10, 11.

24

In the English version this passage is, “My soul failed when he spake.” (Cant. V. 6.) But in the Vulgate it

is in the far more expressive form quoted by S. Francis de Sales, “Anima mea liquefacta est, ut locutus est.”

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we are acting a very contemptuous, offensive part towards Him. We read of the Bride, that

although the voice of her Beloved touched her heart, she made trivial excuses, and delayed

opening the door to Him, and so He withdrew Himself and “was gone.” 25 And the earthly

lover, who had long sought a lady, and seemed acceptable to her, would have the more

ground for complaint if at last he was spurned and dismissed, than if he had never been fa-

vourably received.

Do you, my daughter, resolve to accept whatever inspirations God may vouchsafe you,

heartily; and when they offer themselves, receive them as the ambassadors of your Heavenly

King, seeking alliance with you. Hearken gently to their propositions, foster the love with

which you are inspired, and cherish the holy Guest. Give your consent, and let it be a full,

loving, stedfast consent to His holy inspirations; for, so doing, God will reckon your affection

as a favour, although truly we can confer none upon Him. But, before consenting to inspir-

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ations which have respect to important or extraordinary things, guard against self-deception,

by consulting your spiritual guide, and let him examine whether the inspiration be real or

no; and that the rather, because when the enemy sees a soul ready to hearken to inspirations,

he is wont to set false delusions in the way to deceive it,—a snare you will not fall into so

long as you humbly obey your guide.

Consent once given, you must carefully seek to produce the intended results, and carry

out the inspiration, the crown of true virtue; for to give consent, without producing the

result thereof, were like planting a vine without meaning it to bear fruit. All this will be

greatly promoted by careful attention to your morning exercises, and the spiritual retirement

already mentioned, because therein you learn to carry general principles to a special applic-

ation.

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Cant. v. 6.

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CHAPTER XIX. On Confession.

CHAPTER XIX. On Confession.

CHAPTER XIX. On Confession.

OUR Saviour has bequeathed the Sacrament of Penitence and Confession to His Church,

26 in order that therein we may be cleansed from all our sins, however and whenever we

may have been soiled thereby. Therefore, my child, never allow your heart to abide heavy

with sin, seeing that there is so sure and safe a remedy at hand. If the lioness has been in the

neighbourhood of other beasts she hastens to wash away their scent, lest it should be dis-

pleasing to her lord; and so the soul which has ever so little consented to sin, ought to abhor

itself and make haste to seek purification, out of respect to His Divine Gaze Who beholds

it always. Why should we die a spiritual death when there is a sovereign remedy available?

Make your confession humbly and devoutly every week, and always, if you can, before

communicating, even although your conscience is not burdened with mortal sin; for in

confession you do not only receive absolution for your venial sins, but you also receive great

strength to help you in avoiding them henceforth, clearer light to discover your failings,

and abundant grace to make up whatever loss you have incurred through those faults. You

exercise the graces of humility, obedience, simplicity and love, and by this one act of confes-

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sion you practise more virtue than in any other.

Be sure always to entertain a hearty sorrow for the sins you confess, however small they

are; as also a stedfast resolution to correct them in future. Some people go on confessing

venial sins out of mere habit, and conventionally, without making any effort to correct them,

thereby losing a great deal of spiritual good. Supposing that you confess having said some-

thing untrue, although without evil consequences, or some careless words, or excessive

amusement;—repent, and make a firm resolution of amendment: it is a mere abuse to confess

any sin whatever, be it mortal or venial, without intending to put it altogether away, that

being the express object of confession.

Beware of unmeaning self-accusations, made out of a mere routine, such as, “I have not

loved God as much as I ought; I have not prayed with as much devotion as I ought; I

have not loved my neighbour as I ought; I have not received the Sacraments with suffi-

cient reverence;” and the like. Such things as these are altogether useless in setting the state

of your conscience before your Confessor, inasmuch as all the Saints in Paradise and all

men living would say the same. But examine closely what special reason you have for accusing

yourself thus, and when you have discovered it, accuse yourself simply and plainly of your

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fault. For instance, when confessing that you have not loved your neighbour as you ought,

it may be that what you mean is, that having seen some one in great want whom you could

have succoured, you have failed to do so. Well then, accuse yourself of that special omission:

say, “Having come across a person in need, I did not help him as I might have done,” either

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S. Matt. xvi. 19, xviii. 18; S. John xx. 23.

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through negligence, or hardness, or indifference, according as the case may be. So again, do

not accuse yourself of not having prayed to God with sufficient devotion; but if you have

given way to voluntary distractions, or if you have neglected the proper circumstances of

devout prayer—whether place, time, or attitude—say so plainly, just as it is, and do not deal

in generalities, which, so to say, blow neither hot nor cold.

Again, do not be satisfied with mentioning the bare fact of your venial sins, but accuse

yourself of the motive cause which led to them. For instance, do not be content with saying

that you told an untruth which injured no one; but say whether it was out of vanity, in order

to win praise or avoid blame, out of heedlessness, or from obstinacy. If you have exceeded

in society, say whether it was from the love of talking, or gambling for the sake of money,

and so on. Say whether you continued long to commit the fault in question, as the importance

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of a fault depends greatly upon its continuance: e.g., there is a wide difference between a

passing act of vanity which is over in a quarter of an hour, and one which fills the heart for

one or more days. So you must mention the fact, the motive and the duration of your faults.

It is true that we are not bound to be so precise in confessing venial sins, or even, technically

speaking, to confess them at all; but all who aim at purifying their souls in order to attain a

really devout life, will be careful to show all their spiritual maladies, however slight, to their

spiritual physician, in order to be healed.

Do not spare yourself in telling whatever is necessary to explain the nature of your fault,

as, for instance, the reason why you lost your temper, or why you encouraged another in

wrong-doing. Thus, some one whom I dislike says a chance word in joke, I take it ill, and

put myself in a passion. If one I like had said a stronger thing I should not have taken it

amiss; so in confession, I ought to say that I lost my temper with a person, not because of

the words spoken so much as because I disliked the speaker; and if in order to explain

yourself clearly it is necessary to particularize the words, it is well to do so; because accusing

one’s self thus simply one discovers not merely one’s actual sins, but one’s bad habits, inclin-

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ations and ways, and the other roots of sin, by which means one’s spiritual Father acquires

a fuller knowledge of the heart he is dealing with, and knows better what remedies to apply.

But you must always avoid exposing any one who has borne any part in your sin as far as

possible. Keep watch over a variety of sins, which are apt to spring up and flourish, often

insensibly, in the conscience, so that you may confess them and put them away; and with

this view read Chapters VI., XXVII., XXVIII., XXIX., XXXV. and XXXVI. of Part III., and

Chapter VII. of Part IV., attentively.

Do not lightly change your Confessor, but having chosen him, be regular in giving ac-

count of your conscience to him at the appointed seasons, telling him your faults simply

and frankly, and from time to time—say every month or every two months, show him the

general state of your inclinations, although there be nothing wrong in them; as, for instance,

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whether you are depressed and anxious, or cheerful, desirous of advancement, or money,

and the like.

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CHAPTER XX. Of Frequent Communion.

CHAPTER XX. Of Frequent Communion.

CHAPTER XX. Of Frequent Communion.

IT is said that Mithridates, King of Pontus, who invented the poison called after him,

mithridate, so thoroughly impregnated his system with it, that when eventually he tried to

poison himself to avoid becoming the Romans’ slave, he never could succeed. The Saviour

instituted the most holy Sacrament of the Eucharist, really containing His Body and His

Blood, in order that they who eat it might live for ever. And therefore whosoever receives

it frequently and devoutly, so strengthens the health and life of his soul, that it is hardly

possible for him to be poisoned by any evil desires. We cannot be fed by that Living Flesh

and hold to the affections of death; and just as our first parents could not die in Paradise,

because of the Tree of Life which God had placed therein, so this Sacrament of Life makes

spiritual death impossible. The most fragile, easily spoilt fruits, such as cherries, apricots,

and strawberries, can be kept all the year by being preserved in sugar or honey; so what

wonder if our hearts, frail and weakly as they are, are kept from the corruption of sin when

they are preserved in the sweetness (“sweeter than honey and the honeycomb”) of the In-

corruptible Body and Blood of the Son of God. O my daughter, those Christians who are

lost will indeed have no answer to give when the Just Judge sets before them that they have

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voluntarily died the spiritual death, since it was so easy for them to have preserved life and

health, by eating His Body which He gave them for that very end. “Miserable men!” He will

say, “wherefore would ye die, with the Bread of Life itself in your hands?”

As to daily Communion, I neither commend nor condemn it; but with respect to com-

municating every Sunday, I counsel and exhort every one to do so, providing the mind has

no attachment to sin. So says S. Augustine, and with him I neither find fault nor uncondi-

tionally commend daily Communion, leaving that matter to the discretion of every person’s

own spiritual Guide; as the requisite dispositions for such frequent Communion are too

delicate for one to advise it indiscriminately. On the other hand, these very special disposi-

tions may be found in sundry devout souls, and therefore it would not be well to discourage

everybody. It is a subject which must be dealt with according to each individual mind; it

were imprudent to advise such frequent Communion to all, while, on the other hand, it

would be presumptuous to blame any one for it, especially if he therein follows the advice

of some wise director. Saint Catherine of Sienna, when blamed for her frequent Communions,

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under the plea that Saint Augustine neither commended nor condemned daily Communion,

replied gently, “Well, then, since Saint Augustine does not condemn it, neither, I pray you,

do you condemn it, and I shall be content.” But Saint Augustine earnestly exhorts all to

communicate every Sunday. And as I presume, my daughter, that you have no attachment

either to mortal or venial sins, you are in the condition which Saint Augustine requires; and

if your spiritual Father approves, you may profitably communicate more frequently. Never-

theless, there are various hindrances which may arise, not so much from yourself, as from

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those among whom you live, which may lead a wise director to tell you not to communicate

so often. For instance, if you are in a position of subjection, and those whom you are bound

to obey should be so ignorant or so prejudiced, as to be uneasy at your frequent Communions,

all things considered, it may be well to show consideration for their weakness, and to make

your Communion fortnightly; only, of course, where there is no possible way of overcoming

the difficulty otherwise. But one cannot give any general rule on such a point, each person

must follow the advice of their own spiritual Guide; only this much I will say, that monthly

Communions are the very fewest which any one seeking to serve God devoutly can make.

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If you are discreet, neither father nor mother, husband nor wife, will ever hinder you

from communicating frequently, and that because on the day of your Communion you will

give good heed always to be more than usually gentle and amiable towards them, doing all

you can to please them, so that they are not likely to prevent your doing a thing which in

nowise inconveniences themselves, unless they were most particularly unreasonable and

perverse, in which case, as I have said, your Director might advise you to yield. There is

nothing in the married life to hinder frequent Communion. Most certainly the Christians

of the Primitive Church communicated daily, whether married or single. Neither is any

malady a necessary impediment, except, indeed, anything producing constant sickness.

Those who communicate weekly must be free from mortal sin, and also from any attach-

ment to venial sin, and they should feel a great desire for Communion; but for daily Com-

munion people should furthermore have conquered most of their inclinations to evil, and

no one should practise it without the advice of their spiritual Guide.

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CHAPTER XXI. How to Communicate.

CHAPTER XXI. How to Communicate.

BEGIN your preparation over-night, by sundry aspirations and loving ejaculations. Go

to bed somewhat earlier than usual, so that you may get up earlier the next morning; and if

you should wake during the night, fill your heart and lips at once with sacred words

wherewith to make your soul ready to receive the Bridegroom, Who watches while you

sleep, and Who intends to give you countless gifts and graces, if you on your part are prepared

to accept them. In the morning rise with joyful expectation of the Blessing you hope for,

and (having made your Confession) go with the fullest trust, but at the same time with the

fullest humility, to receive that Heavenly Food which will sustain your immortal life. And

after having said the sacred words, “Lord, I am not worthy,” do not make any further

movement whatever, either in prayer or otherwise, but gently opening your mouth, in the

fulness of faith, hope, and love, receive Him in Whom, by Whom, and through Whom,

you believe, hope, and love. O my child, bethink you that just as the bee, having gathered

heaven’s dew and earth’s sweetest juices from amid the flowers, carries it to her hive; so the

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Priest, having taken the Saviour, God’s Own Son, Who came down from Heaven, the Son

of Mary, Who sprang up as earth’s choicest flower, from the Altar, feeds you with that Bread

of Sweetness and of all delight. When you have received it kindle your heart to adore the

King of our Salvation, tell Him of all your own personal matters, and realise that He is

within you, seeking your best happiness. In short, give Him the very best reception you

possibly can, and act so that in all you do it may be evident that God is with you. When you

cannot have the blessing of actual Communion, at least communicate in heart and mind,

uniting yourself by ardent desire to the Life-giving Body of the Saviour.

Your main intention in Communion should be to grow, strengthen, and abound in the

Love of God; for Love’s Sake receive that which Love Alone gives you. Of a truth there is

no more loving or tender aspect in which to gaze upon the Saviour than this act, in which

He, so to say, annihilates Himself, and gives Himself to us as food, in order to fill our souls,

and to unite Himself more closely to the heart and flesh of His faithful ones.

If men of the world ask why you communicate so often, tell them that it is that you may

learn to love God; that you may be cleansed from imperfections, set free from trouble,

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comforted in affliction, strengthened in weakness. Tell them that there are two manner of

men who need frequent Communion—those who are perfect, since being ready they were

much to blame did they not come to the Source and Fountain of all perfection; and the im-

perfect, that they may learn how to become perfect; the strong, lest they become weak, and

the weak, that they may become strong; the sick that they may be healed, and the sound lest

they sicken. Tell them that you, imperfect, weak and ailing, need frequently to communicate

with your Perfection, your Strength, your Physician. Tell them that those who are but little

engaged in worldly affairs should communicate often, because they have leisure; and those

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who are heavily pressed with business, because they stand so much in need of help; and he

who is hard worked needs frequent and substantial food. Tell them that you receive the

Blessed Sacrament that you may learn to receive it better; one rarely does that well which

one seldom does. Therefore, my child, communicate frequently,—as often as you can,

subject to the advice of your spiritual Father. Our mountain hares turn white in winter, be-

cause they live in, and feed upon, the snow, and by dint of adoring and feeding upon Beauty,

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Goodness, and Purity itself in this most Divine Sacrament you too will become lovely, holy,

pure.

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PART III. CONTAINING COUNSELS CONCERNING THE PRACTICE OF VIRTUE.

PART III. CONTAINING COUNSELS CONCERNING THE PRACTICE OF VIRTUE.

PART III. CONTAINING COUNSELS CONCERNING

THE PRACTICE OF VIRTUE.

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CHAPTER I. How to select that which we should chiefly Practise.

CHAPTER I. How to select that which we should chiefly Practise.

CHAPTER I. How to select that which we should chiefly Practise.

THE queen bee never takes wing without being surrounded by all her Subjects; even so

Love never enters the heart but it is sure to bring all other virtues in its train; marshalling

and employing them as a captain his soldiers; yet, nevertheless, Love does not set them all

to work suddenly, or equally, at all times and everywhere. The righteous man is “like a tree

planted by the water side, that will bring forth his fruit in due season;” 1 inasmuch as Love,

watering and refreshing the soul, causes it to bring forth good works, each in season as re-

quired. There is an old proverb to the effect that the sweetest music is unwelcome at a time

of mourning; and certain persons have made a great mistake when, seeking to cultivate

some special virtue, they attempt to obtrude it on all occasions, like the ancient philosophers

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we read of, who were always laughing or weeping. Worse still if they take upon themselves

to censure those who do not make a continual study of this their pet virtue. S. Paul tells us

to “rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep;” 2 and Charity is patient,

kind, liberal, prudent, indulgent.

At the same time, there are virtues of universal account, which must not only be called

into occasional action, but ought to spread their influence over everything. We do not very

often come across opportunities for exercising strength, magnanimity, or magnificence; but

gentleness, temperance, modesty, and humility, are graces which ought to colour everything

we do. There may be virtues of a more exalted mould, but at all events these are the most

continually called for in daily life. Sugar is better than salt, but we use salt more generally

and oftener. Consequently, it is well to have a good and ready stock in hand of those general

virtues of which we stand in so perpetual a need.

In practising any virtue, it is well to choose that which is most according to our duty,

rather than most according to our taste. It was Saint Paula’s liking to practise bodily morti-

fications with a view to the keener enjoyment of spiritual sweetness, but obedience to her

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superiors was a higher duty; and therefore Saint Jerome acknowledges that she was wrong

in practising excessive abstinence contrary to the advice of her Bishop. And the Apostles,

whose mission it was to preach the Gospel, and feed souls with the Bread of Life, judged

well that it was not right for them to hinder this holy work in order to minister to the ma-

terial wants of the poor, weighty as that work was also. 3 Every calling stands in special need

of some special virtue; those required of a prelate, a prince, or a soldier, are quite different;

so are those beseeming a wife or a widow, and although all should possess every virtue, yet

1

Ps. i. 3.

2

Rom. xii. 15.

3

Acts vi. 2.

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all are not called upon to exercise them equally, but each should cultivate chiefly those which

are important to the manner of life to which he is called.

Among such virtues as have no special adaptation to our own calling, choose the most

excellent, not the most showy. A comet generally looks larger than the stars, and fills the

eye more; but all the while comets are not nearly so important as the stars, and only seem

so large to us because they are nearer to us than stars, and are of a grosser kind. So there are

certain virtues which touch us very sensibly and are very material, so to say, and therefore

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ordinary people give them the preference. Thus the common run of men ordinarily value

temporal almsgiving more than spiritual; and think more of fasting, exterior discipline and

bodily mortification than of meekness, cheerfulness, modesty, and other interior mortifica-

tions, which nevertheless are far better. Do you then, my daughter, choose the best virtues,

not those which are most highly esteemed; the most excellent, not the most visible; the

truest, not the most conspicuous.

It is well for everybody to select some special virtue at which to aim, not as neglecting

any others, but as an object and pursuit to the mind. Saint John, Bishop of Alexandria, saw

a vision of a lovely maiden, brighter than the sun, in shining garments, and wearing an olive

crown, who said to him, “I am the King’s eldest daughter, and if thou wilt have me for thy

friend, I will bring thee to see His Face.” Then he knew that it was pity for the poor which

God thus commended to him, and from that time he gave himself so heartily to practise it,

that he is universally known as Saint John the Almoner. Eulogius Alexandrinus desired to

devote himself wholly to God, but he had not courage either to adopt the solitary life, or to

put himself under obedience, and therefore he took a miserable beggar, seething in dirt and

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leprosy, to live with him; and to do this more thoroughly, he vowed to honour and serve

him as a servant does his lord and master. After a while, both feeling greatly tempted to part

company, they referred to the great Saint Anthony, who said, “Beware of separating, my

sons, for you are both near your end, and if the Angel find you not together, you will be in

danger of losing your crowns.”

Saint Louis counted it a privilege to visit the hospitals, where he used to tend the sick

with his own royal hands. Saint Francis loved poverty above all things, and called her his

lady-love. Saint Dominic gave himself up to preaching, whence his Order takes its name. 4

Saint Gregory the Great specially delighted to receive pilgrims after the manner of faithful

Abraham, and like him entertained the King of Glory under a pilgrim’s garb. Tobit devoted

himself to the charitable work of burying the dead. Saint Elizabeth, albeit a mighty princess,

loved above all things to humble herself. When Saint Catherine of Genoa became a widow,

4

The Preaching Friars.

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she gave herself up to work in an hospital. Cassian relates how a certain devout maiden

once besought Saint Athanasius to help her in cultivating the grace of patience; and he gave

her a poor widow as companion, who was cross, irritable, and altogether intolerable, and

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whose perpetual fretfulness gave the pious lady abundant opportunity of practising gentleness

and patience. And so some of God’s servants devote themselves to nursing the sick, helping

the poor, teaching little children in the faith, reclaiming the fallen, building churches, and

adorning the altar, making peace among men. Therein they resemble embroidresses who

work all manner of silks, gold and silver on various grounds, so producing beautiful flowers.

Just so the pious souls who undertake some special devout practice use it as the ground of

their spiritual embroidery, and frame all manner of other graces upon it, ordering their ac-

tions and affections better by means of this their chief thread which runs through all.

“Upon Thy Right Hand did stand the Queen in a vesture of gold wrought about with

divers colours.” 5

When we are beset by any particular vice, it is well as far as possible to make the opposite

virtue our special aim, and turn everything to that account; so doing, we shall overcome

our enemy, and meanwhile make progress in all virtue. Thus, if I am beset with pride or

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anger, I must above all else strive to cultivate humility and gentleness, and I must turn all

my religious exercises,—prayer, sacraments, prudence, constancy, moderation, to the same

object. The wild boar sharpens its tusks by grinding them against its other teeth, which by

the same process are sharpened and pointed; and so when a good man endeavours to perfect

himself in some virtue which he is conscious of specially needing, he ought to give it edge

and point by the aid of other virtues, which will themselves be confirmed and strengthened

as he uses them with that object. It was so with Job, who, while specially exercising the virtue

of patience amid the numberless temptations which beset him, was confirmed in all manner

of holiness and godly virtues. And Saint Gregory Nazianzen says, that sometimes a person

has attained the height of goodness by one single act of virtue, performed with the greatest

perfection; instancing Rahab as an example, who, having practised the virtue of hospitality

very excellently, reached a high point of glory. 6 Of course, any such action must needs be

performed with a very exceeding degree of fervour and charity.

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5

Psalm 5. 13, 14. “En son beau vestement de drap d’or recame, Et d’ouvrages divers a l’aiguile seme.”

6

S. Francis evidently alludes here to the mention made of Rahab by S. Paul. Heb. xi. 31.

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SAINT AUGUSTINE says very admirably, that beginners in devotion are wont to

commit certain faults which, while they are blameable according to the strict laws of perfec-

tion, are yet praiseworthy by reason of the promise they hold forth of a future excellent

goodness, to which they actually tend. For instance, that common shrinking fear which

gives rise to an excessive scrupulosity in the souls of some who are but just set free from a

course of sin, is commendable at that early stage, and is the almost certain forerunner of

future purity of conscience. But this same fear would be blameable in those who are farther

advanced, because love should reign in their hearts, and love is sure to drive away all such

servile fear by degrees.

In his early days, Saint Bernard was very severe and harsh towards those whom he dir-

ected, telling them, to begin with, that they must put aside the body, and come to him with

their minds only. In confession, he treated all faults, however small, with extreme severity,

and his poor apprentices in the study of perfection were so urged onwards, that by dint of

pressing he kept them back, for they lost heart and breath when they found themselves thus

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driven up so steep and high an ascent. Therein, my daughter, you can see that, although it

was his ardent zeal for the most perfect purity which led that great Saint so to act, and al-

though such zeal is a great virtue, still it was a virtue which required checking. And so God

Himself checked it in a vision, by which He filled S. Bernard with so gentle, tender, and

loving a spirit, that he was altogether changed, blaming himself heavily for having been so

strict and so severe, and becoming so kindly and indulgent, that he made himself all things

to all men in order to win all.

S. Jerome tells us that his beloved daughter, S. Paula, was not only extreme, but obstinate

in practising bodily mortifications, and refusing to yield to the advice given her upon that

head by her Bishop, S. Epiphanius; and furthermore, she gave way so excessively to her grief

at the death of those she loved as to peril her own life. Whereupon S. Jerome says: “It will

be said that I am accusing this saintly woman rather than praising her, but I affirm before

Jesus, Whom she served, and Whom I seek to serve, that I am not saying what is untrue on

one side or the other, but simply describing her as one Christian another; that is to say, I

am writing her history, not her panegyric, and her faults are the virtues of others.” He means

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to say that the defects and faults of S. Paula would have been looked upon as virtues in a

less perfect soul; and indeed there are actions which we must count as imperfections in the

perfect, which yet would be highly esteemed in the imperfect. When at the end of a sickness

the invalid’s legs swell, it is a good sign, indicating that natural strength is returning, and

throwing off foul humours; but it would be a bad sign in one not avowedly sick, as showing

that nature was too feeble to disperse or absorb those humours.

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So, my child, we must think well of those whom we see practising virtues, although

imperfectly, since the Saints have done the like; but as to ourselves we must give heed to

practise them, not only diligently, but discreetly, and to this end we shall do well strictly to

follow the Wise Man’s counsel, 7 and not trust in our own wisdom, but lean on those whom

God has given as our guides. And here I must say a few words concerning certain things

which some reckon as virtues, although they are nothing of the sort—I mean ecstasies,

trances, rhapsodies, extraordinary transformations, and the like, which are dwelt on in some

books, and which promise to raise the soul to a purely intellectual contemplation, an alto-

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gether supernatural mental altitude, and a life of pre-eminent excellence. But I would have

you see, my child, that these perfections are not virtues, they are rather rewards which God

gives to virtues, or perhaps, more correctly speaking, tokens of the joys of everlasting life,

occasionally granted to men in order to kindle in them a desire for the fulness of joy which

is only to be found in Paradise. But we must not aspire to such graces, which are in nowise

necessary to us in order to love and serve God, our only lawful ambition. Indeed, for the

most part, these graces are not to be acquired by labour or industry, and that because they

are rather passions than actions, which we may receive, but cannot create. Moreover, our

business only is to become good, devout people, pious men and women; and all our efforts

must be to that end. If it should please God further to endow us with angelic perfection, we

should then be prepared to become good angels; but meanwhile let us practise, in all simpli-

city, humility and devotion, those lowly virtues to the attainment of which our Lord has

bidden us labour,—I mean patience, cheerfulness, self-mortification, humility, obedience,

poverty, chastity, kindness to our neighbour, forbearance towards his failings, diligence,

and a holy fervour. Let us willingly resign the higher eminences to lofty souls. We are not

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worthy to take so high a rank in God’s service; let us be content to be as scullions, porters,

insignificant attendants in His household, leaving it to Him if He should hereafter see fit to

call us to His own council chamber. Of a truth, my child, the King of Glory does not reward

His servants according to the dignity of their office, but according to the humility and love

with which they have exercised it. While Saul was seeking his father’s asses, he found the

kingdom of Israel: 8 Rebecca watering Abraham’s camels, became his son’s wife: 9 Ruth

gleaning after Boaz’ reapers, and lying down at his feet, was raised up to become his bride.

10 Those who pretend to such great and extraordinary graces are very liable to delusions

and mistakes, so that sometimes it turns out that people who aspire to be angels are not or-

dinarily good men, and that their goodness lies more in high-flown words than in heart and

7

Ecclus. vi. 2, 32, 36.

8

1 Sam. ix.

9

Gen. xxiv.

10

Ruth ii. iii.

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deed. But we must beware of despising or presumptuously condemning anything. Only,

while thanking God for the pre-eminence of others, let us abide contentedly in our own

lower but safer path,—a path of less distinction, but more suitable to our lowliness, resting

satisfied that if we walk steadily and faithfully therein, God will lift us up to greater things.

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“YE have need of patience, that, after ye have done the Will of God, ye might receive

the promise,” says Saint Paul; 11 and the Saviour said, “In your patience possess ye your

souls.” 12 The greatest happiness of any one is “to possess his soul;” and the more perfect

our patience, the more fully we do so possess our souls. Call often to mind that our Saviour

redeemed us by bearing and suffering, and in like manner we must seek our own salvation

amid sufferings and afflictions; bearing insults, contradictions and troubles with all the

gentleness we can possibly command. Do not limit your patience to this or that kind of trial,

but extend it universally to whatever God may send, or allow to befall you. Some people

will only bear patiently with trials which carry their own salve of dignity,—such as being

wounded in battle, becoming a prisoner of war, being ill-used for the sake of their religion,

being impoverished by some strife out of which they came triumphant. Now these persons

do not love tribulation, but only the honour which attends it. A really patient servant of

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God is as ready to bear inglorious troubles as those which are honourable. A brave man can

easily bear with contempt, slander and false accusation from an evil world; but to bear such

injustice at the hands of good men, of friends and relations, is a great test of patience. I have

a greater respect for the gentleness with which the great S. Charles Borromeo long endured

the public reproaches which a celebrated preacher of a reformed Order used to pour out

upon him, than for all the other attacks he bore with. For, just as the sting of a bee hurts far

more than that of a fly, so the injuries or contradictions we endure from good people are

much harder to bear than any others. But it is a thing which very often happens, and

sometimes two worthy men, who are both highly well-intentioned after their own fashion,

annoy and even persecute one another grievously.

Be patient, not only with respect to the main trials which beset you, but also under the

accidental and accessory annoyances which arise out of them. We often find people who

imagine themselves ready to accept a trial in itself who are impatient of its consequences.

We hear one man say, “I should not mind poverty, were it not that I am unable to bring up

my children and receive my friends as handsomely as I desire.” And another says, “I should

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not mind, were it not that the world will suppose it is my own fault;” while another would

patiently bear to be the subject of slander provided nobody believed it. Others, again, accept

one side of a trouble but fret against the rest—as, for instance, believing themselves to be

patient under sickness, only fretting against their inability to obtain the best advice, or at

the inconvenience they are to their friends. But, dear child, be sure that we must patiently

accept, not sickness only, but such sickness as God chooses to send, in the place, among the

11

Heb. x. 36.

12

S. Luke xxi. 19.

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people, and subject to the circumstances which He ordains;—and so with all other troubles.

If any trouble comes upon you, use the remedies with which God supplies you. Not to do

this is to tempt Him; but having done so, wait whatever result He wills with perfect resigna-

tion. If He pleases to let the evil be remedied, thank Him humbly; but if it be His will that

the evil grow greater than the remedies, patiently bless His Holy Name.

Follow Saint Gregory’s advice: When you are justly blamed for some fault you have

committed, humble yourself deeply, and confess that you deserve the blame. If the accusation

be false, defend yourself quietly, denying the fact; this is but due respect for truth and your

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neighbour’s edification. But if after you have made your true and legitimate defence you

are still accused, do not be troubled, and do not try to press your defence—you have had

due respect for truth, have the same now for humility. By acting thus you will not infringe

either a due care for your good name, or the affection you are bound to entertain for peace,

humility and gentleness of heart.

Complain as little as possible of your wrongs, for as a general rule you may be sure that

complaining is sin; 13 the rather that self-love always magnifies our injuries: above all, do

not complain to people who are easily angered and excited. If it is needful to complain to

some one, either as seeking a remedy for your injury, or in order to soothe your mind, let

it be to some calm, gentle spirit, greatly filled with the Love of God; for otherwise, instead

of relieving your heart, your confidants will only provoke it to still greater disturbance; instead

of taking out the thorn which pricks you, they will drive it further into your foot.

Some people when they are ill, or in trouble, or injured by any one, restrain their

complaints, because they think (and that rightly) that to murmur betokens great weakness

or a narrow mind; but nevertheless, they exceedingly desire and maneuvre to make others

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pity them, desiring to be considered as suffering with patience and courage. Now this is a

kind of patience certainly, but it is a spurious patience, which in reality is neither more nor

less than a very refined, very subtle form of ambition and vanity. To them we may apply

the Apostle’s words, “He hath whereof to glory, but not before God.” 14 A really patient

man neither complains nor seeks to be pitied; he will speak simply and truly of his trouble,

without exaggerating its weight or bemoaning himself; if others pity him, he will accept

their compassion patiently, unless they pity him for some ill he is not enduring, in which

case he will say so with meekness, and abide in patience and truthfulness, combating his

grief and not complaining of it.

As to the trials which you will encounter in devotion (and they are certain to arise), bear

in mind our dear Lord’s words: “A woman, when she is in travail, hath sorrow, because her

hour is come; but as soon as she is delivered of the child, she remembereth no more the

13

“Qui se plaint, peche.”

14

Rom. iv. 2.

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anguish, for joy that a child is born into the world.” 15 You, too, have conceived in your

soul the most gracious of children, even Jesus Christ, and before He can be brought forth

you must inevitably travail with pain; but be of good cheer, for when these pangs are over,

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you will possess an abiding joy, having brought such a man into the world. And He will be

really born for you, when He is perfected in your heart by love, and in your actions by imit-

ating His life.

When you are sick, offer all your pains and weakness to our Dear Lord, and ask Him

to unite them to the sufferings which He bore for you. Obey your physician, and take all

medicines, remedies and nourishment, for the Love of God, remembering the vinegar and

gall He tasted for love of us; desire your recovery that you may serve Him; do not shrink

from languor and weakness out of obedience to Him, and be ready to die if He wills it, to

His Glory, and that you may enter into His Presence.

Bear in mind that the bee while making its honey lives upon a bitter food: and in like

manner we can never make acts of gentleness and patience, or gather the honey of the truest

virtues, better than while eating the bread of bitterness, and enduring hardness. And just

as the best honey is that made from thyme, a small and bitter herb, so that virtue which is

practised amid bitterness and lowly sorrow is the best of all virtues.

Gaze often inwardly upon Jesus Christ crucified, naked, blasphemed, falsely accused,

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forsaken, overwhelmed with every possible grief and sorrow, and remember that none of

your sufferings can ever be compared to His, either in kind or degree, and that you can

never suffer anything for Him worthy to be weighed against what He has borne for you.

Consider the pains which martyrs have endured, and think how even now many people

are bearing afflictions beyond all measure greater than yours, and say, “Of a truth my trouble

is comfort, my torments are but roses as compared to those whose life is a continual death,

without solace, or aid or consolation, borne down with a weight of grief tenfold greater than

mine.”

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S. John xvi. 21.

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ELISHA bade the poor widow “borrow vessels, even empty vessels not a few, and pour

oil into all those vessels;” 16 and so in order to receive God’s Grace in our hearts, they must

be as empty vessels—not filled with self-esteem. The swallow with its sharp cry and keen

glance has the power of frightening away birds of prey, and for that reason the dove prefers

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it to all other birds, and lives surely beside it;—even so humility drives Satan away, and

cherishes the gifts and graces of the Holy Spirit within us, and for that reason all the

Saints—and especially the King of Saints and His Blessed Mother—have always esteemed

the grace of humility above all other virtues.

We call that vainglory which men take to themselves, either for what is not in them, or

which being in them is not their own, or which being in them and their own yet is not worthy

of their self-satisfaction. For instance, noble birth, favour of great men, popular applause,

all these are things nowise belonging to ourselves, but coming from our forefathers, or the

opinion of others. Some people are proud and conceited because they ride a fine horse, wear

a feather in their hat, and are expensively dressed, but who can fail to see their folly, or that

if any one has reason to be proud over such things, it would be the horse, the bird, and the

tailor! Or what can be more contemptible than to found one’s credit on a horse, a plume,

or a ruff? Others again pride themselves upon their dainty moustaches, their well-trimmed

beard or curled hair, their white hands, or their dancing, singing and the like: but is it not

a petty vanity which can seek to be esteemed for any such trivial and frivolous matters?

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Then again, some look for the world’s respect and honour because they have acquired some

smatterings of science, expecting all their neighbours to listen and yield to them, and such

men we call pedants. Others make great capital of their personal beauty, and imagine that

every one is lost in admiration of it; but all this is utterly vain, foolish and impertinent, and

the glory men take to themselves for such matters must be called vain, childish and frivolous.

You may test real worth as we test balm, which is tried by being distilled in water, and

if it is precipitated to the bottom, it is known to be pure and precious. So if you want to

know whether a man is really wise, learned, generous or noble, see if his life is moulded by

humility, modesty and submission. If so, his gifts are genuine; but if they are only surface

and showy, you may be sure that in proportion to their demonstrativeness so is their unreal-

ity. Those pearls which are formed amid tempest and storm have only an outward shell,

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2 Kings iv. 3, 4.

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and are hollow within; and so when a man’s good qualities are fed by pride, vanity and

boasting, they will soon have nothing save empty show, without sap, marrow or substance.

Honour, rank and dignity are like the saffron, which never thrives so well as when

trodden under foot. Beauty only attracts when it is free from any such aim. Self-conscious

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beauty loses its charm, and learning becomes a discredit and degenerates into pedantry,

when we are puffed up by it.

Those who are punctilious about rank, title or precedence, both lay themselves open to

criticism and degradation, and also throw contempt on all such things; because an honour

which is valuable when freely paid, is worthless when sought for or exacted. When the pea-

cock opens his showy tail, he exhibits the ugliness of his body beneath; and many flowers

which are beautiful while growing, wither directly we gather them. And just as men who

inhale mandragora from afar as they pass, find it sweet, while those who breathe it closely

are made faint and ill by the same, so honour may be pleasant to those who merely taste it

as they pass, without seeking or craving for it, but it will become very dangerous and hurtful

to such as take delight in and feed upon it.

An active effort to acquire virtue is the first step towards goodness; but an active effort

to acquire honour is the first step towards contempt and shame. A well-conditioned mind

will not throw away its powers upon such sorry trifles as rank, position or outward forms—it

has other things to do, and will leave all that to meaner minds. He who can find pearls will

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not stop to pick up shells; and so a man who aims at real goodness will not be keen about

outward tokens of honour. Undoubtedly every one is justified in keeping his own place, and

there is no want of humility in that so long as it is done simply and without contention. Just

as our merchant-ships coming from Peru with gold and silver often bring apes and parrots

likewise, because these cost but little and do not add to the weight of a cargo, so good men

seeking to grow in grace can take their natural rank and position, so long as they are not

engrossed by such things, and do not involve themselves in anxiety, contention or ill-will

on their account. I am not speaking here of those whose position is public, or even of certain

special private persons whose dignity may be important. In all such cases each man must

move in his own sphere, with prudence and discretion, together with charity and courtesy.

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TO you however, my daughter, I would teach a deeper humility, for that of which I have

been speaking is almost more truly to be called worldly wisdom than humility. There are

some persons who dare not or will not think about the graces with which God has endowed

them, fearing lest they should become self-complacent and vain-glorious; but they are quite

wrong. For if, as the Angelic Doctor says, the real way of attaining to the Love of God is by

a careful consideration of all His benefits given to us, then the better we realise these the

more we shall love Him; and inasmuch as individual gifts are more acceptable than general

gifts, so they ought to be more specially dwelt upon. Of a truth, nothing so tends to humble

us before the Mercy of God as the multitude of His gifts to us; just as nothing so tends to

humble us before His Justice as the multitude of our misdeeds. Let us consider what He has

done for us, and what we have done contrary to His Will, and as we review our sins in detail,

so let us review His Grace in the same. There is no fear that a perception of what He has

given you will puff you up, so long as you keep steadily in mind that whatever is good in

you is not of yourself. Do mules cease to be clumsy, stinking beasts because they are used

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to carry the dainty treasures and perfumes of a prince? “What hast thou that thou didst not

receive? Now, if thou didst receive it, why dost thou glory as if thou hadst not received it?”

17 On the contrary, a lively appreciation of the grace given to you should make you humble,

for appreciation begets gratitude. But if, when realising the gifts God has given you, any

vanity should beset you, the infallible remedy is to turn to the thought of all our ingratitude,

imperfection, and weakness. Any one who will calmly consider what he has done without

God, cannot fail to realise that what he does with God is no merit of his own; and so we may

rejoice in that which is good in us, and take pleasure in the fact, but we shall give all the

glory to God Alone, Who Alone is its Author.

It was in this spirit that the Blessed Virgin confessed that God had done “great things”

to her; 18 only that she might humble herself and exalt Him. “My soul doth magnify the

Lord,” she said, by reason of the gifts He had given her.

We are very apt to speak of ourselves as nought, as weakness itself, as the offscouring

of the earth; but we should be very much vexed to be taken at our word and generally con-

sidered what we call ourselves. On the contrary, we often make-believe to run away and

hide ourselves, merely to be followed and sought out; we pretend to take the lowest place,

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with the full intention of being honourably called to come up higher. But true humility does

not affect to be humble, and is not given to make a display in lowly words. It seeks not only

to conceal other virtues, but above all it seeks and desires to conceal itself; and if it were

17

1 Cor. iv. 7.

18

S. Luke i. 46-49.

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lawful to tell lies, or feign or give scandal, humility would perhaps sometimes affect a cloak

of pride in order to hide itself utterly. Take my advice, my daughter, and either use no pro-

fessions of humility, or else use them with a real mind corresponding to your outward ex-

pressions; never cast down your eyes without humbling your heart; and do not pretend to

wish to be last and least, unless you really and sincerely mean it. I would make this so gen-

eral a rule as to have no exception; only courtesy sometimes requires us to put forward those

who obviously would not put themselves forward, but this is not deceitful or mock humility;

and so with respect to certain expressions of regard which do not seem strictly true, but

which are not dishonest, because the speaker really intends to give honour and respect to

him to whom they are addressed; and even though the actual words may be somewhat ex-

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wish that all our expressions were as nearly as possible regulated by real heart feeling in all

truthfulness and simplicity. A really humble man would rather that some one else called

him worthless and good-for-nothing, than say so of himself; at all events, if such things are

said, he does not contradict them, but acquiesces contentedly, for it is his own opinion. We

meet people who tell us that they leave mental prayer to those who are more perfect, not

feeling themselves worthy of it; that they dare not communicate frequently, because they

do not feel fit to do so; that they fear to bring discredit on religion if they profess it, through

their weakness and frailty; while others decline to use their talents in the service of God and

their neighbour, because, forsooth, they know their weakness, and are afraid of becoming

proud if they do any good thing,—lest while helping others they might destroy themselves.

But all this is unreal, and not merely a spurious but a vicious humility, which tacitly and

secretly condemns God’s gifts, and makes a pretext of lowliness while really exalting self-

love, self-sufficiency, indolence, and evil tempers. “Ask thee a sign of the Lord thy God; ask

it either in the depth or in the height above.” 19 So spake the prophet to King Ahaz; but he

answered, “I will not ask, neither will I tempt the Lord.” Unhappy man! he affects to show

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exceeding reverence to God, and under a pretence of humility refuses to seek the grace

offered by the Divine Goodness. Could he not see that when God wills to grant us a favour,

it is mere pride to reject it, that God’s gifts must needs be accepted, and that true humility

lies in obedience and the most literal compliance with His Will! Well then, God’s Will is

that we should be perfect, uniting ourselves to Him, and imitating Him to the utmost of

our powers. The proud man who trusts in himself may well undertake nothing, but the

humble man is all the braver that he knows his own helplessness, and his courage waxes in

proportion to his low opinion of himself, because all his trust is in God, Who delights to

show forth His Power in our weakness, His Mercy in our misery. The safest course is humbly

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and piously to venture upon whatever may be considered profitable for us by those who

undertake our spiritual guidance.

Nothing can be more foolish than to fancy we know that of which we are really ignorant;

to affect knowledge while conscious that we are ignorant is intolerable vanity. For my part,

I would rather not put forward that which I really do know, while on the other hand neither

would I affect ignorance. When Charity requires it, you should readily and kindly impart

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to your neighbour not only that which is necessary for his instruction, but also what is

profitable for his consolation. The same humility which conceals graces with a view to their

preservation is ready to bring them forth at the bidding of Charity, with a view to their in-

crease and perfection; therein reminding me of that tree in the Isles of Tylos, 20 which closes

its beautiful carnation blossoms at night, only opening them to the rising sun, so that the

natives say they go to sleep. Just so humility hides our earthly virtues and perfections, only

expanding them at the call of Charity, which is not an earthly, but a heavenly, not a mere

moral, but a divine virtue; the true sun of all virtues, which should all be ruled by it, so that

any humility which controverts charity is unquestionably false.

I would not affect either folly or wisdom; for just as humility deters me from pretending

to be wise, so simplicity and straightforwardness deter me from pretending to be foolish;

and just as vanity is opposed to humility, so all affectation and pretence are opposed to

honesty and simplicity. If certain eminent servants of God have feigned folly in order to be

despised by the world, we may marvel, but not imitate them; for they had special and ex-

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traordinary reasons for doing extraordinary things, and cannot be used as a rule for such

as we are. When David 21 danced more than was customary before the Ark of the Covenant,

it was not with the intention of affecting folly, but simply as expressing the unbounded and

extraordinary gladness of his heart. Michal his wife reproached him with his actions as folly,

but he did not mind being “vile and base in his own sight,” but declared himself willing to

be despised for God’s Sake. And so, if you should be despised for acts of genuine devotion,

humility will enable you to rejoice in so blessed a contempt, the cause of which does not lie

with you.

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Islands in the Persian Gulf.

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2 Sam. vi. 14.

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BUT, my daughter, I am going a step further, and I bid you everywhere and in everything

to rejoice in your own abjection. Perhaps you will ask in reply what I mean by that. In Latin

abjection means humility, and humility means abjection, so that when Our Lady says in the

Magnificat that all generations shall call her blessed, because God hath regarded the low

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estate of His handmaiden, 22 she means that He has accepted her abjection and lowliness

in order to fill her with graces and favours. Nevertheless, there is a difference between hu-

mility and abjection; for abjection is the poverty, vileness and littleness which exist in us,

without our taking heed to them; but humility implies a real knowledge and voluntary re-

cognition of that abjection. And the highest point of humility consists in not merely acknow-

ledging one’s abjection, but in taking pleasure therein, not from any want of breadth or

courage, but to give the more glory to God’s Divine Majesty, and to esteem one’s neighbour

more highly than one’s self. This is what I would have you do; and to explain myself more

clearly, let me tell you that the trials which afflict us are sometimes abject, sometimes hon-

ourable. NOW many people will accept the latter, but very few are willing to accept the

former. Everybody respects and pities a pious hermit shivering in his worn-out garb; but

let a poor gentleman or lady be in like case, and they are despised for it,—and so their poverty

is abject. A religious receives a sharp rebuke from his superior meekly, or a child from his

parent, and every one will call it obedience, mortification, wisdom; but let a knight or a lady

accept the like from some one, albeit for the Love of God, and they will forthwith be accused

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of cowardice. This again is abject suffering. One person has a cancer in the arm, another in

the face; the former only has the pain to bear, but the latter has also to endure all the disgust

and repulsion caused by his disease; and this is abjection. And what I want to teach you is,

that we should not merely rejoice in our trouble, which we do by means of patience, but we

should also cherish the abjection, which is done by means of humility. Again, there are abject

and honourable virtues; for the world generally despises patience, gentleness, simplicity,

and even humility itself, while, on the contrary, it highly esteems prudence, valour, and

liberality. Sometimes even there may be a like distinction drawn between acts of one and

the same virtue—one being despised and the other respected. Thus almsgiving and forgive-

ness of injuries are both acts of charity, but while every one esteems the first, the world looks

down upon the last. A young man or a girl who refuses to join in the excesses of dress,

amusement, or gossip of their circle, is laughed at and criticised, and their self-restraint is

called affectation or bigotry. Well, to rejoice in that is to rejoice in abjection. Or, to take

another shape of the same thing. We are employed in visiting the sick—if I am sent to the

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most wretched cases, it is an abjection in the world’s sight, and consequently I like it. If I

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S. Luke i. 48.

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am sent to those of a better class, it is an interior abjection, for there is less grace and merit

in the work, and so I can accept that abjection. If one has a fall in the street, there is the ri-

diculous part of it to be borne, as well as the possible pain; and this is an abjection we must

accept. There are even some faults, in which there is no harm beyond their abjection, and

although humility does not require us to commit them intentionally, it does require of us

not to be disturbed at having committed them. I mean certain foolish acts, incivilities, and

inadvertencies, which we ought to avoid as far as may be out of civility and decorum, but

of which, if accidentally committed, we ought to accept the abjection heartily, out of humility.

To go further still,—if in anger or excitement I have been led to use unseemly words, offend-

ing God and my neighbour thereby, I will repent heartily, and be very grieved for the offence,

which I must try to repair to the utmost; but meanwhile I will accept the abjection and dis-

grace which will ensue, and were it possible to separate the two things, I ought earnestly to

reject the sin, while I retained the abjection readily.

But while we rejoice in the abjection, we must nevertheless use all due and lawful means

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to remedy the evil whence it springs, especially when that evil is serious. Thus, if I have an

abject disease in my face, I should endeavour to get it cured, although I do not wish to oblit-

erate the abjection it has caused me. If I have done something awkward which hurts no one,

I will not make excuses, because, although it was a failing, my own abjection is the only

result; but if I have given offence or scandal through my carelessness or folly, I am bound

to try and remedy it by a sincere apology. There are occasions when charity requires us not

to acquiesce in abjection, but in such a case one ought the more to take it inwardly to heart

for one’s private edification.

Perhaps you will ask what are the most profitable forms of abjection. Unquestionably,

those most helpful to our own souls, and most acceptable to God, are such as come accident-

ally, or in the natural course of events, because we have not chosen them ourselves, but

simply accepted God’s choice, which is always to be preferred to ours. But if we are con-

strained to choose, the greatest abjections are best; and the greatest is whatever is most

contrary to one’s individual inclination, so long as it is in conformity with one’s vocation;

for of a truth our self-will and self-pleasing mars many graces. Who can teach any of us

truly to say with David, “I had rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my God, than to dwell

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in the tents of ungodliness”? 23 None, dear child, save He Who lived and died the scorn of

men, and the outcast of the people, in order that we might be raised up. I have said things

here which must seem very hard to contemplate, but, believe me, they will become sweet as

honey when you try to put them in practice.

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Ps. lxxxiv. 10.

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CHAPTER VII. How to combine due care for a Good Reputation with Humility.

CHAPTER VII. How to combine due care for a Good Reputation

with Humility.

PRAISE, honour, and glory are not bestowed on men for ordinary, but for extraordinary

virtue. By praise we intend to lead men to appreciate the excellence of certain individuals;

giving them honour is the expression of our own esteem for them; and I should say that

glory is the combination of praise and honour from many persons. If praise and honour are

like precious stones, glory is as an enamel thereof. Now, as humility forbids us to aim at

excelling or being preferred to others, it likewise forbids us to aim at praise, honour, and

glory; but it allows us to give heed, as the Wise Man says, to our good name, and that because

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a good name does not imply any one particular excellence, but a general straightforward

integrity of purpose, which we may recognise in ourselves, and desire to be known as pos-

sessing, without any breach of humility. Humility might make us indifferent even to a good

reputation, were it not for charity’s sake; but seeing that it is a groundwork of society, and

without it we are not merely useless but positively harmful to the world, because of the

scandal given by such a deficiency, therefore charity requires, and humility allows, us to

desire and to maintain a good reputation with care.

Moreover, just as the leaves of a tree are valuable, not merely for beauty’s sake, but also

as a shelter to the tender fruit, so a good reputation, if not in itself very important, is still

very useful, not only as an embellishment of life, but as a protection to our virtues, especially

to those which are weakly. The necessity for acting up to our reputation, and being what

we are thought to be, brings a strong though kindly motive power to bear upon a generous

disposition. Let us foster all our virtues, my daughter, because they are pleasing to God, the

Chief Aim of all we do. But just as when men preserve fruits, they do not only conserve

them, but put them into suitable vessels, so while Divine Love is the main thing which keeps

us in the ways of holiness, we may also find help from the effects of a good reputation. But

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it will not do to be over-eager or fanciful about it. Those who are so very sensitive about

their reputation are like people who are perpetually physicking themselves for every carnal

ailment; they mean to preserve their health, but practically they destroy it; and those who

are so very fastidious over their good name are apt to lose it entirely, for they become

fanciful, fretful, and disagreeable, provoking ill-natured remarks.

As a rule, indifference to insult and slander is a much more effectual remedy than re-

sentment, wrath, and vengeance. Slander melts away beneath contempt, but indignation

seems a sort of acknowledgment of its truth. Crocodiles never meddle with any but those

who are afraid of them, and slander only persists in attacking people who are disturbed by

it.

An excessive fear of losing reputation indicates mistrust as to its foundations, which

are to be found in a good and true life. Those towns where the bridges are built of wood are

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very uneasy whenever a sign of flood appears, but they who possess stone bridges are not

anxious unless some very unusual storm appears. And so a soul built up on solid Christian

foundations can afford to despise the outpour of slanderous tongues, but those who know

themselves to be weak are for ever disturbed and uneasy. Be sure, my daughter, that he who

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seeks to be well thought of by everybody will be esteemed by nobody, and those people de-

serve to be despised who are anxious to be highly esteemed by ungodly, unworthy men.

Reputation, after all, is but a signboard giving notice where virtue dwells, and virtue itself

is always and everywhere preferable. Therefore, if it is said that you are a hypocrite because

you are professedly devout, or if you are called a coward because you have forgiven an insult,

despise all such accusations. Such judgments are the utterances of foolish men, and you

must not give up what is right, even though your reputation suffer, for fruit is better than

foliage, that is to say, an inward and spiritual gain is worth all external gains. We may take

a jealous care of our reputation, but not idolise it; and while we desire not to displease good

men, neither should we seek to please those that are evil. A man’s natural adornment is his

beard, and a woman’s her hair; if either be torn out they may never grow again, but if only

shaven or shorn, they will grow all the thicker; and in like manner, if our reputation be

shorn or even shaven by slanderous tongues (of which David says, that “with lies they cut

like a sharp razor ” 24 ), there is no need to be disturbed, it will soon spring again, if not

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brighter, at all events more substantial. But if it be lost through our own vices or meanness

or evil living, it will not be easily restored, because its roots are plucked up. And the root of

a good name is to be found in virtue and honesty, which will always cause it to spring up

afresh, however it may be assaulted. If your good name suffers from some empty pursuit,

some useless habit, some unworthy friendship, they must be renounced, for a good name

is worth more than any such idle indulgence; but if you are blamed or slandered for pious

practices, earnestness in devotion, or whatever tends to win eternal life, then let your slan-

derers have their way, like dogs that bay at the moon! Be sure that, if they should succeed

in rousing any evil impression against you (clipping the beard of your reputation, as it were),

your good name will soon revive, and the razor of slander will strengthen your honour, just

as the pruning-knife strengthens the vine and causes it to bring forth more abundant fruit.

Let us keep Jesus Christ Crucified always before our eyes; let us go on trustfully and simply,

but with discretion and wisdom, in His Service, and He will take care of our reputation; if

He permits us to lose it, it will only be to give us better things, and to train us in a holy hu-

mility, one ounce of which is worth more than a thousand pounds of honour. If we are un-

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justly blamed, let us quietly meet calumny with truth; if calumny perseveres, let us persevere

in humility; there is no surer shelter for our reputation or our soul than the Hand of God.

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Let us serve Him in good report or evil report alike, with S. Paul; 25 so that we may cry out

with David, “For Thy Sake have I suffered reproof, shame hath covered my face.” 26

Of course certain crimes, so grievous that no one who can justify himself should remain

silent, must be excepted; as, too, certain persons whose reputation closely affects the edific-

ation of others. In this case all theologians say that it is right quietly to seek reparation.

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2 Cor. vi. 8.

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Ps. lxix. 7.

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CHAPTER VIII. Gentleness towards others and Remedies against

Anger.

THE holy Chrism, used by the Church according to apostolic tradition, is made of olive

oil mingled with balm, which, among other things, are emblematic of two virtues very spe-

cially conspicuous in our Dear Lord Himself, and which He has specially commended to

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us, as though they, above all things, drew us to Him and taught us to imitate Him: “Take

My yoke upon you, and learn of Me, for I am meek and lowly in heart.” 27 Humility makes

our lives acceptable to God, meekness makes us acceptable to men. Balm, as I said before,

sinking to the bottom of all liquids, is a figure of humility; and oil, floating as it does to the

top, is a figure of gentleness and cheerfulness, rising above all things, and excelling all things,

the very flower of Love, which, so says S. Bernard, comes to perfection when it is not merely

patient, but gentle and cheerful. Give heed, then, daughter, that you keep this mystic chrism

of gentleness and humility in your heart, for it is a favourite device of the Enemy to make

people content with a fair outside semblance of these graces, not examining their inner

hearts, and so fancying themselves to be gentle and humble while they are far otherwise.

And this is easily perceived, because, in spite of their ostentatious gentleness and humility,

they are stirred up with pride and anger by the smallest wrong or contradiction. There is a

popular belief that those who take the antidote commonly called “Saint Paul’s gift,” 28 do

not suffer from the viper’s bite, provided, that is, that the remedy be pure; and even so true

gentleness and humility will avert the burning and swelling which contradiction is apt to

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excite in our hearts. If, when stung by slander or ill-nature, we wax proud and swell with

anger, it is a proof that our gentleness and humility are unreal, and mere artificial show.

When the Patriarch Joseph sent his brethren back from Egypt to his father’s house, he only

gave them one counsel, “See that ye fall not out by the way.” 29 And so, my child, say I to

you. This miserable life is but the road to a blessed life; do not let us fall out by the way one

with another; let us go on with the company of our brethren gently, peacefully, and kindly.

Most emphatically I say it, If possible, fall out with no one, and on no pretext whatever

suffer your heart to admit anger and passion. S. James says, plainly and unreservedly, that

“the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.” 30 Of course it is a duty to resist

27

S. Matt. xi. 29.

28

“La grace de Saint Paul,” in one old edition: in another, “la graisse de Saint Paull;” the latter probably is

the true reading, as there was a quack salve formerly in use for the bites of snakes, partly compounded of adders’

fat. The name is obviously derived from S. Paul’s adventure with the viper in the Island of Melita. (Acts xxviii. ) 29

Gen. xlv. 24.

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S. James i. 20.

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evil and to repress the faults of those for whom we are responsible, steadily and firmly, but

gently and quietly. Nothing so stills the elephant when enraged as the sight of a lamb; nor

does anything break the force of a cannon ball so well as wool. Correction given in anger,

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however tempered by reason, never has so much effect as that which is given altogether

without anger; for the reasonable soul being naturally subject to reason, it is a mere tyranny

which subjects it to passion, and whereinsoever reason is led by passion it becomes odious,

and its just rule obnoxious. When a monarch visits a country peaceably the people are

gratified and flattered; but if the king has to take his armies through the land, even on behalf

of the public welfare, his visit is sure to be unwelcome and harmful, because, however strictly

military discipline may be enforced, there will always be some mischief done to the people.

Just so when reason prevails, and administers reproof, correction, and punishment in a calm

spirit, although it be strict, every one approves and is content; but if reason be hindered by

anger and vexation (which Saint Augustine calls her soldiers) there will be more fear than

love, and reason itself will be despised and resisted. The same Saint Augustine, writing to

Profuturus, says that it is better to refuse entrance to any even the least semblance of anger,

however just; and that because once entered in, it is hard to be got rid of, and what was but

a little mote soon waxes into a great beam. For if anger tarries till night, and the sun goes

down upon our wrath (a thing expressly forbidden by the Apostle 31 ), there is no longer

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any way of getting rid of it; it feeds upon endless false fancies; for no angry man ever yet but

thought his anger just.

Depend upon it, it is better to learn how to live without being angry than to imagine

one can moderate and control anger lawfully; and if through weakness and frailty one is

overtaken by it, it is far better to put it away forcibly than to parley with it; for give anger

ever so little way, and it will become master, like the serpent, who easily works in its body

wherever it can once introduce its head. You will ask how to put away anger. My child, when

you feel its first movements, collect yourself gently and seriously, not hastily or with impetu-

osity. Sometimes in a law court the officials who enforce quiet make more noise than those

they affect to hush; and so, if you are impetuous in restraining your temper, you will throw

your heart into worse confusion than before, and, amid the excitement, it will lose all self-

control.

Having thus gently exerted yourself, follow the advice which the aged S. Augustine gave

to a younger Bishop, Auxilius. “Do,” said he, “what a man should do.” If you are like the

Psalmist, ready to cry out, “Mine eye is consumed for very anger,” 32 go on to say, “Have

mercy upon me, O Lord;” so that God may stretch forth His Right Hand and control your

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31

Eph. iv. 26.

32

In the English version it is, “Mine eye is consumed for very heaviness” (Ps. xxxi. 9), but in the Vulgate we find, “Conturbatus est in ira oculus meus.” (Vulg. Ps. xxx. 10.)

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wrath. I mean, that when we feel stirred with anger, we ought to call upon God for help,

like the Apostles, when they were tossed about with wind and storm, and He is sure to say,

“Peace, be still.” But even here I would again warn you, that your very prayers against the

angry feelings which urge you should be gentle, calm, and without vehemence. Remember

this rule in whatever remedies against anger you may seek. Further, directly you are conscious

of an angry act, atone for the fault by some speedy act of meekness towards the person who

excited your anger. It is a sovereign cure for untruthfulness to unsay what you have falsely

said at once on detecting yourself in falsehood; and so, too, it is a good remedy for anger to

make immediate amends by some opposite act of meekness. There is an old saying, that

fresh wounds are soonest closed.

Moreover, when there is nothing to stir your wrath, lay up a store of meekness and

kindliness, speaking and acting in things great and small as gently as possible. Remember

that the Bride of the Canticles is described as not merely dropping honey, and milk also,

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from her lips, but as having it “under her tongue;” 33 that is to say, in her heart. So we must

not only speak gently to our neighbour, but we must be filled, heart and soul, with gentleness;

and we must not merely seek the sweetness of aromatic honey in courtesy and suavity with

strangers, but also the sweetness of milk among those of our own household and our

neighbours; a sweetness terribly lacking to some who are as angels abroad and devils at

home!

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Cant. iv. 11.

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CHAPTER IX. On Gentleness towards Ourselves.

CHAPTER IX. On Gentleness towards Ourselves.

ONE important direction in which to exercise gentleness, is with respect to ourselves,

never growing irritated with one’s self or one’s imperfections; for although it is but reasonable

that we should be displeased and grieved at our own faults, yet ought we to guard against a

bitter, angry, or peevish feeling about them. Many people fall into the error of being angry

because they have been angry, vexed because they have given way to vexation, thus keeping

up a chronic state of irritation, which adds to the evil of what is past, and prepares the way

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for a fresh fall on the first occasion. Moreover, all this anger and irritation against one’s self

fosters pride, and springs entirely from self-love, which is disturbed and fretted by its own

imperfection. What we want is a quiet, steady, firm displeasure at our own faults. A judge

gives sentence more effectually speaking deliberately and calmly than if he be impetuous

and passionate (for in the latter case he punishes not so much the actual faults before him,

but what they appear to him to be); and so we can chasten ourselves far better by a quiet

stedfast repentance, than by eager hasty ways of penitence, which, in fact, are proportioned

not by the weight of our faults, but according to our feelings and inclinations. Thus one

man who specially aims at purity will be intensely vexed with himself at some very trifling

fault against it, while he looks upon some gross slander of which he has been guilty as a

mere laughing matter. On the other hand, another will torment himself painfully over some

slight exaggeration, while he altogether overlooks some serious offence against purity; and

so on with other things. All this arises solely because men do not judge themselves by the

light of reason, but under the influence of passion.

Believe me, my daughter, as a parent’s tender affectionate remonstrance has far more

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weight with his child than anger and sternness, so, when we judge our own heart guilty, if

we treat it gently, rather in a spirit of pity than anger, encouraging it to amendment, its re-

pentance will be much deeper and more lasting than if stirred up in vehemence and wrath.

For instance:—Let me suppose that I am specially seeking to conquer vanity, and yet

that I have fallen conspicuously into that sin;—instead of taking myself to task as abominable

and wretched, for breaking so many resolutions, calling myself unfit to lift up my eyes to

Heaven, as disloyal, faithless, and the like, I would deal pitifully and quietly with myself.

“Poor heart! so soon fallen again into the snare! Well now, rise up again bravely and fall no

more. Seek God’s Mercy, hope in Him, ask Him to keep you from falling again, and begin

to tread the pathway of humility afresh. We must be more on our guard henceforth.” Such

a course will be the surest way to making a stedfast substantial resolution against the special

fault, to which should be added any external means suitable, and the advice of one’s director.

If any one does not find this gentle dealing sufficient, let him use sterner self-rebuke and

admonition, provided only, that whatever indignation he may rouse against himself, he finally

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who cried out to his troubled soul: “Why art thou so vexed, O my soul, and why art thou

so disquieted within me? O put thy trust in God, for I will yet thank Him, Which is the help

of my countenance, and my God.” 34

So then, when you have fallen, lift up your heart in quietness, humbling yourself deeply

before God by reason of your frailty, without marvelling that you fell;—there is no cause to

marvel because weakness is weak, or infirmity infirm. Heartily lament that you should have

offended God, and begin anew to cultivate the lacking grace, with a very deep trust in His

Mercy, and with a bold, brave heart.

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Ps. xlii. 11, 15.

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CHAPTER X. We must attend to the Business of Life carefully, but

without Eagerness or Over-anxiety.

THE care and diligence due to our ordinary business are very different from solicitude,

anxiety and restlessness. The Angels care for our salvation and seek it diligently, but they

are wholly free from anxiety and solicitude, for, whereas care and diligence naturally appertain

to their love, anxiety would be wholly inconsistent with their happiness; for although care

and diligence can go hand in hand with calmness and peace, those angelic properties could

not unite with solicitude or anxiety, much less with over-eagerness.

Therefore, my daughter, be careful and diligent in all your affairs; God, Who commits

them to you, wills you to give them your best attention; but strive not to be anxious and

solicitous, that is to say, do not set about your work with restlessness and excitement, and

do not give way to bustle and eagerness in what you do;—every form of excitement affects

both judgment and reason, and hinders a right performance of the very thing which excites

us.

Our Lord, rebuking Martha, said, “Thou art careful and troubled about many things.”

35 If she had been simply careful, she would not have been troubled, but giving way to disquiet

and anxiety, she grew eager and troubled, and for that our Lord reproved her. The rivers

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which flow gently through our plains bear barges of rich merchandise, and the gracious

rains which fall softly on the land fertilise it to bear the fruits of the earth;—but when the

rivers swell into torrents, they hinder commerce and devastate the country, and violent

storms and tempests do the like. No work done with impetuosity and excitement was ever

well done, and the old proverb, “Make haste slowly,” is a good one, 36 Solomon says, “There

is one that laboureth and taketh pains, and maketh haste, and is so much the more behind;”

37 we are always soon enough when we do well. The bumble bee makes far more noise and

is more bustling than the honey bee, but it makes nought save wax—no honey; just so those

who are restless and eager, or full of noisy solicitude, never do much or well. Flies harass us

less by what they do than by reason of their multitude, and so great matters give us less

disturbance than a multitude of small affairs. Accept the duties which come upon you

quietly, and try to fulfil them methodically, one after another. If you attempt to do everything

at once, or with confusion, you will only cumber yourself with your own exertions, and by

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dint of perplexing your mind you will probably be overwhelmed and accomplish nothing.

In all your affairs lean solely on God’s Providence, by means of which alone your plans

can succeed. Meanwhile, on your part work on in quiet co-operation with Him, and then

35

S. Luke x. 41.

36

“Festina lente.” “Il faut depescher tout bellement.”

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Ecclus. xi. 11.

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rest satisfied that if you have trusted entirely to Him you will always obtain such a measure

of success as is most profitable for you, whether it seems so or not to your own individual

judgment.

Imitate a little child, whom one sees holding tight with one hand to its father, while with

the other it gathers strawberries or blackberries from the wayside hedge. Even so, while you

gather and use this world’s goods with one hand, always let the other be fast in your Heavenly

Father’s Hand, and look round from time to time to make sure that He is satisfied with what

you are doing, at home or abroad. Beware of letting go, under the idea of making or receiving

more—if He forsakes you, you will fall to the ground at the first step. When your ordinary

work or business is not specially engrossing, let your heart be fixed more on God than on

it; and if the work be such as to require your undivided attention, then pause from time to

time and look to God, even as navigators who make for the haven they would attain, by

looking up at the heavens rather than down upon the deeps on which they sail. So doing,

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God will work with you, in you, and for you, and your work will be blessed.

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CHAPTER XI. On Obedience.

CHAPTER XI. On Obedience.

CHAPTER XI. On Obedience.

LOVE alone leads to perfection, but the three chief means for acquiring it are obedience,

chastity, and poverty. Obedience is a consecration of the heart, chastity of the body, and

poverty of all worldly goods to the Love and Service of God. These are the three members

of the Spiritual Cross, and all three must be raised upon the fourth, which is humility. I am

not going here to speak of these three virtues as solemn vows, which only concern religious,

nor even as ordinary vows, although when sought under the shelter of a vow all virtues receive

an enhanced grace and merit; but it is not necessary for perfection that they should be un-

dertaken as vows, so long as they are practised diligently. The three vows solemnly taken

put a man into the state of perfection, whereas a diligent observance thereof brings him to

perfection. For, observe, there is a great difference between the state of perfection and per-

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fection itself, inasmuch as all prelates and religious are in the former, although unfortunately

it is too obvious that by no means all attain to the latter. Let us then endeavour to practise

these three virtues, according to our several vocations, for although we are not thereby called

to a state of perfection, we may attain through them to perfection itself, and of a truth we

are all bound to practise them, although not all after the same manner.

There are two kinds of obedience, one necessary, the other voluntary. The first includes

a humble obedience to your ecclesiastical superiors, whether Pope, Bishop, Curate, or those

commissioned by them. You are likewise bound to obey your civil superiors, king and ma-

gistrates; as also your domestic superiors, father, mother, master or mistress. Such obedience

is called necessary, because no one can free himself from the duty of obeying these superiors,

God having appointed them severally to bear rule over us. Therefore do you obey their

commands as of right, but if you would be perfect, follow their counsels, and even their

wishes as far as charity and prudence will allow: obey as to things acceptable; as when they

bid you eat, or take recreation, for although there may be no great virtue in obedience in

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such a case, there is great harm in disobedience. Obey in things indifferent, as concerning

questions of dress, coming and going, singing or keeping silence, for herein is a very laudable

obedience. Obey in things hard, disagreeable and inconvenient, and therein lies a very perfect

obedience. Moreover, obey quietly, without answering again, promptly, without delay,

cheerfully, without reluctance; and, above all, render a loving obedience for His Sake Who

became obedient even to the death of the Cross for our sake; Who, as Saint Bernard says,

chose rather to resign His Life than His Obedience.

If you would acquire a ready obedience to superiors, accustom yourself to yield to your

equals, giving way to their opinions where nothing wrong is involved, without arguing or

peevishness; and adapt yourself easily to the wishes of your inferiors as far as you reasonably

can, and forbear the exercise of stern authority so long as they do well.

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It is a mistake for those who find it hard to pay a willing obedience to their natural su-

periors to suppose that if they were professed religious they would find it easy to obey.

Voluntary obedience is such as we undertake by our own choice, and which is not im-

posed by others. Persons do not choose their own King or Bishop, or parents—often not

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even their husband; but most people choose their confessor or director. And whether a

person takes a vow of obedience to him (as Saint Theresa, beyond her formal vow to the

Superior of her Order, bound herself by a simple vow to obey Father Gratian), or without

any vow they resolve to obey their chosen spiritual guide, all such obedience is voluntary,

because it depends upon our own will.

Obedience to lawful superiors is regulated by their official claims. Thus, in all public

and legal matters, we are bound to obey our King; in ecclesiastical matters, our Bishop; in

domestic matters, our father, master or husband; and in personal matters which concern

the soul, our confessor or spiritual guide.

Seek to be directed in your religious exercises by your spiritual father, because thereby

they will have double grace and virtue;—that which is inherent in that they are devout, and

that which comes by reason of the spirit of obedience in which they are performed. Blessed

indeed are the obedient, for God will never permit them to go astray.

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CHAPTER XII. On Purity.

CHAPTER XII. On Purity.

CHAPTER XII. On Purity.

PURITY is the lily among virtues—by it men approach to the Angels. There is no beauty

without purity, and human purity is chastity. We speak of the chaste as honest, and of the

loss of purity as dishonour; purity is an intact thing, its converse is corruption. In a word,

its special glory is in the spotless whiteness of soul and body.

No unlawful pleasures are compatible with chastity; the pure heart is like the mother

of pearl which admits no drop of water save that which comes from Heaven,—it is closed

to every attraction save such as are sanctified by holy matrimony. Close your heart to every

questionable tenderness or delight, guard against all that is unprofitable though it may be

lawful, and strive to avoid unduly fixing your heart even on that which in itself is right and

good.

Every one has great need of this virtue: those living in widowhood need a brave chastity

not only to forego present and future delights, but to resist the memories of the past, with

which a happy married life naturally fills the imagination, softening and weakening the will.

Saint Augustine lauds the purity of his beloved Alipius, who had altogether forgotten and

despised the carnal pleasures in which his youth was passed. While fruits are whole, you

may store them up securely, some in straw, some in sand or amid their own foliage, but

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once bruised there is no means of preserving them save with sugar or honey. Even so the

purity which has never been tampered with may well be preserved to the end, but when

once that has ceased to exist nothing can ensure its existence but the genuine devotion,

which, as I have often said, is the very honey and sugar of the mind.

The unmarried need a very simple sensitive purity, which will drive away all over-curious

thoughts, and teach them to despise all merely sensual satisfactions. The young are apt to

imagine that of which they are ignorant to be wondrous sweet, and as the foolish moth

hovers around a light, and, persisting in coming too near, perishes in its inquisitive folly,

so they perish through their unwise approach to forbidden pleasures. And married people

need a watchful purity whereby to keep God ever before them, and to seek all earthly happi-

ness and delight through Him Alone, ever remembering that He has sanctified the state of

holy matrimony by making it the type of His own union with the Church.

The Apostle says, “Follow peace with all men, and holiness, without which no man shall

see the Lord:” 38 by which holiness he means purity. Of a truth, my daughter, without purity

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no one can ever see God; 39 nor can any hope to dwell in His tabernacle except he lead an

uncorrupt life; 40 and our Blessed Lord Himself has promised the special blessing of beholding

Him to those that are pure in heart.

38

Heb. xii. 14.

39

S. Matt. v. 8.

40

Ps. xv. 2.

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CHAPTER XIII. How to maintain Purity.

CHAPTER XIII. How to maintain Purity.

CHAPTER XIII. How to maintain Purity.

BE exceedingly quick in turning aside from the slightest thing leading to impurity, for

it is an evil which approaches stealthily, and in which the very smallest beginnings are apt

to grow rapidly. It is always easier to fly from such evils than to cure them.

Human bodies are like glasses, which cannot come into collision without risk of breaking;

or to fruits, which, however fresh and ripe, are damaged by pressure. Never permit any one

to take any manner of foolish liberty with you, since, although there may be no evil intention,

the perfectness of purity is injured thereby.

Purity has its source in the heart, but it is in the body that its material results take shape,

and therefore it may be forfeited both by the exterior senses and by the thoughts and desires

of the heart. All lack of modesty in seeing, hearing, speaking, smelling, or touching, is im-

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purity, especially when the heart takes pleasure therein. S. Paul says without any hesitation

that impurity and uncleanness, or foolish and unseemly talking, are not to be “so much as

named” 41 among Christians. The bee not only shuns all carrion, but abhors and flies far

from the faintest smell proceeding therefrom. The Bride of the Canticles is represented with

“hands dropping with myrrh.” 42 a preservative against all corruption; her “lips are like a

thread of scarlet,” the type of modest words; 43 her eyes are “dove’s eyes,” 44 clear and soft;

her “nose is as the tower of Lebanon which looketh towards Damascus” 45 an incorruptible

wood; her ears are hung with earrings of pure gold; 46 and even so the devout soul should

be pure, honest and transparent in hand, lip, eye, ear, and the whole body.

Remember that there are things which blemish perfect purity, without being in them-

selves downright acts of impurity. Anything which tends to lessen its intense sensitiveness,

or to cast the slightest shadow over it, is of this nature; and all evil thoughts or foolish acts

of levity or heedlessness are as steps towards the most direct breaches of the law of chastity.

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Avoid the society of persons who are wanting in purity, especially if they are bold, as indeed

impure people always are. If a foul animal licks the sweet almond tree its fruit becomes bitter;

and so a corrupt pestilential man can scarcely hold communication with others, whether

men or women, without damaging their perfect purity—their very glance is venomous, and

their breath blighting like the basilisk. On the other hand, seek out good and pure men, read

41

Eph. v. 4.

42

Cant. v. 5.

43

iv. 3.

44

i. 15.

45

vii. 4.

46

There is no mention of earrings in the Canticles, but S. Francis probably was writing from memory, and

had in mind “Thy cheeks are comely with rows of jewels, thy neck with chains of gold.” (i. 10.)

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and ponder holy things; for the Word of God is pure, and it will make those pure who study

it: wherefore David likens it to gold and precious stones. 47 Always abide close to Jesus

Christ Crucified, both spiritually in meditation and actually in Holy Communion; for as all

those who sleep upon the plant called Agnus castus become pure and chaste, so, if you rest

your heart upon Our Dear Lord, the Very Lamb, Pure and Immaculate, you will find that

soon both heart and soul will be purified of all spot or stain.

47

Ps. cxix. 127.

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CHAPTER XIV. On Poverty of Spirit amid Riches.

CHAPTER XIV. On Poverty of Spirit amid Riches.

CHAPTER XIV. On Poverty of Spirit amid Riches.

“BLESSED are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the Kingdom of God;” 48 and if so, woe

be to the rich in spirit, for theirs must be the bitterness of hell. By rich in spirit I mean him

whose riches engross his mind, or whose mind is buried in his riches. He is poor in spirit

whose heart is not filled with the love of riches, whose mind is not set upon them. The hal-

cyon builds its nest like a ball, and leaving but one little aperture in the upper part, launches

it on the sea, so secure and impenetrable, that the waves carry it along without any water

getting in, and it floats on the sea, superior, so to say, to the waves. And this, my child, is

what your heart should be—open only to heaven, impenetrable to riches and earthly treasures.

If you have them, keep your heart from attaching itself to them; let it maintain a higher level,

and amidst riches be as though you had none,—superior to them. Do not let that mind

which is the likeness of God cleave to mere earthly goods; let it always be raised above them,

not sunk in them.

There is a wide difference between having poison and being poisoned. All apothecaries

have poisons ready for special uses, but they are not consequently poisoned, because the

poison is only in their shop, not in themselves; and so you may possess riches without being

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poisoned by them, so long as they are in your house or purse only, and not in your heart.

It is the Christian’s privilege to be rich in material things, and poor in attachment to them,

thereby having the use of riches in this world and the merit of poverty in the next.

Of a truth, my daughter, no one will ever own themselves to be avaricious;—every one

denies this contemptible vice:—men excuse themselves on the plea of providing for their

children, or plead the duty of prudent forethought:—they never have too much, there is al-

ways some good reason for accumulating more; and even the most avaricious of men not

only do not own to being such, but sincerely believe that they are not; and that because avarice

is as a strong fever which is all the less felt as it rages most fiercely. Moses saw that sacred

fire which burnt the bush without consuming it, 49 but the profane fire of avarice acts pre-

cisely the other way,—it consumes the miser, but without burning, for, amid its most intense

heat, he believes himself to be deliciously cool, and imagines his insatiable thirst to be merely

natural and right.

If you long earnestly, anxiously, and persistently after what you do not possess, it is all

very well to say that you do not wish to get it unfairly, but you are all the time guilty of avarice.

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He who longs eagerly and anxiously to drink, though it may be water only, thereby indicates

that he is feverish. I hardly think we can say that it is lawful to wish lawfully to possess that

which is another’s:—so doing we surely wish our own gain at the expense of that other? and

48

S. Matt. v. 3.

49

Exod. iii. 2.

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he who possesses anything lawfully, surely has more right to possess it, than we to obtain

it? Why should we desire that which is his? Even were the wish lawful, it is not charitable,

for we should not like other men to desire what we possess, however lawfully. This was

Ahab’s sin when he sought to acquire Naboth’s vineyard by lawful purchase, when Naboth

lawfully desired to keep it himself;—he coveted it eagerly, continually, and anxiously, and

so doing he displeased God. 50

Do not allow yourself to wish for that which is your neighbour’s until he wishes to part

with it,—then his wish will altogether justify yours,—and I am quite willing that you should

add to your means and possessions, provided it be not merely with strict justice, but kindly

and charitably done. If you cleave closely to your possessions, and are cumbered with them,

setting your heart and thoughts upon them, and restlessly anxious lest you should suffer

loss, then, believe me, you are still somewhat feverish;—for fever patients drink the water

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we give them with an eagerness and satisfaction not common to those who are well.

It is not possible to take great pleasure in anything without becoming attached to it. If

you lose property, and find yourself grievously afflicted at the loss, you may be sure that

you were warmly attached to it;—there is no surer proof of affection for the thing lost than

our sorrow at its loss.

Therefore, do not fix your longings on anything which you do not possess; do not let

your heart rest in that which you have; do not grieve overmuch at the losses which may

happen to you;—and then you may reasonably believe that although rich in fact, you are

not so in affection, but that you are poor in spirit, and therefore blessed, for the Kingdom

of Heaven is yours.

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I Kings xxi.

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CHAPTER XV. How to exercise real Poverty, although actually Rich.

CHAPTER XV. How to exercise real Poverty, although actually Rich.

CHAPTER XV. How to exercise real Poverty, although actually Rich.

THE painter Parrhasius drew an ingenious and imaginative representation of the

Athenians, ascribing sundry opposite qualities to them, calling them at once capricious,

irascible, unjust, inconstant, courteous, merciful, compassionate, haughty, vain-glorious,

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humble, boastful, and cowardly;—and for my part, dear daughter, I would fain see united

in your heart both riches and poverty, a great care and a great contempt for temporal things.

Do you take much greater pains than is the wont of worldly men to make your riches

useful and fruitful? Are not the gardeners of a prince more diligent in cultivating and

beautifying the royal gardens than if they were their own? Wherefore? Surely because these

gardens are the king’s, to whom his gardeners would fain render an acceptable service. My

child, our possessions are not ours,—God has given them to us to cultivate, that we may

make them fruitful and profitable in His Service, and so doing we shall please Him. And

this we must do more earnestly than worldly men, for they look carefully after their property

out of self-love, and we must work for the love of God. Now self-love is a restless, anxious,

over-eager love, and so the work done on its behalf is troubled, vexatious, and unsatisfact-

ory;—whereas the love of God is calm, peaceful, and tranquil, and so the work done for its

sake, even in worldly things, is gentle, trustful, and quiet. Let us take such a quiet care to

preserve, and even when practicable to increase, our temporal goods, according to the duties

of our position,—this is acceptable to God for His Love’s Sake.

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But beware that you be not deceived by self-love, for sometimes it counterfeits the Love

of God so cleverly that you may mistake one for the other. To avoid this, and to prevent a

due care for your temporal interests from degenerating into avarice, it is needful often to

practise a real poverty amid the riches with which God has endowed you.

To this end always dispose of a part of your means by giving them heartily to the poor;

you impoverish yourself by whatever you give away. It is true that God will restore it to you,

not only in the next world, but in this, for nothing brings so much temporal prosperity as

free almsgiving, but meanwhile, you are sensibly poorer for what you give. Truly that is a

holy and rich poverty which results from almsgiving.

Love the poor and poverty,—this love will make you truly poor, since, as Holy Scripture

says, we become like to that we love. 51 Love makes lovers equal. “Who is weak and I am

not weak?” 52 says St. Paul? He might have said, Who is poor and I am not poor? for it was

love which made him like to those he loved; and so, if you love the poor, you will indeed

share their poverty, and be poor like them.

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51

“Their abominations were according as they loved.” Hosea ix. 10.

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2 Cor. xi. 29.

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And if you love the poor, seek them out, take pleasure in bringing them to your home,

and in going to theirs, talk freely with them, and be ready to meet them, whether in Church

or elsewhere. Let your tongue be poor with them in converse, but let your hands be rich to

distribute out of your abundance. Are you prepared to go yet further, my child? not to stop

at being poor like the poor, but even poorer still? The servant is not so great as his lord; do

you be the servant of the poor, tend their sickbed with your own hands, be their cook, their

needlewoman. O my daughter, such servitude is more glorious than royalty! How touchingly

S. Louis, one of the greatest of kings, fulfilled this duty; serving the poor in their own houses,

and daily causing three to eat at his own table, often himself eating the remains of their food

in his loving humility. In his frequent visits to the hospitals he would select those afflicted

with the most loathsome diseases, ulcers, cancer, and the like; and these he would tend,

kneeling down and bare-headed, beholding the Saviour of the world in them, and cherishing

them with all the tenderness of a mother’s love. Saint Elizabeth of Hungary used to mix

freely with the poor, and liked to dress in their homely garments amid her gay ladies. Surely

these royal personages were poor amid their riches and rich in poverty.

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Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven. In the Day of Judg-

ment the King of prince and peasant will say to them, “I was an hungred, and ye gave Me

meat, I was naked, and ye clothed Me; come, inherit the Kingdom prepared for you from

the foundation of the world.” 53

Everybody finds themselves sometimes deficient in what they need, and put to incon-

venience. A guest whom we would fain receive honorably arrives, and we cannot entertain

him as we would; we want our costly apparel in one place, and it all happens to be somewhere

else: all the wine in our cellar suddenly turns sour: we find ourselves accidentally in some

country place where everything is wanting, room, bed, food, attendance: in short, the richest

people may easily be without something they want, and that is practically to suffer poverty.

Accept such occurrences cheerfully, rejoice in them, bear them willingly.

Again, if you are impoverished much or little by unforeseen events, such as storm, flood,

fire, drought, theft, or lawsuit; then is the real time to practise poverty, accepting the loss

quietly, and adapting yourself patiently to your altered circumstances. Esau and Jacob both

came to their father with hairy hands, 54 but the hair on Jacob’s hands did not grow from

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his skin, and could be torn off without pain; while that on Esau’s hands being the natural

growth of his skin, he would have cried out and resisted if any one had torn it off. So if our

possessions are very close to our heart, and storm or thief tear them away, we shall break

forth in impatient murmurs and lamentations. But if we only cleave to them with that soli-

citude which God wills us to have, and not with our whole heart, we shall see them rent

53

S. Matt. xxv. 34-36.

54

Gen. xxvii.

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away without losing our sense of calmness. This is just the difference between the clothing

of men and beasts; the beast’s clothing grows on its flesh, and man’s is only laid on so that

it may be laid aside at will.

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CHAPTER XVI. How to possess a rich Spirit amid real Poverty.

CHAPTER XVI. How to possess a rich Spirit amid real Poverty.

BUT if you are really poor, my daughter, for God’s Sake be so in spirit; make a virtue

of necessity, and turn that precious stone poverty to its true value. The brilliancy thereof

is not perceived in this world, but nevertheless it is very great.

Patience then! you are in good company. Our Dear Lord, Our Lady, the Apostles,

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numberless Saints, both men and women, were poor, and although they might have been

rich, disdained to be so. How many great ones of this world have gone through many diffi-

culties to seek holy poverty amid hospitals and cloisters! What pains they took to find it, let

S. Alexis, S. Paula, S. Paulinus, S. Angela, and many another witness; whereas to you, my

child, it has come unasked—you have met poverty without seeking it—do you then embrace

it as the beloved friend of Jesus Christ, Who was born, lived and died in poverty, and cher-

ished it all His Life.

There are two great privileges connected with your poverty, through which you may

acquire great merit. First, it is not your own choice, but God’s Will alone, which has made

you poor. Now, whatever we accept simply because it is God’s Will is acceptable in His Sight,

so long as we accept it heartily and out of love:—the less of self the more of God,—and a

singlehearted acceptance of God’s Will purifies any suffering very greatly.

The second privilege is, that this poverty is so very poor. There is a be-praised, caressed

poverty, so petted and cared for, that it can hardly be called poor like the despised, con-

temned, neglected poverty which also exists. Now, most secular poverty is of this last kind,

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for those who are involuntarily poor, and cannot help themselves, are not much thought

of, and for that very reason their poverty is poorer than that of religious, although religious

poverty has a very special and excellent grace, through the intention and the vow by which

it is accepted.

Do not complain then of your poverty, my daughter,—we only complain of that which

is unwelcome, and if poverty is unwelcome to you, you are no longer poor in spirit. Do not

fret under such assistance as is needful; therein lies one great grace of poverty. It were

overambitious to aim at being poor without suffering any inconvenience, in other words,

to have the credit of poverty and the convenience of riches.

Do not be ashamed of being poor, or of asking alms. Receive what is given you with

humility, and accept a refusal meekly. Frequently call to mind Our Lady’s journey into Egypt

with her Holy Child, and of all the poverty, contempt and suffering they endured. If you

follow their example you will indeed be rich amid your poverty.

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CHAPTER XVII. On Friendship: Evil and Frivolous Friendship.

CHAPTER XVII. On Friendship: Evil and Frivolous Friendship.

CHAPTER XVII. On Friendship: Evil and Frivolous Friendship.

FOREMOST among the soul’s affections is love. Love is the ruler of every motion of

the heart; drawing all to itself, and making us like to that we love. Beware, then, my daughter,

of harbouring any evil affection, or you too will become evil. And friendship is the most

dangerous of all affections, because any other love may exist without much mental commu-

nication, but as friendship is founded thereon, it is hardly possible to be closely bound by

its ties to any one without sharing in his qualities.

All love is not friendship, for one may love without any return, and friendship implies

mutual love. Further, those who are bound by such affection must be conscious that it is

reciprocal,—otherwise there may be love but not friendship; and moreover, there must be

something communicated between the friends as a solid foundation of friendship.

Friendship varies according to these communications, and they vary according to that

which people have to communicate. If men share false and vain things, their friendship will

be false and vain; if that which is good and true, their friendship will be good and true, and

the better that which is the staple of the bond, so much the better will the friendship be.

That honey is best which is culled from the choicest flowers, and so friendship built upon

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the highest and purest intercommunion is the best. And just as a certain kind of honey

brought from Pontus is poisonous, being made from aconite, so that those who eat it lose

their senses, so the friendship which is based on unreal or evil grounds will itself be hollow

and worthless.

Mere sensual intercourse is not worthy of the name of friendship; and were there

nothing more in married love it would not deserve to bear the name; but inasmuch as that

involves the participation of life, industry, possessions, affections, and an unalterable fidelity,

marriage, when rightly understood, is a very real and holy friendship.

Whatever is founded on mere sensuality, vanity, or frivolity, is unworthy to be called

friendship. I mean such attractions as are purely external; a sweet voice, personal beauty,

and the cleverness or outward show which have great weight with some. You will often hear

women and young people unhesitatingly decide that such an one is very delightful, very

admirable, because he is good-looking, well-dressed, sings, or dances, or talks well. Even

charlatans esteem the wittiest clown amongst them as their best man. But all these things

are purely sensual, and the connections built on such foundation must be vain and frivolous,

more fitly to be called trifling than friendship. They spring up chiefly among young people,

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who are easily fascinated by personal attractions, dress, and gossip—friendships in which

the tailor and hairdresser have the chief part. How can such friendships be other than

shortlived, melting away like snow wreaths in the sun!

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CHAPTER XVIII. On Frivolous Attachments.

CHAPTER XVIII. On Frivolous Attachments.

CHAPTER XVIII. On Frivolous Attachments.

SUCH foolish attachments between man and woman without any matrimonial intentions

as are called amourettes,—mere abortions, or rather phantoms of friendship,—must not,

idle and empty as they are, profane the name of friendship or love. Yet such frivolous, con-

temptible attractions often snare the hearts of both men and women, and although they

may end in downright sin, there is no such intention on the part of their victims, who con-

sciously do but yield to foolish trifling and toying. Some such have no object beyond the

actual indulgence of a passing inclination; others are excited by vanity, which takes pleasure

in captivating hearts; some are stimulated by a combination of both these motives. But all

such friendships are evil, hollow, and vain; evil, in that they often lead to sinful deeds, and

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draw the heart from God, and from the husband or wife who is its lawful owner; hollow, in

that they are baseless and without root; vain, in that neither gain, honour, nor satisfaction

can come from such. On the contrary, nothing comes of them but a loss of time and credit,

and unreasoning excitement, mistrust, jealousy, and perturbation.

S. Gregory Nazianzen speaks very wisely on this subject, admonishing vain women, and

his words are equally applicable to men:—“Your natural beauty will suffice your husband,

but if it is exhibited to all, like a net spread before birds, what will be the end? You will be

taken by whoever admires you, looks and glances will be exchanged, smiles and tender

words, at first hesitatingly exchanged, but soon more boldly given and received. Far be it

from me to describe the end, but this much I will say, nothing said or done by young men

and women under such circumstances but is perilous. One act of levity leads to another, as

the links in a chain.” They who tamper with such things will fall into the trap. They fancy

that they only mean to amuse themselves, but will not go too far. Little you know, forsooth!

The tiny spark will burst into a flame, and, overpowering your heart, it will reduce your

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good resolutions to ashes, and your reputation to smoke. “Who will pity a charmer that is

bitten with a serpent?” asks the Wise Man; 55 and with him I ask, Do you, in your folly,

imagine that you can lightly handle love as you please? You think to trifle with it, but it will

sting you cruelly, and then every one will mock you, and laugh at your foolish pretension

to harbour a venomous serpent in your bosom, which has poisoned and lost alike your

honour and your soul. What fatal blindness this to stake all that is most precious to man!

Yes, I say it advisedly, for God desires to have us only for the sake of our soul, or the soul

through our will, and our will for love’s sake. Surely we have not by any means a sufficient

store of love to offer God, and yet in our madness and folly we lavish and waste it on vain

frivolous objects, as though we had enough and to spare. Our Dear Lord, Who demands

nought save our love in return for our creation, preservation and redemption, will require

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Ecclus. xii. 13.

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a strict account of the senseless way in which we have frittered and wasted it. If He will call

us to account for idle words, how will it be with respect to idle, foolish, pernicious friend-

ships? Husbandmen know that the walnut tree is very harmful in a vineyard or field, because

it absorbs the fatness of the land and draws it away from the other crops; its thick foliage

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overshadows and deprives them of sunshine; and, moreover, it attracts passers-by, who

tread down and spoil all that is around while striving to gather its fruit. So with these foolish

love affairs and the soul; they engross it, so that it is unable to bring forth good works; their

superfluous foliage—flirtations, dallyings and idle talk—consume profitable time; and,

moreover, they lead to so many temptations, distractions, suspicions, and the like, that the

heart becomes altogether crushed and spoiled. Such follies not only banish Heavenly Love,

they likewise drive out the fear of God, enervate the mind, and damage reputation. They

may be the plaything of courts, but assuredly they are as a plague spot of the heart. 56

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“C’est en un mot le jouet des cours, mais la peste des coeurs.”

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CHAPTER XIX. Of Real Friendship.

CHAPTER XIX. Of Real Friendship.

CHAPTER XIX. Of Real Friendship.

DO you, my child, love every one with the pure love of charity, but have no friendship

save with those whose intercourse is good and true, and the purer the bond which unites

you so much higher will your friendship be. If your intercourse is based on science it is

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praiseworthy, still more if it arises from a participation in goodness, prudence, justice and

the like; but if the bond of your mutual liking be charity, devotion and Christian perfection,

God knows how very precious a friendship it is! Precious because it comes from God, because

it tends to God, because God is the link that binds you, because it will last for ever in Him.

Truly it is a blessed thing to love on earth as we hope to love in Heaven, and to begin that

friendship here which is to endure for ever there. I am not now speaking of simple charity,

a love due to all mankind, but of that spiritual friendship which binds souls together, leading

them to share devotions and spiritual interests, so as to have but one mind between them.

Such as these may well cry out, “Behold, how good and joyful a thing it is, brethren, to dwell

together in unity!” 57 Even so, for the “precious ointment” of devotion trickles continually

from one heart to the other, so that truly we may say that to such friendship the Lord

promises His Blessing and life for evermore. To my mind all other friendship is but as a

shadow with respect to this, its links mere fragile glass compared to the golden bond of true

devotion. Do you form no other friendships. I say “form,” because you have no right to cast

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aside or neglect the natural bonds which draw you to relations, connexions, benefactors or

neighbours. My rules apply to those you deliberately choose to make. There are some who

will tell you that you should avoid all special affection or friendship, as likely to engross the

heart, distract the mind, excite jealousy, and what not. But they are confusing things. They

have read in the works of saintly and devout writers that individual friendships and special

intimacies are a great hindrance in the religious life, and therefore they suppose it to be the

same with all the world, which is not at all the case. Whereas in a well-regulated community

every one’s aim is true devotion, there is no need for individual intercourse, which might

exceed due limits;—in the world those who aim at a devout life require to be united one

with another by a holy friendship, which excites, stimulates and encourages them in well-

doing. Just as men traversing a plain have no need to hold one another up, as they have who

are amid slippery mountain paths, so religious do not need the stay of individual friendships;

but those who are living in the world require such for strength and comfort amid the diffi-

culties which beset them. In the world all have not one aim, one mind, and therefore we

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must take to us congenial friends, nor is there any undue partiality in such attachments,

which are but as the separation of good from evil, the sheep from the goats, the bee from

the drone—a necessary separation.

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No one can deny that our Dear Lord loved S. John, Lazarus, Martha, Magdalene, with

a specially tender friendship, since we are told so in Holy Scripture; and we know that S.

Paul dearly loved S. Mark, S. Petronilla, as S. Paul Timothy and Thecla. 58 S. Gregory Nazi-

anzen boasts continually of his friendship with the great S. Basil, of which he says: “It seemed

as though with two bodies we had but one soul, and if we may not believe those who say

that all things are in all else, at least one must affirm that we were two in one, and one in

two —the only object that both had being to grow in holiness, and to mould our present

life to our future hopes, thereby forsaking this mortal world before our death.” And S. Au-

gustine says that S. Ambrose loved S. Monica by reason of her many virtues, and that she

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in return loved him as an Angel of God.

What need to affirm so unquestionable a fact! S. Jerome, S. Augustine, S. Gregory, S.

Bernard, and all the most notable servants of God, have had special friendships, which in

nowise hindered their perfection. S. Paul, in describing evil men, says that they were “without

natural affection,” 59 i.e. without friendship. And S. Thomas, in common with other philo-

sophers, acknowledges that friendship is a virtue, and he certainly means individual

friendships, because he says that we cannot bestow perfect friendship on many persons. So

we see that the highest grace does not lie in being without friendships, but in having none

which are not good, holy and true.

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S. Thecla (V.M.) was a native of Lycaonia, converted (so say S. Augustine, S. Ambrose, S. Epiphanius, and

others of the Fathers) by S. Paul, who kindled so strong a love of virginity in her heart that she broke off her

intended marriage, and devoted herself to Christ. She is said to have followed S. Paul in several of his journeys,

and a very ancient Martyrology, which bears the name of S. Jerome, published by Florentinus, says that she was

miraculously delivered unhurt from the persecutors’ flames at Rome. It seems doubtful whether she died a nat-

ural or a martyr’s death. The first Christian Emperors built a great Church at Seleucia, where she died.

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Rom. i. 31.

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CHAPTER XX. Of the Difference between True and False Friendship.

CHAPTER XX. Of the Difference between True and False Friendship.

CHAPTER XX. Of the Difference between True and False

Friendship.

TAKE notice, my child, that the honey of Heraclyum, which is so poisonous, altogether

resembles that which is wholesome, and there is great danger of mistaking one for the other,

or of mixing them, for the virtue of one would not counteract the harmfulness of the other.

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We must be on our guard not to be deceived in making friendships, especially between

persons of the opposite sexes, for not unfrequently Satan deludes those who love one another.

They may begin with a virtuous affection, but if discretion be lacking, frivolity will creep

in, and then sensuality, till their love becomes carnal: even in spiritual love there is a danger

if people are not on the watch, although it is not so easy to be deluded therein, inasmuch as

the very purity and transparency of spiritual affection show Satan’s stains more promptly.

Consequently, when he seeks to interpose, he does it stealthily, and strives to insinuate im-

purity almost imperceptibly.

You may distinguish between worldly friendship and that which is good and holy, just

as one distinguishes that poisonous honey from what is good—it is sweeter to the taste than

ordinary honey, owing to the aconite infused;—and so worldly friendship is profuse in

honeyed words, passionate endearments, commendations of beauty and sensual charms,

while true friendship speaks a simple honest language, lauding nought save the Grace of

God, its one only foundation. That strange honey causes giddiness; and so false friendship

upsets the mind, makes its victim to totter in the ways of purity and devotion, inducing af-

fected, mincing looks, sensual caresses, inordinate sighings, petty complaints of not being

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loved, slight but questionable familiarities, gallantries, embraces, and the like, which are

sure precursors of evil; whereas true friendship is modest and straightforward in every

glance, loving and pure in caresses, has no sighs save for Heaven, no complaints save that

God is not loved sufficiently. That honey confuses the sight, and worldly friendship confuses

the judgment, so that men think themselves right while doing evil, and assume their excuses

and pretexts to be valid reasoning. They fear the light and love darkness; but true friendship

is clear-sighted, and hides nothing—rather seeks to be seen of good men. Lastly, this pois-

onous honey leaves an exceeding bitter taste behind; and so false friendship turns to evil

desires, upbraidings, slander, deceit, sorrow, confusion and jealousies, too often ending in

downright sin; but pure friendship is always the same—modest, courteous and loving—know-

ing no change save an increasingly pure and perfect union, a type of the blessed friendships

of Heaven.

When young people indulge in looks, words or actions which they would not like to be

seen by their parents, husbands or confessors, it is a sure sign that they are damaging their

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conscience and their honour. Our Lady was troubled 60 when the Angel appeared to her in

human form, because she was alone, and he spoke to her with flattering although heavenly

words. O Saviour of the world, if purity itself fears an Angel in human shape, how much

more need that our impurity should fear men, although they take the likeness of an Angel,

if they speak words of earthliness and sensuality!

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S. Luke i. 29.

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CHAPTER XXI. Remedies against Evil Friendships.

CHAPTER XXI. Remedies against Evil Friendships.

CHAPTER XXI. Remedies against Evil Friendships.

HOW are you to meet the swarm of foolish attachments, triflings, and undesirable in-

clinations which beset you? By turning sharply away, and thoroughly renouncing such

vanities, flying to the Saviour’s Cross, and clasping His Crown of thorns to your heart, so

that these little foxes may not spoil your vines. 61 Beware of entering into any manner of

treaty with the Enemy; do not delude yourself by listening to him while intending to reject

him. For God’s Sake, my daughter, be firm on all such occasions; the heart and ear are

closely allied, and just as you would vainly seek to check the downward course of a mountain

torrent, so difficult will you find it to keep the smooth words which enter in at the ear from

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finding their way down into the heart. Alcmeon says (what indeed Aristotle denies) that the

goat breathes through its ears, not its nostrils. I know not whether this be so, but one thing

I know, that our heart breathes through the ear, and that while it exhales its own thoughts

through the mouth, it inhales those of others by the ear. Let us then carefully guard our ears

against evil words which would speedily infect the heart. Never hearken to any indiscreet

conversation whatsoever—never mind if you seem rude and uncourteous in rejecting all

such. Always bear in mind that you have dedicated your heart to God, and offered your love

to Him; so that it were sacrilege to deprive Him of one particle thereof. Do you rather renew

the offering continually by fresh resolutions, entrenching yourself therein as in a fortress;—cry

out to God, He will succour you, and His Love will shelter you, so that all your love may be

kept for Him only.

If unhappily you are already entangled in the nets of any unreal affection, truly it is hard

to set you free! But place yourself before His Divine Majesty, acknowledge the depth of

your wretchedness, your weakness and vanity, and then with all the earnestness of purpose

you can muster, arrest the budding evil, abjure your own empty promises, and renounce

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those you have received, and resolve with a firm, absolute will never again to indulge in any

trifling or dallying with such matters.

If you can remove from the object of your unworthy affection, it is most desirable to do

so. He who has been bitten by a viper cannot heal his wound in the presence of another

suffering from the like injury, and so one bitten with a false fancy will not shake it off while

near to his fellow-victim. Change of scene is very helpful in quieting the excitement and

restlessness of sorrow or love. S. Ambrose tells a story in his Second Book on Penitence, of

a young man, who coming home after a long journey quite cured of a foolish attachment,

met the unworthy object of his former passion, who stopped him, saying, “Do you not know

me, I am still myself?” “That may be,” was the answer, “but I am not myself:”—so thoroughly

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Cant. ii. 15.

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and happily was he changed by absence. And S. Augustine tells us how, after the death of

his dear friend, he soothed his grief by leaving Tagaste and going to Carthage.

But what is he to do, who cannot try this remedy? To such I would say, abstain from

all private intercourse, all tender glances and smiles, and from every kind of communication

which can feed the unholy flame. If it be necessary to speak at all, express clearly and tersely

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the eternal renunciation on which you have resolved. I say unhesitatingly to whosoever has

become entangled in any such worthless love affairs, Cut it short, break it off—do not play

with it, or pretend to untie the knot; cut it through, tear it asunder. There must be no dallying

with an attachment which is incompatible with the Love of God.

But, you ask, after I have thus burst the chains of my unholy bondage, will no traces

remain, and shall I not still carry the scars on my feet—that is, in my wounded affections?

Not so, my child, if you have attained a due abhorrence of the evil; in that case all you will

feel is an exceeding horror of your unworthy affection, and all appertaining thereto; no

thought will linger in your breast concerning it save a true love of God. Or if, by reason of

the imperfection of your repentance, any evil inclinations still hover round you, seek such

a mental solitude as I have already described, retire into it as much as possible, and then by

repeated efforts and ejaculations renounce your evil desires; abjure them heartily; read pious

books more than is your wont; go more frequently to Confession and Communion; tell your

director simply and humbly all that tempts and troubles you, if you can, or at all events take

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counsel with some faithful, wise friend. And never doubt but that God will set you free from

all evil passions, if you are stedfast and devout on your part. Perhaps you will say that it is

unkind, ungrateful, thus pitilessly to break off a friendship. Surely it were a happy unkindness

which is acceptable to God; but of a truth, my child, you are committing no unkindness,

rather conferring a great benefit on the person you love, for you break his chains as well as

your own, and although at the moment he may not appreciate his gain, he will do so by and

by, and will join you in thanksgiving, “Thou, Lord, hast broken my bonds in sunder. I will

offer to Thee the sacrifice of thanksgiving, and will call upon the Name of the Lord.” 62

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Ps. cxvi. 14, 15.

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CHAPTER XXII. Further Advice concerning Intimacies.

CHAPTER XXII. Further Advice concerning Intimacies.

CHAPTER XXII. Further Advice concerning Intimacies.

FRIENDSHIP demands very close correspondence between those who love one another,

otherwise it can never take root or continue. And together with the interchange of friendship,

other things imperceptibly glide in, and a mutual giving and receiving of emotions and in-

clinations takes place; especially when we esteem the object of our love very highly, because

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then we so entirely open our heart to him, that his influence rules us altogether, whether

for good or evil. The bees which make that oriental honey of which I spoke, seek to gather

nought save honey, but with it they suck up the poisonous juices of the aconite on which

they light. So here, my child, we must bear in mind what our Saviour said about putting out

our money to the exchangers; 63 we must seek to make a good exchange, not receiving bad

money and good alike, and learning to distinguish that which is valuable from what is

worthless, since scarcely any one is free from some imperfection, nor is there any reason

why we should adopt all our friend’s faults as well as his friendship. Of course we should

love him notwithstanding his faults, but without loving those faults; true friendship implies

an interchange of what is good, not what is evil. As men who drag the river Tagus sift the

gold from its sands and throw the latter back upon the shore, so true friends should sift the

sand of imperfections and reject it. S. Gregory Nazianzen tells us how certain persons who

loved and admired S. Basil were led to imitate even his external blemishes, his slow, abstracted

manner of speaking, the cut of his beard, and his peculiar gait. And so we see husbands and

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wives, children, friends, who, by reason of their great affection for one another, ac-

quire—either accidentally or designedly—many foolish little ways and tricks peculiar to

each. This ought not to be; for every one has enough imperfections of their own without

adding those of anybody else, and friendship requires no such thing; on the contrary, it

rather constrains us to help one another in getting rid of all sorts of imperfections. Of course

we should bear with our friend’s infirmities, but we should not encourage them, much less

copy them.

Of course I am speaking of imperfections only, for, as to sins, we must neither imitate

or tolerate these in our friends. That is but a sorry friendship which would see a friend perish,

and not try to save him; would watch him dying of an abscess without daring to handle the

knife of correction which would save him. True and living friendship cannot thrive amid

sin. There is a tradition that the salamander extinguishes any fire into which it enters, and

so sin destroys friendship. Friendship will banish a casual sin by brotherly correction, but

if the sin be persistent, friendship dies out,—it can only live in a pure atmosphere. Much

less can true friendship ever lead any one into sin; our friend becomes an enemy if he seeks

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to do so, and deserves to lose our friendship, and there is no surer proof of the hollowness

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S. Matt. xxv. 27.

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of friendship than its profession between evil-doers. If we love a vicious person, our

friendship will be vicious too; it will be like those to whom it is given.

Those who draw together for mere temporal profit, have no right to call their union

friendship; it is not for love of one another that they unite, but for love of gain.

There are two sayings in Holy Scripture on which all Christian friendship should be

built:—that of the Wise Man, “Whoso feareth the Lord shall direct his friendship aright;”

64 and that of S. James, “The friendship of the world is enmity with God.” 65

64

Ecclus. vi. 17.

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S. James iv. 4.

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CHAPTER XXIII. On The Practice of Bodily Mortification.

CHAPTER XXIII. On The Practice of Bodily Mortification.

CHAPTER XXIII. On The Practice of Bodily Mortification.

IT has been said that if one writes a word on an almond, and then replace it carefully

in its husk, and sow it, all the fruit borne by that tree will be marked by the word so inscribed.

For my own part, I never could approve of beginning to reform any one by merely external

things,—dress, the arrangement of hair, and outward show. On the contrary, it seems to

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me that one should begin from within. “Turn ye to Me with all your heart;” 66 “My son, give

Me thine heart; ” 67 for as the heart is the fount whence all our actions spring, they will be

according to what it is. And the Heavenly Bridegroom, calling the soul, says, “Set Me as a

seal upon thine heart, as a seal upon thine arm.” 68 Yes verily, for whosoever has Jesus Christ

in his heart will soon show it in all his external actions. Therefore, my daughter, above all

things I would write that precious and Holy Name JESUS in your heart, certain that having

done so, your life—like the almond tree in the fable—will bear the stamp of that Saving

Name in every act; and if the Dear Lord dwells within your heart, He will live in your every

action, and will be traced in every member and part of you, so that you will be able to say

with S. Paul, “I live, yet not I, but Christ liveth in me.” 69 In a word, whosoever gains the

heart has won the whole man. But this heart needs to be trained in its external conduct, so

that it may display not merely a true devotion, but also wisdom and discretion. To this end

I would make one or two suggestions.

If you are able to fast, you will do well to observe some days beyond what are ordered

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by the Church, for besides the ordinary effect of fasting in raising the mind, subduing the

flesh, confirming goodness, and obtaining a heavenly reward, it is also a great matter to be

able to control greediness, and to keep the sensual appetites and the whole body subject to

the law of the Spirit; and although we may be able to do but little, the enemy nevertheless

stands more in awe of those whom he knows can fast. The early Christians selected Wednes-

day, Friday and Saturday as days of abstinence. Do you follow therein according as your

own devotion and your director’s discretion may appoint.

I am prepared to say with S. Jerome (to the pious Leta) that I disapprove of long and

immoderate fasting, especially for the young. I have learnt by experience that when the colt

grows weary it turns aside, and so when young people become delicate by excessive fasting,

they readily take to self-indulgence. The stag does not run with due speed either when over

fat or too thin, and we are in peril of temptation both when the body is overfed or underfed;

66

Joel ii. 12.

67

Prov. xxiii. 26.

68

Cant. viii. 6.

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Gal. ii. 20.

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in the one case it grows indolent, in the other it sinks through depression, and if we cannot

bear with it in the first case, neither can it bear with us in the last. A want of moderation in

the use of fasting, discipline and austerity has made many a one useless in works of charity

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during the best years of his life, as happened to S. Bernard, who repented of his excessive

austerity. Those who misuse the body at the outset will have to indulge it overmuch at last.

Surely it were wiser to deal sensibly with it, and treat it according to the work and service

required by each man’s state of life.

Fasting and labour both exhaust and subdue the body. If your work is necessary or

profitable to God’s Glory, I would rather see you bear the exhaustion of work than of fasting.

Such is the mind of the Church, who dispenses those who are called to work for God or

their neighbour even from her prescribed fasts. One man finds it hard to fast, another finds

it as hard to attend the sick, to visit prisons, to hear confessions, preach, minister to the af-

flicted, pray, and the like. And the last hardship is better than the other; for while it subdues

the flesh equally, it brings forth better fruit. And as a general rule it is better to preserve

more bodily strength than is absolutely necessary, than to damage it more than is necessary.

Bodily strength can always be lowered if needful, but we cannot restore it at will. It seems

to me that we ought to have in great reverence that which our Saviour and Redeemer Jesus

Christ said to His disciples, “Eat such things as are set before you.” 70 To my mind there is

more virtue in eating whatever is offered you just as it comes, whether you like it or not,

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than in always choosing what is worst; for although the latter course may seem more ascetic,

the former involves greater submission of will, because by it you give up not merely your

taste, but your choice; and it is no slight austerity to hold up one’s likings in one’s hand, and

subject them to all manner of accidents. Furthermore, this kind of mortification makes no

show, inconveniences no one, and is admirably adapted to social life. To be always discarding

one dish for another, examining everything, suspicious as to everything, making a fuss over

every morsel—all this to my mind is contemptible, and implies too much thought of meats

and platters. To my mind there was more austerity in S. Bernard’s drinking oil by mistake

for wine or water than if he had deliberately drunk wormwood, for it showed that he was

not thinking of what he drank. And the real meaning of those sacred words, “Eat such things

as are set before you,” lies in such an indifference to what one eats and drinks. I should make

an exception of any food which is unwholesome, or likely to be injurious to the mind’s en-

ergies, such as certain hot, spiced, or stimulating dishes; as also on certain occasions when

nature requires to be refreshed and invigorated in order to perform the work needful for

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God’s Glory. At all times a constant habitual moderation is better than occasional excessive

abstinence, alternated with great indulgence. The discipline has a surprising effect in rousing

the taste for devotion, if used moderately. The body is greatly subdued by the use of the hair

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S. Luke x. 8.

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shirt, but it is not fit for ordinary people, married persons, those who are delicate, or who

have to bear considerable fatigue. On certain days of special penitence it may be used, subject

to the counsel of a judicious confessor.

Every one must take so much of the night for sleep, as his constitution, and the profitable

performance of his day’s work, requires. Holy Scripture continually teaches us that the

morning is the best and most profitable part of the day, and so do the examples of the Saints

and our natural reason. Our Lord Himself is called the Sun, risinig upon the earth, and our

Lady the Day-star; and so I think it is wise to go to sleep early at night in order to be ready

to waken and rise early. Moreover, that is the pleasantest, the freshest, and the freest hour

of the day,—the very birds stimulate us to rise and sing God’s praises. Early rising promotes

both health and holiness.

Balaam saddled his ass and went to meet Balak, but his heart was not right with God,

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and therefore the Angel of the Lord stood in the way, with a sword in his hand to kill him,

had not the ass three times turned out of the way as though she were restive; whereat Balaam

smote her with his staff, until at last she fell down beneath him, and her mouth being mira-

culously opened, she said unto him, “What have I done unto thee that thou hast smitten

me these three times?” Then Balaam’s eyes were opened, and he saw the Angel, who said to

him, “Wherefore hast thou smitten thine ass? unless she had turned from me surely now I

had slain thee, and saved her alive.” Then Balaam said to the Angel of the Lord, “I have

sinned, for I knew not that thou stoodest in the way against me.” 71 Do you see, my daughter,

it was Balaam who did wrong, but he beat the poor ass, who was not to blame. It is often so

with us. A woman’s husband or child is ill, and forthwith she has recourse to fasting, the

discipline, and hair shirt, even as David did on a like occasion. 72 But, dear friend, you are

smiting the ass! you afflict your body, which can do nothing when God stands before you

with His sword unsheathed. Rather correct your heart, which idolises your husband, and

has indulged your child, letting him give way to pride, vanity, and ambition. Or, again, a

man falls often into fleshly sins, and the voice of conscience stands before him in the way,

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rousing him to a holy fear. Then recollecting himself, he begins to abuse his flesh for betraying

him, he deals out strict fasts, severe discipline, and the like, to it, and meanwhile the poor

flesh might cry out like Balaam’s ass, Why smitest thou me? It is you yourself, O my soul,

that are guilty. Wherefore do you force me into evil, using my eyes, and hands, and lips for

unholy purposes, and tormenting me with evil imaginations? Do you entertain only good

thoughts, and I shall feel no unholy impulses, frequent none save pious people, and I shall

not be kindled with guilty fire. You cast me yourself into the flames, and bid me not to burn!

you fill my eyes with smoke, and wonder that they are inflamed! But God bids you deal

71

Numb. xxii.

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2 Sam. xii. 16.

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chiefly with your heart, for that is the chief offender. When a man suffers from the itch,

there is less need to bathe him, and cleanse the surface, than to purify his blood; and so, in

order to purge our vices, no doubt it is well to mortify the flesh, but above all it is necessary

to purify the affections and renew the heart. Make it a rule then never to undertake any

bodily austerities without the advice of your spiritual guide.

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CHAPTER XXIV. Of Society and Solitude.

CHAPTER XXIV. Of Society and Solitude.

CHAPTER XXIV. Of Society and Solitude.

EITHER to seek or to shun society is a fault in one striving to lead a devout life in the

world, such as I am now speaking of. To shun society implies indifference and contempt

for one’s neighbours; and to seek it savours of idleness and uselessness. We are told to love

one’s neighbour as one’s self. In token that we love him, we must not avoid being with him,

and the test of loving one’s self is to be happy when alone. “Think first on thyself,” says S.

Bernard, “and then on other men.” So that, if nothing obliges you to mix in society either

at home or abroad, retire within yourself, and hold converse with your own heart. But if

friends come to you, or there is fitting cause for you to go forth into society, then, my

daughter, by all means go, and meet your neighbour with a kindly glance and a kindly heart.

Bad society is all such intercourse with others as has an evil object, or when those with

whom we mix are vicious, indiscreet, or profligate. From such as these turn away, like the

bee from a dunghill. The breath and saliva of those who have been bitten by a mad dog is

dangerous, especially to children or delicate people, and in like manner it is perilous to as-

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sociate with vicious, reckless people, above all to those whose devotion is still weakly and

unstable.

There is a kind of social intercourse which merely tends to refresh us after more serious

labour, and although it would not be well to indulge in this to excess, there is no harm in

enjoying it during your leisure hours.

Other social meetings are in compliance with courtesy, such as mutual visits, and certain

assemblies with a view to pay respect to one another. As to these, without being a slave to

them, it is well not to despise them altogether, but to bear one’s own due part in them quietly,

avoiding rudeness and frivolity. Lastly, there is a profitable society;—that of good devout

people, and it will always be very good for you to meet with them. Vines grown amid oliv-

etrees are wont to bear rich grapes, and he who frequents the society of good people will

imbibe some of their goodness. The bumble bee makes no honey alone, but if it falls among

bees it works with them. Our own devout life will be materially helped by intercourse with

other devout souls.

Simplicity, gentleness and modesty are to be desired in all society;—there are some

people who are so full of affectation in whatever they do that every one is annoyed by them.

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A man who could not move without counting his steps, or speak without singing, would be

very tiresome to everybody, and just so any one who is artificial in all he does spoils the

pleasure of society; and moreover such people are generally more or less self-conceited. A

quiet cheerfulness should be your aim in society. S. Romuald and S. Anthony are greatly

lauded because, notwithstanding their asceticism, their countenance and words were always

courteous and cheerful. I would say to you with S. Paul, “Rejoice with them that do rejoice;”

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73 and again, “Rejoice in the Lord alway: let your moderation be known unto all men.” 74

And if you would rejoice in the Lord, the cause of your joy must not only be lawful, but

worthy; and remember this, because there are lawful things which nevertheless are not good;

and in order that your moderation may be known, you must avoid all that is impertinent

and uncivil, which is sure to be wrong. Depreciating this person, slandering another,

wounding a third, stimulating the folly of a fourth—all such things, however amusing, are

foolish and impertinent.

I have already spoken of that mental solitude into which you can retire when amid the

greatest crowd, and furthermore you should learn to like a real material solitude. Not that

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I want you to fly to a desert like S. Mary of Egypt, S. Paul, S. Anthony, Arsenius, or the

other hermits, but it is well for you to retire sometimes within your own chamber or garden,

or wheresoever you can best recollect your mind, and refresh your soul with good and holy

thoughts, and some spiritual reading, as the good Bishop of Nazianzum tells us was his

custom. “I was walking alone,” he says, “at sunset, on the seashore, a recreation I am wont

to take in order somewhat to lay aside my daily worries.” And S. Augustine says that he often

used to go into S. Ambrose’ room—his door was open to every one,—and after watching

him absorbed in reading for a time, he would retire without speaking, fearing to interrupt

the Bishop, who had so little time for refreshing his mind amid the burden of his heavy

duties. And we read how when the disciples came to Jesus, and told Him all they had been

doing and preaching, He said to them, “Come ye yourselves apart into a desert place, and

rest awhile.” 75

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73

Rom. xii. 15.

74

Phil. iv. 4, 5.

75

S. Mark vi. 30, 31.

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CHAPTER XXV. On Modesty in Dress.

CHAPTER XXV. On Modesty in Dress.

CHAPTER XXV. On Modesty in Dress.

S. PAUL expresses his desire that all Christian women should wear “modest apparel,

with shamefacedness and sobriety;” 76 —and for that matter he certainly meant that men

should do so likewise. Now, modesty in dress and its appurtenances depends upon the

quality, the fashion and the cleanliness thereof. As to cleanliness, that should be uniform,

and we should never, if possible, let any part of our dress be soiled or stained. External

seemliness is a sort of indication of inward good order, and God requires those who minister

at His Altar, or minister in holy things, to be attentive in respect of personal cleanliness. As

to the quality and fashion of clothes, modesty in these points must depend upon various

circumstances, age, season, condition, the society we move in, and the special occasion.

Most people dress better on a high festival than at other times; in Lent, or other penitential

seasons, they lay aside all gay apparel; at a wedding they wear wedding garments, at a funeral,

mourning garb; and at a king’s court the dress which would be unsuitable at home is suitable.

A wife may and should adorn herself according to her husband’s wishes when he is

present;—if she does as much in his absence one is disposed to ask in whose eyes she seeks

to shine? We may grant somewhat greater latitude to maidens, who may lawfully desire to

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attract many, although only with the view of ultimately winning one in holy matrimony.

Neither do I blame such widows as purpose to marry again for adorning themselves, provided

they keep within such limits as are seemly for those who are at the head of a family, and

who have gone through the sobering sorrows of widowhood. But for those who are widows

indeed, in heart as well as outwardly, humility, modesty and devotion are the only suitable

ornaments. If they seek to attract men’s admiration they are not widows indeed, and if they

have no such intention, why should they wear its tokens? Those who do not mean to entertain

guests should take down their signboard. So, again, every one laughs at old women who affect

youthful graces,—such things are only tolerable in the young.

Always be neat, do not ever permit any disorder or untidiness about you. There is a

certain disrespect to those with whom you mix in slovenly dress; but at the same time avoid

all vanity, peculiarity, and fancifulness. As far as may be, keep to what is simple and unpre-

tending—such dress is the best adornment of beauty and the best excuse for ugliness. S.

Peter bids women not to be over particular in dressing their hair. Every one despises a man

as effeminate who lowers himself by such things, and we count a vain woman as wanting

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in modesty, or at all events what she has becomes smothered among her trinkets and furbel-

ows. They say that they mean no harm, but I should reply that the devil will contrive to get

some harm out of it all. For my own part I should like my devout man or woman to be the

best dressed person in the company, but the least fine or splendid, and adorned, as S. Peter

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1 Tim. ii. 9.

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says, with “the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit.” 77 S. Louis said that the right thing is

for every one to dress according to his position, so that good and sensible people should

not be able to say they are over-dressed, or younger gayer ones that they are under-dressed.

But if these last are not satisfied with what is modest and seemly, they must be content with

the approbation of the elders.

77

1 Pet. iii. 3.

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CHAPTER XXVI. Of Conversation; and, first, how to Speak of God.

CHAPTER XXVI. Of Conversation; and, first, how to Speak of God.

CHAPTER XXVI. Of Conversation; and, first, how to Speak of God.

PHYSICIANS judge to a great extent as to the health or disease of a man by the state

of his tongue, and our words are a true test of the state of our soul. “By thy words thou shalt

be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned,” 78 the Saviour says. We are apt to

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apply the hand quickly to the place where we feel pain, and so too the tongue is quick to

point out what we love.

If you love God heartily, my child, you will often speak of Him among your relations,

household and familiar friends, and that because “the mouth of the righteous speaketh

wisdom, and his tongue talketh of judgment.” 79 Even as the bee touches nought save honey

with his tongue, so should your lips be ever sweetened with your God, knowing nothing

more pleasant than to praise and bless His Holy Name,—as we are told that when S. Francis

uttered the Name of the Lord, he seemed to feel the sweetness lingering on his lips, and

could not let it go. But always remember, when you speak of God, that He is God; and speak

reverently and with devotion,—not affectedly or as if you were preaching, but with a spirit

of meekness, love, and humility; dropping honey from your lips (like the Bride in the

Canticles 80 ) in devout and pious words, as you speak to one or another around, in your

secret heart the while asking God to let this soft heavenly dew sink into their minds as they

hearken. And remember very specially always to fulfil this angelic task meekly and lovingly,

not as though you were reproving others, but rather winning them. It is wonderful how at-

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tractive a gentle, pleasant manner is, and how much it wins hearts.

Take care, then, never to speak of God, or those things which concern Him, in a merely

formal, conventional manner; but with earnestness and devotion, avoiding the affected way

in which some professedly religious people are perpetually interlarding their conversation

with pious words and sayings, after a most unseasonable and unthinking manner. Too often

they imagine that they really are themselves as pious as their words, which probably is not

the case.

78

S. Matt. xii. 37.

79

Ps. xxxvii. 30.

80

Cant. iv. 11.

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CHAPTER XXVII. Of Unseemly Words, and the Respect due to Others.

CHAPTER XXVII. Of Unseemly Words, and the Respect due to Others.

CHAPTER XXVII. Of Unseemly Words, and the Respect due to

Others.

SAINT JAMES says, “If any man offend not in word, the same is, a perfect man.” 81

Beware most watchfully against ever uttering any unseemly expression; even though you

may have no evil intention, those who hear it may receive it with a different meaning. An

impure word falling upon a weak mind spreads its infection like a drop of oil on a garment,

and sometimes it will take such a hold of the heart, as to fill it with an infinitude of lascivious

thoughts and temptations. The body is poisoned through the mouth, even so is the heart

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through the ear; and the tongue which does the deed is a murderer, even when the venom

it has infused is counteracted by some antidote preoccupying the listener’s heart. It was not

the speaker’s fault that he did not slay that soul. Nor let any one answer that he meant no

harm. Our Lord, Who knoweth the hearts of men, has said, “Out of the abundance of the

heart the mouth speaketh.” 82 And even if we do mean no harm, the Evil One means a great

deal, and he will use those idle words as a sharp weapon against some neighbour’s heart. It

is said that those who eat the plant called Angelica always have a sweet, pleasant breath; and

those who cherish the angelic virtues of purity and modesty, will always speak simply,

courteously, and modestly. As to unclean and light-minded talk, S. Paul says such things

should not even be named 83 among us, for, as he elsewhere tells us, “Evil communications

corrupt good manners.” 84

Those impure words which are spoken in disguise, and with an affectation of reserve,

are the most harmful of all; for just as the sharper the point of a dart, so much deeper it will

pierce the flesh, so the sharper an unholy word, the more it penetrates the heart. And as for

those who think to show themselves knowing when they say such things, they do not even

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understand the first object of mutual intercourse among men, who ought rather to be like

a hive of bees gathering to make honey by good and useful conversation, than like a wasps’

nest, feeding on corruption. If any impertinent person addresses you in unseemly language,

show that you are displeased by turning away, or by whatever other method your discretion

may indicate.

One of the most evil dispositions possible is that which satirises and turns everything

to ridicule. God abhors this vice, and has sometimes punished it in a marked manner.

Nothing is so opposed to charity, much more to a devout spirit, as contempt and depreciation

of one’s neighbour, and where satire and ridicule exist contempt must be. Therefore contempt

81

S. James iii. 2.

82

S. Matt. xii. 34.

83

Eph. v. 3.

84

1 Cor. xv. 33.

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is a grievous sin, and our spiritual doctors have well said that ridicule is the greatest sin we

can commit in word against our neighbour, inasmuch as when we offend him in any other

way, there may still be some respect for him in our heart, but we are sure to despise those

whom we ridicule.

There is a light-hearted talk, full of modest life and gaiety, which the Greeks called

Eutrapelia, and which we should call good conversation, by which we may find an innocent

and kindly amusement out of the trifling occurrences which human imperfections afford.

Only beware of letting this seemly mirth go too far, till it becomes ridicule. Ridicule excites

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mirth at the expense of one’s neighbour; seemly mirth and playful fun never lose sight of a

trustful, kindly courtesy, which can wound no one. When the religious around him would

fain have discussed serious matters with S. Louis at meal-times, he used to say, “This is not

the time for grave discussion, but for general conversation and cheerful recreation,”—out

of consideration for his courtiers. But, my daughter, let our recreation always be so spent,

that we may win all eternity through devotion.

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CHAPTER XXVIII. Of Hasty Judgments.

CHAPTER XXVIII. Of Hasty Judgments.

CHAPTER XXVIII. Of Hasty Judgments.

JUDGE not, and ye shall not be judged,” said the Saviour of our souls; “condemn not,

and ye shall not be condemned:” 85 and the Apostle S. Paul, “Judge nothing before the time,

until the Lord come, Who both will bring to light the hidden things of darkness, and will

make manifest the counsels of the hearts.” 86 Of a truth, hasty judgments are most displeasing

to God, and men’s judgments are hasty, because we are not judges one of another, and by

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judging we usurp our Lord’s own office. Man’s judgment is hasty, because the chief malice

of sin lies in the intention and counsel of the heart, which is shrouded in darkness to us.

Moreover, man’s judgments are hasty, because each one has enough to do in judging himself,

without undertaking to judge his neighbour. If we would not be judged, it behoves us alike

not to judge others, and to judge ourselves. Our Lord forbids the one, His Apostle enjoins

the other, saying, “If we would judge ourselves, we should not be judged.” 87 But alas! for

the most part we precisely reverse these precepts, judging our neighbour, which is forbidden

on all sides, while rarely judging ourselves, as we are told to do.

We must proceed to rectify rash judgments, according to their cause. Some hearts there

are so bitter and harsh by nature, that everything turns bitter under their touch; men who,

in the Prophet’s words, “turn judgment to wormwood, and leave off righteousness in the

earth.” 88 Such as these greatly need to be dealt with by some wise spiritual physician, for

this bitterness being natural to them, it is hard to conquer; and although it be rather an

imperfection than a sin, still it is very dangerous, because it gives rise to and fosters rash

judgments and slander within the heart. Others there are who are guilty of rash judgments

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less out of a bitter spirit than from pride, supposing to exalt their own credit by disparaging

that of others. These are self-sufficient, presumptuous people, who stand so high in their

own conceit that they despise all else as mean and worthless. It was the foolish Pharisee who

said, “I am not as other men are.” 89 Others, again, have not quite such overt pride, but

rather a lurking little satisfaction in beholding what is wrong in others, in order to appreciate

more fully what they believe to be their own superiority. This satisfaction is so well concealed,

so nearly imperceptible, that it requires a clear sight to discover it, and those who experience

it need that it be pointed out to them. Some there are who seek to excuse and justify them-

selves to their own conscience, by assuming readily that others are guilty of the same faults,

or as great ones, vainly imagining that the sin becomes less culpable when shared by many.

85

S. Luke vi. 37.

86

1 Cor. iv. 5.

87

1 Cor. xi. 31.

88

Amos v. 7.

89

S. Luke xviii. 11.

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Others, again, give way to rash judgments merely because they take pleasure in a philosophic

analysis and dissection of their neighbours’ characters; and if by ill luck they chance now

and then to be right, their presumption and love of criticism strengthens almost incurably.

Then there are people whose judgment is solely formed by inclination; who always think

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well of those they like, and ill of those they dislike. To this, however, there is one rare excep-

tion, which nevertheless we do sometimes meet, when an excessive love provokes a false

judgment concerning its object; the hideous result of a diseased, faulty, restless affection,

which is in fact jealousy; an evil passion capable, as everybody knows, of condemning others

of perfidy and adultery upon the most trivial and fanciful ground. In like manner, fear,

ambition, and other moral infirmities often tend largely to produce suspicion and rash

judgments.

What remedy can we apply? They who drink the juice of the Ethiopian herb Ophiusa

imagine that they see serpents and horrors everywhere; and those who drink deep of pride,

envy, ambition, hatred, will see harm and shame in every one they look upon. The first can

only be cured by drinking palm wine, and so I say of these latter,—Drink freely of the sacred

wine of love, and it will cure you of the evil tempers which lead you to these perverse judg-

ments. So far from seeking out that which is evil, Love dreads meeting with it, and when

such meeting is unavoidable, she shuts her eyes at the first symptom, and then in her holy

simplicity she questions whether it were not merely a fantastic shadow which crossed her

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path rather than sin itself. Or if Love is forced to recognise the fact, she turns aside hastily,

and strives to forget what she has seen. Of a truth, Love is the great healer of all ills, and of

this above the rest. Everything looks yellow to a man that has the jaundice; and it is said

that the only cure is through the soles of the feet. Most assuredly the sin of rash judgments

is a spiritual jaundice, which makes everything look amiss to those who have it; and he who

would be cured of this malady must not be content with applying remedies to his eyes or

his intellect, he must attack it through the affections, which are as the soul’s feet. If your af-

fections are warm and tender, your judgment will not be harsh; if they are loving, your

judgment will be the same. Holy Scripture offers us three striking illustrations. Isaac, when

in the Land of Gerar, gave out that Rebecca was his sister, but when Abimelech saw their

familiarity, he at once concluded that she was his wife. 90 A malicious mind would rather

have supposed that there was some unlawful connection between them, but Abimelech

took the most charitable view of the case that was possible. And so ought we always to judge

our neighbour as charitably as may be; and if his actions are many-sided, we should accept

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the best. Again, when S. Joseph found that the Blessed Virgin was with child, 91 knowing

her to be pure and holy, he could not believe that there was any sin in her, and he left all

90

Gen. xxvi.

91

S. Matt. i.

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judgment to God, although there was strong presumptive evidence on which to condemn

her. And the Holy Spirit speaks of S. Joseph as “a just man.” When a just man cannot see

any excuse for what is done by a person in whose general worth he believes, he still refrains

from judging him, and leaves all to God’s Judgment. Again, our Crucified Saviour, while

He could not wholly ignore the sin of those who Crucified Him, yet made what excuse He

might for them, pleading their ignorance. 92 And so when we cannot find any excuse for

sin, let us at least claim what compassion we may for it, and impute it to the least damaging

motives we can find, as ignorance or infirmity.

Are we never, then, to judge our neighbour? you ask. Never, my child. It is God Who

judges criminals brought before a court of law. He uses magistrates to convey His sentence

to us; they are His interpreters, and have only to proclaim His law. If they go beyond this,

and are led by their own passions, then they do themselves judge, and for so doing they will

be judged. It is forbidden to all men alike, as men, to judge one another.

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We do not necessarily judge because we see or are conscious of something wrong. Rash

judgment always presupposes something that is not clear, in spite of which we condemn

another. It is not wrong to have doubts concerning a neighbour, but we ought to be very

watchful lest even our doubts or suspicions be rash and hasty. A malicious person seeing

Jacob kiss Rachel at the well-side, 93 or Rebecca accepting jewels from Eleazer, 94 a stranger,

might have suspected them of levity, though falsely and unreasonably. If an action is in itself

indifferent, it is a rash suspicion to imagine that it means evil, unless there is strong circum-

stantial evidence to prove such to be the case. And it is a rash judgment when we draw

condemnatory inferences from an action which may be blameless.

Those who keep careful watch over their conscience are not often liable to form rash

judgments, for just as when the clouds lower the bees make for the shelter of their hive, so

really good people shrink back into themselves, and refuse to be mixed up with the clouds

and fogs of their neighbour’s questionable doings, and rather than meddle with others, they

consecrate their energies on their own improvement and good resolutions.

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No surer sign of an unprofitable life than when people give way to censoriousness and

inquisitiveness into the lives of other men. Of course exception must be made as to those

who are responsible for others, whether in family or public life;—to all such it becomes a

matter of conscience to watch over the conduct of their fellows. Let them fulfil their duty

lovingly, and let them also give heed to restrain themselves within the bounds of that duty.

92

S. Luke xxiii. 34.

93

Gen. xxix. 11.

94

Gen. xxiv. 22.

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CHAPTER XXIX. On Slander.

CHAPTER XXIX. On Slander.

FROM rash judgments proceed mistrust, contempt for others, pride, and self-sufficiency,

and numberless other pernicious results, among which stands forth prominently the sin of

slander, which is a veritable pest of society. Oh, wherefore can I not take a live coal from

God’s Altar, and touch the lips of men, so that their iniquity may be taken away and their

sin purged, even as the Seraphim purged the lips of Isaiah. 95 He who could purge the world

of slander would cleanse it from a great part of its sinfulness!

He who unjustly takes away his neighbour’s good name is guilty of sin, and is bound to

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make reparation, according to the nature of his evil speaking; since no man can enter into

Heaven cumbered with stolen goods, and of all worldly possessions the most precious is a

good name. Slander is a kind of murder; for we all have three lives—a spiritual life, which

depends upon the Grace of God; a bodily life, depending on the soul; and a civil life, consist-

ing in a good reputation. Sin deprives us of the first, death of the second, and slander of the

third. But the slanderer commits three several murders with his idle tongue: he destroys his

own soul and that of him who hearkens, as well as causing civil death to the object of his

slander; for, as S. Bernard says, the Devil has possession both of the slanderer and of those

who listen to him, of the tongue of the one, the ear of the other. And David says of slanderers,

“They have sharpened their tongues like a serpent; adders’ poison is under their lips.” 96

Aristotle says that, like the forked, two-edged tongue of the serpent, so is that of the slanderer,

who at one dart pricks and poisons the ear of those who hear him, and the reputation of

him who is slandered.

My daughter, I entreat you never speak evil of any, either directly or indirectly; beware

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of ever unjustly imputing sins or faults to your neighbour, of needlessly disclosing his real

faults, of exaggerating such as are overt, of attributing wrong motives to good actions, of

denying the good that you know to exist in another, of maliciously concealing it, or depre-

ciating it in conversation. In all and each of these ways you grievously offend God, although

the worst is false accusation, or denying the truth to your neighbour’s damage, since therein

you combine his harm with falsehood.

Those who slander others with an affectation of good will, or with dishonest pretences

of friendliness, are the most spiteful and evil of all. They will profess that they love their

victim, and that in many ways he is an excellent man, but all the same, truth must be told,

and he was very wrong in such a matter; or that such and such a woman is very virtuous

generally, but and so on. Do you not see through the artifice? He who draws a bow draws

the arrow as close as he can to himself, but it is only to let it fly more forcibly; and so such

95

Isa. vi. 6, 7.

96

Ps. cxl. 3.

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slanderers appear to be withholding their evil-speaking, but it is only to let it fly with surer

aim and go deeper into the listeners’ minds. Witty slander is the most mischievous of all;

for just as some poisons are but feeble when taken alone, which become powerful when

mixed with wine, so many a slander, which would go in at one ear and out at the other of

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itself, finds a resting-place in the listener’s brain when it is accompanied with amusing, witty

comments. “The poison of asps is under their lips.” The asp’s bite is scarcely perceptible,

and its poison at first only causes an irritation which is scarcely disagreeable, so that the

heart and nervous system dilate and receive that poison, against which later on there is no

remedy.

Do not pronounce a man to be a drunkard although you may have seen him drunk, or

an adulterer, because you know he has sinned; a single act does not stamp him for ever. The

sun once stood still while Joshua and the children of Israel avenged themselves upon their

enemies; 97 and another time it was darkened at mid-day when the Lord was crucified; 98

but no one would therefore say that it was stationary or dark. Noah was drunk once, and

Lot, moreover, was guilty of incest, yet neither man could be spoken of as habitually given

to such sins; neither would you call S. Paul a man of blood or a blasphemer, because he had

blasphemed and shed blood before he became a Christian. Before a man deserves to be thus

stigmatised, he must have formed a habit of the sin he is accused of, and it is unfair to call

a man passionate or a thief, because you have once known him steal or fly into a passion.

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Even when a man may have persisted long in sin, you may say what is untrue in calling him

vicious. Simon the leper called Magdalene a sinner, because she had once lived a life of sin;

but he lied, for she was a sinner no longer, but rather a very saintly penitent, and so our

Lord Himself undertook her defence. 99

The Pharisee looked upon the publican as a great sinner,—probably as unjust, extortion-

ate, adulterous; 100 but how mistaken he was, inasmuch as the condemned publican was

even then justified! If God’s Mercy is so great, that one single moment is sufficient for it to

justify and save a man, what assurance have we that he who yesterday was a sinner is the

same to-day? Yesterday may not be the judge of today, nor to-day of yesterday: all will be

really judged at the Last Great Day. In short, we can never affirm a man to be evil without

running the risk of lying. If it be absolutely necessary to speak, we may say that he was guilty

of such an act, that he led an evil life at such and such a time, or that he is doing certain

97

Josh. x. 13.

98

S. Luke xxiii. 44.

99

S. Luke vii. 37-39.

100

S. Luke xviii. 11.

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wrong at the present day; but we have no right to draw deductions for to-day from yesterday,

nor of yesterday from today; still less to speak with respect to the future.

But while extremely sensitive as to the slightest approach to slander, you must also guard

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against an extreme into which some people fall, who, in their desire to speak evil of no one,

actually uphold and speak well of vice. If you have to do with one who is unquestionably a

slanderer, do not excuse him under the expressions of frank and free-spoken; do not call

one who is notoriously vain, liberal and elegant; do not call dangerous levities mere simplicity;

do not screen disobedience under the name of zeal, or arrogance of frankness, or evil intimacy

of friendship. No, my child, we must never, in our wish to shun slander, foster or flatter vice

in others; but we must call evil evil, and sin sin, and so doing we shall serve God’s Glory,

always bearing in mind the following rules.

If you would be justified in condemning a neighbour’s sin, you must be sure that it is

needful either for his good or that of others to do so. For instance, if light, unseemly conduct

is spoken of before young people in a way calculated to injure their purity, and you pass it

over, or excuse it, they may be led to think lightly of evil, and to imitate it; and therefore

you are bound to condemn all such things freely and at once, unless it is obvious that by

reserving your charitable work of reprehension to a future time, you can do it more profitably.

Furthermore, on such occasions it is well to be sure that you are the most proper person

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among those present to express your opinion, and that your silence would seem in any way

to condone the sin. If you are one of the least important persons present, it is probably not

your place to censure; but supposing it to be your duty, be most carefully just in what you

say,—let there not be a word too much or too little. For instance, you censure the intimacy

of certain people, as dangerous and indiscreet. Well, but you must hold the scales with the

most exact justice, and not exaggerate in the smallest item. If there be only a slight appearance

of evil, say no more than that; if it be a question of some trifling imprudence, do not make

it out to be more; if there be really neither imprudence nor positive appearance of evil, but

only such as affords a pretext for malicious slander, either say simply so much, or, better

still, say nothing at all. When you speak of your neighbour, look upon your tongue as a

sharp razor in the surgeon’s hand, about to cut nerves and tendons; it should be used so

carefully, as to insure that no particle more or less than the truth be said. And finally, when

you are called upon to blame sin, always strive as far as possible to spare the sinner.

Public, notorious sinners may be spoken of freely, provided always even then that a

spirit of charity and compassion prevail, and that you do not speak of them with arrogance

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or presumption, or as though you took pleasure in the fall of others. To do this is the sure

sign of a mean ungenerous mind. And, of course, you must speak freely in condemnation

of the professed enemies of God and His Church, heretics and schismatics,—it is true

charity to point out the wolf wheresoever he creeps in among the flock. Most people permit

themselves absolute latitude in criticising and censuring rulers, and in calumniating nation-

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alities, according to their own opinions and likings. But do you avoid this fault; it is displeas-

ing to God, and is liable to lead you into disputes and quarrels. When you hear evil of any

one, cast any doubt you fairly can upon the accusation; or if that is impossible, make any

available excuse for the culprit; and where even that may not be, be yet pitiful and compas-

sionate, and remind those with whom you are speaking that such as stand upright do so

solely through God’s Grace. Do your best kindly to check the scandal-bearer, and if you

know anything favourable to the person criticised, take pains to mention it.

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CHAPTER XXX. Further Counsels as to Conversation.

CHAPTER XXX. Further Counsels as to Conversation.

LET your words be kindly, frank, sincere, straightforward, simple and true; avoid all

artifice, duplicity and pretence, remembering that, although it is not always well to publish

abroad everything that may be true, yet it is never allowable to oppose the truth. Make it

your rule never knowingly to say what is not strictly true, either accusing or excusing, always

remembering that God is the God of Truth. If you have unintentionally said what is not

true, and it is possible to correct yourself at once by means of explanation or reparation, do

so. A straightforward excuse has far greater weight than any falsehood.

It may be lawful occasionally to conceal or disguise the truth, but this should never be

done save in such special cases as make this reserve obviously a necessity for the service and

glory of God. Otherwise all such artifice is dangerous; and we are told in Holy Scripture that

God’s Holy Spirit will not abide with the false or double-minded. Depend upon it there is

no craft half so profitable and successful as simplicity. Worldly prudence and artifice belong

to the children of this world; but the children of God go straight on with a single heart and

in all confidence;—falsehood, deceit and duplicity are sure signs of a mean, weak mind.

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In the Fourth Book of his Confessions, S. Augustine spoke in very strong terms of his

passionate devotion to a friend, saying that they had but as one soul, and that after his

friend’s death his life was a horror to him, although he feared to die. But later on these ex-

pressions seemed unreal and affected to him, and he withdrew them in his Retractations.

101 You see how sensitive that great mind was to unreality or affectation. Assuredly

straightforward honesty and sincerity in speech is a great beauty in the Christian life. “I said

I will take heed to my ways, that I offend not in my tongue.” 102 “Set a watch, O Lord, before

my mouth, and keep the door of my lips.” 103

It was a saying of S. Louis, that one should contradict nobody, unless there was sin or

harm in consenting; and that in order to avoid contention and dispute. At any rate, when

it is necessary to contradict anybody, or to assert one’s own opinion, it should be done gently

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and considerately, without irritation or vehemence. Indeed, we gain nothing by sharpness

or petulance.

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“My dearest Nebridius . . . I wondered that others subject to death should live, since he whom I loved, as

if he should never die, was dead; and I wondered yet more that myself, who was to him as a second self, could

live, he being dead. . . . I felt that my soul and his soul were one soul in two bodies, and therefore my life was a

horror to me, because I would not live halved, and therefore perchance I feared to die, lest he whom I had much

loved should die wholly.”—Confessions, Oxf. Trans. Bk. iv. p. 52. ”. . . which seems to me rather an empty de-

clamation than a grave confession.”—Retract., Bk. ii. c. 6.

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Ps. xxxix. 1.

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Ps. cxli. 3.

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The silence, so much commended by wise men of old, does not refer so much to a literal

use of few words, as to not using many useless words. On this score, we must look less to

the quantity than the quality, and, as it seems to me, our aim should be to avoid both ex-

tremes. An excessive reserve and stiffness, which stands aloof from familiar friendly conver-

sation, is untrusting, and implies a certain sort of contemptuous pride; while an incessant

chatter and babble, leaving no opportunity for others to put in their word, is frivolous and

troublesome.

S. Louis objected to private confidences and whisperings in society, especially at table,

lest suspicion should be aroused that scandal was being repeated. “Those who have anything

amusing or pleasant to say,” he argued, “should let everybody share the entertainment, but

if they want to speak of important matters, they should wait a more suitable time.”

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CHAPTER XXXI. Of Amusements and Recreations: what are allowable.

CHAPTER XXXI. Of Amusements and Recreations: what are allowable.

CHAPTER XXXI. Of Amusements and Recreations: what are

allowable.

WE must needs occasionally relax the mind, and the body requires some recreation

also. Cassian relates how S. John the Evangelist was found by a certain hunter amusing

himself by caressing a partridge, which sat upon his wrist. The hunter asked how a man of

his mental powers could find time for so trifling an occupation. In reply, S. John asked why

he did not always carry his bow strung? The man answered, Because, if always bent, the bow

would lose its spring when really wanted. “Do not marvel then,” the Apostle replied, “if I

slacken my mental efforts from time to time, and recreate myself, in order to return more

vigorously to contemplation.” It is a great mistake to be so strict as to grudge any recreation

either to others or one’s self.

Walking, harmless games, music, instrumental or vocal, field sports, etc., are such entirely

lawful recreations that they need no rules beyond those of ordinary discretion, which keep

every thing within due limits of time, place, and degree. So again games of skill, which exercise

and strengthen body or mind, such as tennis, rackets, running at the ring, chess, and the

like, are in themselves both lawful and good. Only one must avoid excess, either in the time

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given to them, or the amount of interest they absorb; for if too much time be given up to

such things, they cease to be a recreation and become an occupation; and so far from resting

and restoring mind or body, they have precisely the contrary effect. After five or six hours

spent over chess, one’s mind is spent and weary, and too long a time given to tennis results

in physical exhaustion; or if people play for a high stake, they get anxious and discomposed,

and such unimportant objects are unworthy of so much care and thought. But, above all,

beware of setting your heart upon any of these things, for however lawful an amusement

may be, it is wrong to give one’s heart up to it. Not that I would not have you take pleasure

in what you are doing,—it were no recreation else,—but I would not have you engrossed

by it, or become eager or over fond of any of these things.

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CHAPTER XXXII. Of Forbidden Amusements.

CHAPTER XXXII. Of Forbidden Amusements.

CHAPTER XXXII. Of Forbidden Amusements.

DICE, cards, and the like games of hazard, are not merely dangerous amusements, like

dancing, but they are plainly bad and harmful, and therefore they are forbidden by the civil

as by the ecclesiastical law. What harm is there in them? you ask. Such games are unreason-

able:—the winner often has neither skill nor industry to boast of, which is contrary to reason.

You reply that this is understood by those who play. But though that may prove that you

are not wronging anybody, it does not prove that the game is in accordance with reason, as

victory ought to be the reward of skill or labour, which it cannot be in mere games of chance.

Moreover, though such games may be called a recreation, and are intended as such, they

are practically an intense occupation. Is it not an occupation, when a man’s mind is kept

on the stretch of close attention, and disturbed by endless anxieties, fears and agitations?

Who exercises a more dismal, painful attention than the gambler? No one must speak or

laugh,—if you do but cough you will annoy him and his companions. The only pleasure in

gambling is to win, and this cannot be a satisfactory pleasure, since it can only be enjoyed

at the expense of your antagonist. Once, when he was very ill, S. Louis heard that his

brother the Comte d’Anjou and Messire Gautier de Nemours were gambling, and in spite

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of his weakness the King tottered into the room where they were, and threw dice and money

and everything out of the window, in great indignation. And the pure and pious Sara, in

her appeal to God, declared that she had never had dealings with gamblers. 104

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It is not very clear what S. Francis means by this. In the English version, Sara only says, “Thou knowest,

Lord . . . that I never polluted my name, nor the name of my father” (Tobit iii. 15). In the Vulgate the words are

“Numquam cum ludentibus miscui me; neque cum his, qui in levitate ambulant, participem me praebui” (iii.

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CHAPTER XXXIII. Of Balls, and other Lawful but Dangerous Amusements.

CHAPTER XXXIII. Of Balls, and other Lawful but Dangerous Amusements.

CHAPTER XXXIII. Of Balls, and other Lawful but Dangerous

Amusements.

DANCES and balls are things in themselves indifferent, but the circumstances ordinarily

surrounding them have so generally an evil tendency, that they become full of temptation

and danger. The time of night at which they take place is in itself conducive to harm, both

as the season when people’s nerves are most excited and open to evil impressions; and be-

cause, after being up the greater part of the night, they spend the mornings afterwards in

sleep, and lose the best part of the day for God’s Service. It is a senseless thing to turn day

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into night, light into darkness, and to exchange good works for mere trifling follies. Moreover,

those who frequent balls almost inevitably foster their Vanity, and vanity is very conducive

to unholy desires and dangerous attachments.

I am inclined to say about balls what doctors say of certain articles of food, such as

mushrooms and the like—the best are not good for much; but if eat them you must, at least

mind that they are properly cooked. So, if circumstances over which you have no control

take you into such places, be watchful how you prepare to enter them. Let the dish be

seasoned with moderation, dignity and good intentions. The doctors say (still referring to

the mushrooms), eat sparingly of them, and that but seldom, for, however well dressed, an

excess is harmful. So dance but little, and that rarely, my daughter, lest you run the risk of

growing over fond of the amusement.

Pliny says that mushrooms, from their porous, spongy nature, easily imbibe meretricious

matter, so that if they are near a serpent, they are infected by its poison. So balls and similar

gatherings are wont to attract all that is bad and vicious; all the quarrels, envyings, slanders,

and indiscreet tendencies of a place will be found collected in the ballroom. While people’s

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bodily pores are opened by the exercise of dancing, the heart’s pores will be also opened by

excitement, and if any serpent be at hand to whisper foolish words of levity or impurity, to

insinuate unworthy thoughts and desires, the ears which listen are more than prepared to

receive the contagion.

Believe me, my daughter, these frivolous amusements are for the most part dangerous;

they dissipate the spirit of devotion, enervate the mind, check true charity, and arouse a

multitude of evil inclinations in the soul, and therefore I would have you very reticent in

their use.

To return to the medical simile;—it is said that after eating mushrooms you should

drink some good wine. So after frequenting balls you should frame pious thoughts which

may counteract the dangerous impressions made by such empty pleasures on your heart.

Bethink you, then—1. That while you were dancing, souls were groaning in hell by reason

of sins committed when similarly occupied, or in consequence thereof.

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2. Remember how, at the selfsame time, many religious and other devout persons were

kneeling before God, praying or praising Him. Was not their time better spent than yours?

3. Again, while you were dancing, many a soul has passed away amid sharp sufferings;

thousands and tens of thousands were lying all the while on beds of anguish, some perhaps

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untended, unconsoled, in fevers, and all manner of painful diseases. Will you not rouse

yourself to a sense of pity for them? At all events, remember that a day will come when you

in your turn will lie on your bed of sickness, while others dance and make merry.

4. Bethink you that our Dear Lord, Our Lady, all the Angels and Saints, saw all that was

passing. Did they not look on with sorrowful pity, while your heart, capable of better things,

was engrossed with such mere follies?

5. And while you were dancing time passed by, and death drew nearer. Trifle as you

may, the awful dance of death 105 must come, the real pastime of men, since therein they

must, whether they will or no, pass from time to an eternity of good or evil. If you think of

the matter quietly, and as in God’s Sight, He will suggest many a like thought, which will

steady and strengthen your heart.

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S. Francis de Sales doubtless had in his thoughts the then common pictorial representations of the Dance

of Death, with which (although to our own modern ideas there would be almost irreverence if reproduced) we

are familiar through Holbein’s celebrated Dance, and others. The old covered bridge at Lucerne is one of the

most striking illustrations.

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CHAPTER XXXIV. When to use such Amusements rightly.

CHAPTER XXXIV. When to use such Amusements rightly.

CHAPTER XXXIV. When to use such Amusements rightly.

IF you would dance or play rightly, it must be done as a recreation, not as a pursuit, for

a brief space of time, not so as make you unfit for other things, and even then but seldom.

If it is a constant habit, recreation turns into occupation. You will ask when it is right to

dance or play? The occasions on which it is right to play at questionable games are rare;

ordinary games and dances may be indulged in more frequently. But let your rule be to do

so chiefly when courteous consideration for others among whom you are thrown requires

it, subject to prudence and discretion; for consideration towards others often sanctions

things indifferent or dangerous, and turns them to good, taking away what is evil. Thus

certain games of chance, bad in themselves, cease to be so to you, if you join in them merely

out of a due courtesy. I have been much comforted by reading in the Life of S. Carlo Bor-

romeo, how he joined in certain things to please the Swiss, concerning which ordinarily he

was very strict; as also how S. Ignatius Loyola, when asked to play, did so. As to S. Elizabeth

of Hungary, she both played and danced occasionally, when in society, without thereby

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hindering her devotion, which was so firmly rooted that, like the rocks of a mountain lake,

it stood unmoved amid the waves and storms of pomp and vanity which it encountered.

Great fires are fanned by the wind, but a little one is soon extinguished if left without

shelter.

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CHAPTER XXXV. We must be Faithful in Things Great and Small.

CHAPTER XXXV. We must be Faithful in Things Great and Small.

CHAPTER XXXV. We must be Faithful in Things Great and Small.

THE Bridegroom of the Canticles says that the Bride has ravished His heart with “one

of her eyes, one lock of her hair.” 106 In all the human body no part is nobler either in

mechanism or activity than the eye, none more unimportant than the hair. And so the Divine

Bridegroom makes us to know that He accepts not only the great works of devout people,

but every poor and lowly offering too; and that they who would serve Him acceptably must

give heed not only to lofty and important matters, but to things mean and little, since by

both alike we may win His Heart and Love.

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resolve to give up to Him all that you hold most precious, if He should require it of

you;—father, mother, husband, wife, or child; the light of your eyes; your very life; for all

such offering your heart should be ready. But so long as God’s Providence does not send

you these great and heavy afflictions; so long as He does not ask your eyes, at least give Him

your hair. I mean, take patiently the petty annoyances, the trifling discomforts, the unim-

portant losses which come upon all of us daily; for by means of these little matters, lovingly

and freely accepted, you will give Him your whole heart, and win His. I mean the acts of

daily forbearance, the headache, or toothache, or heavy cold; the tiresome peculiarities of

husband or wife, the broken glass, the loss of a ring, a handkerchief, a glove; the sneer of a

neighbour, the effort of going to bed early in order to rise early for prayer or Communion,

the little shyness some people feel in openly performing religious duties; and be sure that

all of these sufferings, small as they are, if accepted lovingly, are most pleasing to God’s

Goodness, Which has promised a whole ocean of happiness to His children in return for

one cup of cold water. And, moreover, inasmuch as these occasions are for ever arising,

they give us a fertile field for gathering in spiritual riches, if only we will use them rightly.

When I read in the Life of S. Catherine of Sienna of her ecstasies and visions, her wise

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sayings and teaching, I do not doubt but that she “ravished” her Bridegroom’s heart with

this eye of contemplation; but I must own that I behold her with no less delight in her father’s

kitchen, kindling the fire, turning the spit, baking the bread, cooking the dinner, and doing

all the most menial offices in a loving spirit which looked through all things straight to God.

Nor do I prize the lowly meditations she was wont to make while so humbly employed less

than the ecstasies with which she was favoured at other times, probably as a reward for this

very humility and lowliness. Her meditations would take the shape of imagining that all she

prepared for her father was prepared for Our Lord, as by Martha; her mother was a symbol

to her of Our Lady, her brothers of the Apostles, and thus she mentally ministered to all the

106

Cant. iv. 9. In the English version this passage stands as “one chain of her neck;” but in the Vulgate it is

“uno crine colli tui.”

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Heavenly Courts, fulfilling her humble ministrations with an exceeding sweetness, because

she saw God’s Will in each. Let this example, my daughter, teach you how important it is

to dedicate all we do, however trifling, to His service. And to this end I earnestly counsel

you to imitate that “virtuous woman” whom King Solomon lauds, 107 who “layeth her hands”

to all that is good and noble, and yet at the same time to the spindle and distaff. Do you seek

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the higher things, such as prayer and meditation, the Sacraments leading souls to God and

kindling good thoughts in them, in a word, by all manner of good works according to your

vocation; but meanwhile do not neglect your spindle and distaff. I mean, cultivate those

lowly virtues which spring like flowers round the foot of the Cross, such as ministering to

the poor and sick, family cares, and the duties arising therefrom, and practical diligence and

activity; and amid all these things cultivate such spiritual thoughts as S. Catherine inter-

mingled with her work.

Great occasions for serving God come seldom, but little ones surround us daily; and

our Lord Himself has told us that “he that is faithful in that which is least is faithful also in

much.” 108 If you do all in God’s Name, all you do will be well done, whether you eat, drink

or sleep, whether you amuse yourself or turn the spit, so long as you do all wisely, you will

gain greatly as in God’s Sight, doing all because He would have you do it.

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Prov. xxxi. Those who desire a helpful book will find one in Mgr. Landriot’s “Femme Forte,” a series of lectures on this chapter of Holy Scripture, which, as well as his “Femme Picuse” is largely imbued with the

spirit of S. Francis de Sales, who is frequently quoted in both.

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S. Luke xvi. 10.

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CHAPTER XXXVI. Of a Well-Balanced, Reasonable Mind.

CHAPTER XXXVI. Of a Well-Balanced, Reasonable Mind.

CHAPTER XXXVI. Of a Well-Balanced, Reasonable Mind.

REASON is the special characteristic of man, and yet it is a rare thing to find really

reasonable men, all the more that self-love hinders reason, and beguiles us insensibly into

all manner of trifling, but yet dangerous acts of injustice and untruth, which, like the little

foxes in the Canticles, 109 spoil our vines, while, just because they are trifling, people pay

no attention to them, and because they are numerous, they do infinite harm. Let me give

some instances of what I mean.

We find fault with our neighbour very readily for a small matter, while we pass over

great things in ourselves. We strive to sell dear and buy cheap. We are eager to deal out strict

justice to others, but to obtain indulgence for ourselves. We expect a good construction to

be put on all we say, but we are sensitive and critical as to our neighbour’s words. We expect

him to let us have whatever we want for money, when it would be more reasonable to let

him keep that which is his, if he desires to do so, and leave us to keep our gold. We are vexed

with him because he will not accommodate us, while perhaps he has better reason to be

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vexed with us for wanting to disturb him. If we have a liking for any one particular thing,

we despise all else, and reject whatever does not precisely suit our taste. If some inferior is

unacceptable to us, or we have once caught him in error, he is sure to be wrong in our eyes

whatever he may do, and we are for ever thwarting, or looking coldly on him, while, on the

other hand, some one who happens to please us is sure to be right. Sometimes even parents

show unfair preference for a child endowed with personal gifts over one afflicted with some

physical imperfection. We put the rich before the poor, although they may have less claim,

and be less worthy; we even give preference to well-dressed people. We are strict in exacting

our own rights, but expect others to be yielding as to theirs;—we complain freely of our

neighbours, but we do not like them to make any complaints of us. Whatever we do for

them appears very great in our sight, but what they do for us counts as nothing. In a word,

we are like the Paphlagonian partridge, which has two hearts; for we have a very tender,

pitiful, easy heart towards ourselves, and one which is hard, harsh and strict towards our

neighbour. We have two scales, one wherein to measure our own goods to the best advantage,

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and the other to weigh our neighbours’ to the worst. Holy Scripture tells us that lying lips

are an abomination unto the Lord, 110 and the double heart, with one measure whereby to

receive, and another to give, is also abominable in His Sight.

Be just and fair in all you do. Always put yourself in your neighbour’s place, and put

him into yours, and then you will judge fairly. Sell as you would buy, and buy as you would

sell, and your buying and selling will alike be honest. These little dishonesties seem unim-

109

Cant. ii. 15.

110

Prov. xii. 22.

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portant, because we are not obliged to make restitution, and we have, after all, only taken

that which we might demand according to the strict letter of the law; but, nevertheless, they

are sins against right and charity, and are mere trickery, greatly needing correction—nor

does any one ever lose by being generous, noble-hearted and courteous. Be sure then often

to examine your dealings with your neighbour, whether your heart is right towards him, as

you would have his towards you, were things reversed—this is the true test of reason. When

Trajan was blamed by his confidential friends for making the Imperial presence too accessible,

he replied, “Does it not behove me to strive to be such an emperor towards my subjects as

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I should wish to meet with were I a subject?”

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CHAPTER XXXVII. Of Wishes.

CHAPTER XXXVII. Of Wishes.

CHAPTER XXXVII. Of Wishes.

EVERYBODY grants that we must guard against the desire for evil things, since evil

desires make evil men. But I say yet further, my daughter, do not desire dangerous things,

such as balls or pleasures, office or honour, visions or ecstacies. Do not long after things

afar off; such, I mean, as cannot happen till a distant time, as some do who by this means

wear themselves out and expend their energies uselessly, fostering a dangerous spirit of

distraction. If a young man gives way to overweening longings for an employment he cannot

obtain yet a while, what good will it do him? If a married woman sets her heart on becoming

a religious, or if I crave to buy my neighbour’s estate, he not being willing to sell it, is it not

mere waste of time? If, when sick, I am restlessly anxious to preach or celebrate, to visit

other sick people, or generally to do work befitting the strong, is it not an unprofitable desire,

inasmuch as I have no power to fulfil it? and meanwhile these useless wishes take the place

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of such as I ought to have,—namely, to be patient, resigned, self-denying, obedient, gentle

under suffering,—which are what God requires of me under the circumstances. We are too

apt to be like a sickly woman, craving ripe cherries in autumn and grapes in spring. I can

never think it well for one whose vocation is clear to waste time in wishing for some different

manner of life than that which is adapted to his duty, or practices unsuitable to his present

position—it is mere idling, and will make him slack in his needful work. If I long after a

Carthusian solitude, I am losing my time, and such longing usurps the place of that which

I ought to entertain—to fulfil my actual duties rightly. No indeed, I would not even have

people wish for more wit or better judgment, for such desires are frivolous, and take the

place of the wish every one ought to possess of improving what he has. We ought not to

desire ways of serving God which He does not open to us, but rather desire to use what we

have rightly. Of course I mean by this, real earnest desires, not common superficial wishes,

which do no harm if not too frequently indulged.

Do not desire crosses, unless you have borne those already laid upon you well—it is an

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abuse to long after martyrdom while unable to bear an insult patiently. The Enemy of souls

often inspires men with ardent desires for unattainable things, in order to divert their atten-

tion from present duties, which would be profitable however trifling in themselves. We are

apt to fight African monsters in imagination, while we let very petty foes vanquish us in

reality for want of due heed.

Do not desire temptations, that is temerity, but prepare your heart to meet them bravely,

and to resist them when they come.

Too great variety and quantity of food loads the stomach, and (especially when it is

weakly) spoils the digestion. Do not overload your soul with innumerable longings, either

worldly, for that were destruction,—or even spiritual, for these only cumber you. When the

soul is purged of the evil humours of sin, it experiences a ravenous hunger for spiritual

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things, and sets to work as one famished at all manner of spiritual exercises;—mortification,

penitence, humility, charity, prayer. Doubtless such an appetite is a good sign, but it behoves

you to reflect whether you are able to digest all that you fain would eat. Make rather a selec-

tion from all these desires, under the guidance of your spiritual father, of such as you are

able to perform, and then use them as perfectly as you are able. When you have done this,

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God will send you more, to be fulfilled in their turn, and so you will not waste time in un-

profitable wishes. Not that I would have you lose any good desires, but rather treat them

methodically, putting them aside in one corner of your heart till due time comes, while you

carry out such as are ripe for action. And this counsel I give to worldly people as well as

those who are spiritual, for without heeding it no one can avoid anxiety and over-eagerness.

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MARRIAGE is a great Sacrament both in Jesus Christ and His Church, and one to be

honoured to all, by all and in all. To all, for even those who do not enter upon it should

honour it in all humility. By all, for it is holy alike to poor as to rich. In all, for its origin, its

end, its form and matter are holy. It is the nursery of Christianity, whence the earth is

peopled with faithful, till the number of the elect in Heaven be perfected; so that respect for

the marriage tie is exceedingly important to the commonwealth, of which it is the source

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and supply.

Would to God that His Dear Son were bidden to all weddings as to that of Cana! Truly

then the wine of consolation and blessing would never be lacking; for if these are often so

wanting, it is because too frequently now men summon Adonis instead of our Lord, and

Venus rather than Our Lady. He who desires that the young of his flock should be like Jacob’s,

fair and ring-straked, must set fair objects before their eyes; and he who would find a

blessing in his marriage, must ponder the holiness and dignity of this Sacrament, instead

of which too often weddings become a season of mere feasting and disorder.

Above all, I would exhort all married people to seek that mutual love so commended

to them by the Holy Spirit in the Bible. It is little to bid you love one another with a mutual

love,—-turtle-doves do that; or with human love,—the heathen cherished such love as that.

But I say to you in the Apostle’s words: “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also

loved the Church. Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands as unto the Lord.” 111 It was

God Who brought Eve to our first father Adam, and gave her to him to wife; and even so,

my friends, it is God’s Invisible Hand Which binds you in the sacred bonds of marriage; it

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is He Who gives you one to the other, therefore cherish one another with a holy, sacred,

heavenly love.

The first effect of this love is the indissoluble union of your hearts. If you glue together

two pieces of deal, provided that the glue be strong, their union will be so close that the stick

will break more easily in any other part than where it is joined. Now God unites husband

and wife so closely in Himself, that it should be easier to sunder soul from body than husband

from wife; nor is this union to be considered as mainly of the body, but yet more a union

of the heart, its affections and love.

The second effect of this love should be an inviolable fidelity to one another. In olden

times finger-rings were wont to be graven as seals. We read of it in Holy Scripture, and this

explains the meaning of the marriage ceremony, when the Church, by the hand of her priest,

blesses a ring, and gives it first to the man in token that she sets a seal on his heart by this

111

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Sacrament, so that no thought of any other woman may ever enter therein so long as she,

who now is given to him, shall live. Then the bridegroom places the ring on the bride’s hand,

so that she in her turn may know that she must never conceive any affection in her heart

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for any other man so long as he shall live, who is now given to her by our Lord Himself.

The third end of marriage is the birth and bringing up of children. And herein, O ye

married people! are you greatly honoured, in that God, willing to multiply souls to bless

and praise Him to all Eternity, He associates you with Himself in this His work, by the

production of bodies into which, like dew from Heaven, He infuses the souls He creates as

well as the bodies into which they enter.

Therefore, husbands, do you preserve a tender, constant, hearty love for your wives. It

was that the wife might be loved heartily and tenderly that woman was taken from the side

nearest Adam’s heart. No failings or infirmities, bodily or mental, in your wife should ever

excite any kind of dislike in you, but rather a loving, tender compassion; and that because

God has made her dependent on you, and bound to defer to and obey you; and that while

she is meant to be your helpmeet, you are her superior and her head. And on your part,

wives, do you love the husbands God has given you tenderly, heartily, but with a reverential,

confiding love, for God has made the man to have the predominance, and to be the stronger;

and He wills the woman to depend upon him,—bone of his bone, flesh of his flesh,—taking

her from out the ribs of the man, to show that she must be subject to his guidance. All Holy

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Scripture enjoins this subjection, which nevertheless is not grievous; and the same Holy

Scripture, while it bids you accept it lovingly, bids your husband to use his superiority with

great tenderness, lovingkindness, and gentleness. “Husbands, dwell with your wives according

to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife as unto the weaker vessel.” 112

But while you seek diligently to foster this mutual love, give good heed that it do not

turn to any manner of jealousy. Just as the worm is often hatched in the sweetest and ripest

apple, so too often jealousy springs up in the most warm and loving hearts, defiling and

ruining them, and if it is allowed to take root, it will produce dissension, quarrels, and sep-

aration. Of a truth, jealousy never arises where love is built up on true virtue, and therefore

it is a sure sign of an earthly, sensual love, in which mistrust and inconstancy is soon infused.

It is a sorry kind of friendship which seeks to strengthen itself by jealousy; for though jealousy

may be a sign of strong, hot friendship, it is certainly no sign of a good, pure, perfect attach-

ment; and that because perfect love implies absolute trust in the person loved, whereas

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jealousy implies uncertainty.

If you, husbands, would have your wives faithful, be it yours to set them the example.

“How have you the face to exact purity from your wives,” asks S. Gregory Nazianzen, “if

you yourself live an impure life? or how can you require that which you do not give in return?

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If you would have them chaste, let your own conduct to them be chaste. S. Paul bids you

possess your vessel in sanctification; but if, on the contrary, you teach them evil, no wonder

that they dishonour you. And ye, O women! whose honour is inseparable from modesty

and purity, preserve it jealously, and never allow the smallest speck to soil the whiteness of

your reputation.”

Shrink sensitively from the veriest trifles which can touch it; never permit any gallantries

whatsoever. Suspect any who presume to flatter your beauty or grace, for when men praise

wares they cannot purchase they are often tempted to steal; and if any one should dare to

speak in disparagement of your husband, show that you are irrecoverably offended, for it

is plain that he not only seeks your fall, but he counts you as half fallen, since the bargain

with the new-comer is half made when one is disgusted with the first merchant.

Ladies both in ancient and modern times have worn pearls in their ears, for the sake

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(so says Pliny) of hearing them tinkle against each other. But remembering how that friend

of God, Isaac, sent earrings as first pledges of his love to the chaste Rebecca, I look upon

this mystic ornament as signifying that the first claim a husband has over his wife, and one

which she ought most faithfully to keep for him, is her ear; so that no evil word or rumour

enter therein, and nought be heard save the pleasant sound of true and pure words, which

are represented by the choice pearls of the Gospel. Never forget that souls are poisoned

through the ear as much as bodies through the mouth.

Love and faithfulness lead to familiarity and confidence, and Saints have abounded in

tender caresses. Isaac and Rebecca, the type of chaste married life, indulged in such caresses,

as to convince Abimelech that they must be husband and wife. The great S. Louis, strict as

he was to himself, was so tender towards his wife, that some were ready to blame him for

it; although in truth he rather deserved praise for subjecting his lofty, martial mind to the

little details of conjugal love. Such minor matters will not suffice to knit hearts, but they

tend to draw them closer, and promote mutual happiness.

Before giving birth to S. Augustine, S. Monica offered him repeatedly to God’s Glory,

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as he himself tells us; and it is a good lesson for Christian women how to offer the fruit of

their womb to God, Who accepts the free oblations of loving hearts, and promotes the desires

of such faithful mothers: witness Samuel, S. Thomas Aquinas, S. Andrea di Fiesole, and

others. 113 S. Bernard’s mother, worthy of such a son, was wont to take her new-born babes

in her arms to offer them to Jesus Christ, thenceforward loving them with a reverential love,

as a sacred deposit from God; and so entirely was her offering accepted, that all her seven

children became Saints. 114 And when children begin to use their reason, fathers and

mothers should take great pains to fill their hearts with the fear of God. This the good Queen

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S. Francis de Sales himself is an instance, his mother having offered him up to God while yet unborn.

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Cf. Marie Jenna’s lovely poem, “L’aimeras-tu?” “Je ne veux plus d’enfants, si ce ne sont des saints.”

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Blanche did most earnestly by S. Louis, her son: witness her oft-repeated words, “My son,

I would sooner see you die than guilty of a mortal sin;” words which sank so deeply into the

saintly monarch’s heart, that he himself said there was no day on which they did not recur

to his mind, and strengthen him in treading God’s ways.

We call races and generations Houses; and the Hebrews were wont to speak of the birth

of children as “the building up of the house;” as it is written of the Jewish midwives in Egypt,

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that the Lord “made them houses;” 115 whereby we learn that a good house is not reared so

much by the accumulation of worldly goods, as by the bringing up of children in the ways

of holiness and of God; and to this end no labour or trouble must be spared, for children

are the crown of their parents. 116 Thus it was that S. Monica stedfastly withstood S. Au-

gustine’s evil propensities, and, following him across sea and land, he became more truly

the child of her tears in the conversion of his soul, than the son of her body in his natural

birth.

S. Paul assigns the charge of the household to the woman; and consequently some hold

that the devotion of the family depends more upon the wife than the husband, who is more

frequently absent, and has less influence in the house. Certainly King Solomon, in the Book

of Proverbs, refers all household prosperity to the care and industry of that virtuous woman

whom he describes. 117

We read in Genesis that Isaac “entreated the Lord for his wife, because she was barren;”

118 or as the Hebrews read it, he prayed “over against” her,—on opposite sides of the place

of prayer,—and his prayer was granted. That is the most fruitful union between husband

and wife which is founded in devotion, to which they should mutually stimulate one another.

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There are certain fruits, like the quince, of so bitter a quality, that they are scarcely eatable,

save when preserved; while others again, like cherries and apricots, are so delicate and soft,

that they can only be kept by the same treatment. So the wife must seek that her husband

be sweetened with the sugar of devotion, for man without religion is a rude, rough animal;

and the husband will desire to see his wife devout, as without it her frailty and weakness are

liable to tarnish and injury. S. Paul says that “the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the

wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband;” 119 because in so close a tie one

may easily draw the other to what is good. And how great is the blessing on those faithful

husbands and wives who confirm one another continually in the Fear of the Lord!

115

Exod. i. 21.

116

Prov. xvii. 6.

117

Prov. xxxi.

118

Gen. xxv. 21.

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1 Cor. vii. 14.

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Moreover, each should have such forbearance towards the other, that they never grow

angry, or fall into discussion and argument. The bee will not dwell in a spot where there is

much loud noise or shouting, or echo; neither will God’s Holy Spirit dwell in a household

where altercation and tumult, arguing and quarrelling, disturb the peace.

S. Gregory Nazianzen says that in his time married people were wont to celebrate the

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anniversary of their wedding, and it is a custom I should greatly approve, provided it were

not a merely secular celebration; but if husbands and wives would go on that day to Confes-

sion and Communion, and commend their married life specially to God, renewing their

resolution to promote mutual good by increased love and faithfulness, and thus take breath,

so to say, and gather new vigour from the Lord to go on stedfastly in their vocation.

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CHAPTER XXXIX. The Sanctity of the Marriage Bed.

CHAPTER XXXIX. The Sanctity of the Marriage Bed.

THE marriage bed should be undefiled, as the Apostle tells us, 120 i.e. pure, as it was

when it was first instituted in the earthly Paradise, wherein no unruly desires or impure

thought might enter. All that is merely earthly must be treated as means to fulfil the end

God sets before His creatures. Thus we eat in order to preserve life, moderately, voluntarily,

and without seeking an undue, unworthy satisfaction therefrom. “The time is short,” says

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S. Paul; “it remaineth that both they that have wives be as though they had not, and they

that use this world, as not abusing it.” 121

Let every one, then, use this world according to his vocation, but so as not to entangle

himself with its love, that he may be as free and ready to serve God as though he used it not.

S. Augustine says that it is the great fault of men to want to enjoy things which they are only

meant to use, and to use those which they are only meant to enjoy. We ought to enjoy

spiritual things, and only use those which are material; but when we turn the use of these

latter into enjoyment, the reasonable soul becomes degraded to a mere brutish level.

120

Heb. xiii. 4.

121

1 Cor. vii. 30, 31.

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CHAPTER XL. Counsels to Widows.

CHAPTER XL. Counsels to Widows.

SAINT PAUL teaches us all in the person of S. Timothy when he says, “Honour widows

that are widows indeed.” 122 Now to be “a widow indeed” it is necessary:—

1. That the widow be one not in body only, but in heart also; that is to say, that she be

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fixed in an unalterable resolution to continue in her widowhood Those widows who are but

waiting the opportunity of marrying again are only widowed in externals, while in will they

have already laid aside their loneliness. If the “widow indeed” chooses to confirm her wid-

owhood by offering herself by a vow to God, she will adorn that widowhood, and make her

resolution doubly sure, for the remembrance that she cannot break her vow without danger

of forfeiting Paradise, will make her so watchful over herself, that a great barrier will be

raised against all kind of temptation that may assail her. S. Augustine strongly recommends

Christian widows to take this vow, and the learned Origen goes yet further, for he advises

married women to take a vow of chastity in the event of losing their husbands, so that amid

the joys of married life they may yet have a share in the merits of a chaste widowhood. Vows

render the actions performed under their shelter more acceptable to God, strengthen us to

perform good works, and help us to devote to Him not merely those good works which are,

so to say, the fruits of a holy will, but to consecrate that will itself; the source of all we do,

to Him. By ordinary chastity we offer our body to God, retaining the power to return to

sensual pleasure; but the vow of chastity is an absolute and irrevocable gift to Him, without

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any power to recall it, thereby making ourselves the happy slaves of Him Whose service is

to be preferred to royal power. And as I greatly approve the counsels of the two venerable

Fathers I have named, I would have such persons as are so favoured as to wish to embrace

them, do so prudently, and in a holy, stedfast spirit, after careful examination of their own

courage, having asked heavenly guidance, and taken the advice of some discreet and pious

director, and then all will be profitably done.

2. Further, all such renunciation of second marriage must be done with a single heart,

in order to fix the affections more entirely on God, and to seek a more complete union with

Him. For if the widow retains her widowhood merely to enrich her children, or for any

other worldly motive, she may receive the praise of men, but not that of God, inasmuch as

nothing is worthy of His Approbation save that which is done for His Sake. Moreover, she

who would be a widow indeed must be voluntarily cut off from all worldly delights. “She

that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth,” S. Paul says. 123 A widow who seeks to be

admired and followed and flattered, who frequents balls and parties, who takes pleasure in

dressing, perfuming and adorning herself, may be a widow in the body, but she is dead as

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122

1 Tim. v. 3.

123

1 Tim. v. 6.

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to the soul. What does it matter, I pray you, whether the flag of Adonis and his profane love

be made of white feathers or a net of crape? Nay, sometimes there is a conscious vanity in

that black is the most becoming dress; and she who thereby endeavours to captivate men,

and who lives in empty pleasure, is “dead while she liveth,” and is a mere mockery of wid-

owhood.

“The time of retrenchment is come, the voice of the turtle is heard in our land.” 124

Retrenchment of worldly superfluity is required of whosoever would lead a devout life, but

above all, it is needful for the widow indeed, who mourns the loss of her husband like a true

turtle-dove. When Naomi returned from Moab to Bethlehem, those that had known her in

her earlier and brighter days were moved, and said, “Is this Naomi? And she said unto them,

Call me not Naomi (which means beautiful and agreeable), call me Mara, for the Almighty

hath dealt very bitterly with me. I went out full, and the Lord hath brought me home again

empty.” 125 Even so the devout widow will not desire to be called or counted beautiful or

agreeable, asking no more than to be that which God wills,—lowly and abject in His Eyes.

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The lamp which is fed with aromatic oil sends forth a yet sweeter odour when it is ex-

tinguished; and so those women whose married love was true and pure, give out a stronger

perfume of virtue and chastity when their light (that is, their husband) is extinguished by

death. Love for a husband while living is a common matter enough among women, but to

love him so deeply as to refuse to take another after his death, is a kind of love peculiar to

her who is a widow indeed. Hope in God, while resting on a husband, is not so rare, but to

hope in Him, when left alone and desolate, is a very gracious and worthy thing. And thus

it is that widowhood becomes a test of the perfection of the virtues displayed by a woman

in her married life.

The widow who has children requiring her care and guidance, above all in what pertains

to their souls and the shaping of their lives, cannot and ought not on any wise to forsake

them. S. Paul teaches this emphatically, and says that those who “provide not for their own,

and specially for those of their own house, are worse than an infidel;” 126 but if her children

do not need her care, then the widow should gather together all her affections and thoughts,

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in order to devote them more wholly to making progress in the love of God. If there is no

call obliging her in conscience to attend to external secular matters (legal or other), I should

advise her to leave them all alone, and to manage her affairs as quietly and peacefully as may

be, even if such a course does not seem the most profitable. The fruit of disputes and lawsuits

must be very great indeed before it can be compared in worth to the blessing of holy peace;

not to say that those legal entanglements and the like are essentially distracting, and often

124

Cant. ii. 12. in the Vulgate, “Tempus putationis advenit; vox turturis audita est in terra nostra.”

125

Ruth i. 20, 21.

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1 Tim. v. 8.

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open the way for enemies who sully the purity of a heart which should be solely devoted to

God.

Prayer should be the widow’s chief occupation: she has no love left save for God,—she

should scarce have ought to say to any save God; and as iron, which is restrained from

yielding to the attraction of the magnet when a diamond is near, darts instantly towards it

so soon as the diamond is removed, so the widow’s heart, which could not rise up wholly

to God, or simply follow the leadings of His Heavenly Love during her husband’s life, finds

itself set free, when he is dead, to give itself entirely to Him, and cries out, with the Bride

in the Canticles, “Draw me, I will run after Thee.” 127 I will be wholly Thine, and seek

nothing save the “savour of Thy good ointments.”

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A devout widow should chiefly seek to cultivate the graces of perfect modesty, renouncing

all honours, rank, title, society, and the like vanities; she should be diligent in ministering

to the poor and sick, comforting the afflicted, leading the young to a life of devotion,

studying herself to be a perfect model of virtue to younger women. Necessity and simplicity

should be the adornment of her garb, humility and charity of her actions, simplicity and

kindliness of her words, modesty and purity of her eyes,—Jesus Christ Crucified the only

Love of her heart.

Briefly, the true widow abides in the Church as a little March violet, 128 shedding forth

an exquisite sweetness through the perfume of her devotion, ever concealing herself beneath

the ample leaves of her heart’s lowliness, while her subdued colouring indicates her morti-

fication. She dwells in waste, uncultivated places, because she shrinks from the world’s in-

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tercourse, and seeks to shelter her heart from the glare with which earthly longings, whether

of honours, wealth, or love itself, might dazzle her. “Blessed is she if she so abide,” says the

holy Apostle. 129

Much more could I say on this subject, but suffice it to bid her who seeks to be a widow

indeed, read S. Jerome’s striking Letters to Salvia, and the other noble ladies who rejoiced

in being the spiritual children of such a Father. Nothing can be said more, unless it be to

warn the widow indeed not to condemn or even censure those who do resume the married

127

Cant. i. 3, 4.

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“Quarn gloriosa enirn Ecclesia, et quanta virtutum multitudine, quasi florum varietate! Habet hortus ille

Dominicus non solum rosas martyrum, sed et lilia virginum, et conjugatorum hederas, violasque viduarum

Prorsus, Dilectissimi, nullum genus hominum de sua vocatione desperet: pro omnibus passus est Christus.”—S.

Aug. Serm. ccciv., In Laurent. Mart. iii. cap. 1-3. “How glorious is the Church, how countless her graces, varied

as the flowers of earth in beauty! This garden of the Lord bears not only the martyr’s rose, but the virgin’s lily,

the ivy wreath of wedded love, and the violet of widowhood. Therefore, beloved, let none despair of his calling,

since Christ suffered for all.”

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1 Cor. vii. 40. “Beatior autem erit si sic permanserit.”—Vulgate.

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life, for there are cases in which God orders it thus to His Own greater Glory. We must ever

bear in mind the ancient teaching, that in Heaven virgins, wives, and widows will know no

difference, save that which their true hearts’ humility assigns them.

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CHAPTER XLI. One Word to Maidens.

CHAPTER XLI. One Word to Maidens.

O YE virgins, I have but a word to say to you. If you look to married life in this life,

guard your first love jealously for your husband. It seems to me a miserable fraud to give a

husband a worn-out heart, whose love has been frittered away and despoiled of its first

bloom instead of a true, whole-hearted love. But if you are happily called to be the chaste

and holy bride of spiritual nuptials, and purpose to live a life of virginity, then in Christ’s

Name I bid you keep all your purest, most sensitive love for your Heavenly Bridegroom,

Who, being Very Purity Himself, has a special love for purity; Him to Whom the first-fruits

of all good things are due, above all those of love.

S. Jerome’s Epistles will supply you with the needful counsels; and inasmuch as your

state of life requires obedience, seek out a guide under whose direction you may wholly

dedicate yourself, body and soul, to His Divine Majesty.

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CHAPTER I. We must not trifle with the Words of Worldly Wisdom.

CHAPTER I. We must not trifle with the Words of Worldly Wisdom.

DIRECTLY that your worldly friends perceive that you aim at leading a devout life, they

will let loose endless shafts of mockery and misrepresentation upon you; the more malicious

will attribute your change to hypocrisy, designing, or bigotry; they will affirm that the world

having looked coldly upon you, failing its favour you turn to God; while your friends will

make a series of what, from their point of view, are prudent and charitable remonstrances.

They will tell you that you are growing morbid; that you will lose your worldly credit, and

will make yourself unacceptable to the world; they will prognosticate your premature old

age, the ruin of your material prosperity; they will tell you that in the world you must live

as the world does; that you can be saved without all this fuss; and much more of the like

nature.

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My daughter, all this is vain and foolish talk: these people have no real regard either for

your bodily health or your material prosperity. “If ye were of the world,” the Saviour has

said, “the world would love his own; but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen

you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you.” 1

We have all seen men, and women too, pass the whole night, even several in succession,

playing at chess or cards; and what can be a more dismal, unwholesome thing than that?

But the world has not a word to say against it, and their friends are nowise troubled. But

give up an hour to meditation, or get up rather earlier than usual to prepare for Holy

Communion, and they will send for the doctor to cure you of hypochondria or jaundice!

People spend every night for a month dancing, and no one will complain of being the worse;

but if they keep the one watch of Christmas Eve, we shall hear of endless colds and maladies

the next day! Is it not as plain as possible that the world is an unjust judge; indulgent and

kindly to its own children, harsh and uncharitable to the children of God? We cannot stand

well with the world save by renouncing His approval. It is not possible to satisfy the world’s

unreasonable demands: “John the Baptist came neither eating bread nor drinking wine; and

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ye say he hath a devil. The Son of Man is come eating and drinking, and ye say, Behold a

gluttonous man, and a winebibber, the friend of publicans and sinners.” 2 Even so, my child,

if we give in to the world, and laugh, dance, and play as it does, it will affect to be scandalized;

if we refuse to do so, it will accuse us of being hypocritical or morbid. If we adorn ourselves

after its fashion, it will put some evil construction on what we do; if we go in plain attire, it

will accuse us of meanness; our cheerfulness will be called dissipation; our mortification

dulness; and ever casting its evil eye upon us, nothing we can do will please it. It exaggerates

our failings, and publishes them abroad as sins; it represents our venial sins as mortal, and

1

S. John xv. 19.

2

S. Luke vii. 33, 34.

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our sins of infirmity as malicious. S. Paul says that charity is kind, but the world is unkind;

charity thinks no evil, but the world thinks evil of every one, and if it cannot find fault with

our actions, it is sure at least to impute bad motives to them,—whether the sheep be black

or white, horned or no, the wolf will devour them if he can. Do what we will, the world

must wage war upon us. If we spend any length of time in confession, it will speculate on

what we have so much to say about! if we are brief, it will suggest that we are keeping back

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something! It spies out our every act, and at the most trifling angry word, sets us down as

intolerable. Attention to business is avarice, meekness mere silliness; whereas the wrath of

worldly people is to be reckoned as generosity, their avarice, economy, their mean deeds,

honourable. There are always spiders at hand to spoil the honey-bee’s comb.

Let us leave the blind world to make as much noise as it may,—like a bat molesting the

songbirds of day; let us be firm in our ways, unchangeable in our resolutions, and persever-

ance will be the test of our self-surrender to God, and our deliberate choice of the devout

life.

The planets and a wandering comet shine with much the same brightness, but the

comet’s is a passing blaze, which does not linger long, while the planets cease not to display

their brightness. Even so hypocrisy and real goodness have much outward resemblance; but

one is easily known from the other, inasmuch as hypocrisy is short-lived, and disperses like

a mist, while real goodness is firm and abiding. There is no surer groundwork for the begin-

nings of a devout life than the endurance of misrepresentation and calumny, since thereby

we escape the danger of vainglory and pride, which are like the midwives of Egypt, who

were bidden by Pharaoh to kill the male children born to Israel directly after their birth. We

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are crucified to the world, and the world must be as crucified to us. It esteems us as fools,

let us esteem it as mad.

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CHAPTER II. The need of a Good Courage.

CHAPTER II. The need of a Good Courage.

CHAPTER II. The need of a Good Courage.

HOWEVER much we may admire and crave for light, it is apt to dazzle our eyes when

they have been long accustomed to darkness; and on first visiting a foreign country, we are

sure to feel strange among its inhabitants, however kindly or courteous they may be. Even

so, my child, your changed life may be attended with some inward discomfort, and you may

feel some reaction of discouragement and weariness after you have taken a final farewell of

the world and its follies. Should it be so, I pray you take it patiently, for it will not last,—it

is merely the disturbance caused by novelty; and when it is gone by, you will abound in

consolations. At first you may suffer somewhat under the loss what you enjoyed among

your vain, frivolous companions; but would you forfeit the eternal gifts of God for such

things as these? The empty amusements which have engrossed you hitherto may rise up

attractively before your imagination, and strive to win you back to rest in them; but are you

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bold enough to give up a blessed eternity for such deceitful snares? Believe me, if you will

but persevere you will not fail to enjoy a sweetness so real and satisfying, that you will be

constrained to confess that the world has only gall to give as compared with this honey, and

that one single day of devotion is worth more than a thousand years of worldly life.

But you see before you the mountain of Christian perfection, which is very high, and

you exclaim in fearfulness that you can never ascend it. Be of good cheer, my child. When

the young bees first begin to live they are mere grubs, unable to hover over flowers, or to

fly to the mountains, or even to the little hills where they might gather honey; but they are

fed for a time with the honey laid up by their predecessors, and by degrees the grubs put

forth their wings and grow strong, until they fly abroad and gather their harvest from all

the country round. Now we are yet but as grubs in devotion, unable to fly at will, and attain

the desired aim of Christian perfection; but if we begin to take shape through our desires

and resolutions, our wings will gradually grow, and we may hope one day to become spir-

itual bees, able to fly. Meanwhile let us feed upon the honey left us in the teaching of so

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many holy men of old, praying God that He would grant us doves’ wings, so that we may

not only fly during this life, but find an abiding resting-place in Eternity.

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CHAPTER III. Of Temptations, and the difference between experiencing them…

CHAPTER III. Of Temptations, and the difference between experiencing them and consenting to them.

CHAPTER III. Of Temptations, and the difference between

experiencing them and consenting to them.

PICTURE to yourself a young princess beloved of her husband, to whom some evil

wretch should send a messenger to tempt her to infidelity. First, the messenger would bring

forth his propositions. Secondly, the princess would either accept or reject the overtures.

Thirdly, she would consent to them or refuse them. Even so, when Satan, the world, and

the flesh look upon a soul espoused to the Son of God, they set temptations and suggestions

before that soul, whereby—1. Sin is proposed to it. 2. Which proposals are either pleasing

or displeasing to the soul. 3. The soul either consents, or rejects them. In other words, the

three downward steps of temptation, delectation, and consent. And although the three steps

may not always be so clearly defined as in this illustration, they are to be plainly traced in

all great and serious sins.

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If we should undergo the temptation to every sin whatsoever during our whole life, that

would not damage us in the Sight of God’s Majesty, provided we took no pleasure in it, and

did not consent to it; and that because in temptation we do not act, we only suffer, and

inasmuch as we take no delight in it, we can be liable to no blame. S. Paul bore long time

with temptations of the flesh, but so far from displeasing God thereby, He was glorified in

them. The blessed Angela di Foligni underwent terrible carnal temptations, which move us

to pity as we read of them. S. Francis and S. Benedict both experienced grievous temptations,

so that the one cast himself amid thorns, the other into the snow, to quench them, but so

far from losing anything of God’s Grace thereby, they greatly increased it.

Be then very courageous amid temptation, and never imagine yourself conquered so

long as it is displeasing to you, ever bearing in mind the difference between experiencing

and consenting to temptation, 3 —that difference being, that whereas they may be experi-

enced while most displeasing to us, we can never consent to them without taking pleasure

in them, inasmuch as pleasure felt in a temptation is usually the first step towards consent.

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So let the enemies of our salvation spread as many snares and wiles in our way as they will,

let them besiege the door of our heart perpetually, let them ply us with endless proposals to

sin,—so long as we abide in our firm resolution to take no pleasure therein, we cannot offend

God any more than the husband of the princess in my illustration could be displeased with

her because of the overtures made to her, so long as she was in no way gratified by them.

Of course, there is one great difference between my imaginary princess and the soul, namely,

that the former has it in her power to drive away the messenger of evil and never hear him

more, while the latter cannot always refuse to experience temptation, although it be always

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The English language does not contain the precise relative terms equivalent to “sentir et con-sentir.”

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in its power to refuse consent. But how long soever the temptation may persist, it cannot

harm us so long as it is unwelcome to us.

But again, as to the pleasure which may be taken in temptation (technically called de-

lectation), inasmuch as our souls have two parts, one inferior, the other superior, and the

inferior does not always choose to be led by the superior, but takes its own line,—it not

unfrequently happens that the inferior part takes pleasure in a temptation not only without

consent from, but absolutely in contradiction to the superior will. It is this contest which S.

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Paul describes when he speaks of the “law in my members, warring against the law of my

mind,” 4 and of the “flesh lusting against the spirit.” 5

Have you ever watched a great burning furnace heaped up with ashes? Look at it some

ten or twelve hours afterwards, and there will scarce be any living fire there, or only a little

smouldering in the very heart thereof. Nevertheless, if you can find that tiny lingering spark,

it will suffice to rekindle the extinguished flames. So it is with love, which is the true spiritual

life amid our greatest, most active temptations. Temptation, flinging its delectation into the

inferior part of the soul, covers it wholly with ashes, and leaves but a little spark of God’s

Love, which can be found nowhere save hidden far down in the heart or mind, and even

that is hard to find. But nevertheless it is there, since however troubled we may have been

in body and mind, we firmly resolved not to consent to sin or the temptation thereto, and

that delectation of the exterior man was rejected by the interior spirit. Thus though our will

may have been thoroughly beset by the temptation, it was not conquered, and so we are

certain that all such delectation was involuntary, and consequently not sinful.

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Rom. vii. 23.

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Gal. v. 17.

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CHAPTER IV. Two striking Illustrations of the same.

CHAPTER IV. Two striking Illustrations of the same.

CHAPTER IV. Two striking Illustrations of the same.

THIS distinction, which is very important, is well illustrated by the description S. Jerome

gives of a young man bound to a voluptuous bed by the softest silken cords, and subjected

to the wiles and lures of a treacherous tempter, with the express object of causing him to

fall. Greatly as all his senses and imagination must inevitably have been possessed by so

vehement an assault, he proved that his heart was free and his will unconquered, for, having

physical control over no member save his tongue, he bit that off and spat it out at his foe, a

foe more terrible than the tyrant’s executioners.

S. Catherine of Sienna has left a somewhat similar record. The Evil One having obtained

permission from God to assault that pious virgin with all his strength, so long as he laid no

hand upon her, filled her heart with impure suggestions, and surrounded her with every

conceivable temptation of sight and sound, which, penetrating into the Saint’s heart, so

filled it, that, as she herself has said, nothing remained free save her most acute superior

will. This struggle endured long, until at length Our Lord appeared to her, and she exclaimed,

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“Where wert Thou, O most Dear Lord, when my heart was so overwhelmed with darkness

and foulness?” Whereupon He answered, “I was within thy heart, My child.” “How could

that be, Lord,” she asked, “when it was so full of evil? Canst Thou abide in a place so foul?”

Then our Lord replied, “Tell Me, did these evil thoughts and imaginations give thee pain

or pleasure? didst thou take delight, or didst thou grieve over them?” To which S. Catherine

made answer, “They grieved me exceedingly.” Then the Lord said, “Who, thinkest thou,

was it that caused thee to be thus grieved, save I Myself, hidden within thy soul? Believe Me,

My child, had I not been there, these evil thoughts which swarmed around thy soul, and

which thou couldst not banish, would speedily have overpowered it, and entering in, thy

free will would have accepted them, and so death had struck that soul; but inasmuch as I

was there, I filled thy heart with reluctance and resistance, so that it set itself stedfastly against

the temptation, and finding itself unable to contend as vigorously as it desired, it did but

experience a yet more vehement abhorrence of sin and of itself. Thus these very troubles

became a great merit again to thee, and a great accession of virtue and strength to thy soul.”

Here, you see, were the embers covered over with ashes, while temptation and delectation

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had entered the heart and surrounded the will, which, aided only by the Saviour, resisted

all evil inspirations with great disgust, and a persevering refusal to consent to sin. Verily the

soul which loves God is sometimes in sore straits to know whether He abideth in it or no,

and whether that Divine Love for which it fights is extinguished or burns yet. But it is the

very essence of the perfection of that Heavenly Love to require its lovers to endure and fight

for Love’s sake, without knowing even whether they possess the very Love for which and in

which they strive.

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CHAPTER V. Encouragement for the Tempted Soul.

CHAPTER V. Encouragement for the Tempted Soul.

GOD never permits such grievous temptations and assaults to try any, save those souls

whom He designs to lead on to His own living, highest love, but nevertheless it does not

follow as a natural consequence that they are certain to attain thereto. Indeed, it has often

happened that those who had been stedfast under violent assaults, failing to correspond

faithfully to Divine Grace, have yielded under the pressure of very trifling temptations. I

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would warn you of this, my child, so that, should you ever be tried by great temptations,

you may know that God is showing special favour to you, thereby proving that He means

to exalt you in His Sight; but that at the same time you may ever be humble and full of holy

fear, not overconfident in your power to resist lesser temptations because you have overcome

those that were greater, unless by means of a most stedfast faithfulness to God.

Come what may in the shape of temptation, attended by whatsoever of delectation,—so

long as your will refuses consent, not merely to the temptation itself, but also to the delect-

ation, you need have no fear,—God is not offended. When any one has swooned away, and

gives no sign of life, we put our hand to his heart, and if we find the slightest fluttering there,

we conclude that he still lives, and that, with the help of stimulants and counter-irritants,

we may restore consciousness and power. Even so, sometimes amid the violence of

temptation the soul seems altogether to faint away, and to lose all spiritual life and action.

But if you would be sure how it really is, put your hand on the heart. See whether heart and

will yet have any spiritual motion; that is to say, whether they fulfil their own special duty

in refusing consent to and acceptance of temptation and its gratification; for so long as the

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power to refuse exists within the soul, we may be sure that Love, the life of the soul, is there,

and that Jesus Christ, our Lord and Saviour, is within, although, it may be, hidden; and that

by means of stedfast perseverance in prayer, and the Sacraments, and confidence in God,

strength will be restored, and the soul will live with a full and joyous life.

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CHAPTER VI. When Temptation and Delectation are Sin.

CHAPTER VI. When Temptation and Delectation are Sin.

CHAPTER VI. When Temptation and Delectation are Sin.

THAT princess, whom we have already taken as an illustration, was not to blame in the

unlawful pursuit we supposed to be made of her, because it was against her will; but if, on

the contrary, she had in any way led to it, or sought to attract him who sought her, she were

certainly guilty of the pursuit itself; and even if she withheld her consent, she would still

deserve censure and punishment. Thus it sometimes happens that temptation in itself is sin

to us, because we have ourselves brought it upon us. For instance, if I know that gaming

leads me to passion and blasphemy, and that all play is a temptation to me, I sin each and

every time that I play, and I am responsible for all the temptations which may come upon

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me at the gaming table. So again, if I know that certain society involves me in temptation

to evil, and yet I voluntarily seek it, I am unquestionably responsible for all that I may en-

counter in the way of temptation therein.

When it is possible to avoid the delectation arising out of temptation, it is always a sin

to accept it, in proportion to the pleasure we take, and the amount of consent given,

whether that be great or small, brief or lasting. The princess of our illustration is to blame

if she merely listens to the guilty propositions made to her but still more so if, after listening,

she takes pleasure in them, and allows her heart to feed and rest thereupon; for although

she has no intention of really doing that which is proposed, her heart gives a spiritual consent

when she takes pleasure in it, and it must always be wrong to let either body or mind rest

on anything unworthy,—and wrongdoing lies so entirely in the heart’s co-operation, that

without this no mere bodily action can be sin.

Therefore, when you are tempted to any sin, examine whether you voluntarily exposed

yourself to the temptation, and if you find that you have done so by putting yourself into

its way, or by not foreseeing the temptation, as you ought to have done, then it is sin; but if

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you have done nothing to bring about the temptation, it is not in anywise to be imputed to

you as sin.

When the delectation which attends temptation might have been avoided, but has not

been avoided, there is always a certain amount of sin according to the degree to which we

have lingered over it, and the kind of pleasure we have taken in it. If a woman who has not

wilfully attracted unlawful admiration, nevertheless takes pleasure in such admiration, she

is doing wrong, always supposing that what pleases her is the admiration. But if the person

who courts her plays exquisitely on the lute, and she took pleasure, not in the personal at-

tentions paid to herself, but in the sweetness and harmony of the music, there would be no

sin in that, although it would be wrong to give way to any extent to her pleasure, for fear of

its leading on to pleasure in the pursuit of herself. So again, if some clever stratagem whereby

to avenge me of an enemy is suggested, and I take no satisfaction and give no consent to

the vengeance, but am only pleased at the cleverness of the invention, I am not sinning; al-

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though it were very inexpedient to dwell long upon it, lest little by little I should go on to

take pleasure in the thought of revenge.

Sometimes we are taken by surprise by some sense of delectation following so closely

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upon the temptation, that we are off our guard. This can be but a very slight venial sin, which

would become greater if, after once we perceive the danger, we allow ourselves to dally with

it, or question as to admitting or rejecting it,—greater still if we carelessly neglect to resist

it;—and if we deliberately allow ourselves to rest in any such pleasure, it becomes very great

sin, especially if the thing attracting us be unquestionably evil. Thus it is a great sin in a

woman to allow herself to dwell upon any unlawful affections, although she may have no

intention of ever really yielding to them.

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CHAPTER VII. Remedies for Great Occasions.

CHAPTER VII. Remedies for Great Occasions.

CHAPTER VII. Remedies for Great Occasions.

SO soon as you feel yourself anywise tempted, do as our little children when they see a

wolf or a bear in the mountains. Forthwith they run to the protection of their father or

mother, or at least cry out for help. Do you fly in like manner to God, claiming His compas-

sion and succour,—it is the remedy taught us by our Lord Himself: “Pray that ye enter not

into temptation” 6

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If, nevertheless, the temptation persists or increases, hasten in spirit to embrace the holy

Cross, as though you beheld Jesus Christ Crucified actually Present. Make firm protests

against consenting, and ask His Help thereto; and, so long as the temptation lasts, do you

persist in making acts of non-consent. But while making these acts and these protests, do

not fix your eyes on the temptation,—look solely on Our Lord, for if you dwell on the

temptation, especially when it is strong, your courage may be shaken. Divert your mind

with any right and healthy occupation, for if that takes possession and fills your thoughts,

it will drive away temptation and evil imaginations.

One great remedy against all manner of temptation, great or small, is to open the heart

and lay bare its suggestions, likings, and dislikings, to your director; for, as you may observe,

the first condition which the Evil One makes with a soul, when he wants to seduce it, is si-

lence. Even as a bad man, seeking to seduce a woman, enjoins silence concerning himself

to her father or husband, whereas God would always have us make known all His inspirations

to our superiors and guides.

If, after all, the temptation still troubles and persecutes us, there is nothing to be done

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on our side save to persist in protesting that we will not consent; for just as no maiden can

be married while she persists in saying No, so no soul, however oppressed, can be guilty

while it says the same.

Do not argue with your Enemy, and give but one answer,—that with which Our Lord

confounded him, “Get thee hence, Satan, for it is written, Thou shalt worship the Lord thy

God, and Him only shalt thou serve.” 7 Just as the pure wife would make no reply, and cast

no glance on the foul seducer who strove to lead her astray, but would straightway fly from

him to her husband’s side, not arguing, but cleaving to her lawful lord in renewed fidelity;—so

the devout soul when assailed by temptation should never trifle with it by answer or argu-

ment, but simply fly to the Side of Jesus Christ, its Bridegroom; renewing its pledges of un-

changing devotion and faithfulness to Him.

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S. Luke xxii. 40.

7

S. Matt. iv. 10.

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CHAPTER VIII. How to resist Minor Temptations.

CHAPTER VIII. How to resist Minor Temptations.

CHAPTER VIII. How to resist Minor Temptations.

WHILE it is right to resist great temptations with invincible courage, and all such vic-

tories will be most valuable, still there is perhaps more absolute profit to our souls in resisting

little ones. For although the greater temptations exceed in power, there are so infinitely

more in number of little temptations, that a victory over them is fully as important as over

the greater but rarer ones. No one will question but that wolves and bears are more dangerous

than flies, but they do not worry and annoy us, or try our patience as these do. While is not

a hard thing to abstain from murder, but it is very difficult to avoid all passing fits of anger,

which assail us at every moment. A man or woman can easily keep from adultery, but it is

less easy to abstain from all words and glances which are disloyal. While is easy to keep from

stealing another man’s goods, but often difficult to resist coveting them; easy to avoid

bearing false witness in direct judgment, difficult to be perfectly truthful in conversation;

easy to refrain from getting drunk, difficult to be absolutely sober; easy not to wish for a

neighbour’s death, difficult not to wish anything contrary to his interests; easy to keep from

slander, difficult to avoid all contempt.

In short, all these minor temptations to anger, suspicion, jealousy, envy, levity, vanity,

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duplicity, affectation, foolish thoughts, and the like, are a perpetual trial even to those who

are most devout and most resolute; and therefore, my daughter, we ought carefully and di-

ligently to prepare for this warfare. Be assured that every victory won over these little foes

is as a precious stone in the crown of glory which God prepares for us in Paradise. So, while

awaiting and making ready for a stedfast and brave resistance to great temptations should

they come, let us not fail diligently to fight against these meaner, weaker foes.

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CHAPTER IX. How remedy Minor Temptations.

CHAPTER IX. How remedy Minor Temptations.

CHAPTER IX. How remedy Minor Temptations.

NOW as to all these trifling temptations of vanity, suspicion, vexation, jealousy, envy,

and the like, which flit around one like flies or gnats, now settling on one’s nose,—anon

stinging one’s cheek,—as it is wholly impossible altogether to free one’s-self from their im-

portunity; the best resistance one can make is not to be fretted by them. All these things

may worry one, but they cannot really harm us, so long as our wills are firmly resolved to

serve God.

Therefore despise all these trivial onslaughts, and do not even deign to think about

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them; but let them buzz about your ears as much as they please, and flit hither and thither

just as you tolerate flies;—even if they sting you, and strive to light within your heart, do no

more than simply remove them, not fighting with them, or arguing, but simply doing that

which is precisely contrary to their suggestions, and specially making acts of the Love of

God. If you will take my advice, you will not toil on obstinately in resisting them by exercising

the contrary virtue, for that would become a sort of struggle with the foe;—but, after making

an act of this directly contrary virtue (always supposing you have time to recognise what

the definite temptation is), simply turn with your whole heart towards Jesus Christ Crucified,

and lovingly kiss His Sacred Feet. This is the best way to conquer the Enemy, whether in

small or great temptations; for inasmuch as the Love of God contains the perfection of every

virtue, and that more excellently than the very virtues themselves; it is also the most sovereign

remedy against all vice, and if you accustom your mind under all manner of temptation to

have recourse to this safety-place, you will not be constrained to enter upon a worryingly

minute investigation of your temptations, but, so soon as you are anywise troubled, your

mind will turn naturally to its one sovereign remedy. Moreover, this way of dealing with

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temptation is so offensive to the Evil One, that, finding he does but provoke souls to an in-

creased love of God by his assaults, he discontinues them.

In short, you may be sure that if you dally with your minor, oft-recurring temptations,

and examine too closely into them in detail, you will simply stupefy yourself to no purpose.

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CHAPTER X. How to strengthen the Heart against Temptation.

CHAPTER X. How to strengthen the Heart against Temptation.

CHAPTER X. How to strengthen the Heart against Temptation.

EXAMINE from time to time what are the dominant passions of your soul, and having

ascertained this, mould your life, so that in thought, word and deed you may as far as possible

counteract them. For instance, if you know that you are disposed to be vain, reflect often

upon the emptiness of this earthly life, call to mind how burdensome all mere earthly vanities

will be to the conscience at the hour of death, how unworthy of a generous heart, how puerile

and childish, and the like. See that your words have no tendency to foster your vanity, and

even though you may seem to be doing so but reluctantly, strive to despise it heartily, and

to rank yourself in every way among its enemies. Indeed, by dint of steady opposition to

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anything, we teach ourselves to hate even that which we began by liking. Do as many lowly,

humble deeds as lie in your power, even if you perform them unwillingly at first; for by this

means you will form a habit of humility, and you will weaken your vanity, so that when

temptation arises, you will be less predisposed to yield, and stronger to resist. Or if you are

given to avarice, think often of the folly of this sin, which makes us the slave of what was

made only to serve us; remember how when we die we must leave all we possess to those

who come after us, who may squander it, ruin their own souls by misusing it, and so forth.

Speak against covetousness, commend the abhorrence in which it is held by the world; and

constrain yourself to abundant almsgiving, as also to not always using opportunities of ac-

cumulation. If you have a tendency to trifle with the affections, often call to mind what a

dangerous amusement it is for yourself and others; how unworthy a thing it is to use the

noblest feelings of the heart as a mere pastime; and how readily such trifling becomes mere

levity. Let your conversation turn on purity and simplicity of heart, and strive to frame

your actions accordingly, avoiding all that savours of affectation or flirting.

In a word, let your time of peace,—that is to say, the time when you are not beset by

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temptations to sin,—be used in cultivating the graces most opposed to your natural diffi-

culties, and if opportunities for their exercise do not arise, go out of your way to seek them,

and by so doing you will strengthen your heart against future temptations.

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CHAPTER XI. Anxiety of Mind.

CHAPTER XI. Anxiety of Mind.

CHAPTER XI. Anxiety of Mind.

ANXIETY of mind is not so much an abstract temptation, as the source whence various

temptations arise. Sadness, when defined, is the mental grief we feel because of our involun-

tary ailments;—whether the evil be exterior, such as poverty, sickness or contempt; or interior,

such as ignorance, dryness, depression or temptation. Directly that the soul is conscious of

some such trouble, it is downcast, and so trouble sets in. Then we at once begin to try to get

rid of it, and find means to shake it off; and so far rightly enough, for it is natural to us all

to desire good, and shun that which we hold to be evil.

If any one strives to be delivered from his troubles out of love of God, he will strive pa-

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tiently, gently, humbly and calmly, looking for deliverance rather to God’s Goodness and

Providence than to his own industry or efforts; but if self-love is the prevailing object he

will grow hot and eager in seeking relief, as though all depended more upon himself than

upon God. I do not say that the person thinks so, but he acts eagerly as though he did think

it. Then if he does not find what he wants at once, he becomes exceedingly impatient and

troubled, which does not mend matters, but on the contrary makes them worse, and so he

gets into an unreasonable state of anxiety and distress, till he begins to fancy that there is

no cure for his trouble. Thus you see how a disturbance, which was right at the outset, begets

anxiety, and anxiety goes on into an excessive distress, which is exceedingly dangerous.

This unresting anxiety is the greatest evil which can happen to the soul, sin only excepted.

Just as internal commotions and seditions ruin a commonwealth, and make it incapable of

resisting its foreign enemies, so if our heart be disturbed and anxious, it loses power to retain

such graces as it has, as well as strength to resist the temptations of the Evil One, who is all

the more ready to fish (according to an old proverb) in troubled waters.

Anxiety arises from an unregulated desire to be delivered from any pressing evil, or to

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obtain some hoped-for good. Nevertheless nothing tends so greatly to enchance the one or

retard the other as over-eagerness and anxiety. Birds that are captured in nets and snares

become inextricably entangled therein, because they flutter and struggle so much. Therefore,

whensoever you urgently desire to be delivered from any evil, or to attain some good thing,

strive above all else to keep a calm, restful spirit,—steady your judgment and will, and then

go quietly and easily after your object, taking all fitting means to attain thereto. By easily I

do not mean carelessly, but without eagerness, disquietude or anxiety; otherwise, so far from

bringing about what you wish, you will hinder it, and add more and more to your perplex-

ities. “My soul is alway in my hand, yet do I not forget Thy Law,” 8 David says. Examine

yourself often, at least night and morning, as to whether your soul is “in your hand;” or

whether it has been wrested thence by any passionate or anxious emotion. See whether your

8

Ps. cxix. 109.

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soul is fully under control, or whether it has not in anywise escaped from beneath your

hand, to plunge into some unruly love, hate, envy, lust, fear, vexation or joy. And if it has

so strayed, before all else seek it out, and quietly bring it back to the Presence of God, once

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more placing all your hopes and affections under the direction of His Holy Will. Just as one

who fears to lose some precious possession holds it tight in his hand, so, like King David,

we ought to be able to say, “My soul is alway in my hand, and therefore I have not forgotten

Thy Law.”

Do not allow any wishes to disturb your mind under the pretext of their being trifling

and unimportant; for if they gain the day, greater and weightier matters will find your heart

more accessible to disturbance. When you are conscious that you are growing anxious,

commend yourself to God, and resolve stedfastly not to take any steps whatever to obtain

the result you desire, until your disturbed state of mind is altogether quieted;—unless indeed

it should be necessary to do something without delay, in which case you must restrain the

rush of inclination, moderating it, as far as possible, so as to act rather from reason than

impulse.

If you can lay your anxiety before your spiritual guide, or at least before some trusty

and devout friend, you may be sure that you will find great solace. The heart finds relief in

telling its troubles to another, just as the body when suffering from persistent fever finds

relief from bleeding. It is the best of remedies, and therefore it was that S. Louis counselled

his son, “If thou hast any uneasiness lying heavy on thy heart, tell it forthwith to thy confessor,

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or to some other pious person, and the comfort he will give will enable thee to bear it easily.”

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CHAPTER XII. Of Sadness and Sorrow.

CHAPTER XII. Of Sadness and Sorrow.

S. PAUL says that “godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented

of, but the sorrow of the world worketh death.” 9 So we see that sorrow may be good or bad

according to the several results it produces in us. And indeed there are more bad than good

results arising from it, for the only good ones are mercy and repentance; whereas there are

six evil results, namely, anguish, sloth, indignation, jealousy, envy and impatience. The Wise

Man says that “sorrow hath killed many, and there is no profit therein,” 10 and that because

for the two good streams which flow from the spring of sadness, there are these six which

are downright evil.

The Enemy makes use of sadness to try good men with his temptations:—just as he tries

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to make bad men merry in their sin, so he seeks to make the good sorrowful amid their

works of piety; and while making sin attractive so as to draw men to it, he strives to turn

them from holiness by making it disagreeable. The Evil One delights in sadness and melan-

choly, because they are his own characteristics. He will be in sadness and sorrow through

all Eternity, and he would fain have all others the same.

The “sorrow of the world” disturbs the heart, plunges it into anxiety, stirs up unreason-

able fears, disgusts it with prayer, overwhelms and stupefies the brain, deprives the soul of

wisdom, judgment, resolution and courage, weakening all its powers; in a word, it is like a

hard winter, blasting all the earth’s beauty, and numbing all animal life; for it deprives the

soul of sweetness and power in every faculty.

Should you, my daughter, ever be attacked by this evil spirit of sadness, make use of the

following remedies. “Is any among you afflicted?” says S. James, “let him pray.” 11 Prayer

is a sovereign remedy, it lifts the mind to God, Who is our only Joy and Consolation. But

when you pray let your words and affections, whether interior or exterior, all tend to love

and trust in God. “O God of Mercy, most Loving Lord, Sweet Saviour, Lord of my heart,

my Joy, my Hope, my Beloved, my Bridegroom.”

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Vigorously resist all tendencies to melancholy, and although all you do may seem to be

done coldly, wearily and indifferently, do not give in. The Enemy strives to make us languid

in doing good by depression, but when he sees that we do not cease our efforts to work, and

that those efforts become all the more earnest by reason of their being made in resistance

to him, he leaves off troubling us.

Make use of hymns and spiritual songs; they have often frustrated the Evil One in his

operations, as was the case when the evil spirit which possessed Saul was driven forth by

9

2 Cor. vii. 10.

10

“Multos enim occidit tristitia, et non est utilitas in illa.” Ecclus. xxx. 25.

11

S. James v. 13.

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music and psalmody. It is well also to occupy yourself in external works, and that with as

much variety as may lead us to divert the mind from the subject which oppresses it, and to

cheer and kindle it, for depression generally makes us dry and cold. Use external acts of

fervour, even though they are tasteless at the time; embrace your crucifix, clasp it to your

breast, kiss the Feet and Hands of your Dear Lord, raise hands and eyes to Heaven, and cry

out to God in loving, trustful ejaculations: “My Beloved is mine, and I am His. 1 12 A bundle

of myrrh is my Well-beloved, He shall lie within my breast. Mine eyes long sore for Thy

Word, O when wilt Thou comfort me! 13 O Jesus, be Thou my Saviour, and my soul shall

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live. Who shall separate me from the Love of Christ?” 14 etc.

Moderate bodily discipline is useful in resisting depression, because it rouses the mind

from dwelling on itself; and frequent Communion is specially valuable; the Bread of Life

strengthens the heart and gladdens the spirits.

Lay bare all the feelings, thoughts and longings which are the result of your depression

to your confessor or director, in all humility and faithfulness; seek the society of spiritually-

minded people, and frequent such as far as possible while you are suffering. And, finally,

resign yourself into God’s Hands, endeavouring to bear this harassing depression patiently,

as a just punishment for past idle mirth. Above all, never doubt but that, after He has tried

you sufficiently, God will deliver you from the trial.

12

Cant. ii. 16.

13

Ps. cxix. 82.

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Rom. viii 35.

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CHAPTER XIII. Of Spiritual and Sensible Consolations, and how

to receive them.

THE order of God’s Providence maintains a perpetual vicissitude in the material being

of this world; day is continually turning to night, spring to summer, summer to autumn,

autumn to winter, winter to spring; no two days are ever exactly alike. Some are foggy, rainy,

some dry or windy; and this endless variety greatly enhances the beauty of the universe.

And even so precisely is it with man (who, as ancient writers have said, is a miniature of the

world), for he is never long in any one condition, and his life on earth flows by like the

mighty waters, heaving and tossing with an endless variety of motion; one while raising him

on high with hope, another plunging him low in fear; now turning him to the right with

rejoicing, then driving him to the left with sorrows; and no single day, no, not even one

hour, is entirely the same as any other of his life.

All this is a very weighty warning, and teaches us to aim at an abiding and unchangeable

evenness of mind amid so great an uncertainty of events; and, while all around is changing,

we must seek to remain immoveable, ever looking to, reaching after and desiring our God.

Let the ship take what tack you will, let her course be eastward or westward, northern or

southern, let any wind whatsoever fill her sails, but meanwhile her compass will never cease

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to point to its one unchanging lodestar. Let all around us be overthrown, nay more, all

within us; I mean let our soul be sad or glad, in bitterness or joy, at peace or troubled, dry

and parched, or soft and fruitful, let the sun scorch, or the dew refresh it; but all the while

the magnet of our heart and mind, our superior will, which is our moral compass, must

continually point to the Love of God our Creator, our Saviour, our only Sovereign Good.

“Whether we live, we live unto the Lord, or whether we die, we die unto the Lord; whether

we live therefore or die, we are the Lord’s. Who shall separate us from the Love of Christ?”

15 Nay, verily, nothing can ever separate us from that Love;—neither tribulation nor distress,

neither death nor life, neither present suffering nor fear of ills to come; neither the deceits

of evil spirits nor the heights of satisfaction, nor the depths of sorrow; neither tenderness

nor desolation, shall be able to separate us from that Holy Love, whose foundation is in

Christ Jesus. Such a fixed resolution never to forsake God, or let go of His Precious Love,

serves as ballast to our souls, and will keep them stedfast amid the endless changes and

chances of this our natural life. For just as bees, when overtaken by a gust of wind, carry

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little pebbles to weight themselves, 16 in order that they may resist the storm, and not be

driven at its will,—so the soul, which has firmly grasped the Unchanging Love of God, will

15

Rom. xiv. 8, and viii. 35.

16

This notion seems to have arisen from the habits of the solitary mason bee, which early writers did not

distinguish from other bees.

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abide unshaken amid the changes and vicissitudes of consolations and afflictions,—whether

spiritual or temporal, external or internal.

But let us come to some special detail, beyond this general doctrine.

1. I would say, then, that devotion does not consist in conscious sweetness and tender

consolations, which move one to sighs and tears, and bring about a kind of agreeable, ac-

ceptable sense of self-satisfaction. No, my child, this is not one and the same as devotion,

for you will find many persons who do experience these consolations, yet who, nevertheless,

are evilminded, and consequently are devoid of all true Love of God, still more of all true

devotion. When Saul was in pursuit of David, who fled from him into the wilderness of En-

gedi, he entered into a cave alone, wherein David and his followers were hidden; and David

could easily have killed him, but he not only spared Saul’s life, he would not even frighten

him; but, letting him depart quietly, hastened after the King, to affirm his innocence, and

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tell him how he had been at the mercy of his injured servant. Thereupon Saul testified to

the softening of his heart by tender words, calling David his son, and exalting his generosity;

lifting up his voice, he wept, and, foretelling David’s future greatness, besought him to deal

kindly with Saul’s “seed after him.” 17 What more could Saul have done? Yet for all this he

had not changed his real mind, and continued to persecute David as bitterly as before. Just

so there are many people who, while contemplating the Goodness of God, or the Passion

of His Dear Son, feel an emotion which leads to sighs, tears, and very lively prayers and

thanksgivings, so that it might fairly be supposed that their hearts were kindled by a true

devotion;—but when put to the test, all this proves but as the passing showers of a hot

summer, which splash down in large drops, but do not penetrate the soil, or make it to bring

forth anything better than mushrooms. In like manner these tears and emotions do not

really touch an evil heart, but are altogether fruitless;—inasmuch as in spite of them all those

poor people would not renounce one farthing of illgotten gain, or one unholy affection;

they would not suffer the slightest worldly inconvenience for the Sake of the Saviour over

Whom they wept. So that their pious emotions may fairly be likened to spiritual fungi,—as

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not merely falling short of real devotion, but often being so many snares of the Enemy, who

beguiles souls with these trivial consolations, so as to make them stop short, and rest satisfied

therewith, instead of seeking after true solid devotion, which consists in a firm, resolute,

ready, active will, prepared to do whatsoever is acceptable to God. A little child, who sees

the surgeon bleed his mother, will cry when he sees the lancet touch her; but let that mother

for whom he weeps ask for his apple or a sugar-plum which he has in his hand, and he will

on no account part with it; and too much of our seeming devotion is of this kind. We weep

feelingly at the spear piercing the Crucified Saviour’s Side, and we do well,—but why cannot

we give Him the apple we hold, for which He asks, heartily? I mean our heart, the only love-

17

1 Sam. xxiv.

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apple which that Dear Saviour craves of us. Why cannot we resign the numberless trifling

attachments, indulgences, and self-complacencies of which He fain would deprive us, only

we will not let Him do so; because they are the sugar-plums, sweeter to our taste than His

Heavenly Grace? Surely this is but as the fondness of children;—demonstrative, but weak,

capricious, unpractical. Devotion does not consist in such exterior displays of a tenderness

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which may be purely the result of a naturally impressionable, plastic character; or which

may be the seductive action of the Enemy, or an excitable imagination stirred up by him.

2. Nevertheless these tender warm emotions are sometimes good and useful, for they

kindle the spiritual appetite, cheer the mind, and infuse a holy gladness into the devout life,

which embellishes all we do even externally. It was such a taste for holy things that made

David cry out, “O how sweet are Thy words unto my throat, yea, sweeter than honey unto

my mouth.” 18 And assuredly the tiniest little comfort received through devotion is worth

far more than the most abundant delights of this world. The milk of the Heavenly Bride-

groom, in other words His spiritual favours, are sweeter to the soul than the costliest wine

of the pleasures of this world, and to those who have tasted thereof all else seems but as gall

and wormwood. There is a certain herb which, if chewed, imparts so great a sweetness that

they who keep it in their mouth cannot hunger or thirst; even so those to whom God gives

His Heavenly manna of interior sweetness and consolation, cannot either desire or even

accept worldly consolations with any real zest or satisfaction. It is as a little foretaste of

eternal blessedness which God gives to those who seek it; it is as the sugar-plum with which

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He attracts His little ones; as a cordial offered to strengthen their heart; as the first-fruits of

their future reward. The legend tells us that Alexander the Great discovered Arabia Felix

by means of the perfumes carried by the winds across the ocean upon which he sailed, reviv-

ing his courage and that of his comrades. And so the blessings and sweetnesses, which are

wafted to us as we sail across the stormy sea of this mortal life, are a foretaste of the bliss of

that Ever-blessed Heavenly Home to which we look and long.

3. But, perhaps you will say, if there are sensible consolations which are undoubtedly

good and come from God, and at the same time others which are unprofitable, perilous,

even harmful, because they proceed from mere natural causes, or even from the Enemy

himself, how am I to know one from the other, or distinguish what is most profitable even

among those which are good? It is a general rule, with respect to the feelings and affections,

that their test is in their fruits. Our hearts are as trees, of which the affections and passions

are their branches, and deeds and acts their fruits. That is, a good heart, of which the affec-

tions are good, and those are good affections which result in good and holy actions. If our

spiritual tenderness and sweetness and consolation make us more humble,—patient, for-

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bearing, charitable and kindly towards our neighbours,—more earnest in mortifying our

18

Ps. cxix. 103.

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own evil inclinations and lusts, more diligent in our duties, more docile and submissive to

those who have a claim to our obedience, more simple in our whole manner of life,—then

doubtless, my daughter, they come from God. But if this sweetness and tenderness is sweet

only to ourselves, if we are fanciful, bitter, punctilious, impatient, obstinate, proud, presump-

tuous, harsh towards our neighbour, while reckoning ourselves as half-made saints, indocile

to correction or guidance, then we may be assured our consolations are spurious and hurtful.

A good tree will bring forth none save good fruit.

4. If we are favoured with any such sweetness, we must humble ourselves deeply before

God, and beware of being led to cry out “How good I am!” No indeed, such gifts do not

make us any better, for, as I have already said, devotion does not consist in such things;

rather let us say, “How good God is to those who hope in Him, and to the souls that seek

Him!” If a man has sugar in his mouth, he cannot call his mouth sweet, but the sugar; and

so although our spiritual sweetness is admirable, and God Who imparts it is all good, it by

no means follows that he who receives it is good. Let us count ourselves but as little children,

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having need of milk, and believe that these sugar-plums are only given us because we are

still feeble and delicate, needing bribes and wiles to lead us on to the Love of God. But, as a

general rule, we shall do well to receive all such graces and favours humbly, making much

of them, not for their own importance, but rather because it is God’s Hand which fills our

hearts with them, as a mother coaxes her child with one sugar-plum after another. If the

child were wise, he would prize the loving caresses of his mother, more than the material

sugar-plum, however sweet. So while it is a great thing to have spiritual sweetnesses, the

sweetest of all is to know that it is the loving parental Hand of God which feeds us, heart,

mind and soul, with them. And, having received them humbly, let us be diligent in using

them according to the intention of the Giver. Why do you suppose God gives us such

sweetness? To make us kinder one to another, and more loving towards Him. A mother

gives her child a sweetmeat to win a kiss; be it ours reverently to kiss the Saviour Who gives

us these good things. And by kissing Him, I mean obeying Him, keeping His Command-

ments, doing His Will, heeding His wishes, in a word, embracing Him tenderly, obediently,

and faithfully. So the day on which we have enjoyed some special spiritual consolation

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should be marked by extra diligence and humility. And from time to time it is well to re-

nounce all such, realising to ourselves that although we accept and cherish them humbly,

because they come from God, and kindle His Love in our hearts, still they are not our main

object, but God and His Holy Love;—that we seek less the consolation than the Consoler,

less His tangible sweetness than our sweet Saviour, less external pleasure than Him Who is

the Delight of Heaven and earth; and with such a mind we should resolve to abide stedfast

in God’s Holy Love, even if our whole life were to be utterly devoid of all sweetness; as ready

to abide on Mount Calvary as on Mount Tabor; to cry out, “It is good for us to be here,”

whether with our Lord on the Cross or in glory.

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Lastly, I advise you to take counsel with your director concerning any unusual flow of

consolations or emotions, so that he may guide you in their wise usage; for it is written,

“Hast thou found honey? eat so much as is sufficient for thee.” 19

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Prov. xxv. 16.

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CHAPTER XIV. Of Dryness and Spiritual Barrenness.

SO much for what is to be done in times of spiritual consolations. But these bright days

will not last for ever, and sometimes you will be so devoid of all devout feelings, that it will

seem to you that your soul is a desert land, fruitless, sterile, wherein you can find no path

leading to God, no drop of the waters of Grace to soften the dryness which threatens to

choke it entirely. Verily, at such a time the soul is greatly to be pitied, above all, when this

trouble presses heavily, for then, like David, its meat are tears day and night, while the Enemy

strives to drive it to despair, crying out, “Where is now thy God? how thinkest thou to find

Him, or how wilt thou ever find again the joy of His Holy Grace?”

What will you do then, my child? Look well whence the trial comes, for we are often

ourselves the cause of our own dryness and barrenness. A mother refuses sugar to her sickly

child, and so God deprives us of consolations when they do but feed self-complacency or

presumption. “It is good for me that I have been in trouble, for before I was troubled I went

wrong.” 20 So if we neglect to gather up and use the treasures of God’s Love in due time, He

withdraws them as a punishment of our sloth. The Israelite who neglected to gather his

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store of manna in the early morning, found none after sunrise, for it was all melted. Some-

times, too, we are like the Bride of the Canticles, slumbering on a bed of sensual satisfaction

and perishable delight, so that when the Bridegroom knocks at the door of our heart, and

calls us to our spiritual duties, we dally with Him, loath to quit our idle and delusive pleasures,

and then He “withdraws Himself, and is gone,” and “when I sought Him, I could not find

Him; I called Him, but He gave me no answer.” 21 Of a truth we deserved as much for having

been so disloyal as to have rejected Him for the things of this world. If we are content with

the fleshpots of Egypt we shall never receive heavenly manna. Bees abhor all artificial scents,

and the sweetness of the Holy Spirit is incompatible with the world’s artificial pleasures.

Again, any duplicity or unreality in confession or spiritual intercourse with your director

tends to dryness and barrenness, for, if you lie to God’s Holy Spirit, you can scarcely wonder

that He refuses you His comfort. If you do not choose to be simple and honest as a little

child, you will not win the child’s sweetmeats.

Or you have satiated yourself with worldly delights; and so no wonder that spiritual

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pleasures are repulsive to you. “To the overfed dove even cherries are bitter,” says an old

proverb; and Our Lady in her song of praise says, “He has filled the hungry with good things,

and the rich He hath sent empty away.” They who abound in earthly pleasures are incapable

of appreciating such as are spiritual.

20

Ps. cxix. 67, 71.

21

Cant. v. 2-7.

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If you have carefully stored up the fruits of past consolations, you will receive more; “to

him that hath yet more shall be given,” but from him who has not kept that which he had,

who has lost it through carelessness, that which he hath shall be taken away, in other words,

he will not receive the grace destined for him. Rain refreshes living plants, but it only brings

rottenness and decay to those which are already dead. There are many such causes whereby

we lose the consolations of religion, and fall into dryness and deadness of spirit, so that it

is well to examine our conscience, and see if we can trace any of these or similar faults. But

always remember that this examination must not be made anxiously, or in an over-exacting

spirit. Thus if, after an honest investigation of our own conduct, we find the cause of our

wrongdoing, we must thank God, for an evil is half cured when we have found out its cause.

But if, on the contrary, you do not find any particular thing which has led to this dryness,

do not trifle away your time in a further uneasy search, but, without more ado, and in all

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simplicity, do as follows:—

1. Humble yourself profoundly before God, acknowledging your nothingness and misery.

Alas, what am I when left to myself! no better, Lord, than a parched ground, whose cracks

and crevices on every side testify its need of the gracious rain of Heaven, while, nevertheless,

the world’s blasts wither it more and more to dust.

2. Call upon God, and ask for His Gladness. “O give me the comfort of Thy help again!

My Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me.” “Depart, O ye unfruitful wind, which

parcheth up my soul, and come, O gracious south wind, blow upon my garden.” Such loving

desires will fill you with the perfume of holiness.

3. Go to your confessor, open your heart thoroughly, let him see every corner of your

soul, and take all his advice with the utmost simplicity and humility, for God loves obedience,

and He often makes the counsel we take, specially that of the guides of souls, to be more

useful than would seem likely; just as He caused the waters of Jordan, commended by Elijah

to Naaman, to cure his leprosy in spite of the improbability to human reason.

4. But, after all, nothing is so useful, so fruitful amid this dryness and barrenness, as not

to yield to a passionate desire of being delivered from it. I do not say that one may not desire

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to be set free, but only that one ought not to desire it over-eagerly, but to leave all to the sole

Mercy of God’s special Providence, in order that, so long as He pleases, He may keep us

amid these thorns and longings. Let us say to God at such seasons, “O my Father, if it be

possible, let this cup pass from me; ”—but let us add heartily, “Nevertheless, not my will,

but Thine be done,” and there let us abide as trustingly as we are able. When God sees us

to be filled with such pious indifference, He will comfort us with His grace and favour, as

when He beheld Abraham ready to offer up his son Isaac, and comforted him with His

blessing. In every sort of affliction, then, whether bodily or spiritual, in every manner of

distraction or loss of sensible devotion, let us say with our whole heart, and in the deepest

submission, “The Lord gave me all my blessings, the Lord taketh them away, blessed be the

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Name of the Lord.” If we persevere in this humility, He will restore to us His mercies as he

did to Job, who ever spake thus amid all his troubles. 5. And lastly, my daughter, amid all

our dryness let us never grow discouraged, but go steadily on, patiently waiting the return

of better things; let us never be misled to give up any devout practices because of it, but

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rather if possible, let us increase our good works, and if we cannot offer liquid preserves to

our Bridegroom, let us at least offer Him dried fruit—it is all one to Him, so long as the

heart we offer be fully resolved to love Him. In fine weather bees make more honey and

breed fewer grubs, because they spend so much time in gathering the sweet juices of the

flowers that they neglect the multiplication of their race. But in a cold, cloudy spring they

have a fuller hive and less honey. And so sometimes, my daughter, in the glowing springtide

of spiritual consolations, the soul spends so much time in storing them up, that amid such

abundance it performs fewer good works; while, on the contrary, when amid spiritual dryness

and bitterness, and devoid of all that is attractive in devotion, it multiplies its substantial

good works, and abounds in the hidden virtues of patience, humility, self-abnegation,

resignation and unselfishness.

Some people, especially women, fall into the great mistake of imagining that when we

offer a dry, distasteful service to God, devoid of all sentiment and emotion, it is unacceptable

to His Divine Majesty; whereas, on the contrary, our actions are like roses, which, though

they may be more beautiful when fresh, have a sweeter and stronger scent when they are

dried. Good works, done with pleasurable interest, are pleasanter to us who think of nothing

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save our own satisfaction, but when they are done amid dryness and deadness they are more

precious in God’s Sight. Yes indeed, my daughter, for in seasons of dryness our will forcibly

carries us on in God’s Service, and so it is stronger and more vigorous than at a softer time.

There is not much to boast of in serving our Prince in the comfort of a time of peace, but

to serve Him amid the toils and hardness of war, amid trial and persecution, is a real proof

of faithfulness and perseverance. The blessed Angela di Foligni said, that the most acceptable

prayer to God is what is made forcibly and in spite of ourselves; that is to say, prayer made

not to please ourselves or our own taste, but solely to please God;—carried on, as it were,

in spite of inclination, the will triumphing over all our drynesses and repugnances. And so

of all good works;—the more contradictions, exterior or interior, against which we contend

in their fulfilment, the more precious they are in God’s Sight; the less of self-pleasing in

striving after any virtue, the more Divine Love shines forth in all its purity. A child is easily

moved to fondle its mother when she gives it sweet things, but if he kisses her in return for

wormwood or camomile it is a proof of very real affection on his part.

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CHAPTER XV. An Illustration.

LET me illustrate what I have said by an anecdote of Saint Bernard.

It is common to most beginners in God’s Service, being as yet inexperienced in the

fluctuations of grace and in spiritual vicissitudes, that when they lose the glow of sensible

devotion, and the first fascinating lights which led them in their first steps towards God,

they lose heart, and fall into depression and discouragement. Those who are practised in

the matter say that it is because our human nature cannot bear a prolonged deprivation of

some kind of satisfaction, either celestial or earthly; and so as souls, which have been raised

beyond their natural level by a taste of superior joys, readily renounce visible delights when

the higher joys are taken away, as well as those more earthly pleasures, they, not being yet

trained to a patient waiting for the true sunshine, fancy that there is no light either in

heaven or earth, but that they are plunged in perpetual darkness. They are just like newly-

weaned babes, who fret and languish for want of the breast, and are a weariness to every

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one, especially to themselves.

Just so it fell out with a certain Geoffroy de Peronne, a member of S. Bernard’s com-

munity, newly dedicated to God’s Service, during a journey which he and some others were

making. He became suddenly dry, deprived of all consolations, and amid his interior darkness

he began to think of the friends and relations he had parted from, and of his worldly pursuits

and interests, until the temptation grew so urgent that his outward aspect betrayed it, and

one of those most in his confidence perceiving that he was sorely troubled, accosted him

tenderly, asking him secretly, “What means this, Geoffroy? and what makes thee, contrary

to thy wont, so pensive and sad?” Whereupon Geoffroy, sighing heavily, made answer, “Woe

is me, my brother, never again in my life shall I be glad!”

The other was moved to pity by these words, and in his fraternal love he hastened to

tell it all to their common father S. Bernard, and he, realising the danger, went into the

nearest church to pray for Geoffroy, who meanwhile cast himself down in despair, and,

resting his head on a stone, fell asleep. After a while both rose up, the one full of grace won

by prayer, the other from his sleep, with so peaceful and gladsome a countenance, that his

friend, marvelling to see so great and unexpected a change, could not refrain from gently

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reproaching him for his recent words. Thereupon Geoffroy answered, “If just now I told

thee that I should never more be glad, so now I promise thee I will never more be sad!” Such

was the result of this devout man’s temptation; but from this history I would have you ob-

serve:—

1. That God is wont to give some foretaste of His heavenly joys to beginners in His

Service, the better to wean them from earthly pleasures, and to encourage them in seeking

His Divine Love, even as a mother attracts her babe to suck by means of honey.

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2. That nevertheless it is the same Good God Who sometimes in His Wisdom deprives

us of the milk and honey of His consolations, in order that we may learn to eat the dry

substantial bread of a vigorous devotion, trained by means of temptations and trials.

3. That sometimes very grievous temptations arise out of dryness and barrenness, and

that at such times these temptations must be stedfastly resisted, inasmuch as they are not

of God; but the dryness must be patiently endured, because He sends that to prove us. 4.

That we must never grow discouraged amid our inward trials, nor say, like Geoffroy, “I shall

never be glad;” but through the darkness we must look for light; and in like manner, in the

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brightest spiritual sunshine, we must not presume to say, “I shall never be sad.” Rather we

must remember the saying of the Wise Man, “In the day of prosperity remember the evil.”

22 It behoves us to hope amid trials, and to fear in prosperity, and in both circumstances

always to be humble.

5. That it is a sovereign remedy to open our grief to some spiritual friend able to assist

us.

And, in conclusion, I would observe that here, as everywhere, our Gracious God and

our great Enemy are in conflict, for by means of these trials God would bring us to great

purity of heart, to an entire renunciation of self-interest in all concerning His Service, and

a perfect casting aside of self-seeking; but the Evil One seeks to use our troubles to our dis-

couragement, so as to turn us back to sensual pleasures, and to make us a weariness to

ourselves and others, in order to injure true devotion. But if you will give heed to the above

instructions you will advance greatly towards perfection amid such interior trials, concerning

which I have yet one word to say. Sometimes revulsions and dryness and incapacity proceed

from bodily indisposition, as when excessive watching, 1 fasting, or overwork produce

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weariness, lassitude, heaviness, and the like; which, while wholly caused by the body, interfere

greatly with the soul, so intimately are they linked together. When this is the case, you must

always remember to make marked acts of virtue with your higher will, for, although your

whole soul may seem to be sunk in drowsy weariness, such mental efforts are acceptable to

God. At such a time you may say with the Bride of the Canticles, “I sleep, but my heart

waketh.” 23 And, as I have already said, if there is less enjoyment in such efforts, there is

more virtue and merit. But the best remedy under the last-named circumstances is to rein-

vigorate the body by some lawful recreation and solace.

S. Francis enjoined his religious to use such moderation in their labours as never to

impair the fervour of their minds. And speaking of that great Saint, he was himself once

attacked by such deep depression of mind that he could not conceal it; if he sought to asso-

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Ecclus. xi. 25, Vulgate: “In die bonorum ne immemor sis malorum.” English version: “In the day of prosperity there is a forgetfulness of affliction.”

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Cant. v. 2.

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ciate with his religious he was unable to talk; if he kept apart he only grew worse; abstinence

and maceration of the flesh overwhelmed him, and he found no comfort in prayer. For two

years he continued in this state, as though altogether forsaken of God, but after humbly

enduring the heavy storm, his Saviour restored him to a happy calm quite suddenly.

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From this we should learn that God’s greatest servants are liable to such trials, so that

less worthy people should not be surprised if they experience the same.

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PART V. CONTAINING COUNSELS AND PRACTICES FOR RENEWING AND

CONFIRMING THE…

PART V. CONTAINING COUNSELS AND PRACTICES FOR RENEWING AND CONFIRMING THE SOUL IN DEVOTION.

PART V. CONTAINING COUNSELS AND PRACTICES

FOR RENEWING AND CONFIRMING THE SOUL IN

DEVOTION.

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CHAPTER I. It is well yearly to renew Good Resolutions by means of the following…

CHAPTER I. It is well yearly to renew Good Resolutions by means of the following Exercises.

CHAPTER I. It is well yearly to renew Good Resolutions by means

of the following Exercises.

THE first point in these exercises is to appreciate their importance. Our earthly nature

easily falls away from its higher tone by reason of the frailty and evil tendency of the flesh,

oppressing and dragging down the soul, unless it is constantly rising up by means of a vig-

orous resolution, just as a bird would speedily fall to the ground if it did not maintain its

flight by repeated strokes of its wings. In order to this, my daughter, you need frequently to

reiterate the good resolutions you have made to serve God, for fear that, failing to do so,

you fall away, not only to your former condition, but lower still; since it is a characteristic

of all spiritual falls that they invariably throw us lower than we were at the beginning. There

is no clock, however good, but must be continually wound up; and moreover, during the

course of each year it will need taking to pieces, to cleanse away the rust which clogs it, to

straighten bent works, and renew such as are worn. Even so, any one who really cares for

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his heart’s devotion will wind it up to God night and morning, and examine into its condition,

correcting and improving it; and at least once a year he will take the works to pieces and

examine them carefully;—I mean his affections and passions,—so as to repair whatever may

be amiss. And just as the clockmaker applies a delicate oil to all the wheels and springs of a

clock, so that it may work properly and be less liable to rust, so the devout soul, after thus

taking the works of his heart to pieces, will lubricate them with the Sacraments of Confession

and the Eucharist. These exercises will repair the waste caused by time, will kindle your

heart, revive your good resolutions, and cause the graces of your mind to flourish anew.

The early Christians observed some such practice on the Anniversary of our Lord’s

Baptism, when, as S. Gregory, Bishop of Nazianzen, tells us, they renewed the profession

and promises made in that Sacrament. It were well to do the like, my child, making due and

earnest preparation, and setting very seriously to work.

Having then chosen a suitable time, according to the advice of your spiritual father, and

having retired somewhat more than usual into a literal and spiritual solitude, make one,

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two, or three meditations on the following points, according to the method I set before you

in Part II.

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CHAPTER II. Meditation on the Benefit conferred on us by God in calling…

CHAPTER II. Meditation on the Benefit conferred on us by God in calling us to His Service.

CHAPTER II. Meditation on the Benefit conferred on us by God in

calling us to His Service.

1. CONSIDER the points on which you are about to renew your resolutions.

Firstly, that you have forsaken, rejected, detested and renounced all mortal sin for ever.

Secondly, that you have dedicated and consecrated your soul, heart and body, with

everything appertaining thereto, to the Service and Love of God.

Thirdly, that if you should unhappily fall into any sin, you would forthwith rise up again,

with the help of God’s Grace.

Are not these worthy, right, noble resolutions? Consider well within your soul how holy,

reasonable and desirable an act it is to renew them.

2. Consider to Whom you make these promises; for if a deliberate promise made to

men is strictly binding, how much more those which we make to God. “My heart is inditing

of a good matter. I will not forget Thee,” David cried out. 1

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3. Consider before Whom you promised. It was before the whole Court of Heaven. The

Blessed Virgin, S. Joseph, your Guardian Angel, S. Louis, the whole Company of the Blessed,

were looking on with joy and approbation, beholding, with love unspeakable, your heart

cast at your Saviour’s Feet and dedicated to His Service. That act of yours called forth special

delight in the Heavenly Jerusalem, and it will now be renewed if you on your part heartily

renew your good resolutions.

4. Consider how you were led to make those resolutions. How good and gracious God

was then to you! Did He not draw you by the tender wiles of His Holy Spirit? Were not the

sails by which your little bark was wafted into the haven of safety those of love and charity?

Did not God lure you on with His Heavenly Sweetness, by Sacraments, prayer, and pious

books? Ah, my child, while you slept God watched over you with His boundless Love, and

breathed thoughts of peace into your heart!

5. Consider when God led you to these important resolutions. It was in the flower of

your life, and how great the blessing of learning early what we can never know soon enough.

S. Augustine, who acquired that knowledge when he was thirty years old, exclaimed, “Oh,

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Thou Beauty of ancient days, yet ever new, too late I loved Thee! Thou wert within and I

abroad: Thou wert with me, but I was not with Thee.” 2 Even so you may say, “Oh,

Blessedness of ancient days, wherefore did I not appreciate Thee sooner!” You were not yet

worthy of it, and yet God gave you such grace in your youth;—therefore say with David,

“Thou, O God, hast taught me from my youth up until now; therefore will I tell of Thy

wondrous works.” 3 Or if you who read should not have known Him till old age, bethink

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Ps. xlv. 1.; xliv. 18.

2

Conf., Oxf. Trans. bk. x. p. 203.

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Ps. lxxi. 15.

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you how great His Grace in calling you after you had wasted so many years; how gracious

the Mercy which drove you from your evil courses before the hour of death, which, had it

found you unchanged, must have brought you eternal woe.

Consider the results of this call; you will surely find a change for the better, comparing

what you are with what you were. Is it not a blessing to know how to talk with God in

prayer, to desire to love Him, to have stilled and subdued sundry passions which disturbed

you, to have conquered sundry sins and perplexities, and to have received so many more

Communions than formerly, thereby being united to the Great Source of all eternal grace?

Are not all these things exceeding blessings? Weigh them, my child, in the balances of the

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sanctuary, for it is God’s Right Hand which has done all this: “The Right Hand of the Lord

hath the pre-eminence, the Right Hand of the Lord bringeth mighty things to pass. I shall

not die, but live, and declare the works of the Lord” 4 with heart, lips and deeds.

After dwelling upon all these considerations, which will kindle abundance of lively af-

fections in you, you should conclude simply with an act of thanksgiving, and a hearty

prayer that they may bring forth fruit, leaving off with great humility and trust in God, and

reserving the final results of your resolution till after the second point of this spiritual exercise.

4

Ps. cxviii. 16, 17.

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CHAPTER III. Examination of the Soul as to its Progress in the Devout Life.…

CHAPTER III. Examination of the Soul as to its Progress in the Devout Life.

CHAPTER III. Examination of the Soul as to its Progress in the

Devout Life.

THIS second point is somewhat lengthy, and I would begin by saying that there is no

need for you to carry it out all at once. Divide it by taking your conduct towards God at one

time, all that concerns yourself another time, all that concerns your neighbour, and fourthly,

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the examination of your passions. It is neither necessary nor expedient that you make it

upon your knees, always excepting the beginning and the end, which includes the affections.

The other points of self-examination you may make profitably when out walking, or better

still, in bed, that is, if you can keep wide awake and free from drowsiness; but to do this you

must read them over carefully beforehand. Anyhow, it is desirable to go through this second

point in three days and two nights at the most, taking that season which you can best manage;

for if you go through it at too distant intervals you will lose the depth of impression which

ought to be made by this spiritual exercise. After each point of examination observe wherein

you have failed, and what is lacking to you, and in what you have chiefly failed, so that you

may be able to explain your troubles, get counsel and comfort, and make fresh resolutions.

It is not necessary entirely to shun all society on the days you select for this work, but you

must contrive a certain amount of retirement, especially in the evening, so as to get to bed

somewhat earlier than usual, with a view to that rest, bodily and mental, which is so important

for serious thought. And during the day make frequent aspirations to Our Lord, Our Lady,

the Angels, and all the Heavenly Jerusalem. Everything must be done with a heart full of

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God’s Love, and an earnest desire for spiritual perfection. To begin this examination,—

1. Place yourself in the Presence of God.

2. Invoke the Holy Spirit, and ask light of Him, so that you may know yourself, as S.

Augustine did, crying out, “Lord, teach me to know Thee, and to know myself;” and S.

Francis, who asked, “Who art Thou, Lord, and who am I?” Resolve not to note any progress

with any self-satisfaction or self-glorification, but give the glory to God Alone, and thank

Him duly for it.

Resolve, too, that if you should seem to yourself to have made but little progress, or

even to have gone back, that you will not be discouraged thereby, nor grow cool or indolent

in the matter; but that, on the contrary, you will take fresh pains to humble yourself and

conquer your faults, with God’s Help.

Then go on to examine quietly and patiently how you have conducted yourself towards

God, your neighbour and yourself, up to the present time.

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CHAPTER IV. Examination of the Soul's Condition as regards God.

CHAPTER IV. Examination of the Soul's Condition as regards God.

CHAPTER IV. Examination of the Soul’s Condition as regards God.

1. WHAT is the aspect of your heart with respect to mortal sin? Are you firmly resolved

never to commit it, let come what may? And have you kept that resolution from the time

you first made it? Therein lies the foundation of the spiritual life.

2. What is your position with respect to the Commandments of God? Are they acceptable,

light and easy to you? He who has a good digestion and healthy appetite likes good food,

and turns away from that which is bad.

3. How do you stand as regards venial sins? No one can help committing some such

occasionally; but are there none to which you have any special tendency, or worse still, any

actual liking and clinging?

4. With respect to spiritual exercises—do you like and value them? or do they weary

and vex you? To which do you feel most or least disposed, hearing or reading God’s Word,

meditating upon it, calling upon God, Confession, preparing for Communion and commu-

nicating, controlling your inclinations, etc.? What of all these is most repugnant to you?

And if you find that your heart is not disposed to any of these things, examine into the

cause, find out whence the disinclination comes.

5. With respect to God Himself—does your heart delight in thinking of God, does it

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crave after the sweetness thereof? “I remembered Thine everlasting judgments, O Lord, and

received comfort,” says David. 5 Do you feel a certain readiness to love Him, and a definite

inclination to enjoy His Love? Do you take pleasure in dwelling upon the Immensity, the

Goodness, the Tenderness of God? When you are immersed in the occupations and vanities

of this world, does the thought of God come across you as a welcome thing? do you accept

it gladly, and yield yourself up to it, and your heart turn with a sort of yearning to Him?

There are souls that do so.

6. If a wife has been long separated from her husband, so soon as she sees him returning,

and hears his voice, however cumbered she may be with business, or forcibly hindered by

the pressure of circumstances, her heart knows no restraint, but turns at once from all else

to think upon him she loves. So it is with souls which really love God, however engrossed

they may be; when the thought of Him is brought before them, they forget all else for joy at

feeling His Dear Presence nigh, and this is a very good sign.

7. With respect to Jesus Christ as God and Man—how does your heart draw to Him?

Honey bees seek their delight in their honey, but wasps hover over stinking carrion. Even

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so pious souls draw all their joy from Jesus Christ, and love Him with an exceeding sweet

Love, but those who are careless find their pleasure in worldly vanities.

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Ps. cxix. 52.

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8. With respect to Our Lady, the Saints, and your Guardian Angel—do you love them

well? Do you rejoice in the sense of their guardianship? Do you take pleasure in their lives,

their pictures, their memories?

9. As to your tongue—how do you speak of God? Do you take pleasure in speaking His

Praise, and singing His Glory in psalms and hymns?

10. As to actions—have you God’s visible glory at heart, and do you delight in doing

whatever you can to honour Him? Those who love God will love to adorn and beautify His

House. Are you conscious of having ever given up anything you liked, or of renouncing

anything for God’s Sake? for it is a good sign when we deprive ourselves of something we

care for on behalf of those we love. What have you ever given up for the Love of God?

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CHAPTER V. Examination of your Condition as regards yourself.

CHAPTER V. Examination of your Condition as regards yourself.

CHAPTER V. Examination of your Condition as regards yourself.

1. HOW do you love yourself? Is it a love which concerns this life chiefly? If so, you will

desire to abide here for ever, and you will diligently seek your worldly establishment,—but

if the love you bear yourself has a heavenward tendency, you will long, or, at all events you

will be ready to go hence whensoever it may please our Lord.

2. Is your love of yourself well regulated? for nothing is more ruinous than an inordinate

love of self. A well-regulated love implies greater care for the soul than for the body; more

eagerness in seeking after holiness than aught else; a greater value for heavenly glory than

for any mean earthly honour. A well regulated heart much oftener asks itself, “What will

the angels say if I follow this or that line of conduct?” than what will men say.

3. What manner of love do you bear to your own heart? Are you willing to minister to

it in its maladies? for indeed you are bound to succour it, and seek help for it when harassed

by passion, and to leave all else till that is done.

4. What do you imagine yourself worth in God’s Sight? Nothing, doubtless, nor is there

any great humility in the fly which confesses it is nought, as compared with a mountain, or

a drop of water, which knows itself to be nothing compared with the sea, or a cornflower,

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or a spark, as compared with the sun. But humility consists in not esteeming ourselves above

other men, and in not seeking to be esteemed above them. How is it with you in this respect?

5. In speech—do you never boast in any way? Do you never indulge in self-flattery when

speaking of yourself?

6. In deed—do you indulge in anything prejudicial to your health,—I mean useless idle

pleasures, unprofitable night-watches, and the like?

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CHAPTER VI. Examination of the Soul's Condition as regards our Neighbour.…

CHAPTER VI. Examination of the Soul's Condition as regards our Neighbour.

CHAPTER VI. Examination of the Soul’s Condition as regards our

Neighbour.

HUSBAND and wife are bound to love one another with a tender, abiding, restful love,

and this tie stands foremost by God’s order and Will. And I say the same with respect to

children and all near relations, as also friends in their respective degrees. But, generally

speaking, how is it with you as concerning your neighbour? Do you love him cordially, and

for God’s Sake? In order to answer this fairly, you must call to mind sundry disagreeable,

annoying people, for it is in such cases that we really practise the Love of God with respect

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to our neighbours, and still more towards them that do us wrong, either by word or deed.

Examine whether your heart is thoroughly clear as regards all such, and whether it costs

you a great effort to love them. Are you quick to speak ill of your neighbours, especially of

such as do not love you? Do you act unkindly in any way, directly or indirectly, towards

them? A very little honest self-dealing will enable you to find this out.

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CHAPTER VII. Examination as to the Affectations of the Soul.

CHAPTER VII. Examination as to the Affectations of the Soul.

CHAPTER VII. Examination as to the Affectations of the Soul.

I HAVE dwelt thus at length on these points, on a due examination of which all true

knowledge of our spiritual progress rests; as to an examination of sins, that rather pertains

to the confessions of those who are not eager to advance. But it is well to take ourselves to

task soberly concerning these different matters, investigating how we have been going on

since we made good resolutions concerning them, and what notable faults we have commit-

ted. But the summary of all is to examine into our passions; and if you are worried by so

detailed an investigation as that already suggested, you may make a briefer inquiry as to

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what you have been, and how you have acted, in some such manner as this:—In your love

of God, your neighbour, and yourself.

In hatred for the sin which is in yourself, for the sin which you find in others, since you

ought to desire the extirpation of both; in your desires concerning riches, pleasure, and

honour.

In fear of the perils of sin, and of the loss of this world’s goods; we fear the one too much

and the other too little.

In hope, fixed overmuch it may be on things of this world and the creature; too little

on God and things eternal.

In sadness, whether it be excessive concerning unimportant matters.

In gladness, whether it be excessive concerning unworthy objects.

In short, examine what attachments hinder your spiritual life, what passions engross it,

and what chiefly attracts you.

It is by testing the passions of the soul, one by one, that we ascertain our spiritual con-

dition, just as one who plays the lute tries every string, touching those which are discordant,

either raising or lowering them. Thus having tried our soul as to love, hate, desire, fear,

hope, sadness and joy, if we find our strings out of tune for the melody we wish to raise,

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which is God’s Glory, we must tune them afresh with the help of His Grace, and the counsel

of our spiritual father.

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CHAPTER VIII. The Affections to be excited after such Examination.

CHAPTER VIII. The Affections to be excited after such Examination.

CHAPTER VIII. The Affections to be excited after such Examination.

WHEN you have quietly gone through each point of this examination, and have ascer-

tained your own position, you will excite certain feelings and affections in your heart. Thank

God for such amendment, however slight, as you may have found in yourself, confessing

that it is the work of His Mercy Alone in you.

Humble yourself deeply before God, confessing that if your progress has been but small,

it is your own fault, for not having corresponded faithfully, bravely and continually to the

inspirations and lights which He has given you in prayer or otherwise.

Promise to praise Him for ever for the graces He has granted to you, and because He

has led you against your will to make even this small progress.

Ask forgiveness for the disloyalty and faithlessness with which you have answered Him.

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Offer your whole heart to Him that He Alone may rule therein. Entreat Him to keep

you faithful to Himself.

Ponder over the examples of the Saints, the Blessed Virgin, your guardian Angel and

patron Saint, S. Joseph, etc.

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CHAPTER IX. Reflections suitable to the renewal of Good Resolutions.

CHAPTER IX. Reflections suitable to the renewal of Good Resolutions.

CHAPTER IX. Reflections suitable to the renewal of Good

Resolutions.

AFTER you have made this self-examination, and having conferred with some holy

director as to your shortcomings and their remedies, you will do well to pursue the following

considerations, taking one daily as a meditation, and giving to it the time usually so spent;

always making the same preparation and kindling the same affections as you learnt to use

before meditating in Part I. Above all, placing yourself in the Presence of God, and earnestly

asking His Grace to confirm you and keep you stedfast in His Holy Love and Service.

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CHAPTER X. First Consideration--of the Worth of Souls.

CHAPTER X. First Consideration--of the Worth of Souls.

CHAPTER X. First Consideration—of the Worth of Souls.

CONSIDER how noble and excellent a thing your soul is, endowed with understanding,

capable of knowing, not merely this visible world around us, but Angels and Paradise, of

knowing that there is an All-Mighty, All-Merciful, Ineffable God; of knowing that eternity

lies before you, and of knowing what is necessary in order so to live in this visible world as

to attain to fellowship with those Angels in Paradise, and the eternal fruition of God.

Yet more;—-your soul is possessed of a noble will, capable of loving God, irresistibly

drawn to that love; your heart is full of generous enthusiasm, and can no more find rest in

any earthly creation, or in aught save God, than the bee can find honey on a dunghill, or in

aught save flowers. Let your mind boldly review the wild earthly pleasures which once filled

your heart, and see whether they did not abound in uneasiness and doubts, in painful

thoughts and uncomfortable cares, amid which your troubled heart was miserable.

When the heart of man seeks the creature, it goes to work eagerly, expecting to satisfy

its cravings; but directly it obtains what it sought, it finds a blank, and dissatisfied, begins

to seek anew; for God will not suffer our hearts to find any rest, like the dove going forth

from Noah’s ark, until it returns to God, whence it came. Surely this is a most striking nat-

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ural beauty in our heart;—why should we constrain it against its will to seek creature love?

In some such wise might you address your soul: “You are capable of realising a longing

after God, why should you trifle with anything lower? you can live for eternity, why should

you stop short in time? One of the sorrows of the prodigal son was, that, when he might

have been living in plenty at his father’s table, he had brought himself to share the swine’s

husks. My soul, you are made for God, woe be to you if you stop short in anything short of

Him!” Lift up your soul with thoughts such as these, convince it that it is eternal, and worthy

of eternity; fill it with courage in this pursuit.

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CHAPTER XI. Second Consideration--on the Excellence of Virtue.

CHAPTER XI. Second Consideration--on the Excellence of Virtue.

CHAPTER XI. Second Consideration—on the Excellence of Virtue.

CONSIDER that nothing save holiness and devotion can satisfy your soul in this world:

behold how gracious they are; draw a contrast between each virtue and its opposite vice;

how gracious patience is compared with vengeance; gentleness compared with anger; humility

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with pride and arrogance; liberality with avarice; charity with envy; sobriety with unsteadi-

ness. It is one charm of all virtues that they fill the soul with untold sweetness after being

practised, whereas vice leaves it harassed and ill at ease. Who would not speedily set to work

and obtain such sweetness?

In the matter of evil, he who has a little is not contented, and he who has much is dis-

contented; but he who has a little virtue is gladsome, and his gladness is for ever greater as

he goes on. O devout life! you are indeed lovely, sweet and pleasant; you can soften sorrows

and sweeten consolations; without you good becomes evil, pleasure is marred by anxiety

and distress: verily whoso knows what you are may well say with the woman of Samaria,

“Lord, give me this water,” 6 an aspiration often uttered by Saint Theresa and Saint Catherine

of Genoa.

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S. John iv. 15.

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CHAPTER XII. The Example of the Saints.

CHAPTER XII. The Example of the Saints.

CHAPTER XII. The Example of the Saints.

CONSIDER the example of the Saints on all sides, what have they not done in order to

love God and lead a devout life? Call to mind the Martyrs in their invincible firmness, and

the tortures they endured in order to maintain their resolutions; remember the matrons

and maidens, whiter than lilies in their purity, ruddier than the rose in their love, who at

every age, from childhood upward, bore all manner of martyrdom sooner than forsake their

resolutions, not only such as concerned their profession of faith, but that of devotion; some

dying rather than lose their virginity, others rather than cease their works of mercy to the

sick and sorrowful. Truly the frail sex has set forth no small courage in such ways. Consider

all the Saintly Confessors, how heartily they despised the world, and how they stood by their

resolutions, taken unreservedly and kept inviolably. Remember what S. Augustine says of

his mother Monica, of her determination to serve God in her married life and in her widow-

hood; and S. Jerome and his beloved daughter S. Paula amid so many changes and chances.

What may we not achieve with such patterns before our eyes? They were but what we are,

they wrought for the same God, seeking the same graces; why may not we do as much in

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our own state of life, and according to our several vocations, on behalf of our most cherished

resolutions and holy profession of faith?

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CHAPTER XIII. The Love which Jesus Christ bears to us.

CHAPTER XIII. The Love which Jesus Christ bears to us.

CHAPTER XIII. The Love which Jesus Christ bears to us.

CONSIDER the Love with which our Dear Lord Jesus Christ bore so much in this world,

especially in the Garden of Olives and on Mount Calvary; that Love bore you in mind, and

through all those pains and toils He obtained your good resolutions for you, as also all that

is needful to maintain, foster, strengthen and consummate those resolutions. How precious

must the resolutions be which are the fruits of our Lord’s Passion! and how dear to my heart,

since they were dear to that of Jesus! Saviour of my soul, Thou didst die to win them for me;

grant me grace sooner to die than forget them. Be sure, my daughter, that the Heart of our

most Dear Lord beheld you from the tree of the Cross and loved you, and by that Love He

won for you all good things which you were ever to have, and amongst them your good

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resolutions. Of a truth we have all reason like Jeremiah to confess that the Lord knew us,

and called us by our name or ever we were born, 7 the more that His Divine Goodness in

its Love and Mercy made ready all things, general and individual, which could promote our

salvation, and among them our resolutions. A woman with child makes ready for the babe

she expects, prepares its cradle, its swaddling clothes and its nurse; even so our Lord, while

hanging on His Cross, prepared all that you could need for your happiness, all the means,

the graces, the leadings, by which He leads your soul onwards towards perfection.

Surely we ought ever to remember this, and ask fervently: Is it possible that I was loved,

and loved so tenderly by my Saviour, that He should have thought of me individually, and

in all these details by which He has drawn me to Himself? With what love and gratitude

ought I to use all He has given me? The Loving Heart of my God thought of my soul, loved

it, and prepared endless means to promote its salvation, even as though there were no other

soul on earth of which He thought; just as the sun shines on each spot of earth as brightly

as though it shone nowhere else, but reserved all its brightness for that alone. So Our Dear

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Lord thought and cared for every one of His children as though none other existed. “Who

loved me, and gave Himself for me,” 8 S. Paul says, as though he meant, “for me alone, as if

there were none but me He cared for.”

Let this be graven in your soul, my child, the better to cherish and foster your good

resolutions, which are so precious to the Heart of Jesus.

7

Jer. i. 5.

8

Gal. ii. 20.

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CHAPTER XIV. The Eternal Love of God for us.

CHAPTER XIV. The Eternal Love of God for us.

CHAPTER XIV. The Eternal Love of God for us.

CONSIDER the Eternal Love God has borne you, in that, even before our Lord Jesus

Christ became Man and suffered on the Cross for you, His Divine Majesty designed your

existence and loved you. When did He begin to love you? When He began to be God, and

that was never, for He ever was, without beginning and without end. Even so He always

loved you from eternity, and therefore He made ready all the graces and gifts with which

He has endowed you. He says by His prophet, “I have loved thee” (and it is YOU that He

means) “with an everlasting love, therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee.” 9 And

amid these drawings of His Love He led you to make these resolutions to serve Him.

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What must resolutions be which God has foreseen, pondered, dwelt upon from all

eternity? how dear and precious to us! Surely we should be ready to suffer anything whatso-

ever rather than let go one particle of the same. The whole world is not worth one soul, and

the soul is worth but little without its good resolutions.

9

Jer. xxxi. 3.

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CHAPTER XV. General Affections which should result from these Considerations,…

CHAPTER XV. General Affections which should result from these Considerations, and Conclusion of the Exercise.

CHAPTER XV. General Affections which should result from these

Considerations, and Conclusion of the Exercise.

O PRECIOUS resolutions! ye are as the lovely tree of life planted by God’s Own Hand

in the midst of my heart, a tree which my Saviour has watered with His Blood. Rather would

I die a thousand deaths than suffer any blast of wind to root you up—neither vanity, nor

pleasure, nor wealth, nor sorrows shall ever overthrow my intentions.

Lord, Thou hast planted and nurtured this tree in Thy Bosom, but how many souls

there are which have not been thus favoured, how can I ever sufficiently acknowledge Thy

Mercy? Blessed and holy resolutions, if I do but keep you, you will keep me! if you live in

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my soul, my soul will live in you. Live ever, then, ye resolutions, which have an eternity of

your own in God’s Mercy, live ever in me, and may I never forsake you.

Next, you must particularise the necessary means for maintaining your good resolutions,

determining to use them diligently,—such as frequency in prayer, in Sacraments, in good

works; the amendment of the faults you have already discovered, cutting off occasions of

sin, and following out carefully all the advice given you with this view. Then, take breath as

it were in a renewed profession of your resolutions, and, as though you held your heart in

your hands,—dedicate, consecrate, sacrifice, immolate it to God, vowing never to recall it,

but leave it for ever in His Right Hand of Majesty, prepared everywhere and in all things to

obey His Commands. Ask God to renew your will, to bless your renewed resolutions and

to strengthen them. While your heart is thus roused and excited, hasten to your spiritual

father, accuse yourself of any faults which you have discovered since you made your general

confession, and receive absolution as you did at the first. Make your protest and sign it in

his presence, and then lose no time in uniting your renewed heart to its Creator and Saviour,

in the most holy Sacrament of the Eucharist.

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CHAPTER XVI. The Impressions which should remain after this Exercise.

CHAPTER XVI. The Impressions which should remain after this Exercise.

CHAPTER XVI. The Impressions which should remain after this

Exercise.

ON the day you make this renewal of your resolutions, and on those immediately fol-

lowing, you should often repeat with heart and voice the earnest words of S. Paul, S. Au-

gustine, S. Catherine of Genoa, and others like-minded, “I am not mine own, whether I live

or whether I die, I am the Lord’s. There is no longer any me or mine, my ‘me’ is Jesus, my

‘mine’ is to be His. Thou world, wilt ever be thyself, and hitherto I have been myself, but

henceforth I will be so no more.” We shall indeed not be ourselves any more, for our heart

will be changed, and the world which has so often deceived us will in its turn be deceived

in us; our change will be so gradual that the world will still suppose us to be Esau, while

really we are Jacob.

All our devout exercises must sink into the heart, and when we come forth from our

meditation and retirement it behoves us to tread warily in business or society, lest the wine

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of our good resolutions be heedlessly spilt; rather let it soak in and penetrate every faculty

of the soul, but quietly, and without bodily or mental excitement.

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CHAPTER XVII. An Answer to Two Objections which may be made to this Book.…

CHAPTER XVII. An Answer to Two Objections which may be made to this Book.

CHAPTER XVII. An Answer to Two Objections which may be made

to this Book.

THE world will tell you, my child, that all these counsels and practices are so numerous,

that anybody who tries to heed them can pay no attention to anything else. Verily, my dear

daughter, if we did nothing else we should not be far wrong, since we should be doing all

that we ought to do in this world. But you see the fallacy? If all these exercises were to be

performed every day they would undoubtedly fill up all our time, but it is only necessary to

use them according to time and place as they are wanted. What a quantity of laws there are

in our civil codes and digests! But they are only called into use from time to time, as circum-

stances arise, not every day. Besides, for that matter, David, king as he was, and involved in

a multiplicity of complicated affairs, fulfilled more religious duties than those which I have

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suggested; and S. Louis, a monarch unrivalled in time of peace or war, who was most diligent

in the administration of justice and in ruling his country, nevertheless was wont to hear two

masses daily, to say vespers and compline with his chaplain, and to make his meditation

daily. He used to visit the hospitals every Friday, was regular at confession, took the discipline,

often attended sermons and spiritual conferences, and withal he never lost any opportunity

of promoting the public welfare, and his court was more flourishing and notable than that

of any of his predecessors. Be bold and resolute then in performing the spiritual exercises

I have set before you, and God will give you time and strength for all other duties, yea, even

if He were to cause the sun to stand still, as He did in Joshua’s time. 10 We are sure always

to do enough when God works with us.

Moreover, the world will say that I take it for granted that those I address have the gift

of mental prayer, which nevertheless every one does not possess, and that consequently this

book will not be of use to all. Doubtless it is true that I have assumed this, and it is also true

that every one has not the gift of mental prayer, but it is a gift which almost every one can

obtain, even the most ignorant, provided they are under a good director, and will take as

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much pains as the thing deserves to acquire it. And if there are any altogether devoid of this

gift (which I believe will very rarely be the case), a wise spiritual father will easily teach them

how to supply the deficiency, by reading or listening to the meditations and considerations

supplied in this book or elsewhere.

10

Josh. x. 12, 13.

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CHAPTER XVIII. Three Important and Final Counsels.

CHAPTER XVIII. Three Important and Final Counsels.

CHAPTER XVIII. Three Important and Final Counsels.

ON the first day of every month renew the resolution given in Part I. after meditation,

and make continual protestation of your intention to keep it, saying with David, “I will

never forget Thy Commandments, for with them Thou hast quickened me.” 11 And

whenever you feel any deterioration in your spiritual condition, take out your protest, and

prostrating yourself in a humble spirit, renew it heartily, and you will assuredly find great

relief.

Make open profession of your desire to be devout; I will not say to be devout, but to

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desire it; and do not be ashamed of the ordinary, needful actions which lead us on in the

Love of God. Acknowledge boldly that you try to meditate, that you would rather die than

commit a mortal sin; that you frequent the Sacraments, and follow the advice of your director

(although for various reasons it may not be necessary to mention his name). This open

confession that you intend to serve God, and that you have devoted yourself deliberately

and heartily to His Holy Love, is very acceptable to His Divine Majesty, for He would not

have any of us ashamed of Him or of His Cross. Moreover, it cuts at the root of many a

hindrance which the world tries to throw in our way, and so to say, commits us to the pursuit

of holiness. The philosophers of old used to give themselves out as such, in order to be left

unmolested in their philosophic life; and we ought to let it be known that we aim at devotion

in order that we may be suffered to live devoutly. And if any one affirms that you can live

a devout life without following all these practices and counsels, do not deny it, but answer

meekly that your infirmity is great, and needs more help and support than many others

may require.

Finally, my beloved child, I intreat you by all that is sacred in heaven and in earth, by

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your own Baptism, by the breast which Jesus sucked, by the tender Heart with which He

loves you, and by the bowels of compassion in which you hope—be stedfast and persevere

in this most blessed undertaking to live a devout life. Our days pass away, death is at hand.

“The trumpet sounds a recall,” says S. Gregory Nazianzen, “in order that every one may

make ready, for Judgment is near.” When S. Symphorian was led to his martyrdom, his

mother cried out to him, “My son, my son, remember life eternal, look to Heaven, behold

Him Who reigns there; for the brief course of this life will soon be ended.” Even so would

I say to you: Look to Heaven, and do not lose it for earth; look at Hell, and do not plunge

therein for the sake of this passing life; look at Jesus Christ, and do not deny Him for the

11

Ps. cxix. 93.

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world’s sake; amid if the devout life sometimes seems hard and dull, join in Saint Francis’

song, 12 —

“So vast the joys that I await,

No earthly travail seemeth great.”

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Glory be to Jesus, to Whom, with the Father and the Holy Ghost, be honour and glory,

now and ever, and to all Eternity. Amen.

12

“Tanto è il bene ch’ io aspetto Ch’ ogni pena m’ e diletto.” These are the words of Saint Francis d’Assisi,

which S. Francis de Sales renders— “A cause des biens que j’attends, Les travaux me sont passe-temps.”

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INDEX.

INDEX.

INDEX.

ABJECTION, 153 Abstinence, 219 Amusements, 60, 250, 259 Angels, 204 Anger, 163

Anselm, S., 94 Anthony, S., 94, 128 Anxiety of mind, 315 Arelius, 2 Aristotle, 9, 209 Aspira-

tions, 90 Attachments, unreal, 209 Attention to business, 174 Augustine, S., 91, 90, 101;

Confessions, 117, 131, 166, 182, 205, 210, 226, 278, 366 Avila, 11, 14

BALLS, 255 Barrenness, spiritual, 336 Basil, S., 95 Bernard, S., 131, 205, 340 Books, for

self-examination, 18; for meditation, 66; devout, 105 Borgia, Francis, 95

CATHERINE OF SIENNA, S., 12, 88, 118, 262, 300 Choice of Devout Life, 48 Chryso-

stom, S., 99 Communion, Holy, 98; frequent, 116; how to make a good, 120, 291 Confession,

general, 29; how to make, 51; constant, 111 Conscience, examination of, 85 Considerations

in meditation, 74 Consolations, spiritual and sensible, 323 Contrition, 22, 112 Conversation,

229, 249 Courage, 294 Creation, meditation on, 24; end of, 27

DANCING, 60, 255 David, 2, 10, 23, 89, 93, 153, 242, 325 Death, meditation on, 35

Delectation, 298, 305 Devotion, living, 3; nature of, 5; to God’s Word, 105, 325 Dominant

passions, 313 Dress, modesty in, 227 Dryness in meditation, 81, 353

EAGERNESS, over, 173 Earrings, significance of, 276 Ejaculatory prayer, 90 Elizabeth,

S., of Hungary, 12, 128, 191, 260 Elzear, Count, 90 Encouragement for the tempted, 302

Exaggeration, 250

FABER, PETER, 104 Fairness, 266 Faithfulness, 260. 275 Fasting, 217 Forbearance, 279

Francis, S., 94, 96, 128, 344 Friendship, 196; real, 201; false, 205 Frivolous attachments, 198

Fulgentius, S., 93

GAMBLING, 254 Gentleness, 163; to ourselves, 160 Gifts of God, 30 Godly sorrow, 319

Gregory Nazianzen, S., 92, 97, 130, 199, 204, 213, 226, 280, 347 Gregory, S., on Lot, 11, 128,

205 Guide, need of a, 11

HASTY judgments, 234 Heaven and Hell, choice between, 45 Hell, meditation on, 41

Humility, 142; interior, 147

IGNATIUS, S., 104 Impure words, 232 Inspirations, 107 Intimacies, 212 Invocation, 72

Irritation, 170

JEALOUSY, 274 Jerome, S., 62, 126, 132, 205. 217 Judgment, meditation on, 38 Judg-

ments, rash, 237

LOUIS, S., 12, 128, 229, 276, 277, 319, 374 Love of God, 7

MAIDENS, counsel to, 289 Married people, counsels to, 270 Meditation, 24, 65, 68, 78

Meekness, 168 Mortification, bodily, 215

OBEDIENCE, 176; different kinds of, 177 Offices, public, of the Church, 101

PARADISE, meditation on, 43 Patience, 16, 136; under inconvenience, 192 Paula, S.,

62, 97, 126. 132 Pelican, symbol of Christ, 89 Poor, love of, 190 Poverty of spirit, 185, 193

Prayer, necessity of, 64; morning, 83; evening, 85 Preparation for meditation, 68, 72 Presence

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of God, 68, 87 Protest for confirming the soul, 53 Purification of the soul, 17, 20 Purity, 180;

how to maintain, 182

RASH judgments, 235 Reasonable mind, a, 264 Remedies for great occasions. 307

Reputation, care of, 158 Resolutions, 346 Respect due to others, 231

SAINTS, how united to us, 103 Sin, meditation on, 32 Slander, 225, 241 Society, 223

Spiritual bouquet of meditation, 77 retirement, 87 Suspicions, 240

TEMPTATIONS, 269, 296; when sin, 304, 306; minor, 310 Theresa, S. 12, 179 Tobit,

11 True devotion, what it is, 1

UNSEEMLY words, 231

VENIAL Sins, 57, 113 Virtues, choice of, 124 Vocal prayer, 67

WIDOWS, counsel to, 281 Wishes, 267 Worldly wisdom, 290

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Indexes

Indexes

Indexes

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Index of Scripture References

Index of Scripture References

Index of Scripture References

Genesis

1:12 24 24:22 25:21 26 27 28:16 29:11 45:24

Exodus

1:21 3:2

Numbers

13:32 22

Deuteronomy

21:12

Joshua

10:12-13 10:13

Ruth

1:20-21 2 3

1 Samuel

9 24

2 Samuel

6:14 12:16 14:32

1 Kings

21

2 Kings

4:3-4

Psalms

1:3 5:13 5:14 15:2 25:4 30:10 31:9 37:30 39:1 42:11 42:15 45:1 51:11 52:2 69:7

71:15 73:26 84:10 95:10-11 102:6-7 103:5 116:14-15 118:16-17 119:34 119:52

119:67 119:71 119:82 119:93 119:103 119:109 119:125 119:127 133:1 139:7 140:3

141:3

Proverbs

12:22 17:6 23:26 25:16 31 31

Ecclesiastes

10:1

Song of Solomon

1:3-4 2:9 2:12 2:12 2:15 2:15 2:16 3:6 4:9 4:11 4:11 5 5:2 5:2-7 5:5 5:6 8:6

Isaiah

6:6-7 7:11-12 33:14

Jeremiah

1:5 31:3

Hosea

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9:10

Joel

2:12

Amos

5:7

Matthew

1 4:10 5:3 5:8 11:29 12:34 12:37 16:19 18:18 25:27 25:34-36

Mark

6:30-31 12:25 14

Luke

1:29 1:46-49 1:48 2:51 6:37 7:33-34 7:37-39 7:39 10:8 10:16 10:41 16:10 18:11

18:11 21:19 22:40 23:34 23:44

John

4:15 15:19 16:21 20:23

Acts

4 6:2 17:28 28

Romans

1:31 4:2 7:23 8:35 12:15 12:15 14:8

1 Corinthians

4:5 4:7 7:14 7:30-31 7:40 11:31 15:33

2 Corinthians

6:8 7:10 11:29

Galatians

2:20 2:20 5:17

Ephesians

4:26 5:3 5:4 5:22 5:25

Philippians

4:4-5

1 Timothy

2:9 5:3 5:6 5:8

Hebrews

10:36 11:31 12:14 13:4

James

1:20 3:2 4:4 5:13

1 Peter

3:3 3:7

Tobit

3:15 5:3

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Index of Scripture References

Sirach

5:16 6:2 6:14 6:17 6:17 6:32 11:11 11:25 12:13 30:25

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Document Outline

- Cover

- About this book

- Table of Contents

- Title Page

- Preface by the Author

- CONTENTS.

- PART I. COUNSELS AND PRACTICES SUITABLE FOR THE SOUL'S GUIDANCE FROM THE FIRST ASPIRATION AFTER A DEVOUT LIFE TO THE POINT WHEN IT ATTAINS A CONFIRMED RESOLUTION TO FOLLOW THE SAME.

- CHAPTER I. What true Devotion is.

- CHAPTER II. The Nature and Excellence of Devotion.

- CHAPTER III. Devotion is suitable to every Vocation and Profession.

- CHAPTER IV. The Need of a Guide for those who would enter upon and advance in the Devout Life.

- CHAPTER V. The First Step must be Purifying the Soul.

- CHAPTER VI. The First Purification, namely, from Mortal Sin.

- CHAPTER VII. The Second Purification, from all Sinful Affections.

- CHAPTER VIII. How to effect this Second Purification.

- CHAPTER IX. FIRST MEDITATION.

- CHAPTER X. SECOND MEDITATION

- CHAPTER XI. THIRD MEDITATION.

- CHAPTER XII. FOURTH MEDITATION.

- CHAPTER XIII. FIFTH MEDITATION.

- CHAPTER XIV. SIXTH MEDITATION.

- CHAPTER XV. SEVENTH MEDITATION.

- CHAPTER XVI. EIGHTH MEDITATION.

- CHAPTER XVII. NINTH MEDITATION.

- CHAPTER XVIII. TENTH MEDITATION.

- CHAPTER XIX. How to make a General Confession.

- CHAPTER XX. A hearty Protest made with the object of confirming the Soul's resolution to serve God, as a conclusion to its acts of Penitence.

- CHAPTER XXI. Conclusion of this First Purification.

- CHAPTER XXII. The Necessity of Purging away all tendency to Venial Sins.

- CHAPTER XXIII. It is needful to put away all Inclination for Useless and Dangerous Things.

- CHAPTER XXIV. All Evil Inclinations must be purged away.

- PART II. CONTAINING SUNDRY COUNSELS AS TO UPLIFTING THE SOUL TO GOD IN PRAYER AND THE USE OF THE SACRAMENTS.

- CHAPTER I. The Necessity of Prayer.

- CHAPTER II. A short Method of Meditation. And first, the Presence of God, the First Point of Preparation.

- CHAPTER III. Invocation, the Second Point of Preparation.

- CHAPTER IV. The Third Point of Preparation, representing the Mystery to be meditated to Your Imagination.

- CHAPTER V. Considerations, the Second Part of Meditation.

- CHAPTER VI. The Third Part of Meditation, Affections and Resolutions.

- CHAPTER VII. The Conclusion and Spiritual Bouquet.

- CHAPTER VIII. Some Useful Hints as to Meditation.

- CHAPTER IX. Concerning Dryness in Meditation.

- CHAPTER X. Morning Prayer.

- CHAPTER XI. Evening Prayer and Examination of Conscience.

- CHAPTER XII. On Spiritual Retirement.

- CHAPTER XIII. Aspirations, Ejaculatory Prayer and Holy Thoughts.

- CHAPTER XIV. Of Holy Communion, and how to join in it.

- CHAPTER XV. Of the other Public Offices of the Church.

- CHAPTER XVI. How the Saints are united to us.

- CHAPTER XVII. How to Hear and Read God's Word.

- CHAPTER XVIII. How to receive Inspirations.

- CHAPTER XIX. On Confession.

- CHAPTER XX. Of Frequent Communion.

- CHAPTER XXI. How to Communicate.

- PART III. CONTAINING COUNSELS CONCERNING THE PRACTICE OF VIRTUE.

- CHAPTER I. How to select that which we should chiefly Practise.

- CHAPTER II. The same Subject continued.

- CHAPTER III. On Patience.

- CHAPTER IV. On Greater Humility.

- CHAPTER V. On Interior Humility.

- CHAPTER VI. Humility makes us rejoice in our own Abjection.

- CHAPTER VII. How to combine due care for a Good Reputation with Humility.

- CHAPTER VIII. Gentleness towards others and Remedies against Anger.

- CHAPTER IX. On Gentleness towards Ourselves.

- CHAPTER X. We must attend to the Business of Life carefully, but without Eagerness or Over-anxiety.

- CHAPTER XI. On Obedience.

- CHAPTER XII. On Purity.

- CHAPTER XIII. How to maintain Purity.

- CHAPTER XIV. On Poverty of Spirit amid Riches.

- CHAPTER XV. How to exercise real Poverty, although actually Rich.

- CHAPTER XVI. How to possess a rich Spirit amid real Poverty.

- CHAPTER XVII. On Friendship: Evil and Frivolous Friendship.

- CHAPTER XVIII. On Frivolous Attachments.

- CHAPTER XIX. Of Real Friendship.

- CHAPTER XX. Of the Difference between True and False Friendship.

- CHAPTER XXI. Remedies against Evil Friendships.

- CHAPTER XXII. Further Advice concerning Intimacies.

- CHAPTER XXIII. On The Practice of Bodily Mortification.

- CHAPTER XXIV. Of Society and Solitude.

- CHAPTER XXV. On Modesty in Dress.

- CHAPTER XXVI. Of Conversation; and, first, how to Speak of God.

- CHAPTER XXVII. Of Unseemly Words, and the Respect due to Others.

- CHAPTER XXVIII. Of Hasty Judgments.

- CHAPTER XXIX. On Slander.

- CHAPTER XXX. Further Counsels as to Conversation.

- CHAPTER XXXI. Of Amusements and Recreations: what are allowable.

- CHAPTER XXXII. Of Forbidden Amusements.

- CHAPTER XXXIII. Of Balls, and other Lawful but Dangerous Amusements.

- CHAPTER XXXIV. When to use such Amusements rightly.

- CHAPTER XXXV. We must be Faithful in Things Great and Small.

- CHAPTER XXXVI. Of a Well-Balanced, Reasonable Mind.

- CHAPTER XXXVII. Of Wishes.

- CHAPTER XXXVIII. Counsels to Married People.

- CHAPTER XXXIX. The Sanctity of the Marriage Bed.

- CHAPTER XL. Counsels to Widows.

- CHAPTER XLI. One Word to Maidens.

- PART IV. CONTAINING NEEDFUL COUNSELS CONCERNING SOME ORDINARY TEMPTATIONS.

- CHAPTER I. We must not trifle with the Words of Worldly Wisdom.

- CHAPTER II. The need of a Good Courage.

- CHAPTER III. Of Temptations, and the difference between experiencing them and consenting to them.

- CHAPTER IV. Two striking Illustrations of the same.

- CHAPTER V. Encouragement for the Tempted Soul.

- CHAPTER VI. When Temptation and Delectation are Sin.

- CHAPTER VII. Remedies for Great Occasions.

- CHAPTER VIII. How to resist Minor Temptations.

- CHAPTER IX. How remedy Minor Temptations.

- CHAPTER X. How to strengthen the Heart against Temptation.

- CHAPTER XI. Anxiety of Mind.

- CHAPTER XII. Of Sadness and Sorrow.

- CHAPTER XIII. Of Spiritual and Sensible Consolations, and how to receive them.

- CHAPTER XIV. Of Dryness and Spiritual Barrenness.

- CHAPTER XV. An Illustration.

- PART V. CONTAINING COUNSELS AND PRACTICES FOR RENEWING AND CONFIRMING THE SOUL IN DEVOTION.

- CHAPTER I. It is well yearly to renew Good Resolutions by means of the following Exercises.

- CHAPTER II. Meditation on the Benefit conferred on us by God in calling us to His Service.

- CHAPTER III. Examination of the Soul as to its Progress in the Devout Life.

- CHAPTER IV. Examination of the Soul's Condition as regards God.

- CHAPTER V. Examination of your Condition as regards yourself.

- CHAPTER VI. Examination of the Soul's Condition as regards our Neighbour.

- CHAPTER VII. Examination as to the Affectations of the Soul.

- CHAPTER VIII. The Affections to be excited after such Examination.

- CHAPTER IX. Reflections suitable to the renewal of Good Resolutions.

- CHAPTER X. First Consideration--of the Worth of Souls.

- CHAPTER XI. Second Consideration--on the Excellence of Virtue.

- CHAPTER XII. The Example of the Saints.

- CHAPTER XIII. The Love which Jesus Christ bears to us.

- CHAPTER XIV. The Eternal Love of God for us.

- CHAPTER XV. General Affections which should result from these Considerations, and Conclusion of the Exercise.

- CHAPTER XVI. The Impressions which should remain after this Exercise.

- CHAPTER XVII. An Answer to Two Objections which may be made to this Book.

- CHAPTER XVIII. Three Important and Final Counsels.

- INDEX.

- Indexes

- Index of Scripture References

- Index of Pages of the Print Edition

- Related Books

Table of Contents

Cover

About this book

Table of Contents

Title Page

Preface by the Author

CONTENTS.

PART I. COUNSELS AND PRACTICES SUITABLE FOR THE SOUL'S GUIDANCE FROM THE FIRST ASPIRATION AFTER A DEVOUT LIFE TO THE POINT WHEN IT ATTAINS A CONFIRMED RESOLUTION TO FOLLOW THE SAME.

CHAPTER I. What true Devotion is.

CHAPTER II. The Nature and Excellence of Devotion.

CHAPTER III. Devotion is suitable to every Vocation and Profession.

CHAPTER IV. The Need of a Guide for those who would enter upon and advance in the Devout Life.

CHAPTER V. The First Step must be Purifying the Soul.

CHAPTER VI. The First Purification, namely, from Mortal Sin.

CHAPTER VII. The Second Purification, from all Sinful Affections.

CHAPTER VIII. How to effect this Second Purification.

CHAPTER IX. FIRST MEDITATION.

CHAPTER X. SECOND MEDITATION

CHAPTER XI. THIRD MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XII. FOURTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XIII. FIFTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XIV. SIXTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XV. SEVENTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XVI. EIGHTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XVII. NINTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XVIII. TENTH MEDITATION.

CHAPTER XIX. How to make a General Confession.

CHAPTER XX. A hearty Protest made with the object of confirming the Soul's resolution to serve God, as a conclusion to its acts of Penitence.

CHAPTER XXI. Conclusion of this First Purification.

CHAPTER XXII. The Necessity of Purging away all tendency to Venial Sins.

CHAPTER XXIII. It is needful to put away all Inclination for Useless and Dangerous Things.

CHAPTER XXIV. All Evil Inclinations must be purged away.

PART II. CONTAINING SUNDRY COUNSELS AS TO UPLIFTING THE SOUL TO GOD IN PRAYER AND THE USE OF THE SACRAMENTS.

CHAPTER I. The Necessity of Prayer.

CHAPTER II. A short Method of Meditation. And first, the Presence of God, the First Point of Preparation.

CHAPTER III. Invocation, the Second Point of Preparation.

CHAPTER IV. The Third Point of Preparation, representing the Mystery to be meditated to Your Imagination.

CHAPTER V. Considerations, the Second Part of Meditation.

CHAPTER VI. The Third Part of Meditation, Affections and Resolutions.

CHAPTER VII. The Conclusion and Spiritual Bouquet.

CHAPTER VIII. Some Useful Hints as to Meditation.

CHAPTER IX. Concerning Dryness in Meditation.

CHAPTER X. Morning Prayer.

CHAPTER XI. Evening Prayer and Examination of Conscience.

CHAPTER XII. On Spiritual Retirement.

CHAPTER XIII. Aspirations, Ejaculatory Prayer and Holy Thoughts.

CHAPTER XIV. Of Holy Communion, and how to join in it.

CHAPTER XV. Of the other Public Offices of the Church.

CHAPTER XVI. How the Saints are united to us.

CHAPTER XVII. How to Hear and Read God's Word.

CHAPTER XVIII. How to receive Inspirations.

CHAPTER XIX. On Confession.

CHAPTER XX. Of Frequent Communion.

CHAPTER XXI. How to Communicate.

PART III. CONTAINING COUNSELS CONCERNING THE PRACTICE OF VIRTUE.

CHAPTER I. How to select that which we should chiefly Practise.

CHAPTER II. The same Subject continued.

CHAPTER III. On Patience.

CHAPTER IV. On Greater Humility.

CHAPTER V. On Interior Humility.

CHAPTER VI. Humility makes us rejoice in our own Abjection.

CHAPTER VII. How to combine due care for a Good Reputation with Humility.

CHAPTER VIII. Gentleness towards others and Remedies against Anger.

CHAPTER IX. On Gentleness towards Ourselves.

CHAPTER X. We must attend to the Business of Life carefully, but without Eagerness or Over-anxiety.

CHAPTER XI. On Obedience.

CHAPTER XII. On Purity.

CHAPTER XIII. How to maintain Purity.

CHAPTER XIV. On Poverty of Spirit amid Riches.

CHAPTER XV. How to exercise real Poverty, although actually Rich.

CHAPTER XVI. How to possess a rich Spirit amid real Poverty.

CHAPTER XVII. On Friendship: Evil and Frivolous Friendship.

CHAPTER XVIII. On Frivolous Attachments.

CHAPTER XIX. Of Real Friendship.

CHAPTER XX. Of the Difference between True and False Friendship.

CHAPTER XXI. Remedies against Evil Friendships.

CHAPTER XXII. Further Advice concerning Intimacies.

CHAPTER XXIII. On The Practice of Bodily Mortification.

CHAPTER XXIV. Of Society and Solitude.

CHAPTER XXV. On Modesty in Dress.

CHAPTER XXVI. Of Conversation; and, first, how to Speak of God.

CHAPTER XXVII. Of Unseemly Words, and the Respect due to Others.

CHAPTER XXVIII. Of Hasty Judgments.

CHAPTER XXIX. On Slander.

CHAPTER XXX. Further Counsels as to Conversation.

CHAPTER XXXI. Of Amusements and Recreations: what are allowable.

CHAPTER XXXII. Of Forbidden Amusements.

CHAPTER XXXIII. Of Balls, and other Lawful but Dangerous Amusements.

CHAPTER XXXIV. When to use such Amusements rightly.

CHAPTER XXXV. We must be Faithful in Things Great and Small.

CHAPTER XXXVI. Of a Well-Balanced, Reasonable Mind.

CHAPTER XXXVII. Of Wishes.

CHAPTER XXXVIII. Counsels to Married People.

CHAPTER XXXIX. The Sanctity of the Marriage Bed.

CHAPTER XL. Counsels to Widows.

CHAPTER XLI. One Word to Maidens.

PART IV. CONTAINING NEEDFUL COUNSELS CONCERNING SOME ORDINARY TEMPTATIONS.

CHAPTER I. We must not trifle with the Words of Worldly Wisdom.

CHAPTER II. The need of a Good Courage.

CHAPTER III. Of Temptations, and the difference between experiencing them and consenting to them.

CHAPTER IV. Two striking Illustrations of the same.

CHAPTER V. Encouragement for the Tempted Soul.

CHAPTER VI. When Temptation and Delectation are Sin.

CHAPTER VII. Remedies for Great Occasions.

CHAPTER VIII. How to resist Minor Temptations.

CHAPTER IX. How remedy Minor Temptations.

CHAPTER X. How to strengthen the Heart against Temptation.

CHAPTER XI. Anxiety of Mind.

CHAPTER XII. Of Sadness and Sorrow.

CHAPTER XIII. Of Spiritual and Sensible Consolations, and how to receive them.

CHAPTER XIV. Of Dryness and Spiritual Barrenness.

CHAPTER XV. An Illustration.

PART V. CONTAINING COUNSELS AND PRACTICES FOR RENEWING AND CONFIRMING THE SOUL IN DEVOTION.

CHAPTER I. It is well yearly to renew Good Resolutions by means of the following Exercises.

CHAPTER II. Meditation on the Benefit conferred on us by God in calling us to His Service.

CHAPTER III. Examination of the Soul as to its Progress in the Devout Life.

CHAPTER IV. Examination of the Soul's Condition as regards God.

CHAPTER V. Examination of your Condition as regards yourself.

CHAPTER VI. Examination of the Soul's Condition as regards our Neighbour.

CHAPTER VII. Examination as to the Affectations of the Soul.

CHAPTER VIII. The Affections to be excited after such Examination.

CHAPTER IX. Reflections suitable to the renewal of Good Resolutions.

CHAPTER X. First Consideration--of the Worth of Souls.

CHAPTER XI. Second Consideration--on the Excellence of Virtue.

CHAPTER XII. The Example of the Saints.

CHAPTER XIII. The Love which Jesus Christ bears to us.

CHAPTER XIV. The Eternal Love of God for us.

CHAPTER XV. General Affections which should result from these Considerations, and Conclusion of the Exercise.

CHAPTER XVI. The Impressions which should remain after this Exercise.

CHAPTER XVII. An Answer to Two Objections which may be made to this Book.

CHAPTER XVIII. Three Important and Final Counsels.

INDEX.

Indexes

Index of Scripture References

Index of Pages of the Print Edition

Related Books